I feel like someone is going to ask me:

No, i didn't have any reaction when I was alone with the girls. They immediately said they were driving me to my car after that but I had zero reaction.

When i got to the car i just said "that was dumb , I have no idea what that was about, I'm good at defusing that kind of stuff"

Zero frame loss. I just shrugged it off.

I believe apologizing is the best course of action. If I had to criticize this situation; I'd say there wasn't a need to keep the conversation past the first "sorry". Mostly, it wouldn't turn physical if you apologize with a smile and keeping movie forward. Otherwise, you've handled it well

A few thoughts:

"you ok?" ......... by answering, you're buying into their frame.

NEVER accept an offered hand in this sort of situations.... you got lucky, but they can grab it, yank you in, and headbutt you while their friends hit you, and you can't get away or hit back.

Other than that.... fuck knows what was going on here. You did well with surviving that shit.

I like the way you handled it.

5'6" Half Asian dude "nigga this nigga that"

africans really need to moderate who they give the n-word pass to

anything better I could have done

what else do you want? other than what @mattyanon said, you did perfect - you survived. maybe, if you're going to apologize/defuse anyway, you shouldn't have even entertained their prompt to "converse" with you - should've just apologized and kept on walking. you were lucky they weren't really depraved or under the influence so much so to do something stupid (they sound like a bunch of gook gay-boys to me tbh but even dorks can stomp your skull if they get you down).

also, you need to concealed-carry. i carry (a tiny lady-gun) to dancing venues, idgaf: this is america, you have to assume there's always a retard itching to kill/rob you every time you go out. this doesn't mean you can be more brazen, but it's better to be packing if one of those asian midgets pulls a knife because you're getting pussy and all that he's getting is a napoleon complex.

I think you handled it well.

I dont think combat would have been a solution,you were outnumbered. I dont see much sense in fighting drunk kids or a drunk crowd.

You defused the situation, neutralized the hostile and went home.How did you do it? Played a dummy that had no ldea of what he did wrong.

Sometimes those kids are homoerotic enough that they just want a confused hug hump from the guy they're "competing" against.They have that weird narrative going in

You handled it well but a few things you should be aware of:

• When you have a girl or multiple girls, men will try to start shit with you, specially when you are outnumbered. Men are your enemy in your every day life, don't be fooled by the red pill bros who try to give you the "we are in this together". No we ain't. We are going to kill each other when a woman enters the room because men are pussies and dumb

• Again, be on your guard and alert when you have women with you, specially at night or on weekends. Other dudes will try to start shit with you to look cool and alpha.

• I always conceal carry, even here in EU, where we don't have guns. I have been in many fights and the second I get a sense of a fucker getting in his fight stance I'm about to warn him to back off, leave me alone (start walking away, with your front turned to him, not your back) and he if charges me I am pulling my knife/tonfa/police gas I have on me and I'm going in for the kill, cause it's my life. This is absolutely the NUCLEAR option and you should avoid it at all costs.

• Try to think how would you minimize the risk of getting in this scenario again. Avoiding bad places late at night on the WEEKENDS where there is lots of alcohol and drugs (and women) could prove a good strategy. On weekends, every scum of the earth is free and can do whatever the scum wants.

• Try to travel by car/uber long distances at night, specially if u have women around.

• Do not try to have a conversation with your agressor(s). You are buying into their frame and they will get that as a sign of weakness. Instead, reinforce your state, I call it "your policy". The united states does not negotiate with terrorists :)) they repeat that for years over and over again. This is what you must do. State and repeat your intentions and back away.

You were lucky. Truth is if bunch of guys really want to fuck you up they will do so. But I think you did well.

We live in shitty times, if you are good looking or having woman with you, you will get provoked often.

I try hard to stay out of trouble. I have seen shit and trust me broken ego is better then being dead or in prison.

I can't see anything not to approve of here. The guy has a problem with a very small and fragile ego. It must be clear to everyone, maybe even his girlfriend /boyfriend.

Decent high status people treat the mentally ill with sympathy first.

Almost any other solution would at best have left micro dick simmering with rage for the future. I can't see how you looked bad to anyone unless you crawled to him and it doesn't sound like it the way you recount the tale, so nice one. Well done in an awkward situation.

Think you did fine. There's nothing wrong with apologizing as long as you stay true to yourself. You had 4 bitches accompanying you. They were just trying to AMOG you. In my opinion you shouldn't change anything. If one your bitches questions your actions, just let her go. She's just trying to bait insecurity and you don't need that