I've been thinking this for a while. My female friends complain about male attention and it's usually because they don't find the male attractive. Meanwhile, I'm def not a hot girl but I would be flattered it any man approached me. Attractive women grow up with this idea that they own the world and they take male attention for granted, while for someone like me it's a depleting resource. Makes me tick.

Right, if Christian Grey were a fat, unattractive, broke hobo He'd be considered a sexual predator and would probably be in prison.

I thought everyone knew this?

When I was in high school there was a nerdy chick that I used to hug all the time but it was deemed "harassment" by the teacher because I wouldn't stop hugging her even after the girl would tell me to stop.

I kept doing this every day until the teacher threatened to send me to the principle's office so like a good boy I stopped.

The next day after I didn't give the nerdy girl my patented "harassment" hug she came to me and said somberly "where's my favorite hug?"

I did an experiment of my own back in 2014, i pretended to be a gay guy and became an object for a lot of girls, i was their status symbol, they ignored me until they heard im gay so they could be friends with a gay guy, women only want a guy if hes useful to her. Theyd even say things like "omg youre so cute id date you if you weren't gay" and they'd actually want me at some points, at this time i was pissed because i knew they would never ever even look at me if they knew i wasnt gay, they only wanted me because they thought they couldn't have me.

That’s why we have to rape them! They shouldn’t have the right to say that kind of stuff

Looks red-pill is a hard one to swallow.

Even blue-pillers are consciously aware of this, the very common meme:

1. Be attractive

2. Don't be attractive

Really, it's that simple.

1. Human

2. Sub-human

Also when it comes to the experiment you cite. The guy doesn't show the negative reactions to the what he says on tinder. Do the experiment yourself. You'll be told to fuck off even while using hot guy pics. There's also a bit of a caveat that what he's saying is so ridiculous that nobody would take what he says seriously.

and ontop of it all we're talking about Tinder here. All of these apps are just a modern digital magazine. Something where someone can skim through the pages while they are bored with their real life sitting in a doctor's office peer at some eye candy, whether it's guns, cars, hot chicks, or some hot studs and get a tiny amount of entertainment.

Except with these apps we are the product. We're flipped around and sold back to us. It's pretty fucked up if you think about it especially when you understand that these companies are reaping profits when they create nothing and they use each individuals likeness. Like a model in a magazine who doesnt get paid.

so just like a magazine everything we're attracted to is amplified and spread all over the pages or else the magazine doesnt make money.

If anything i think this is just another example of how people's perceptions of reality is being distorted by social media.

Well of course. Isn't sexual harassment unwanted sexual behavior or advances? Sex is already selective and apart of that comes down to physical appearance.

I think a weirder paradox is two guys say the same joke normal guy even says it better but nobody laughs. better looking says it but worse and it's somehow funny.

Or quiet guy is creepy but hot quiet guy is just mysterious. lol

The application of this statement is far and wide, and most of us men feel this, especially in the office.

In life, it Pays to be attractive in your environment, and good thing for men, attractive is something you can work on, rather than something you must have as a birthright (like "Talent").

So what should you do? Here are some few tips to overcome this phenomenon:

1. Get ripped! This pays universally.

2. I strongly suggest you find a girl outside the office - never shit where you eat. If you think you like her because she has blonde hair and tight skirt (for example), just hop on to the office next door. Many other women dress like that too.

3. If you really drool over some girl in the office who sits 3 feet away from you; you should really check yourself.

What NOT to do:

1. Don't be in the same room with a woman colleague alone. Make sure there are other MALE witnesses.

2. No small talk with women colleagues (women friends are Okay).

3. Never ever compliment your woman colleague on what she wears. The repercussion ranges from putting yourself at the mercy of her power to potentially losing your job.

4. If she approaches you to get frisky, do it outside the office environment. That way it will be you and her as man and girl instead of colleagues. She can't file a report if you do it outside office premises.

Completely agree with this, but the thing that's different in a real-life scenario than on Tinder is that attraction can be built up regardless of how you look. That same attraction can be lost as well. But yea seriously, it's only harassment if she finds you unattractive.

A woman attracted to you is a completely different creature from one that is not.

And that's why I don't take articles in the media seriously - they're written in a repulsive emotional state mainly to beta men.

I saw an analogue with my dog. Once he befriends you, he's a totally different creature than what he is to a stranger. (But your dog never stops loving you - but your girl can fall out of love with you for good).

Sister in law is on a plane frim India, guy next to her puts his hand under her blanket and starts rubbing her leg. She gets up, raises hell, starts crying. Shes telling me the story then blurts out, "if only he was attractive!"

I had a HR lady I dated tell me that a guy from her work got sacked for pretty much that reason.. Flirty 20 something in the office carries on.. Ugly guy likes her, tells her he thinks she is ♨.. Flirty girl reports him.. He gets sacked.

I know I'm kind of playing Devil's Advocate here but Tinder is the bottom of the barrel in terms of girls with good character

Women don't have a problem with men cat-calling, wolf whistling, pulling their skirts, teasing, stalking or cold calling, they have a problem with undesirable men doing this to them. They could be completely okay if the man they want to be with does it. Therefore, women don't have a problem with the act itself but with who is doing it.

Lots of women allow men toxically dominate them and use them for their own selfish needs and they will allow this in the name of 'I am trying to change him into a better human being'.

Women get their status fixed by what kind of men have the confidence to approach her for anything. The loser guy who everyone loathes and detests because of his lifestyle is undesirable by default because she gets ashamed and feels cheap that even he thinks he has a chance. Although, the one who everyone looks up to and is also the major reason for the existence of the very group is desirable because that sets her as the alpha female of the group. She is now highest in the precedence of importance and power among all the women in that group. If the group expands and other better men come in, she will surely climb the ladder without hesitation.

Every women wants to have the same status as the alpha male of the group- having access or at least a participation in decision making, first receiver of any resourceful thing or the very right to get everyone's attention to be heard and this can only be achieved by getting coupled with the alpha of the group.

The classic, "Be attractive, don't be unattractive." And as always, watch what women do, not what they say. They will ALWAYS say they want Mr. Nice Guy, but we all know they want the edgy, fun, exciting, dangerous hot guy that gives them the tingles. We saw all this in action when #METOO blew up. All the beta males went down hard (Lauer, Franken, Aziz Ansari), but you never saw any alpha male celebs get nailed for anything. When they rarely do, it is because a gold digger sees the potential for a lot of $$$$.

Lifting does not change your face.

It's literally written right into the disciplinary code of almost all companies.

"Sexual Harassment is defined as unwanted requests for dates, contact, or other behavior..."

The only thing that has ever determined sexual harassment is whether she's attracted to you. And if she's harassing you, have fun getting anything done about that.

True story: friend of mine was suspended from school for three days our senior year (three weeks before graduation). A single girl was pissed because he'd pretty much ignored her all year got three of her friends together to claim he'd been harassing them. Several of us tried to speak on his behalf... No one listened. He was suspended.

Day two of his suspension that same girl grabbed my dick in the hallway and smirked at me. I marched directly into the assistant principal's office and made a complaint. Bald fuck looked right at me and said, "You're a guy. Get out of my office."

That was the day I realized we were fucked, gents.

Also only if you're male. There was a woman at my previous job who got away with all sorts of ridiculous behavior. She was a shitty person. Sure, she sexually harassed guys who worked in the warehouse who were unfortunate enough to need to come into the office. Management's response was to tell them to just keep separate. If it ever happened again obviously it waa BOTH their faults because they BOTH weren't trying hard enough to keep separate.

She threw water on a guy. Management's response? Make her pay for the dry cleaning, tell her to be more careful.

She literally attacked a chick. Pulled her fucking hair out. Like a clump of it. Management's response? You girls need to talk this out.

She eventually quit because someone (or more likely someones, everyone despised her) were engaging in passive aggressive street justice.

Classic example of AWALT and Halo Effect.

A model going full creep mode = tingles and wet pussy

Regular dude doing the same = weirdo

Ugly dude = insta call 911

Nothing new here, but an important reminder. The key point I can extract from this is that it’s lame to have it too easy. There’s no thrill, no challenge. It would be awesome to slay pussy with a single statement until it became bland and boring. This guy simply hit the genetics jackpot and had to make zero effort to fuck beautiful women during his whole life.

We are men. We are programmed to work hard, build stuff, overcome challenges, take a few hits from life and keep moving on. This male model (and others too) is the masculine version of any above-average woman because looks opens a thousand doors of opportunities and aids you in getting away with pretty much anything.

I ain’t hating the guy, just stating the truth. We should be grateful that we have the opportunity to work hard to conquer pussy/money/social proof, that’s what makes the journey fun.

I mean if an, I your eyes ugly girls, trys to go for you, then you are nitpicky. Can't you accept that every human being does this? I bet you would feel harassed too if that ugly smelly girl won't stop for you.

It's a matter of who, not what.

Image is god. How you are seen determines what you see.

There is no confusion to be had here, women validate themselves through men.

When someone unattractive desired them, they feel its because they attract undesirable people. They can’t separate themselves from the person the way men do. Therefore, hot guy wants to fuck me because I’m so incredible quickly becomes there must be something wrong with him because I don’t attract that kind of guy.

Projection and denial of responsibility are the calling cards of the modern woman.

This one is a no brainer.

Your SMV > her SMV. Your advances are hot.

Her SMV > your SMV. Your advances make you a creep.

Its not the advances, its the guy doing it. Hypergamy at its finest.

There is a meme picture that just this; a fat guy covered in zits and excess unkempt hair, vs. a wavy haired stud.

Well well well seems some blackpill truth is being leaked to the fantasy land of redpill.

Glad to see it

Would it be any different if the genders where reversed? And isn't this "research" biased, by only looking at the people who were matching?

When your test subjects aren't random nor evenly spread out you might mistake course for correlation.

What happened to all the girls who disliked due to the pedophile thing being a no go? All the matches already accepted this.

I’ve been saying this for MONTHS

Even with AWALT, I’m almost speechless at the pedophile part.

I've been saying this for years; if you are a bridge troll looking fuck, it's not harassment. Women don't give a shit when a man they find attractive does it.

Well, tbh, if you were knocked down and cowgirled by a super attractive women, you would react different as if the women were post 70 and ugly.

I think you cant blame em for that. Also.

Tinder Its like intentionally searching for "Why do I always fall in live with assholes"-girls.

Well it's written right into the so called "Code of conduct" so many SJW are pushing down the throats of every institution they can. They define harassment as unwanted approaches. The key word here is "unwanted". Apart from the totally subjective definition purposefully made so basically it's harassment if the girls say it is, it's directed to ugly, low rank and beta men. Alpha approaches are never unwanted.

Its crazy how during my unattractive days i believed this and was upset over it cuz of my lack of success as well as being BP af but now that i am attractive, this still remains true and it still lowkey bugs me but i just don't have to worry about it as much as before

there is a very good series of blogs on the rational male about this 1st one is here: here

I've done this experiment by myself and its an eye opener. Most ridiculous part is when I got matched with same girls on my real and fake account and was running almost exactly the same game on them. You can guess what happened, my real account got just ignored while the fake one succeeded with the conversation. And when somebody is telling me to up my game I know they are bullshitting me, because with the f fake account I was able to make bunch of girls cum while telling them what I will do to them when we meet. And its funny when they start acting all needy when I ignore them, basically they act like beta orbiters. While with my real account I get ignored or unmatched when I run more aggressive game on them. And yea I am low bf and lift, abs and shit.

And I am not complaining, I am just telling it what it is. After all its not that bad and I am able to fuck average girls and sometimes very rarely above average. But honestly never fucked the real hot ones.

The most important thing I learned from this experiment is fuck close as soon as possible or next. If nothing happen on the end of second date there is huge chance nothing will happen on the third. And overall she is bullshitting and losing your time. Because when Chad comes he will fuck her on the first date. And if you have Chad friends you probably already know that.

I feel like this post is blackpill/incel in disguise.

Well duh... I hate it when ugly bitches feel on me too.