The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
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musicvita25 11y ago
I really do love this piece, it almost brought a tear to my eye. Coming back to this forum just reminds me what a bullshit world we live in. Eat, Prey, Love, do you know how many betas told me to watch that bullshit?
I like that at the end it says you can get swallowed in a world of video games and porn. Erm, if you work hard and enjoy what you do, you work out, you play some games, you watch some porn, its not too bad. You are a busy motherfucker. I'd rather do that then sit down and watch Eat Prey fucking Love.
CUNTBERT_RAPINGTON 11y ago
The books is repulsive. While this woman was whoring around on her ex husband's money and publicly humiliating him in a self indulgent best seller he was committing himself full time to volunteer work in third world countries.
[deleted] 11y ago
To be fair, "Eat, Prey, Love" sounds more intriguing than "Eat, Pray, Love".
redpillschool Admin 11y ago
Pure gold. Great shit.
VodkaTankerSpill 11y ago
A must read. Thanks for posting this.
Just understanding this concept explains so many red pill ideas and female quirks. For example, when females think that bragging about a killer career to a man in hopes of impressing him is attractive because that is one of the assets they find attractive in a man. Makes so much sense now.
Edit: article originally was written by Ferdinand Bardamu and is now included in the book Three Years of Hate. I suggest you guys check it out, lots of good RP stuff in it.
scottishredpill 11y ago
Exactly. This is a great article that should make it clear why asking women for relationship advice is a terrible idea.
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RedPillScare 11y ago
Thus is funny because it is likely so fucking true
musicvita25 11y ago
Can I go one step further and ask is asking advice in general from women (not professionals) is a bad idea?
enticingasthatmaybe 11y ago
Only seek the advice of an individual who has already accomplished your intended goal.
mo_dingo 11y ago
Very good point, that is an excellent way to look at life.
No_disintegrations 11y ago
Go read every fucking profile on a dating site. I guarantee that every woman's profile will say "I love my job" or "I'm confident, independent, and ambitious."
mo_dingo 11y ago
Jesus, this.
Hey, look at me, I am 30 years old, I have 2 kids from some loser and now I want YOU to take care of them for me, while I go to school and fuck off.
Fuck that noise.
On the flip side, I did just find a 19 year old Hispanic girl that stated "I am naturally submissive; when it comes to intimate encounters, I am whatever my man needs. I can transform to many things to keep my man happy in every way possible...
I couldn't believe my eyes when I read that. Thankfully I am naturally dominant so it's a perfect symbiosis. Hates feminism, no anger, wants to be a stay at home mom, raise the kids, take care of her husband in any way he needs, & insists her first marriage will be her only marriage, etc...
RedPillScare 11y ago
You found a unicorn.
mo_dingo 11y ago
No kidding. I also just found out that she likes very rough sex, slapping, whipping, being tied up, hair pulled, etc. her most intense orgasm was when she was getting fucked in the ass.
I'm going to have some fun with this one.
and I'm telling everyone, if you want a very conservative woman like this, Look into Hispanic women. If her parents are very conservative and taught her right, she will be very red pill.
RedPillScare 11y ago
Yes. I just need to find one that isn't 50lbs overweight. My area has a huge population of huge Hispanics.
mo_dingo 11y ago
Very good point. You have to get them young, before their metabolism starts to decrease. Then state from the onset that if they get fat that you will drop them immediately.
another thing too, is if they only need to lose 10 or 20 pounds, and they're willing to start diet and exercise, and you state that their weight loss is mandatory, from the very beginning, then that something that you can deal with quite easily.
but she has to have the mindset that pleasing your man is top priority, above almost everything else. and being the visual creatures that we are, anything less is unacceptable.
RedPillScare 11y ago
Agreed. "If you don't work out, we won't work out."
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This was god damn beautiful.
Especially the part about sluts/players. Something I always laugh at when women try to make them equal.
It takes skill to be a player. Even if you're good looking.
All it takes is a working vagina to be a slut.
Male virgins are made fun of because they have no skill or confidence. Female virgins are seen as "pure" because they havent rode the cock carousel yet.
Its just so incredibly easy for a woman to get laid if they want to. You can have shit confidence and you dont even need to be all that good looking. Just be alive and you can get fucked if you want to. Go into a bar, shake your tits in some guys face, and thats all there is to it. A guy cant do nearly the same thing.
When will women understand that all men care about in regards to them is how hot they are? That is always #1 on our lists. Yes there are other secondary things we care about too but as far as attraction goes that is by far the main thing.
I loved the bit about cougars too. The media is really trying to make "cougars" happen. Cougars will never happen. Seeing desperate 40+ women try to cling onto the last bit of sexuality they have is sad. Maybe they're good for a lay here and there, but not more than that. Fuck no.
scottishredpill 11y ago
There was recently some drama on my Facebook concerning a girl that had been sleeping with 3 guys. I mentioned it to my female flatmate, and she was pissed off because the girl was getting shit about it, whereas guys do it all the time and get away with her.
She refused to believe me when I tried to point out to her it's very hard for a guy to be sleeping with 3 girls at the same time, and it's nowhere near as common as she thinks it is.
redpillschool Admin 11y ago
All the guys she fucks are clearly fucking other girls, so it obviously is very common. I mean, all other dudes are basically invisible to her anyway.
30years 11y ago
Serious question (since your TRP endorsed): Are you serious that it is hard to be sleeping with three girls at the same time? I ask because I am and was surprised that it wasn't hard at all. In all fairness, I am 50 and all of these women are in their early to mid 40's, but when I first became single I was actually scared I would have a sexual drought, but I haven't experienced one.
Met them all through eHarmony.
Is that unusual?
scottishredpill 11y ago
No idea, I'm not 50. However, amongst friends my age, all the single guys generally have a problem sleeping with one. I am the only person I know IRL that is actively sleeping with more than one women.
whiskey_bearfist 11y ago
i am friends with some serious ladykillers. one has 4 girls on rotation, another keeps dating 9s when he could probably easily have a flock of 7s/8s to hookup with at his discretion.
it is exceedingly rare for a guy to have more than 2 (attractive) girls at any given time. like less than 1 percent of all males. once you step back a bit and actually analyze the behaviors we talk about here and apply some effort to improving your game/lifestyle, you begin to think its easy, or that everyone else is clueless.
but that little pill is a tough first step for guys indoctrinated from day 1.
30years 11y ago
Thanks!
ArchangelleFuckOff 11y ago
Speaking of Three Years of Hate does anyone have the kindle version of that that they could crack? It's no longer available on his Amazon store, and I'd love a copy of it somehow.
scottishredpill 11y ago
Same, let me know if you get a copy
alt30313 11y ago
I wouldn't mind getting a copy too.
per1klez 11y ago
"The sexual double standard arises from the reality that getting sex is easy for women but hard for men. Women being the gatekeepers of sex, the reason studs are respected and sluts are derided is because being a stud requires skill, while being a slut merely requires a pulse and a lack of impulse control. As the folk saying goes, a key that can open many locks is a master key; a lock that can be opened by many keys is a faulty lock."
Amazing.. Two thumbs way up just for this
boobiemcgoogle 11y ago
I'm glad Matt Forney took over where Ferd Berdamu left off. He's a good manosphere aggregator. He links to my stuff on electriccamel and twitter alot, so it's gravy.
[deleted] 11y ago
"Captain Save-a-Ho" lol nice.
The Wile E Coyote moment is right on the money.
All that "self-empowerment" is nothing more than self delusion as opportunity fades over time. A man can be 40 and find a younger woman to have a family with if he is reasonably inclined.
A woman faces a different reality.
Don't get me wrong, I've seen some very beautiful 35-45 year old women, but such is not commonplace.
I recently saw a woman I knew in a casual circle of friends as a younger man. Back then she was very cute and had no shortage of pursuers. Last week, I saw her at her job working as a dental hygienist, her youth and beauty definitely faded, she recognized me. I'm pretty sure she saw me pull up in my luxury auto, walking up through the window. I am fit and was well dressed, as usual.
Even though I never had problems getting girlfriends, 20 years ago she would have laughed off any advance I would have made towards her, but now there was a different kind of air about interacting with her. I am now clearly above her status, and not by a little. That's the Wile moment at work. That brazen advantage a beautiful young woman experiences is fleeting and doesn't last forever.
Some women do stay beautiful longer and definitely know how to use sex to their advantage, they're not all dipshits by any means, but for every one like that there are 1000s of the aforementioned dental hygienist types.
Furthermore, a big problem for women is when they are actually faced with what they claim to be longing for - true egalitarianism - they self-describe it as personal failure. For men there is nothing other than a life of self-sufficiency. We sink or we swim. For women the goal is to get men to subsidize their existence. When they have to solely pay their own way through life, it's a tragedy. For us, self-sufficiency is a source of great pride and identity. There is a deep contrast there.
I'm getting very sick of the claims of the so-called "Patriarchy". Like this essay states, there simply is no grand conspiracy to subjugate women. There isn't a single man anywhere fighting to pay alimony or child support. I've never seen any attempts in my life to discriminate on the basis of gender. Ever. The whole "Patriarchy" narrative is a construct born from women who want to divert blame and avoid responsibility for defeating true egalitarianism. Women like they advantages they enjoy and they do not want to be expected to be utterly self-dependent like men are. That built in excuse is a beloved and dear friend.
All this hegemony they are manipulating culture and society into providing will eventually lead to their undoing. Declining marriage rates are a very powerful indication. A solipsistic 38 year old woman who has enjoyed a life of self-involved indulgence will wake up to a grim reality of a very lonely and increasingly desperate future. Wealth and financial independence only come for the very few. The effects of feminism are already being felt. I have a few (former) neighbors who are women in their 50s, with no kids or family, working hum-drum jobs, living alone with a pet shop full of dogs and/or cats. The same boring routine day after day after day. I can almost guarantee that they were coy snappy brats in their 20s and 30s, but now they are tired and alone - save maybe a sister or a brother who lives in a different state.
I personally don't believe that selfishness works well for anyone. It's very obvious that Feminism is specific type of dogmatic selfishness, and like any other kind of pathological selfishness, eventually it comes around and bites the person who exudes it.
DrMungMung 11y ago
Right on!
scottishredpill 11y ago
One of my plates was having a problem with boyfriend, and she wasn't sure what to do. Her girl friends had suggest sitting down with him, and having in depth chat about what the problem was. I suggested she sent him picture of her tits, captioned "These need attention", when he comes over, fuck him, then tell him to stop being a whiney bitch.
She listened to me, and the problems have been sorted, and I get a booty call as a thank you :)
whiskey_bearfist 11y ago
hahah. a girl getting dating advice for her boyfriend from the guy she is cheating on him with. classic
Rienfleche101011 11y ago
I see a lot of women coach each other like this.
It astounds me how clueless they are as to what attracts a guy.
"Play hard to get and flirt with other guys in front of him!"
Uhhhh, what?
DrMungMung 11y ago
"Tell him about all the dates you go on so you seem really popular!!"
uh.. ok?
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vengefully_yours 11y ago
The only women I know who are over 33 that dont look older than 45 are the ones who have not been in the sun and are heavy. The skin isnt wrinkled on them, but damn on the skinny ones who get tanned all the time, they look like used up leather gloves.
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vengefully_yours 11y ago
If her skin is stretched from being a bit or very overweight, they will tend to look younger longer. It isnt all of them, but quite a few I know look younger than they are because of their weight.
Funny thing is, people still think I am early 30s not mid 40s. I worked night shift most of my adult life, so I have good skin going on.
sushisection 11y ago
I've noticed a lot of attractive 30-somethings here in suburban Las Vegas. Of course most of these women are stay-at-home, married to wealthy old cocks, so they have time to work out and money to spend on plastic surgery. Artificial attraction isn't as good as the real stuff
Helmut_Newton 11y ago
"A key that can open many locks is a master key; a lock that can be opened by many keys is a faulty lock."
Just love that quote...
oibalf 11y ago
Have to disagree with the argument that women project more than men do. Projecting our own values onto other people is something that we all do.
It's why a lot of guys think that you have to be really good looking to be attractive to women. Or when guys provide girls with answers and solutions to their problems, instead of providing emotional reassurance. Guys can be just as clueless as women.
I definitely think there is more an entitlement culture for women in America, but that's a different issue from solipsism or mental projection.
Laughing_Jelly_Bean 11y ago
I'm well aware of this fact, but I still provide answers and solutions because the are a means to improvement, while emotional venting is not.
I'm not going to give someone what they want, I'm going to give someone what they need.
oibalf 11y ago
Good luck being in a long term relationship.
sushisection 11y ago
You have a point, however, this article is describing female projection from a much broader perspective. Yes, males project on an individual level but we dont do it as a whole.
the_red_scimitar 11y ago
While elements of truth are here, I see so many faults of fact and logic, that I just can't credit it much.
Example: One guy experiences a female "old girl's club", thus the "old boy's club" is false and women generally are in this "old girl's club".
My experience has been that women who work together at different management levels don't get along a bit. There is intense dislike from lower levels to higher, and the thought of collaboration would be abhorrent. Lower levels view the uppers as bitchy dykes, or as having "slept their way to the top", whereas uppers view the lowers as servants. The point being, no club.
And really? " construction, manufacturing, mining, law enforcement and the military" doesn't need "education, healthcare, and the civil service"? The blatant idiocy of this is sweeping and pretty much says that all rationality is being discarded in favor of "proving" the opinion of the piece - which is only "proved" to those with poor critical thinking skills.
I'm neither anti- nor pro- red pill. I think there are interesting ideas here, buried amid a massive cesspool of misogyny, perhaps even misanthropy.
Considering where I'm posting this - let the downvotes rain down!
through_a_ways 11y ago
I'll agree with that. Many women are very catty about these things, and don't have the laid back attitude that men do.
I don't think the author phrased that quite right. Education and healthcare are definitely necessary. But when we talk about women dominating those fields, we're generally talking about grade school teachers and nurses, not engineering professors and brain surgeons.
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the_red_scimitar 11y ago
I'm not painting vast swathes of generalities from a single example. The author is selling something - a perspective - to a like-minded audience. That is all.