I fell in love with dressing well and expressing myself a few years ago, and it's honestly been one of the biggest factors that upped my confidence and success with woman.
There's 2 levels to upping your fashion game.
Level 1: The Basic Bitch
This is the level every guy should be at, at the very minimum.
The basic bitch style is a way of dressing where you will look better than most guys but it's very general and uninspired.
Thing of how every hot girl you see at the mall is basically dressed the same - this is the guy version.
If you have absolutely no interest in fashion and want a quick list of stuff to buy and be done with, you can stay at this level and have a lot of success.
It's cheap, it's effective and it's easy.
What this style looks like:
Resources To Achieve This Look:
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MaleFashionAdvice Subreddit
- TMF
Level 2: Your Own Style
Now this is where it get's more interesting.
There's an infinite number of directions you can go when it comes your own style, but really it comes down to:
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1) What you personally find aesthetic
- 2) The crowd you're trying to attract
If you like the goth aesthetic, but you want to attract starbucks drinking, ugg wearing white girls, you're probably not going to have much success.
The way you dress at this level becomes a part of your identity in a way.
Finding your own personal style that reflects your individuality is my favorite part of fashion.
That doesn't mean being 100% original, if you dig a look that someone has and want to copy it, that's completely fine.
Conor McGregor has one of my favorite styles, but he obviously took some heavy inspiration from an instagram model.
Here are some fashion "inspirations" whom styles I really love.
Individuals:
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[Jayden Prasad] (https://www.instagram.com/jaydenprasad_/)
- G Eazy
There's thousands and thousands more individuals on instagram with cool fashion styles you can emulate.
Really all you have to do is:
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Build a very basic wardrobe to start out with.
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If you like the basic style, stick with it! Or upgrade to higher quality pieces overtime but keep the look.
- If you want to expand your style, find inspirations you want to emulation and slowly transition your fashion game.
Simple!
I'd like to make a more in-depth post on the best brands, how to buy cheap clothes online that are good quality, sales, etc. In the future.
slacker142 6y ago
You obviously live in LA because all your examples are pretentious male model boy-men that look more like lesbians than men.
TheStarsTurnBlue 6y ago
You have to know the rules before you can effectively break them. Find clothes that fit well and compliment your appearance, and find out what colours compliment each other.
The safest bet is to pick whatever is in fashion in your surroundings and improve them through fit and colour matching. Take undercuts for example. They're in fashion these days. Rather than go for something full-fuckboy that would only look decent in a photo shoot at a specific angle, pick an undercut that compliments your face, is easy to maintain and looks good from all angles. Clothes, again, skinny is in fashion, but skinny jeans only look good on tall, skinny art college students. For those who aren't fat, slim fit is the way to go. Tapered slim fit if you're not jacked, straight slim fit if you are. Baggy clothes only come into fashion once in a blue moon, and if they're not in fashion, they're only seen on lazy, fat guys who don't really care about their appearance.
Fit, colour complimenting and context, folks.
AssDefect20 6y ago
I never said anything about looking like a slob. If grading by percentages, a slob means from 0 to 4. Howewer with Basic Bitch clothes you are already imo 8-8.5 in regards to your clothes. Sure, getting past that will make you more attractive, but only slightly. Either you have game or you dont.
What I am saying is that if you really have time to constantly "refine your fashion sense" , go to the hair salon every week, do fucking exfoliations etc. you are imo not prioritizing correctly. And even worse, it gets you in that toxic mindset of "omg omg how do I look" type shit.
And to the guy who compared us with animals: Animals basically eat and sleep. Females go into heat for a few weeks, a (already desirable) male licks his fur for 5 minutes before mating. Thats your animal grooming for you.
Animals also dont have to work for 10 hours, train for 1, sleep for 7, commute for 2 and find time and energy in remaining 4 to read/self improve.
We are animals, sure. But the Red Pill is about understanding the world and using that knowledge to further your sexual strategy. Focusing on appearance is, at least for Homo Sapiens, suboptimal.
mrmarkme 6y ago
Hard to get good fitting clothes that last when you hit the gym and are constantly gaining muscle you outgrow everything extremely quick
redbananaboard 6y ago
Like you OP I also learn to appreciate fashion as a way of self expression (game changer), I went from less than basic bitch to edgy minimalist and now I get compliments from girls all the time about my outfits.
I would add something to your post, the basic bitch look can take you even further if you accessorize correctly. Try with a cool hat or a couple rings, a necklace or a cool bracelet and of course a nice watch. They have the power to immediately upgrade your outfits with no effort.
ngomaam 6y ago
www.mrporter.com is a good place to start, or just stay at really, for both beginners and ballers. best mix of all styles + excellent customer service + good editorials
punchyson 6y ago
I like this post and upvoted.
Just going to say that you have to calibrate your wardrobe to you part of the world, the girls you are interested in and your tastes.
For example, if you wear a pastel V neck where I live it might as well say "I'm a Faggot!" across the front. I don't care how good you look, people will think you take the pipe like a champ.
That same dude can go to Tractor Supply and get a snug fitting Real Tree camo crew neck (if you are in shape) and get a decent amount of female attention.
Just sayin, y'all.
Solitary_Solidarity 6y ago
This is a harder pill to swallow I really don't give a shit about clothes.
DalekJay 6y ago
The basic bitch 1 - looks hella gay but the 2 looks ok in my opinion.
I need a post like this but more oriented to biker/lumberjack/hardened man I know there’s a word for this line of fashion but I forgot which is
orangespeaches 6y ago
I've got to admit I lol'ed when I saw Jose Zuniga as the basic bitch number 2
pmfg10 6y ago
Lmao right? I watched his videos before and I found some of his clothing tips terrible
Captaincanada6969 6y ago
The responses in this thread seriously have me questioning the validity of this sub right now lol. I really enjoyed the post though OP and appreciate the resources you linked. I think people are just a little to focused on being a completely testosterone filled alpha male to recognize that this could be useful, not even just for women but for also gaining the respect of others.
BrownGummyBear 6y ago
I WEAR MY GLADIATOR OUTFIT TO BED, ONLY BETA SOY BOYS DRESS IN FITTED CLOTHES!
BottleCap-SnackTrap 6y ago
I'm trying to figure out why I need to give a fuck about how my image needs to be in order for me to score chicks.
Guys, wear what feels comfortable to you. More and more I'm starting to see posts where it seems like we're being hypergamous (in a way) when it comes down to ourselves just to score some pre-used pussy.
redbananaboard 6y ago
Well, in my personal experience is not about getting pussy (it never is), which I'm sure if you follow TRP principles you're able to get anyway. Is more about using fashion as a statement to express your personality, whether you like it or not people - not only girls, will judge you based on how you look and the vibe you carry. You can decide to be a decent looking but basic guy and that's fine, or a man who likes to look sharp and powerful at all times, is up to you and you don't need to look like an almost gay instagrammer to accomplished that. At the end is all about feeling comfortable with how people perceive you as the high value man you're working hard to become and fashion is just one aspect of it IMO.
BottleCap-SnackTrap 6y ago
Ah, well when you explain it that way I can see where I made my error of view.
redbananaboard 6y ago
That's what we're here for bto, to learn from each others experiences and ideas. It took me awhile to understand the role of fashion in my journey as the man I'm working to be, especially because all those Isntabitches make male fashion look gay as fuck.
cybrjt 6y ago
Wear white shoes, skinny jeans, and no socks, and then start hitting on men. - got it.
reluctantly_red 6y ago
No shit!!! This thread is super gay!!!
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drbldmny 6y ago
lol if you actually lift you can't wear skinny jeans, twink
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BostonPillParty 6y ago
Look, lots of hate, but here is the truth: millennials dress like this. Other guys with any common sense will say it looks faggy as fuck but these new styles with long tail T-shirts, tight pants (even though that’s been going on for nearly 8 years now), and street culture centric clothing is just the norm.
Not a bad post OP, but next time I would just title it “guide for millennials...” and go to town on that demographic. Fashion is a value add topic to post about but make sure you target your audience. Thanks for writing, try again mate.
reluctantly_red 6y ago
And they're noted for their good choices?
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ich_bin_doch_geil 6y ago
Only soyboy Millennials dress like that. Many of us have normal T levels and dress accordingly.
OP needs to stop wearing his sisters jeans and put on some fucking work boots. Seriously wtf is this post.
jasonfunk 6y ago
I see you're only fucking rural 3s from cornfields if you think your Walmart ass inbred faggot boots pull anything. Kill yourself.
BostonPillParty 6y ago
I feel you but ehhh I’m trying to be supportive. Some dudes dress like that and it works for them.
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chubz4you 6y ago
Yea, levi’s and doc martens/red wings are where it’s at. Im 6’ 4” 230lbs. Capri pants would just look like i robbed a guy thats 5’ 7” 150lbs. And dont your feet stink wearing no socks?
reluctantly_red 6y ago
Or whatever they actually wear to work. No self-respecting guy has more than five pairs of shoes. WTF is it with people trying to get guys to act like girls.
antariusz 6y ago
Boots, sneakers, brown dress, black dress, sandals. Maybe another pair of boots.
yunggoose 6y ago
Wtf are you talking about? Literally every hot dude in my area who pulls chicks either dresses like the basic bitch dude or in some form of streetwear including tight jeans. I have no clue how wearing tight jeans correlates with T levels. If dressing accordingly means wearing a uniform of some sort then its imo lackluster.
twdziki 6y ago
How the hell do you even put on those skinny jeans if you're serious about the gym?
yunggoose 6y ago
Get some standard Levi's and taper them. Still looks nice and tight without being skinny. Of course standard skinny jeans from your local Zara won't fit if you are serious about those squats.
lapeparoja 6y ago
Every hot dude? Check your T. Forge it, your life your choices.
drbldmny 6y ago
Thread is gay. If you are fit, any clothes that fit properly will make you stand out
ToxicToejam 6y ago
Chicks dig shoes, as a little food for thought. If you are wearing the same skanky sneakers every damn day you are making a huge mistake. This goes quadruple for women who see you regularly. They fucking notice them big time.
But yeah, you are definitely right about fashion. Look around at all the slobs and realize it won’t even take much effort.
TheStarsTurnBlue 6y ago
Investing in a good pair of shoes is always worth it.
And, yeah, chicks dig shoes big time. I take a 12EEE so it's New Balance, work boots or nothing, but even I manage to find shoes with simple, flattering designs, though it often takes me a while.
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Wear the same sick boots everyday like Keanu reeves
juju515 6y ago
they fucking love shoes... and they honestly think they can conclude something about persons personality based on the choice of shoes...
It's ridiculous... and I've noticed this years ago...
I just couldn't explain it before I discovered TRP...
europedogg 6y ago
Yeah! Thats true. I remember once one of the biggest local web magazine made a poll for women, that “Whats the first thing you check when you spot a man?” Actually this poll was shared also on their FB fanpage and like hundreads of girls commented there, and I can tell roughly 70% of comments were: “shoes”.
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Yep, watch a lot of girls' line of sight when looking at a man from the front and it goes head-shoes and then back to head if the shoes aren't shit...which mine are.
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macheagle 6y ago
The slobs part depends on where you are hehe. I’m based in a very cosmopolitan city of Asia and there are very, very few slobs - everyone dresses and grooms very well. Fashion is just a huge part of the culture here too.
Tokyo - Hong Kong - Singapore - Taipei... you name it - fit, well-dressed, and well-groomed men and women are the norm.
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SignificantEnd2 6y ago
Chad can wear sock with sandals every day and get laid more in one day than you have your entire life.
Being good looking matters more than anything else. Having bad style as a good looking guy will come off as being endearing and having a dgaf attitude. Positive halo.
Devils_Duke 6y ago
Pointless contribution. I'm sick of hearing stuff like this.
You can't change your facial structure, height, general genetics so stop even thinking about it. There is no value whatsoever to talking or thinking about things you can't change. OP's post is intended to help you maximise your attractiveness by changing the things you can change. You're just being negative.
Change the things you can; forget the things you can't.
SignificantEnd2 6y ago
Giving average guys who have no chance of ever being truly successful with women false hope is irresponsible.
They don't need to be given false hope and bullshit advice. They need to be told the truth. To save their money and forget about women. To focus on their hobbies, their careers and do what makes them happy and not waste their time chasing a pipe dream.
Devils_Duke 6y ago
And if you're born into a poor family you shouldn't bother trying to get a well-paying job. And if you happen to have a low IQ you shouldn't bother trying to get an education. And if you're born skinny you shouldn't bother going to the gym because you clearly don't have the genes for it. That's a good attitude to have... Never mind that there are countless examples of people who have gone from a poor family to a well-paying job, got an education despite a low IQ and got monstrously jacked despite their "poor genetics". Never mind that countless ugly men are knee deep in poon. Just because you start with a disadvantage doesn't mean you quit. That's called being a loser. This is a losing mentality that you have. The great thing about being a man is that you can literally make yourself more attractive. Women perceive attractiveness differently. Become a muscular man with low body fat, well-fitting clothes and an aura of power around you. That guy is attractive to everyone. Regardless of what facial structure he was born with. Btw, it is clearly stated that TRP is about sexual strategy. Quitting is not a strategy.
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GorillaFingerprint 6y ago
Call me old fashioned, but this trend of men cuffing their pants to expose a small amount of leg before their shoes start is feminine as shit.
And the dudes on Instagram who wear suits with formal shoes and have no socks on
Just terrible.
vlone69 6y ago
Step 1
buy clothes that fit
Step 2
dont buy blue pill clothes
Step 3
put the clothes that fit into an outfit
profit
MurkyArtichoke 6y ago
I agree that you need to kinda dress for the type of women you want to attract. I do however find your suggestions for fashion inspiration to be a bit dull, although i respect that it's your opinion and everyone has different opinion on clothes. Conor McGregor? I really don't associate him with fashion. The guy literally has two looks: Tight t-shirts with jeans and his million dollar custommade suit. Not really inspiring.
It all really depends on what you like, however fashion is so strongly affected by media and celebrities that it tries to force people to wear what's "in". I started paying more attention to fashion a few years ago. I used to be the guy with unfit jeans and a hoodie, terrible style.
I absolutely hate the "skater-style". Caps, long t-shirts/sweaters, white shoes, you know what i mean. This style you see very frequently because of all the hiphop stars that are dominating the music industry and also instagram. I personally favour the business-casual style, and i've had a lot of compliments on my attire from girls after i started embracing it. Tucked-in shirt, brown boots/dress shoes. Nice fitting jeans/chinos. Shirt-sweater combo is also really nice. In my opinion, the skater-style is something many(especially young girls) like, but not everyone is impressed by someone dressing like they are a teenager. I find that you can really never go wrong with business-casual. ALL girls, young and old, love this if you pull it off correctly and you get that "gentleman look".
Also just wanted to add: The most vital part of fashion is MAKING SURE IT FITS. And i don't mean just the size, but also that the different aspects (color etc) of your outfit makes sense together. I've seen too many times guys who wears what is originally a great outfit, but ruins it because it doesn't fit him, or the colour combo is just horrible. Jeans shouldn't be baggy. (Oh but Post Malone wears that and everyone loves him! That's because he is a superstar millionaire) Make sure your shoes fit the rest of your outfit. Brown boots goes well with a brown leather belt. You get it. Look sharp. Look professional. Look like you know what you're doing. Dress to impress
chazthundergut 6y ago
A good rule of thumb for mens style:
Pick a direction and go with it
Chicks dig guys of every style. The important thing is that he has a style. Be a baller. Be a viking. Be a biker. Be a crossfit guy. Be a soccer player. Be a frat bro. Be a surfer guy.
But be something. The only real mistake is to dress boring and sensibly with no confidence at all.
This is good content though OP. Simply having some fresh clothes that fit well and being visibly groomed will set you in the top 20% for fashion.
I want to emphasize that chicks dont care nearly as much as you think. The most important thing is that you feel like you are the shit and you carry yourself with confidence. Have an edge.
And if you are following TRP guidelines and working out regularly, this becomes even easier.
charlieblue01 6y ago
The sockless look is a no-no for me. You just look like a try-hard fanny. A decent pair of jeans or chinos with a quality pair of boots/brogues WITH socks knocks the socks off that look (pun intended)!
zyqkvx 6y ago
All these guy's builds look too stick-y, and they are too effeminate.
This forum is having an identity problem.
Dress is important though.
OP probably needs to up his calorie intake and gym time.
m4ch1ina 6y ago
Oh boy.
One of these guys.
There is nothing effeminate about those men.
Being slim is not, and never will be a problem. As long as you are strong and fit, no one gives a damn, least of all women. In fact, women choose a Cristiano Ronaldo look over a Bradley Martin type any day.
characterulio 6y ago
I am friends with a bunch of bodybuilders and they say the same thing as you. Most women prefer fit/slimmer dudes. Too jacked dudes actually attract only certain type of girl.
Also it depends on the country. Asian women dislike too buff dudes 160lbs- 180lbs max. 180 lbs is probably the biggest they will go offer.
Most of western europe is the same. You see 10/10 wiith skinny ass dudes.
Canada/Usa/south american/black like big jacked dudes more but universally fit low body fat 160 170 180 is the best.
rfv6 6y ago
people in this sub think something like this attracts more woman than something more “natural looking”
ovrload 6y ago
Ronaldo is lean and still has muscle mass compared to the average joe.
m4ch1ina 6y ago
Duh.
“As long as you are strong and fit...”
I think you missed that part. I wasn’t telling anyone to be an “average joe.” I was only saying you don’t have to be huge.
ovrload 6y ago
Yeah my bad. Pretty much being huge is only attractive to other man
BrownGummyBear 6y ago
Ronaldo is pretty buff, no average person would call him “lean” lol
m4ch1ina 6y ago
Lean = low fat.
Does Ronaldo look fat?
No.
No he doesn’t.
Therefore, Ronaldo is lean.
Learn the English language, before you start typing in it.
gains_o_clock 6y ago
lean has a connotation of relating to bring skinny so I think that comment is okay lol
m4ch1ina 6y ago
Just because a mistake is commonly made, doesn’t mean it’s correct.
ricky_rocketfingers 6y ago
yeah, mcgregor sure is effeminate. gtfo here
m4ch1ina 6y ago
Man, the shit people thumb down on Reddit. Scrutinizing bastards.
zyqkvx 6y ago
He does kinda act like a little bitch. Rapid high speech. You are trying to argue by exception. What about the wall of other possibly gay men? Imagine them all lined up at a long row urinal. So hot.
ricky_rocketfingers 6y ago
while you're sitting there being a hater, he's making millions wearing all designer clothes, probably on a boat.
In the grand scheme of things, comparing yourself to him, you're the only little bitch here.
zyqkvx 6y ago
A rich gay man exists. Therefore I should be gay too.
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zyqkvx 6y ago
All those guys in the links have more value to women than 60% of average men with their shit bodies. I'll concede to that.
Is this where I'm supposed to tell you to 'get help'? Try not to be such a bitch about this.
ricky_rocketfingers 6y ago
bro, why are you such a hater? a red-pilled man doesn't waste his time being salty about other people's accomplishments. you're the only one here with the negative attitude. just to add-on, there are plenty of effeminate men who get tons of pussy. i wouldn't even classify myself as effeminate, but there's no need for anyone to be a hater.
zyqkvx 6y ago
The effeminate slant of these fashion pictures is too far past the line for my tastes. Slight repulsion. Not a good TRP standard IMO.
There's plenty of room for men's fashion to be more masculine. Unfortunately it wouldn't sell well, or maybe it would. There needs to be more fashion for men, it's really tricky though. Too easy to look like a wanna-be fireman or latently gay, or both.
BrownGummyBear 6y ago
Oh no, a new generation of people do things differently to how I like them! I will bitch about it and tell everyone how vastly more manly I am than the new generation, that will sure be a productive use of my time!
Cantloginhere 6y ago
https://youtu.be/HoPwqkyhYk8
Kempff95 6y ago
What a lot of guys miss is that fit is much more important than color or quality of the clothes - especially if you're in shape
rogueman999 6y ago
I'm adding this tip here, since the rest of the thread below isn't very constructive: if you wear shirts, always pull the sleeves to show your arms.
Also, this is probably well know and you should be slim anyways, but dark colors make you look slimmer and white makes you big. This even goes on the same piece of clothing: I have a black t-shirt with a large white V in front: chest looks big, abdomen less so.
Honestly, I wouldn't mind seeing threads with more generic fashion tips. They're not as easy to find as you'd expect.
gains_o_clock 6y ago
Yeah I'd have to agree on the last paragraph there these threads are somewhat helpful and stir some good discussion
YesKiddo 6y ago
Agree with this. You can wear cheap shit and still look good
hearse223 6y ago
Uniqlo is god tier for basics and they are super cheap.
jkingauthor 6y ago
Women are attracted to status; I would suggest wearing stuff that shows high status. Notice how Barney Stinson is always wearing a suit. You don't have to wear a suit, but dressing one level higher than your target is a good idea.
Estrella_97 6y ago
Attracted to status hey.
Let's start donning crowns lads, we'd recognise fellow red pillers and our status as noblemen will get us lots of pussy!
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mattizie 6y ago
How can you make a post about clothes of all things, and not mention the MOST important factor: FIT.
It doesn't matter how nice, new, colour matched, or expensive your clothes are, if they don't fit properly, they will look like shit.
ScumbagPotato 6y ago
ITT giving a shit about how you express/present yourself via what you wear is gay, but giving a shit about how you express/present yourself via your physique is "alpha"
Go gateguard your warped sense of masculine identity somewhere other than where people are trying to improve themselves. This crab-pot fuck-facery is for mouthbreathing rage-pillers.
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DropDeadTyrant 6y ago
I only ever wear jeans and a t-shirt or sweats and a t-shirt. I don't need a variety of clothes and outfits when I can get 5 black, grey, and white shirts and 5 pairs of white, grey, and black jeans/sweats for $50. I mean, look around. People prioritizing looking good/unique/expensive, are the same people that can barely afford food or gas because they're keeping up with the Jones. I don't need that crap. Sure, I'd love a nice suit, but I'll worry about that when I have a job that requires it.
GL_QUAD 6y ago
Fashion can be frustrating, though.
Retail stores? Meh, as the prices are often a quadruple (or more) of what I'd consider a sane price.
So recently, I made some sweet, sweet purchases from sportsdirect (an online store), as they often have decent-looking clothing on sale. What could have gone wrong, right? Fat Americans.
The thing is, there's such a mess in size labeling. Fat Americans had to make themselves feel good, so they pushed the size labels - depending on a brand, a (S)mall can actually be (M)edium, a (M)edium an actual (L)arge, etc. (same as with them pushing the definition of obesity to higher bodyfat %).
So now I have a bunch of (M)edium T-shirts - some of which are too big for me. It is time to submerge them cotton T-shirts in hot water for a couple dozen minutes, one at a time - to make them shrink. This is not how I imagined it'd be...
Can't a man just get a perfect fit?
MyReddit6 6y ago
Or just be ripped and wear V neck Tee & jeans w motorcycle boots....
DisillusionedReality 6y ago
Food for thought having multiple different colored shoes to match a similar color shirt automatically gets peoples eyes to move up and down your entire body subliminally cause people to check you out without realizing it.
CoolGuyRy099311 6y ago
How ugly are you that you need to peacock to make people check you out?
That is a good point though...
DisillusionedReality 6y ago
Im not ugly at all im 20 and children's mothers are checking me out
Karmapana 6y ago
"I could be your daddy in a moments notice"
trpblacklime 6y ago
Heres the thing though, I have a thicc butt and thick thighs from crushing it at the gym. When I wear jeans that fit and look good they rip in like 3 months, sometimes less. These are high quality jeans too. (My thighs rub when I walk) Shirts and sweaters that stretch are fine. Button ups I either keep outgrowing or they feel like theyre choking my upper body or they tear. Hell, I wear out shoes quickly too cause I walk a lot and am heavy. Im not saying im johnny bravo but these examples seem to be for skinnier guys or guys with a decent amount of dough.
reluctantly_red 6y ago
Reality time -- you're fat. Time to get off the permabulking bandwagon.
RedWinter88 6y ago
Look for athletic fit jeans, pretty sure Banana Republic has athletic fit rapid movement jeans. You gotta find the right fits with all of your clothes. One brands Small is another’s Medium.
Estrella_97 6y ago
I hear you brother. RIP to all my jeans that have torn in the crotch area.
I just bought a pair of Levis 541 athletic fit. They are bigger in the thigh and buttocks and attenuate both nicely. I previously wore 501s which both lasted 6 months before ripping on me, however I think I found a solution with this pair. If you don't like Levis (you'd be unusual not too) plenty of other brands do this type of fit under a different title, Gap do a good alternative.
Another means I have read, is to buy the jeans a waist size up for more room in the thigh and ass and then get them to a tailor to get the waist to fit you, however the baggier fit for a bigger person still retains. Google this for more info. I hope I helped my big thighed brethren.
relationship_padawan 6y ago
Something I still do to this day is buy American Eagle stretch jeans. I forgot the exact terminology they call them. But I squat and hike and ruck a lot so my thighs are thicc. It’s the only brand that’s held up. Plus buying a size bigger on waist than what I need (sucks too cause I’m short so it’s hard finding the perfect length).
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mattizie 6y ago
Buy jeans that fit your thighs/arse; take them to a tailor, and spend the money to get them fitted properly. I had this done with my Levi's and now they actually fit. All my other pants were either too tight around my thighs or looked stupid because there was 3 inch of waist that was squashed together by the belt.
fidelred01 6y ago
After losing about 50 pounds and going from size 40 to 36 (no big deal), I’ve come to hate how my old pants fit me. And they’re old as in brand new but never fit before but now when I try to rock them, they get all squashed together as you mentioned. What a waste of a collection tbh.
mattizie 6y ago
And they look like shit when they're squashed in like that, right?
If they fit elsewhere, take them to a tailor, they can make them fit properly by doing stuff like this: https://mesewcrazy.com/2015/03/how-to-take-in-a-jeans-waist.html
Either that or buy new clothes.
RandomJin 6y ago
Get Jeans from Lee and you will never have that problem ever again. Best brand on the market for Jeans imo.
chocolatex 6y ago
Lmao Lee is trash so many better brands like APC and Nudies to choose from
banthrow 6y ago
All I see is white sneakers and white clothes. That's expensive as shit as you can use them 4 or 5 times until they lose the whiteness and you look like a dirty ice-cream seller.
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Will this really increase my chances I think it will fuck up mines? I wear similar normal clothes and attract quality women. When I wore good clothes like you are suggesting I got sluts.
jamestemp0 6y ago
Okay..that's enough Internet for me today
dbz0x 6y ago
All this shit look extra homosexual.
beerhiker 6y ago
Other than Conor, I agree. This coming from a 209'er. The rest seems like their only job is to look pretty.
darkkramer 6y ago
Well never go to Europe then, you’ll find homosexual men everywhere
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yunggoose 6y ago
Especially dont go Copenhagen or Stockholm, might turn gay.
BastaHR 6y ago
Now add to this llama haircut, super duper popular with young guys in my country (Croatia). Literally this:
http://thefw.com/files/2012/11/tumblr\_ls6ujhB6wV1qfq9oxo1\_5001.jpg?w=980&q=75
Glitsh 6y ago
Yea but that llama can pull it off.
Aestheticcunt1996 6y ago
That‘s a subconscious reaction of a guy who feels on a primal level that guys who dress „extra homosexual“ are perceived as higher value on the SMV (because they care about themselves and therefore look better) and therefore your post is an instantiation of that primal reaction in order to disqualify higher value males for bitches. Basically saying: guys who dress like this are probably fags so don‘t worry about them, they‘ll never breed with a hot woman like you. Beta game. Read The Rational Male.
dbz0x 6y ago
I’m sorry you dress like a gay male after work getting ready to attend the pride parade. The reality is that you can take care of yourself as an alpha male to portray your high SMV without wearing tight dress pants accentuating your ass curves like a bitch and soft colours that scream I’m a safe little pussy please don’t be afraid of me and ou look my perfectly cuffed sleeves show I spent two hours at the tailor to make sure to make most of my already fragile SMV.
If you’re a high SMV STRAIGHT male, you don’t have enough time to do any of that.
jasonfunk 6y ago
biggest cope I've ever seen
Aestheticcunt1996 6y ago
Hahahaha. You‘re exaggerating here brah, as far as I can see there are no tight dress pants involved in this contribution. Apart from that, you have to buy clothes anyway, whether you dress like a totally ignorant chump with regards to fashion or whether you‘re attentive to the underlying implications of high value you give off by the way you dress. So there‘s no additional time spent on fashion involved here, just an elevated sense of fashion and its effects on how pwople perceive you.
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No homo but in high key obsessed with young Gerald
ssj4kevin 6y ago
Apparently Basic Bitch means $400 shoes.
(Kidding, I know you mean the style)
AssDefect20 6y ago
Buy level 1 clothes and dont think about clothes for 5 years. REPEAT until death.
IMO a man should never focus on clothes and or appearance. That is feminine by definition.
I need clothes to express myself? Cheap marketing trick. The only thing I need to express is my seed inside a womans vagina.
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Overdope707 6y ago
The cheap marketing trick can also be that you've been convinced that clothes and taking care of appearance is feminine.
Men have been taking care of their appearance for centuries. It's why we still know what people 500 years ago dressed like. Fashion isn't some new thing, it's been apart of human society for as long as there's been society.
Even animals in the wild groom themselves and make themselves look more attractive.
I don't see how any of it is feminine unless you're operating from the mindset of someone that has been sold a faux version of masculinity that involves looking like a slob and not caring about the only thing in this world you really own, your body.
AssDefect20 6y ago
By all means take care of your body. Notice how you are mixing fashion with physical health. My point is that if you have a strong, healthy body, you will look amazing, even in Basic Bitch clothes.
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Yep, and the "men are slobs" trope in advertising has been used by the media to make men look stupid for decades now.
Slightly unrelated but one commercial that made me rage even before I knew what TRP was is the Hardee's commercial from a decade ago where the guy's gf broke up with him so he has to cook breakfast now and can't even properly crack an egg. Fucking dumb shit.
AssDefect20 6y ago
I was unprecise. In the context of Red Pill, you should never make a woman your point of origin, and should definitely not overcommit on appearance for women. If you want to dress better for career potential benefits, thats another thing.
Estrella_97 6y ago
You are unimaginative in your worldview. Girls love and go crazy over stylish, creative, well presented dudes, edgy dressed fuckers kill. Think Rock Stars, Russel Brand, James Dean, Marlon Brando etc.
I used to have long curly blonde hair down to my neck and a grunge style and girls would flock my way (I had a long term oneitis my college years could've been amazing.) Girls would tell me how they digged my style or tell others to tell me that. It was peacocking theory in action, the hair and style easily raised me from a 7 to an 8.
Now, when you say 'don't make women the point of your origin' (which is quite ironic when you think about it) I think your sentiments are to not pedestalise, which is textbook. However in the context of fashion, developing your own taste in style, and implementing a good taste based on your character will aid in seduction.
AssDefect20 6y ago
Most rock stars fuck a lot only because they are rock stars. As far as I know Russell Brand is basically a dumb woman. And James Dean and Marlon Brando arent known for their fashion, and would fuck massively even in gym clothes.
I dont know how is it ironic. Please explain.
Alcohol will also aid in seduction. But its a crux, a quick fix. Your story is a perfect confirmation.
Mescalean 6y ago
I never got this fashion shit with men. Metro/homo much? I literally know a number of chicks who will dog in a guy for this.
Go to the gym, eat right, and puff your chest out a little with an air of confidence in your voice. Been pulling pussy for yeeeaaars in fucking under armor basketball shorts and t shirts. Being 6'1" 205 never hurt either. Saw someone say chicks like shoes. Know what they like even more? 2 bricks for calves that tell them "he will not give me weak children with soft heads"
Like do you talk fashion with your male friends??? Do they give you shit? Literally as far as this convo has gone with my friends "cool shirt dude" or "wtf are those neon pink boardshorts?!? You like balls on your chin too???"
Edit: I can tell the reality hurt by the downvotes. Sorry women will readily cheat with chad who's pressing 100's at the gym over some one "accessorizing". Nature is as nature does.
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There's a bit of gap between being a man with good fashion sense and being metrosexual. Not every guy who cares about his appearance is emulating Ryan Seacrest.
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Mescalean 6y ago
Loled so fucking hard at this. Touché princess. Such a pretty name.
Nah of upper white middle class, surprisingly. When we were poor as a kid neighbors were black. Swim/canal time was when my athleticism showed through not on the courts. The men in my family aren't raised to be the pussies society is shoving out into the world/workforce these days. We caught beating with everything from a dads hand (always open!) to a "megazord" i had put together as a kid my psycho mother threw at me. Bitch broke several wooden spoons equally on my ass/head. If you ever like reading about different lineages look into the iberians. May explain some shit. My dad being from a very specific irish lineage/family would have called me a faggot if I had ever come to him talking some fashion shit or saw me spending more than 10 mins getting ready in the morning. "Chick shit"
Im not a fan of the current population and its preoccupations with snapchat and gender fluidity. Cosplay this do I want to keep my penis that...
We need another flood. A big one. Texas wasn't big enough. Been yelling at the last few monsoons when fucked up but that rain dance hasnt been enough ),:
Next step is sacrificing a baby goat to saturn.
TexasFactsBot 6y ago
Speaking of Texas, did y'all know that Texas is the leader in wind energy, and its largest windfarm is 4.5 times the size of Manhattan?
skeet07 6y ago
Texan from the Gulf Coast here. We should meet up.
Mescalean 6y ago
Im a dirty zonie. If youve ever seen raising arizona with nicholas cage... Well its a little more developed these days. I get along with texans anyways. You guys seem to like your weed beer and shooting pigs from helicopters. Giving vets jobs. I dig it. Met a lot of dimes from texas as well. You guys produce some thick white girls
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I have two questions for fashion here. I’m going back to school in September. What type of bag should I get to carry my laptop and textbooks in? Something that makes me stick out as being mature. Also what kind of winter jacket should I get? I need a new one and I live in Canada. Must be practical as well. Something I can wear to school and to the ski hill.
Edit: autocorrect issue
Lucky_caller 6y ago
I'd recommend a nice North Face down jacket that fits well. They look good on the hill and at school.
PhranticPenguin 6y ago
Son, nobody cares about what bags you carry your shit in school.
Just lift, eat appropriately, socialize a little, and spend some time reading everyday.
That is the only way to get long-term good results.
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Estrella_97 6y ago
A good type of bag for carrying laptops and textbooks would be a backpack.
[deleted] 6y ago
Genius. I’ve been using my arms all these years. Super frustrating.
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Pro tip: if you suck at fashion, just look on Pinterest. I wouldn’t admit I have a Pinterest to anyone in real life, but when I wake up after 4 hours of sleep and I don’t want to look like shit I’ll just search for something on Pinterest. Definitely falls along the lines of “basic bitch” but it’s better than looking like shit.
possessedmokey 6y ago
I dress in boots, 5.11pants , and some random shirt. I lift heavy and make money. I'm in my 30s and date females in the early 20s. Never had an issue. They actually tell me they appreciate a real man. Guess it all depends on your geographic location.
redbananaboard 6y ago
Same here bro, I'm 28, I'm a martial artist I don't look big but athletic and strong anough and make what for my country is above average money. I wear mostly black jeans, boots and white sneakers, solid color T-shirts, leather jacket and a couple rings when I feel like it. Girls in their early 20s dig the style and over 30 too. Stick with the classics is the move.
Rudeyyyy 6y ago
Basic bitch one looks like his name is Preston who drives his dad’s Audi and gets in trouble but uses his rich white dad to get out of it. No thanks. I’ll stick with the dark wash jeans, timbs, and Henley’s.
Cantloginhere 6y ago
Bin the jeans and t-shirts, women find men in their 40s most attractive so why dress like a student.
Leave print for the ladies, stick to classics. Suits and jackets make women wet, at least be one notch more formal than all the other guys. You'll be the best dressed in the room.
Overdope707 6y ago
If you dress up in a suit to go on a casual coffee date, or a movie, etc.
You'll just look like a massive dingus.
Cantloginhere 6y ago
Yeah that's why I said one notch more formal instead of always formal e.g. throw on an Oxford instead of a t-shirt.
Estrella_97 6y ago
Cheers based anon. Now for university, all I shall wear is a suit and dress like my professors, I will be crawling in clunge thanks to you!
Cantloginhere 6y ago
I bet they get more than most.
jnthnrch 6y ago
Where the hell do you guys find good looking (preferably ribbed) V-neck tees?
muscleg33k 6y ago
Perry Ellis, Calvin K and Kenneth Cole.
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Kempff95 6y ago
The Banana Republic is great for v-neck, and a lot of other things as well. Highly recommend.
TheTrenTrannyTrain 6y ago
Always remove the manufacturer's tag of your suit jacket sleeve, and the basting stitches around the vents. If not it screams "peasant".
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Reformed65 6y ago
Socks are beta, did our ancestors need to wear socks? Nope! Socks "protect" your feet the same way mama protects her man-child from the real world.
Also, most socks are made from CHINA. China is communist and communism is all about creating slaves to The State. After all, the feet is where you stand, and China wants to take control of that. Quite symbolic and frightening at the same time.
dirks74 6y ago
socks are the shackles of the american male!
Reformed65 6y ago
Da Comrade! It they say in Russiya, Amerika man not know the shackle they in if they do not move!
Ho ho ho, send food and vodka please, babushka died from capatilist water so not here to make food. America Government not make food for lazy ass like me, I to make food, I do work to feed myself so I work more for fat cats. Not good!
ghetto_tuesdays 6y ago
Roids do roids so you can wear socks still.
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enola_yay 6y ago
I’m sorry, what? Wearing socks lowers testosterone levels?
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randomusername7725 6y ago
Carlos Matos?
This one?
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Dickinson_Burns 6y ago
Alright.. I really don't mean to be rude, but I'm new here and I guess not socially calibrated enough. Are you trolling?
The first thing you said felt like a meme but now I'm not sure. Does it really affect sleep? I generally sleep like shit (broken nose means I can't breathe through my nose.. getting surgery to fix it soon) and I sleep with socks cause it's cold. Does sleeping with socks really affect sleep? I guess i'll have to try it, I never even considered it to matter.
enola_yay 6y ago
So it’s more of an issue with wearing socks while sleeping then. Not wearing socks in general. Important distinction...
Rudeyyyy 6y ago
Who tf wears socks when sleeping?
xrKles 6y ago
I am confused as well. 0_0
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uniqueusernamex112 6y ago
yeah looks like the basic hipster style lmao
Estrella_97 6y ago
As JustLift points out, socks are essentially testosterone sponges, recent studies confirm this. Burn all your socks folks, my notch count and muscle gains have increased multitudes since I made the simple step of never wearing socks again.
dongpal 6y ago
im not sure if troll. is this something new? never heard anything about it
swordshab 6y ago
Pants are too short, looks gay
Eorollintrain 6y ago
Any websites that I can find a good amount of the “basic bitch,” attire for a decent price that ships to Canada?
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Basic guide to being a basic metrosexual
Aestheticcunt1996 6y ago
*a metrosexual who attracts more bitches than a standard guy who‘s afraid of being called a metrofag u mad?
aShiftyLad 6y ago
while i appreciate the post, and that itll work for most men. its entirely useless for guys my size (i.e. the rock, minus 20lbs of muscle for fat).
we dont do the slim fagboy look well.
edit* definitely good advise on the find instagram peoples who have style you like and mimic if needed. Side note: be realistic with yourself and choose people whose body types YOU are similar to. sadly this needs to be said (think whales in yoga pants)
2BigBottlesOfWater 6y ago
All the inspos look like they're very well off and don't have jobs? Like I mean they don't have to worry about anything besides looking the way they wanna.. what about the 29 year old realtor, or retail guy in the mall though? These didn't seem like a very good example for everyone to me. Just my 2¢.
buttgoogler 6y ago
I can't stress this enough, but every man MUST have at least one well-fitted suit and a pair of some good shoes, brogues or monks for example. It shouldn't be Tom Ford or Brioni, even those cheap ass suits look insane if they're well fitted. Add a pair of good shoes (brogues, loafers, monks, whatever the fuck floats your boat) and you'll get amazed by the amount of female attention you'll get for simply walking down the street.
reluctantly_red 6y ago
No guy should ever know the name of a clothes or shoe designer.
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WillSteinmetz1 6y ago
Should have said follow Wellbuiltstyle on Twitter. “Keep it simple stupid” is the basis of it
redbananaboard 6y ago
That's a cool tw account to keep it simple, thanks for sharing bro.
jaedgy 6y ago
For the love of god DO NOT go to /malefashionadvice. It is all soy.
afkb39sdfb 6y ago
You know how we look back on the 1980's fashion and laugh, 20-30 years from now people are going to look back on the current men fashion advice style and laugh.
-El_Charles_Vane- 6y ago
I get all my clothes from the army surplus store.
ThatDudeEric90 6y ago
Yeah fuck that. I most certainly don't dig the high water look.
Quilavaa 6y ago
So what type of clothing / style would attract the white girls who drink starbucks and wear uggs? Just wondering because I live in NYC and I see them a LOT.
TheEagleAndTheSnake 6y ago
NYC? Park your Ferrari outside Starbucks.
ValuePrestige 6y ago
Please don't dress like a Rapartist if you're not a Rapartist