Hey guys, there’s this girl in my college class who I think might be into me (99%). She’s an international student from Asia, super polite and kind of shy, and she doesn’t seem to have a lot of friends in class. She speaks some English, so we can talk a little.
She’s about a 4/10, (so I’m not looking for anything serious). Since she’s super polite, I don’t want to come on too strong.
Anyone got tips on how to approach this or had a similar experience?
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
DNSWYE
Have you tried talking to her? Crazy I know...
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
Asian women who haven't been westernized, to my experience, are all polite. They are respectful and submissive as a part of their culture. You can't come on too strong or you will scare them away. You have to be subtle and the word they use for sex is "exercise" so be careful how you use the term.
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
Yeah bruvv she practically bows 1000 a day whenever I say something
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Depends on where in Asia she's from. In some places, you just go up to a woman and ask her if she likes you and then it's assumed you want marriage+kids. Casual sex is not really an Asian thing.
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
She’s from Vietnam
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
They are very heavily influenced by family and community like the West used to be in the old days. Think traditional/conservative, probably very religious. It doesn't change female nature but there is a lot of pressure to conform to their norms or else be shamed.
MrSupreme 1mo ago
She isn't from around there and she will eventually do what the rest is doing,even with controlling traditionalist parents. Treat her lile any other chicl except maybe less agressive unless she is into it (slutty or not)
Musicgoon78 2 1mo ago
Just say hello and have a conversation. Why does this have to be rocket science?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Because beginners view women as not humans and think there is pussy password
chadinthemaking69 1mo ago
Um yes there is. Buy her flowers, text her all the time, say good morning and good night, never disagree with her, whenever she gives you shit immediately fold, never workout, eat shit, get a bowlcut. I could go on and on. Basic sidebar material right here. Read between the lines rookie
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
You didn't even mention the staple move of crying in front of her and telling her you love The Notebook
Do you even Chad, bro?
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
Maybe I wasn’t clear… I’m asking if casual hookups are common with girls from Asia (she’s from Vietnam), and how I should approach this since I’m not interested in anything long-term
I also don’t want to shit where I eat, so I’m trying to figure out the best way to go about it
Musicgoon78 2 1mo ago
Maybe go back to the sidebar and read again AWALT it doesn't matter where she's from if you've got good social skills.
Second, is don't assume she's going to be interested in an LTR. You're creating fantasies for a girl that you haven't even talked to.
Third is you're definitely nomming on some pasta while taking a fat dump in the public restroom.
So just say hello. There's no secret sauce for this and chances are that you're going to fuck it up. That's normal for beginners. But give it a go.
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
Look man, we’ve talked a bit, and she’s definitely giving me signs, asking for my Insta, started sitting next to me, and even last week when we were walking to the metro, I was about to leave, gave her a hug, but she said ‘wait’ and jumped up to hug me again. But honestly, I’m not that attracted to her, and I know culturally, Asians tend to want an LTR. I’m not new to the redpill, but since I’ve never dated an Asian girl before, I’m wondering how to approach things with these polite, submissive types
Also, i know it’s a bit of a dumb question, but will being with a 4 or 5 hurt my SMV?
I’d appreciate it if you could answer without roasting me like you do the newbies.
Musicgoon78 2 1mo ago
If you are hesitating talking to a girl you aren't attracted to and aren't spinning plates you don't have any SMV to begin with.
Retardation hurts your SMV.
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
@Vermillion-Rx
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
What did you tag me for?
TheHandsomeMan 1mo ago
Because i wanted to hear your opinion
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
My opinion is read the sidebar and apply basic game/RP
There's no magic pussy password. If she's this into stop overthinking it. Don't overthink it anyway, socialize and flirt and ask her out
Dude this isn't hard. Stop mentally masturbating and take action. That's all you can do