My girlfriend suddenly wants me to stop being so dominant during sex. She wants more soft sex. Saying things like "You're mine" in a harsh tone supposedly turns her off. But she would like to hear it in a gentle tone.

So far so good, but something else is disturbing. She doesn't want me to call it "my pussy" but hers. She doesn't mind if I ask her "whose pussy it is", although I should tell her "I'm fucking your pussy". This makes her feel like a whole woman and desirable. I'm also supposed to ask her "Can I fuck your pussy". Apparently it turns her on more and the other turns her off more.

Apart from that, we've been having sex almost every day for the last few days instead of the usual 2-3 times a week. Sounds like she wants to pull me into her frame or is it simply her sexual preferences?