Hi guys I've been TRP lurker for near to a year now. Over my teen and uni days, I've had way too many instances where I had incredibly bad beta traits i.e. Girl I liked friendzoned me while she fucked some bad boy. Eventually it'd go wrong for her and I was her emotional tampon. I won't bore you with my beta tales, just know that it's typical of most of the stories you hear. Fortunately now, I'm in a great job right now and earning enough to dress well, have a decent social life and hit the gym often.

I've recently discovered that I'm an introvert. As stupid as it sounds, I always wondered why I'd prefer to stay in doors and be a bit of a geek. Against my will I have forced myself to socialise and make a great circle of friends, but I feel being an introvert is preventing me from truly being 'alpha'

Most people get misconceptions about what introversion is, so below I've copypasted a list I found which concisely defines what most introverts are like. You'll notice that quite a lot of these is a direct opposite to what an alpha does.

  1. You Enjoy Solitude
  2. Dislike Small-talk, but enjoy in-depth conversations about topics that interest you.
  3. People Say You Are A Good Listener
  4. You like to think about and choose your words carefully before speaking
  5. Dislike Conflict
  6. You prefer to work alone and without interruptions
  7. When stressed or need to recharge, you spend a few days alone by yourself.
  8. Often express yourself through writing
  9. People describe you as “soft-spoken” or “mellow”
  10. You like people, just not all the time
  11. You don’t normally like to take the lead, but will step up when no one else will.

So is it possible to get away from these genetic traits introverts have and become the alpha?