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Metalgear222 6y ago
Stop fucking to ejaculation. Take breaks and go down on her. Pull out and kiss her or spank her. The less time you're inside her the longer you'll last. I've noticed my control of cumming got a lot better when I would get right up to the point cum then do one of the above. The more you practice, the better you can control it.
The other thing is jerking off is fine. Porn is not.
Another thing, typically I fuck a girl about 3 times an evening and once in the morning if she stays the night. Each boner is less potent than the last. I've noticed my pleasure decreases and I last longer for each, but she enjoys it and cums about the same (or even harder since I'm so desensitized and numb and can pound away uninhibited. I don't always come after the first one either)
Lastly, even if you're not in the mood or the horny thoughts go away, play with her and get her wet, you'll get hard as she gets wet. I don't buy TRP's "Sex is only for your pleasure, don't care about hers." My arousal is directly correlated to her getting wet and getting off. It's not all about how her pussy feels wrapped around my dick. I would be bored as shit if she didn't moan or cum. Unpopular opinion but I don't give a shit.
pisspoordecisions 6y ago
Will add that the more times you fuck her, the more sensitive she’ll be down there. Typically leads to better sex for her
bigbodybuilderr 6y ago
I agree. Fucking a deadfish is no fun. I want a chick to be bucking and moaning. Thats fun and gets me going harder
pridebrah 6y ago
Right there with you. I can't get into it at all if the chick isn't.
[deleted] 6y ago
Biggest boner killer
a_desert_creature 6y ago
Honest question: You say your pleasure decreases with each time? Do you mean the orgasm or the whole experience? I get the part where you're more desensitized with each round and usually go for longer, but for me each finish is more intense than the one before it.
I usually have to start thinking about it after the first 2-3 times and sometimes almost force myself to cum after it's been a while, maybe this has something to do with it?
Metalgear222 6y ago
Exactly, same here. It takes mental focus to cum after 2-3 times.
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Alright I see your point. I Will begin doing this, so in the long run I’ll last longer. Any tips on specfic things to do other than spank and kiss her? I have tried pulling out and resorting to other things, but she slowly dries up again because everything else seems lowkey insufficient compared to having my dick inside her.
I really never made her cum just by penetration, seeing as she has immersion issues or just have trouble coming from just that. And then add not lasting long to the mix. She cums perfectly fine by fingering, but its not really the same Right.
Many times I have fucked her all Night with the same results as you, but I really lose more and more arousal each time, making it almost a chore to continue. And When she is already fine with just one or two times, it makes it hard regain arousal When she does nothing to help get it back.
Metalgear222 6y ago
Personal favorite is to enter "Tease mode" and have her spread on the bed as though you were gonna fuck her doggy but just playing with her clit, spanking her, pinching the lips surrounding her clit and rolling and rubbing them back n forth. Put a butt plug in her, which takes time to warm her up and lube the toy so it gives you more of a break. There's really endless possibilities. Just gotta be creative.
Don't feel like you have to go more than twice then. There's other ways to get her off when you don't wanna fuck too. My main plates personal favorite is to lay face down and I put 2 fingers bowling ball style in from behind and go hard and deep trying to stroke the back of her with my fingers while she uses her hands on her clit. Gets her to squirt in under 2 minutes.
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RedHoodhandles 6y ago
Care to elaborate?
burgandypill 6y ago
I think your No-Fap idea is wrecking more havoc on your sex life than helping it. I've never really understood the reasoning behind that movement, but to each their own. I can see why you wouldn't want to beat the meat giblet under certain circumstances, but if you can't fuck her properly and she knows this, then it will cause some problems down the line. Choke the chicken a few times the day before you see her and tear it up next time you see her. Good Luck Brother.
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But what if fapping a few times makes me last longer, but instead decreases my levels of hornyness? The more horny I Am, the more aroused I Am and the more I Want to fuck her brains out till she screams in pleasure. I know its heavily contradicting, which is the exact reason I came here for help.
Herdsengineers 6y ago
all things in moderation. don't fap every day. just every few days. let the urge be built up but not desperate for release so when you see her, you're ready to go, but not overly amp'd up and too quick to finish.
Morphs_ 6y ago
As a kid I figured out something I called "pre-orgasm" which is essentially a mini orgasm. It feels good, it has those muscular contractions, but there is no ejaculation (sometimes some precum).
This mini-orgasm doesn't fully drain me. Erection usually stays and after 10-20 seconds I can go again. I get slightly less horny and less sensitive, but it's completely different from a real orgasm that basically robs me of everything at that moment.
Learning this technique takes training. The best way to describe it is to reach the edge, almost the point of no return. Then slow down the pace a bit (keep going) and contract the kegel muscle intensely. I guess tensing the kegel muscle prevents the ejaculation, but not the muscular contractions.
[deleted] 6y ago
Bro. Male sexuality is like a fire, not a laser. It burns higher the more fuel it is given. Our sexuality is not laser focused on *one* girl, it's every woman around us because it burns indiscriminately. Fap away, but just watch porn similar to how you fuck her. You will be extremely aroused because you've trained yourself to be aroused at the type of body she has (my girl is super lithe) and the type of sex you have. No exotic kink unless y'all do that shit in the sheets in which case, kudos to you brother.
a_desert_creature 6y ago
It seems like you're not very attracted to her and the only reason you're super horny when first meeting her is because you haven't gotten off in a while. I've been there.
When I'm with a woman who actually turns me on the only thing slowing me down is the refractory period, I can't keep my hands off her, doesn't matter how many times we've done it.
burgandypill 6y ago
You've hit the nail on the head. I love being a little aggressive with women who are beautiful. Not causing harm, but maybe just grabbing the head a bit or a playful push here or there. They go crazy, especially if you have mastered when to do it properly, as well as being fit and strong. I believe a little aggressive kino is fine with the right situation.
Melch_Underscore 6y ago
Stop thinking so much.
[deleted] 6y ago
Its not in my head, its facts dude.
GEAR_IN_THE_REAR 6y ago
You need to take "breaks", don't just nut right away. You gotta switch things around a bit, it will make it a way better experience for both of you.
Eating her out for a while is always a good move. Switching positions. Switching positions where you are facing each other and make out a for short while.
My favorite is to just go really deep and keep it there while making out. You gotta be facing each other for that of course.
I'm sure I'm not the only guy in here, but I have a really short "refractory period". Which is the period where you tip is really sensitive after cumming I still stay hard and can keep going in a few seconds
It does decrease your sensitivity but it makes you last a lot longer.
If nothing works you can always use Viagra or Cialis.
I use Cialis sometimes for fun since it basically lasts all weekend. Good for when you know you're going to have company over a lot.
edit: Also I don't think there's anything wrong with fapping. When I know I'm going to have someone over later that day, I make sure that I fap 2 times earlier in the day. Not sure if its true but I feel like you wake your test system up a bit and it's easier to stay hard when its time to go.
Get some noodles from you GF, don't look at porn.
[deleted] 6y ago
Please elaborate “refractory period”
GEAR_IN_THE_REAR 6y ago
"a period immediately following stimulation during which a nerve or muscle is unresponsive to further stimulation."
When you cum, your penis gets really sensitive which you probably know. And for some, your boner dies down and for some, it stays.
I would say I have a low "period" since it goes away a few seconds after cumming.
I'm really not sure if you can "train" this to be shorter. But you should keep it in mind if you do cum.
In the beginning, if you cum, do something with your GF that doesn't require your penis. (Fingering,licking,kissing etc)
[deleted] 6y ago
Its really more mental than physical. 5 minutes and I Am hard as a rock again, but mentally I could actually survive without another round.
GEAR_IN_THE_REAR 6y ago
You would rather go for one long run and then call it quits?
Tbh nofap is going to make that hard for you.
I would like relief myself once or twice earlier in the day and see how that changes it.
Or get used to taking small breaks, break before you know youre gonna cum. Doesnt matter how long or how often, girls dont care as long you keep it interesting between!
IronJohnKwando 6y ago
try using one of those condoms that has a slight numbing agent. For lolz, turn it inside out
[deleted] 6y ago
Lol this
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
I normally get sucked off to completion first then party time!
Yes no fap will make you cum quick but you should be horny enough to go right away
Viagra
[deleted] 6y ago
How do you not lose arousal? I mean I Can get hard again within 5 minutes, but I Am really no Where near as horny as I were before Which totally ruins it for me.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
You lose a bit of arousal but just go down on her for a bit then keep smashing.
[deleted] 6y ago
Viagra works wonders both on arousal and lasting time, but it seems more like a quick fix, like patching the problem instead of actually getting to the root and solving it.
I mean I Am 21 y/o, so I wouldn’t really Want to Depend on using viagra every time I need to fuck my GF.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
You won’t need to depend on it. It’s not like if you stop taking it you won’t get a boner. It will make you more comfortable so you don’t get Anxious. Trust me m8 Start out on 50mg
[deleted] 6y ago
But it doesnt Seem liable to take viagra every time I fuck her. I really dont Want to depend on a pill to be able to retain arousal and fuck her.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
You won’t become dependable on it to keep fucking her. Well not physically maybe mentally. You sound anxious well it will help with that then after you’ve been smashing her a few times that anxiety will go and then your good to go without
[deleted] 6y ago
So you are saying that doing viagra a few times Will solve the whole losing arousal issue by itself? Seems unlikely, please elaborate.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
You wanna fuck her brains out but keep coming to quickly?? You work it out?? Stop getting so emotional caught up in her!!!
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kellykebab 6y ago
Guy is retarded. Request for advice was normal
offbeast 6y ago
the way he said it was bad, but i think he means well. hes saying that taking the pills is a shortcut to the EXPERIENCE of fucking her brains out, which will make you more comfortable/familiar with continuous arousal and lasting fucking without ejaculating.
offbeast 6y ago
thus, you wont need to pills anymore because you now know what you are doing.
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[deleted] 6y ago
Well I Am both above average Which makes condoms a hassle to put on everytime. I Am also circumsized, so with a condom on, I usually go flaccid due to no feeling at all. I really have no pleasure if I use a condom and I really think it decreases hers aswell.
longjeep2005 6y ago
You need to get condoms that fit properly. There are websites where you can find condoms that fit you based on your measurements. Condoms still suck but it makes it worlds better.
read_if_gay_ 6y ago
You are using extra large condoms, right? I'm circumcised as well and I couldn't fuck with regular condoms because they forced the blood out of my dick and I then didn't feel shit and went soft after a minute or two. So that doesn't have to be just because you're circumcised. If you're using regular condoms just try larger ones sometime.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
I’m giving you a solution but your feelings are getting in the way, Your to invested in her!!
[deleted] 6y ago
Explain this then.
purplefidgetmidget 6y ago
Crank one out beforehand
[deleted] 6y ago
Then I Am no Way near as horny
purplefidgetmidget 6y ago
3 hours before? 4 hours?
Perhaps you are not very attracted to her.
mrHappyPotatoe 6y ago
Might be psychologial problem. What else is going on in your life? Is there something big you are working currently that sex and your girl cones second in your life or even 3rd? How many dragons you slay between the time you two get together?
[deleted] 6y ago
Yo bro this ruined my sex life so you have a choice. If you're going to do nofap, be celibate until all these problems are gone
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[deleted] 6y ago
WELL, ok i had to meditate twice a day for 4 years but is that what you wanted to hear? i don't think so. I'm just saying you can't have it both ways, you have to work on yourself and when you're ready you can go back into fuckin chix.
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
Get on roids problem solved
Whisper Moderator 6y ago
So rub one out once in a while.
Refraining from masturbation is a tool, not a sacred virtue. If it doesn't help you, don't do it.
RaughKee 6y ago
You have to build your arousal then. Try talking dirty to her, order her to do things, it’s not that difficult.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
Do you normally have this problem when fucking girls??
[deleted] 6y ago
Yes but I never gave a fuck. Just round TRP while in this LTR, and before I never spinned plates. Just fucked them once, bust a nut Real fast and ghosted them.
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
They ghosted You!!
I’ve already give you an option see what works for you
[deleted] 6y ago
Nah I ghosted them. Are you dyslexic? How can they ghost me When I block them first Thing after leaving their House lol
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
Why would you Ghost them??
[deleted] 6y ago
Self defense mechanism, what's up with you man? He bolts so they don't bolt on him and he doesn't have to worry about PE
bluemoviebaz 6y ago
What?? He does the hard work of getting them in bed. Then he ghosts them and runs??
I’ve offered a solution but he wants a magic wand to shake and make his problems disappear
[deleted] 6y ago
Not really hard to get these girls into bed. The hard work is all the grueling workouts i have to put in, the constant fuckin eating lol but once you've built that t-shape that plates luv, buddy anyone who can breathe can get them home.