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creating_my_life 6y ago
For your first? Nah, that memory will be with you for life. I skipped a few opportunities as a horny teenager, and NEVER regretted it.
As your older? nah, have some fucking standards and don't be so damn thirsty.
Why are you only pulling 3s, anyways?
shindiggydig 6y ago
Im not exactly a looker either at the moment. I used to be near 300 pounds but in the last year ive lost nearly 100 pounds but im still a fat and unnattractive nigga and im nearing 22 years of age. I just really wanna get it out of my system you know?
u-had-it-coming 6y ago
Just do it.
DVidojkovic 6y ago
do whatever you feel like doing and have no regrets for it broski. dont try to please her during sex, look out for yourself and make sure you enjoy it. be ready to dry her if you ejaculate prematurely lol
creating_my_life 6y ago
From an old dude to a young dude: my advice is to skip it. You will understand in 15+ years.
congrats on losing 100lbs. That's awesome. Be proud.
lapeparoja 6y ago
As an older dude fuck that noise, fuck her. A fuck is just a fuck no matter if it is the first or the last one. Sex is not magic, is just a biological process, only women and blue pill guys want to make it "especial".
omega_dawg93 6y ago
listen to this guy.
some (clean) pussy is better than no pussy or pussy from some high maintenance barbie doll that's ready to give you a headache and fuck other guys.
keep your mouth closed and keep your business to yourself. go over at night, have some fun with some real vagina while these dudes lotion jack and use fleshlights.
furcryingoutloud 6y ago
How do you upvote more than once?
shindiggydig 6y ago
Out of curiosity who do you think I should save it for? Should I just wait to find a girl that is attractive?
LethalShade 6y ago
I don't think you should listen to him or anyone really. You can make just as valid of a point that you should absolutely do this as it will help you put sex off the pedestal and accelerate you finding a girl you find attractive to fuck.
My advice is go with what feels right and don't regret it either way. Life is just lessons so as long as whatever you choose motivates you to keep going in the right direction, you're doing fine.
bondbandito 6y ago
Yes. A virgin would be good for someone who has waited so long. Unless the girl is hot. Don't settle for average when you've made it so far - if not you'll feel a need to compensate for losing your virginity to someone mediocre by numbers
creating_my_life 6y ago
someone who isn't fat. ick.
cenie 6y ago
I don't understand why guys keeps asking should I bang ____. It's the simplest thing to answer, do you WANT to smash or not? Boom, question answered mystery solved. Are you looking for validation from anonymous people online?
gunsliquorstrippers 6y ago
There is every kind of answer in these comments
flatbushwick 6y ago
Get some real fat girl head and pussy , or beat your dick to some cuckold porn on xtube like you do every other night... this is a no brainer for me...
BeeBopJoe 6y ago
If you find the fatty attractive then yeah, if you aren't attracted to her then no.
GrimTRP 6y ago
If it gets your dick hard it can't be that bad
u-had-it-coming 6y ago
Only a BP asks that question.
True RP will bang her and keep lifting untill next hottie comes.
Better to fuck (since you say she has a nice face and huge tits) than to keep using hands.
SpaceOperaMusic 6y ago
Naw. It's gonna feel like shit and you will have allowed your lower nature the victory.
Unclejimbo2 6y ago
Do it, who cares. Youll realize sex feels okay at best and be able to focus on your mission more than you would by holding sex on a pedestal.
Oceansdrive 6y ago
Do it it is overrated anyway. Better have some practise and make sure you will be better for when a real hottie comes by
ToiletPaperPringles 6y ago
Once you read the RedPill more, try not to ask people what you should do. Swallowing the pill involves making decisions for yourself.
chachaChad 6y ago
Yes. Right now, all you can pull is this fatty. Get in there and fuck her. Then start improving your game and fuck your way up the ladder. Don't wait around until you think you can pull a 9. You have to learn and a willing fatty is good place to start. Chunky girls love to swallow. Enjoy!
[deleted] 6y ago
You know she's desperate. Use that face.
BenJJsu 6y ago
Definitely
TheTrenTrannyTrain 6y ago
Or hire a 10/10 hooker, more bang for your bucks.
RedDingleBarry 6y ago
More bucks for your bang.
MisterRoid 6y ago
Do it. It will be harder to lose your virginity the longer it takes
Peter_B_Long 6y ago
I would. Get it out of the way, especially at 21 years old. When you're a virgin you have this exaggerated idea in your head about what it is. You pedestalize it and have this idea that you want to lose it to the right girl.
Last year I only had 2 notches on my belt. Every date I'd go on and escalation I'd go through seemed really intense and nerve racking. Now I'm at around 10 notches and although it's not a lot, it's made a huge difference in how I see game and how I approach sex. Instead of it being some magical thing, now it's just something fun and natural. Not even a big deal anymore.
MrBroControl 6y ago
I wouldn’t. Maybe a blowie
gamerbike 6y ago
do it fatso, take what's in front of you
Ironic_Gangster 6y ago
It would make a funny story
LodestarAuriga 6y ago
+1
[deleted] 6y ago
Look, back in my BP days I was in a fucking relationship with a girl who looks just like you described and it’s just not worth it, even if it’s just sex.
Most of them have serious self-esteem issues (as much as they won’t tell to the world) and will try to drag you down with them.
She’ll probably keep pestering you until you commit because she definitely won’t get better options.
Is it so hard to find an average chick with average body for you?
u-had-it-coming 6y ago
We should suggest not to commit instead of not to bang.
There are lot of car accidents in a year.
Suggest to drive safely instead of not driving at all.
[deleted] 6y ago
Right, all I’m saying is OP doesn’t need to go dumpster diving. Honestly, it’s not so hard to find an average girl to bang.
It’s just not worth the effort getting involved with girls that have deep self-esteem issues and a completely distorted vision of reality.
u-had-it-coming 6y ago
OP didn't mention this girl has self esteem issues and distorted Vision reality. Are you crazy?
Also OP is a virgin mind that. If it wasn't so hard for him he wouldn't be a virgin now.
omega_dawg93 6y ago
i know more 'hot' girls with self esteem issues than bbws with self esteem issues.
big girls usually say, "fuck it... i'm big but i'm ready."
some hot girls will give you the pussy JUST to use you as an emotional tampon and walking atm machine.
SonnyFFC 6y ago
Get it out the way, don’t want it weighing down on you. I lost my v plates to a girl who meant a lot to me and now she means nothing, it means nothing
rp2626 6y ago
It's your first time it's meant to be a bit rough around the edges. I say dive right in brother.
jekporkins77 6y ago
it's up to you man
FlyGuyMyEye 6y ago
Assuming you're American you may struggle to find one that isn't fat. My opinion, if you have to ask if you should then you definitely shouldn't. Wait till it's something you want.
jrterry1969 6y ago
If you are on the fence, Its a game time decision. If you enjoy hanging out with this chick, then go hangout. If, when the opportunity arises, and you want to fuck her at that moment, and she is DTF, then of course.
OTOH, if you're hanging out, and are grossed out by the thought, then don't.
Kommanderdude 6y ago
If you’re in your 30’s and a Virgin I say go for it. Got to hump a clunker or two before you can cruise in a Ferrari. Can’t start at the top.
CainPrice 6y ago
A chunky fuck buddy is better than no fuck buddy. Wear a condom. Keep working out. Keep talking to other girls.
ThighSavesLives 6y ago
I strongly disagree with this. Have some fucking standards, and if you absolutely have to fuck a fatty make it once.
ididntreadthesidebar 6y ago
^This. Have some respect for yourself. Unless you're into fat chicks, then go ahead.
LethalShade 6y ago
He clearly finds her attractive in some respect as he mentioned her having a nice face.
The standards point is an interesting one because it has merit but if anything, basing your self-worth off of who you're having sex with is the epitome of weakness. You should feel like a boss whether you fuck a Victoria's Secret model or a fatty, as long as it puts you on your path and isn't an excuse to keep squandering in mediocrity.
LodestarAuriga 6y ago
First things first: do you have any other (better) possible options? Not necessarily girls who are down to fuck right now, but ones who you think you could get in a few weeks of effort? If yes, then wait for a bit and get with the other ones.
Now, for the matter at hand: Our first experiences at anything determine our future behavior in the same matter. Therefore, your first time having sex should be as relaxed and safe as possible. If not, one that at least puts you in control. If it somehow becomes a traumatizing experience for you, this will chase you later on. What truly matters for the first time is not really the girl, but that you feel comfortable and that you learn. That you see for yourself what's it all about.
This girl might not be a bad choice, for if you're truly convinced she's got a lower value than you, then you won't be so anxious about messing something up and shouldn't be shy trying new stuff or even asking the girl for advice. Are you two on a friendly relationship? Maybe you trust her? That would be a very great practice for you. Were something to fail, it wouldn't matter much to you.
However, don't get hooked. Once or twice. Then avoid banging her again unless you get with another girl. Otherwise you risk being fixated, and subconsciously learning sex is obtained from ugly girls (or this one in particular). Use her to learn and to teach her as well. Enjoy it and learn how to make her enjoy. Whatever you do, have fun. Loving is a skill and as such it must be trained and learned. Take the chance of practicing in a safe environment how to be a good lover before actually heading to the "Real World" so to speak.
Also, is she morbidly obese or just chubby? You know, chubby girls can also be pretty fine, mate!
Wish you tons of fun and a great deal of learning!
RPLawyer 6y ago
I lost my virginity to an ugly fat girl back when I didn't know anything about game or women, really. I regret it now that I'm here and know there are techniques I could have used to get much better.
You're here now, still a virgin, with an entire sidebar at your disposal. Don't settle for a 3/10.
latinasonly 6y ago
I would hit it.do NOT COMMIT to her.
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I lost my virginity to an unattractive girl, and the experience massively boosted my confidence. I had read all the content on TRP about alpha fucks,beta bucks and I can tell you there is nothing like having fucked the shit out of a girl and have her tell you about how she uses other men for resources. you will KNOW you are the alpha fucks ;) , only increasing your chances with attractive women
remember, when you pound the pussy , you DESTROY the pussy.
dr_warlock 6y ago
I fucked a six so she'd let me crash at her place for the night because I was too drunk to drive. I'm still regretting it.
furcryingoutloud 6y ago
I don't remember the girl I lost my virginity to. I know she was blond...ish, and very white. I got rug burns. That's it. Don't even remember her name. Go get laid dude.
cptgoatsack 6y ago
Do you actually want to fuck her or are you just fucking her to lose your virginity? If it's the latter then I wouldn't bother. Otherwise go for it.
Guerilla713 6y ago
You're going about this wrong if you pass this up. I promise you she will treat you very well and you can keep her as an FWB for practice. Don't settle for her if you don't want to. Keep improving yourself and talk to other women while having her as a FWB is what I suggest.
I was like you at 22. I lost a lot of weight (went from 260-200) but the confidence still wasn't all the way there so I wasn't pulling the girls I wanted to (unlike now). I had a couple of BBWs that wanted to be fuck buddies but I kept thinking "oh I could do better" and eventually those options dried up completely for me and I was stuck with my hand for a good bit. If I didn't blow off the BBWs at the time, I would have had them at my apartment after two texts.
Point is, get what you can as long as it isn't outrageous (and a 7/10 face tells me she's at least pretty).
[deleted] 6y ago
I tried to lose mine to a big girl 15 years ago (we were both 18/19 or so), and I couldn't go through with it.
She came on to me strong at a bar one night, approached me, asked to kiss me, and we spent an evening making out before she had to meet her mom, we made plans to meet again, and I spent another evening making out with her - then we went to this gay bar she liked.
She was actually cute in a beth ditto kind of way, I enjoyed kissing her, and I wouldn't have minded dating her more, but her behavior at the gay bar repulsed me. She entered some fun lesbian underwear contest where the DJ got 3 women to strip down to their underwear and dance and the crowd had to cheer for the winner to get a free drink. Seeing her strip with all her body out and wiggle her body rolls for the crowd (while they laughed) just turned something inside me.
I actually got away for an hour to sit outside and listen to this elderly gay guy tell a crowd stories of how the place was in the 60s etc.
And when we got to her place that night (with full knowledge and blessing of her mom), I just couldn't do it. I kissed her for a bit, kissed her boobs and put my hand in panties, and then I just fell back and told her I felt sick and needed to sleep.
And we didn't even have any conversation - I mean, if we had spark and could flirt, it may have been fun, but neither of us had any game or conversation skills. She used to boast about gross things like how much she could eat, too.
So yeah, I would definitely not have minded sleeping with her if everything else had been ok, but it's when you get a "different looking" women and everything else is wrong as well,- personality, actions.
ME I say go for it, if her face is a 7 and you get on with her, and feel relaxed with her, go for it.
OH AND - as others have warned, there's a good chance she'll try and rope you into commitment - no matter anything she says about being just FWBs or "just a fling" - ignore any of that, if she's wanting you and feels you're above the other men in her life, you won't be getting out easy.
red_matrix 6y ago
I don't mind banging a fattie with huge tits and a nice face. I just don't tell anyone. They usually give great head and are almost always DTF. Have fun playing with them big titties! This is usually how most guys start plating. Once you get more confident you can start adding hotter plates. But you need to get good sexually, and that takes practice if you want hot plates. It's a journey my friend. She might even teach you a few things.
Chadtobe004 6y ago
no, dont. Fattys dont deserve dicks
omega_dawg93 6y ago
get your rocks off and keep your business to yourself. guys on here are talking like they needed a perfect 10 to lose their virginity are full of shit.
some big women are good women.
some big women have some very good pussy.
some big women give FANTASTIC head.
and some big women are always down to get busy because they don't get much action (assumed).
you're not perfect... don't expect her to be. if you're not planning to marry or make her an LTR, have fun INSIDE SOME PUSSY. you can even go fuck her and skip cardio day... make HER your workout 'partner.'