Obviously tell her no, because getting mixed up feeling with another man is never okay and it can only hurt your relationship.

I would advice however to head over to /r/strugglefucking and /r/maledom and study up. If she suggested a guy whose into rougher stuff, she thinks you're not willing to give her the rougher sex she wants. The 1# fantasy amongst women is rape fantasies. Surprise her.

No fucking way. The only way this is even remotely a possibility in my mind is, "Sure! If his wife can join!"

Just so we are all clear here. Your wife still wants to fuck her ex and often thinks about it. She is using this excuse as a way to hamster it around in her mind as a legit and normal thing.

Thing is couples who are poly or swing often set very very specific ground rules on their encounters with others outside the marriage. A couple in a healthy relationship who choose the poly/swinger lifestyle set these rules and boundaries as well as express their apprehension and/or any concerns about the situation well before it occurs and well before a potential extra partner or poly/swinger encounter occurs. Also, people in that lifestyle very rarely bring in an "extra" that was once in a monogamous relationship with one of the partners. This crosses a line with many people in the lifestyle. Being in the lifestyle fears and anxiety about your partner leaving you for one of their other intimate partners is a legit concern. One that takes trust and reassurance between partners. Those in the lifestyle wouldn't risk involving an ex for that very reason.

You need to tell your wife under no unspecific terms that this is unacceptable. If, for whatever reason, you are okay with another guy banging your wife it cannot be her ex. It can be someone you both trust and respect. But it cannot and should not be her ex.

Joke with her, "Only if his wife can join!" to see what she says. If that's not a possibility or she pushes back then say the only way you would be okay with the situation is if there was also another woman present. Period.

Just to reiterate. Your wife wants to bang her ex badly and is trying to use "spicing things up" as an excuse to justify her actions. Even if she is receptive to you not agreeing, be very aware that there is a good chance she is talking/flirting with him or has already hooked up with him behind your back. If for some reason the idea of a MMF threesome excites you, make sure it's not her ex boyfriend. Also, shit test her right back. Demand that there is another woman in the encounter or that you have a MFF threesome before hand.

Hi everyone. Been a few days since I checked in. I wanted to update you all andlet you know, after having many quiet moments and a few talks this weekend, my wife has agreed to see a sex therapist to try and get her urge under control. She wants me to come and I sure as hell agreed. I am hoping to not only get her mind off this and anything with him, but to get OUR sex life where she/we want it. Its our only hope right now with a marriage on the line. Thanks for all youre feedback, I will keep you all updated.

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She's looking to cuck you. Chances are, she already fucked him and now wants to do it with your blessing to erase any guilt. Start clandestinely looking for evidence.

Btw, your sex life with her is "meh" because she is t attracted to you, she's desirous of her Ex. Look at it this way, if she was just interested in an MFM to get it off her bucket list, she wouldn't have a guy in mind.

Tough break, but at least you came to the right place.

You might not want to hear this, but you need to and it's the sheer truth: your wife has no respect for you. Judging by your comments and replies, you're not strong enough to do the right thing and in that sense I both understand and feel sorry for you. This is unavoidable.

How would you feel if you have an ex that gave the best blowjobs of all time. You want to re-connect with that ex. Your wife says why not just show her a good, ol' Heather Brooke video? You say no. Wife says ok, you need to do sex therapy until you are cured of your desire. Would you be excited to fix your relationship? Would you want that blowjob any less? Probably not.

The fact that she even suggested it is all the evidence you need. Committed women don't just want "a sex act", they want that sex act from/with you. The fact that she wants to bring in a "real man" to show you how it's done is the ultimate act of emasculation. You might as well have a slit between your legs. Sorry, man.

I'm going to chime in here, if you'd like a woman's perspective.

She doesn't respect you.

No woman who has respect for her man would have him witness another man violate their marriage the way she is suggesting. She thinks so little of you that she is not making the effort to cheat. That's assuming she hasn't already.

If you still think she's being reasonable, think of it this way. Let's say you're walking down the sidewalk and you see The Car. Perfectly restored, shining in the sun...maybe it's that old Firebird you had in high school or a 1988 1/2 Ferrari Testerossa sitting right in front of you. Pristine and shining in and out. You want that car. You want to get in it right now and push the pedal to the floor and get sucked into the creamy bucket seats while the wind blows through your hair. You smile to yourself, thinking about how amazing that would be as a glint of sunlight dances along the fender. That's how she feels when she sees her ex.

At this point, there are two choices. Do you continue on your way chuckling about how much hell you'd have raised if you had that machine back in your college years? Or do you walk over with a brick and screwdriver and try to steal it?

Most people fantasize. It's normal to do. But a woman who respects and loves you will continue on, being smart enough to realize that what she wants is not worth jeopardizing what she has.

Your wife is asking you to throw the brick as she stands there, screwdriver in hand.

Shes been fucking him. She just wants your permission. GROSS. next that whore.

Read The Sex God Method for a start and give her the rough sex she is craving for

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Do you know what self respect is? If you do, do you think you have any? I am appalled at the thought that you have not left your wife and divorced her after she told you that she WANTS to CHEAT on you, and to add insult to injury she wants you to watch!!

Think about it, because i don't think you have. And keep us updated, though i wouldn't be surprised if we never heard from you ever again.

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Tell her bringing someone in the bedroom is a wonderful idea and you know just the younger more beautiful girls to ask, thank her and tell her it had been on your mind as well that fucking someone younger would get you off a lot faster instead of the same old

Can someone provide the link to the story where the guy allowed himself to get cucked in the same situation and now hates his wife with a passion.

If you are not into cuck dont do it!

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OP you are such a pussy little boy. It's obvious from your responses. And it's the reason your wife wants to fuck another man.

Redeem yourself and end this

You are are a troll and a lier... you have posted this same exact question, multiple times on multiple subs.. OVER THE PAST 2 WEEK... AND EACH ONE STARTS WITH "This Morning"

burn in hell

OP please listen to the advice people are giving you. It is over. Be a man and get rid of her. Also you said her ex she wants to fuck is married? You should let his wife know. Go nuclear brah! Maybe try and fuck his wife?

Rape her. No joke.

sorry man, its over

You have been cucked. I guarantee it. I am quite experienced in the "wilder" sexploits. If a girlfriend wants to experience her (ubiquitous) fantasy of two cocks, she would want it to be a complete stranger...as in you guys go on vacation somewhere and seduce a stranger, etc. Your relationship is no longer monogamous, sorry.

All the advice I would give you does not apply, because you are married. Any nuclear level dread game you would need to run, in order to salvage this burning shit heap, would only help her in court. Please contact a lawyer, and work towards protecting your assets. Do you have children with her.

Yeah well the crew here has spoken and are pretty much in agreement. How about you counter offer and arrange so both of you can watch her ex fuck another woman. Thats just as educational in my eyes and she won't be fucking him in front of you and you will get a good idea how she wants it. If she is happy to do that then it's something, if she doesn't like that idea then it just backs up what everyone else here is saying how she wants to fuck her ex, if she isn't already. Let us know what she says.

I am KIND OF up for it if it will make her happy.

Bro.

You're up for another man's dick being inside your wife?

I hope this can be nixed and your marriage can be saved. Not trying to be a dick, but she does not love you like you think she does.

My wife and I have a decent sex life.

No you don't. Happy women don't ask their husband's blessing to cheat.

Goes in spurts

Bedroom regularly goes dead.

we generally enjoy it when it happens

You enjoy it when she throws you a bone. She pretends to be satisfied to keep you happy. And docile.

We are an attractive couple.

Physically, maybe. But you no longer give her tingles.

This morning when we woke up, after talking about sex we had last nite, she said that she was thinking of “spicing things up” a little bit. I asked her what she meant, and she said she was thinking about bringing another man into the bedroom, no emotional strings attached. Right away my chin dropped at the thought of it, as i have never done this before. She said not to freak out, she read that many couples do it under agreed terms, and it betters their sex lives.

Lol.

I am KIND OF up for it if it will make her happy.

Weakling.

Don't make your wife happy by letting her fuck Chad Thundercock. Make her happy by being Chad Thundercock, and fucking her.

However, she wants it be someone we know who we can trust.

Let me guess, she sold that as the reason she already had the guy picked out.

She mentioned an ex boyfriend of hers

Hahahahahahahhahahhahhahhh you're a troll, aren't you? This can't be real. No one is this stupid.

Good guy, we see him around mutual friends. Now the GOOD with this is, we know the guy and he respects me with my wife. Their time has passed. What WORRIES me about it is, from what my wife has told me about him, they had VERY rough sex. Kinky, even degrading stuff. Even her friends have told me when we first started dating in a joking manner.

She is an alpha widow. You are nothing but the consolation prize.

Women save the roughest, kinkiest, most degrading sex of their lives for the man they love the most. Female sexual depravity is the most accurate barometer of female love and desire.

QUESTION: Is she trying to relive what she had with this guy?

You know this already. You wouldn't be asking the question this way if you didn't already know this was the answer.

You already knew what we were going to say. You are just too cowardly to face the fact that you were never your wife's first choice.

is she really trying to better OUR sex life?

Women don't work like that. She's trying to better HER sex life. She's projecting, at very much your expense.

Here at TRP, we don't take suggestions like that lightly. The woman is broken, a bad apple. There's a lot of bad apples, as our society, like the article your wife pointed out, encourages this behavior, which wouldn't happen to a stronger patriarch. I'm sorry to say this, but the damage has already been done. You'll hopefully be seperated in 6 months. Don't consent to her fucking another man. At least leave the relationship with your dignity.

The amount of denial from OP is making the entire earth's testosterone drop.

She is already fucking other men and actually wants you to leave her what big balls she has telling you that shit dont be a fool man shes bored and whats to humiliate you infront of another guy i just cant believe ya find another respectful lady i always say they do crazy shit for alpha dick your wife included she cant wait until you divorce her azz, hard next,um 2 beers please.

Ever notice how any time a woman asks to open a relationship or introduce a third, she already knows who she wants to fuck?

That's all you need to know.

Trust me. She hasn't just picked him out. She's already talked to him, flirted, set things up, and knows the answer is yes on his end. She's been doing that behind your back. She may have already cheated. She's gong to if you say no, or just leave you for denying her this essential experience/fantasy.

As others have mentioned, READ THE SIDEBAR! You'll understand why your wife is doing that (Alpha fucks/Beta Bucks dynamic). Once you go down this path, she's going to want to do even more and use the fact that you said yes to this guy as leverage.

She wants your stability, and not your cock. I would consider divorce if I were you, as she already has, or is thinking about cheating on you

go to the main sub and read the sidebar, sadly you are done...why not another woman to the bed? he...and it is clear like water why she is suggesting her ex...

whoever sent you to this place loves you more than your wife.

The moment she suggested you should've been mentally divorced already.

The fact that you're even considering it makes you convey sooooo much weakness.

If you are really considering this, tell her that you would also like to try a threesome with a FMF dynamic.

Find a hot 18 yearold to spice up your sex life. If she agrees and actually goes through with it, then you are obviously not a cuck.

It's not your fault, and yet it is. Welcome to red pill.