This tweet caught my attention earlier in the week. Read it here: https://imgur.com/a/UUEi9QG
Analyzing this tweet, as presented by the OP (woman), is a good exercise in TRP theory. So let's break it down.
First of all, the OP tells her suitor that he's "a little too nice" for her. This directly supports TRP theory relating to alpha/beta dynamics. In fact, I would say that similar situations lead many men to finding TRP.
At a basic level, women are inherently attracted to "bad boys," although that term is just a generalized description that new TRP followers apply when describing attraction. The nuances become more apparent as a man gains more experience. Beyond the "bad boy" trope, women are attracted to men who stand up for themselves, are ambitious, and aren't swayed by her feminine whims.
Evidently, the guy in this tweet does not exhibit any of those traits. Hence why the OP calls him a nice guy and indicates that she isn't attracted to him. His beta personality is put on full display by his response. Even though his words are "mean" by definition, he only said them in response to the woman. Which is counterintuitive. He is still being swayed by the woman. His frame is non-existent. The woman will become less and less attracted to him the more he tries to prove how "not nice" he is.
Niceness and masculinity are not mutually exclusive. A man can be truly nice and also very alpha. But basing your actions to please any woman will never work in the man's favor. Case in point.
ObliviousDuck 1y ago
This is fascinating, his response was to transform into the cutest little fluffy kitten and try to gently suffocate her. Surely this will make her want to fuck him.
Overkill_Engine 2 1y ago
Dude should have just ignored that outwardly and soft nexted her and only reply if and when it immediately benefits him to do so. And otherwise redirected any spare energy he had elsewhere.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
She called it right, so long as you know that "nice guy" means "weak".
She called him weak, and we can see she was right.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Civilization would be so much further ahead right now if women would just say what they wanted, instead of betas being clueless and resorting to this embarrassing shit
Smdh
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
Yeah. I'm getting second hand embarrassment from his text messages.
He thinks that he can save the situation by sending some 'funny' messages that show that he's NOT a nice guy. But he has so much to learn. This bridge is burned. He'd be better off taking the L, moving on and learning.
He should be asking himself 'Right, what have a I learnt?'
And, to be fair (https://www.google.com/search?q=to+be+fair&rlz=1C1CHBD_en-GBGB893GB893&oq=to+be+fair&aqs=chrome..69i57.1042j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:1b64351d,vid:jv7jcciKB_s,st:0)
The girl did spell it out to him - she wasn't talking in riddles. She clearly said that he seemed to nice. She clearly said that she only opens her legs for guys that will treat her like shit, break her heart and cheat on her.