This post has been updated once again, so be sure to review everything and ask questions if you're uncertain.
Posting and Commenting On Threads
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No crosslinking anything from reddit at all. Not in submissions. Not in comments. If you want to post a conversation or post between members on reddit you must take a screenshot, and edit it for the following requirements: No URL in picture or post, Subreddit name must not be present in the picture or in the post, Must be self-post with analysis. No low-hanging "look this guy is a moron" posts. Constructive posts only. Everything else will be deleted without warning.
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New submissions must be related to sexual strategy, events that affect sexual strategy, theories about sexual strategy, or stories confirming (or challenging) current theories of sexual strategy.
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No memes or image macros (in regards to creating a new thread), your thread needs substance.
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No trolling- concern or otherwise.
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No direct video links. There is a lot of content on the web, and some of it is in video form for sure. We don't mind videos, however we will request that you post any video links you have in a text submission along with your analysis. Any video-only submissions will be deleted. If linking to a thread on an external subreddit, please use the domain np.reddit.com to encourage no participation.
- Absolutely no direct link screenshots or images. If you must post a screenshot of a comment or an image, include it as part of your written post. Do not make it your main link. Please include your analysis with the image. Any image-only submissions will be deleted.
Posting Link Threads
If you create a new link thread, please be sure to also include a brief description of what you are linking to, how it’s relevant to the RPW sub, your thoughts (whether you agree or disagree), or any specific questions you have. Sometimes link threads are created without any additional context or input, often times the linked material is very interesting, but we want to make sure that anyone creating a post is helping propel conversation. Low effort threads that offer no additional input, or are posted purely to promote personal blogs will be removed. The threads may be re-posted as long as they are edited to follow the rules.
Asking Questions
Threads that ask questions are useful for many reasons. It allows everyone to participate and provide useful feedback. That said, there has been a recent spike in “false questions” where a brand new user will wander in, and create a post that initially seems legitimate. However, the OP becomes increasingly defensive and slowly reveals their trollish colors. If you are asking for advice, or if you submit a question - that’s fine - just be very aware of how you word your post and comment replies. Insulting other users on RPW will be grounds for having your comments removed and your post deleted. Depending on the severity, you may also be banned. We want to encourage productive conversations.
When asking a question, please keep the following things in mind:
New users, do not use a throwaway account - if you want to post on the RPW sub and be a part of our community then please pick an appropriate name. When you are creating a thread, be sure to consider and address the following questions:
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What is the problem? (Neutral phrasing: use words like "we," and "our" so that you aren't trying to off-load problems at your SO's feet when there's actually plenty of blame to go around)
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What are your faults? How have you contributed to the creation of these issues?
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Why do you think this (these) problem(s) manifested?
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What steps have you already taken to try and resolve the problem?
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How long has this been an issue?
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Are you making a mountain out of a mole-hill? If a woman you really despised came to you with this issue, would you still think it's a legitimate concern? Or would you tell her she's throwing things out of proportion?
- How's your bedroom life right now? Are you taking care of his needs emotionally and physically?
This is NOT Purple Pill Debate
RPW does not exist to justify our beliefs. If you have a problem with this sub, its overall mission statement, or any of the users on this sub – move along. We are not going to engage in useless debates with trolls. Concern trolling is not acceptable.
RP Men
We are always happy to have RP men comment and contribute to threads. That said, RPW is not TRP. There are certain behaviors that RPW does not encourage women to engage in. You are welcome to say anything you like over in TRP sub, but that doesn’t mean you can come into RPW and start telling us that we are “feminists” or that we’re no better than all other women. We have specific goals on this sub. We don't behave like two-dollar whores, and our morals are not for sale. We will be caring and attentive to the man that commits to us, not to any man that looks our way. We will discuss topics with you as long as you remain respectful, and keep your attitude in check.
Feminist/Troll Shaming language
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- Wow, just...wow
- misogyny
- equality
- That's sexist
- The word "Cult" or "cultish"
- Abuse
- I hear what you're saying but [insert feminist jibber-jabber]
- "Feminism really isn't that bad...." or "I don't think you actually understand what feminism is actually about..."
EDIT: Bad-mouthing TRP, or any RP sub will result in an immediate ban. Furthermore, any terms and insults stated for no reason other than to offend and demean another user will be grounds for banning as well. Finally, do not concern troll or tone police.
If you have any questions or concerns please feel free to comment on this thread, or message the Mod team. If you are unsure about whether or not your post is acceptable, feel free to submit it and alert the Mods that you want to make sure it passes muster.
Around here, it's definitely better to ask for permission than it is to beg for forgiveness.
Thank you.
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anaislefleur 10y ago
How much Karma do you need before asking a question in a new topic?
[deleted] 10y ago
May I ask why the word Abuse is not allowed?
PhantomDream09 10y ago
Trolls and critics are quick to label any relationship where a woman does things for her man, or otherwise acts selfleasly as "abusive." It is a trigger word people try to apply to everything we say and do on this sub.
The assumption is (and always has been) that any relationship/marriage is forged with a good man. There have been a few instances where we actually told the woman in question she was seeing a creep and that she needed to end things immediately.
We don't foster or encourage a victim mind-set. We tell women to do their best, strive to improve themselves, their relationship, and their life in general. If a situation is so dire and harmful that the word "abuse" can be applied, then there is only one course of action - to leave the relationship completely. RPW does not deal with traumatic and harmful relationships, we discuss ways to create and improve healthy ones.
So the purpose is two-fold: discourage trolls from continually making nonsense comments, and to keep discussions on topic.
The only response anyone can say to an abused individual that is in any way useful is "leave. Get away from that person." There are more suitable subs and resources available that deal specifically with abuse, RPW is not one of them.
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Okay, I was a bit concerned that this was an indicator that you didn't think there were abusive relationships.
I agree that people label things as abuse too easily- just my mind having worked in a psych hospital (see a lot of mentally ill women who are being abused, but because of their illness have trouble leaving) automatically gravitates towards the actual sort of abuse.
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TempestTcup 11y ago
Yes, waiting for commitment before sex is a sexual strategy that we recommend. Sexual strategy is in reference to strategies that people use to obtain their sexual goals, whether the goal is sex, commitment, marriage, or other.
SoftHarem 11y ago
YOU GO GIRL.
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Sorry, this is a "Gurrrrrrrrrrrrrl Power" free zone. Please take that feminist nonsense elsewhere.
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TempestTcup 11y ago
Ooo, ooo, can we say something about feminist shaming language like:
hmmmm, can't really think of more right now :)
Also, can we say that speaking poorly or complaining about TRP is frowned upon?
drugdoctor87 11y ago
Ever since swallowing the red pill, even hearing/reading the word "equality" makes me cringe. We as women should embrace the positive differences (aka be feminine!) while being mindful of the more "negative" things that makes us different as well (irrational, emotional) so that we can better ourselves and our relationships!
Claiming everyone is "equal" just turns a blind eye to all the "positives" that work in our favor while simultaneously letting the "negatives" go unchecked. I feel that if some women just learned to see it from this perspective, they would be so much happier in life!
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drugdoctor87 11y ago
We are talking about equality in terms of biological (usually). First wave feminism is a lot different from the current feminist movement. Many could argue that the current feminist movement has moved past the point of equality and is trying to position women in a superior position.
Do I believe women should have the right to vote? Of course!
Do I believe people should be paid in reference to their quantity and/or quality of work as opposed to race/gender/age? Most certainly.
Do I believe that everyone is entitled to their own opinions and life choices? Yes! But remember I will also judge you based on them and so will other people.
Do I believe that both men and women should be considered physically and mentally equal? No. And this statement does not imply that one sex is "smarter" than the other, it just implies we have different thought processes and biological imperatives based on the neuronal connectivity in our brains.
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PhantomDream09 11y ago
....RPW don't encourage or believe that women should sleep with a lot of men. Feminism says it's about equality, but the reality translates into people trying to hold women above men.
PhantomDream09 11y ago
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TempestTcup 11y ago
LOL, maybe we could do a separate post on this as well; I bet we could come up with a million of these :)
PhantomDream09 11y ago
Haha, well it's here for now. :0)
sugarcrush 11y ago
Now I want to make RPW memes a thing :P
PhantomDream09 11y ago
I second that idea. Nice to have relevant memes to use when the opportunity presents itself.
nzcrazycat 11y ago
Yes,yes, yes...love the posters too! :)
Lady_Motido 11y ago
Just clarifying as I am still relatively new to reddit (about 4 months) when I post a link thread you don't just want the suggested title, you would like my thoughts on why I am posting it, it's relevance to RPW in the title itself or as an accompanying comment, or both?
btw these rules are quite helpful, thanks :)
PhantomDream09 11y ago
No worries, and thanks for the question.
You can share anything you feel like saying that's relevant. Even if it's just a simple summary or description of the linked material, you could even mention how you found it/why you like it. You don't have to include your thoughts and explain its relevance to RPW. We are simply trying to encourage everyone to provide content in addition to having a title and submitting the link if that makes sense. You don't need to write a novel or anything. You could even just pick out one or two quotes and talk about them. You don't need to stress about it or anything.
Hope that helps!
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Lady_Motido 11y ago
Yes it does help and thank you for clarifying :)