So I have a couple of friends who explain to me how they got sucked off or met with a girl to fuck when acting lovey-dovey.
A friend told me how he and his friend met up with 2 girls. His friend immediately claimed a girl and starter acting lile that. He hadn’t met her before that and said things like “you’re mine” and he told my friend “hey, don’t speak to her, she’s mine” (not really meaning it of course but still) when he tried to talk to her.
But when I read trp I kind of pick up that this behavior is not rewarded and it will make you get pissed over..
But why does it work in such situations then? Could it just be the girl likes him too? But I mean they hadn’t met before so she would just know him as mister lovey-dovey which “should” be a turn off, no? Even if she thinks he’s pretty, or not?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2w ago
One question per day please
Musicgoon78 1 2w ago
How is claiming a girl acting lovey? He saw what he wanted and went after it in a dominant way.
I do the same thing, except I do it through my actions. Treat her like you own her after you've established that she's interested.
MrSupreme 2w ago
If everyone knows you're just messing around, it will only be funny and the girl will know youre not insecure like that.
Lone_Ranger 2 2w ago
it's called love bombing
It's a well known behaviour associated with dark triad tendencies. In particular, its considered controlling or manipulative. (which weak woman love).
The reason why the 'lovey dovey' behaviour worked in this setting is because it was not believable. Insincerity made her panties wet. If you were to scroll the clock forward 6 months, and they were a couple, and in a loving relationship, that exact same behaviour would have the opposite effect - it would dry the panties.
You can read more about womens' preference for DT behaviours here:
https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/323231/128_women_rated_created_male_characters_designed_to_capture
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RedPill115 1w ago
My friend would tell me stories like this. Very confusing.
Then I would see pics. And it all made sense. He was much more attractive than the girl.
Beta: women want to be chosen
Reality: women want to be chosen by a man who's more attractive than she is
Lone_Ranger 2 1w ago
100% correct.
Men will 'downdate' for shags, but 'update' for LTRs. Women are the other way around.
When I was younger and on the hunt, I would zero in on average looking girls that appealed to me and ignore very good looking women. The reason was that I was far more sure of getting first night lays from average looking women.