(Want to say this only implies for texting, which leads to going out where I mostly don't have this problem.) Before I was big on RP, girls would feel something is wrong with me or something and didn't have much success. That happened because they knew I only want the lay nothing more. Don't care about her life, hobbies, etc. Later I toned down and now I've had comments that are really BP, like I see you as a friend, I'm talking to someone else. Basically like friendzone. I don't really know how to balance these 2 energies, to not be seen as an asshole and not to be seen as a friend. It isn't good if I sexualize too much it isn't good if I don't talk at all, it isn't good when I talk to them... nothing really worked.