Basic Field Report with Game Analysis

Most of you newbies are learning game off of ridiculous and overly theatric field reports that are poorly written, short on explanations and insights, and too advanced of game techniques in them, so I'm here to give you newbies a clear-cut, no bullshit real-life field report of a normal, textbook date-game set (with commentary and analysis) that easily led to a first night lay with wild pornstar action at the end. No frills, no gimmicks, no Chad cards out of my sleeve; just straight-up textbook PUA game escalation at the right times with the right vibe and social calibration, which is mostly what women want.

My analysis of the techniques and events will be in quote blocks to differentiate narration from analysis:

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Vocabulary used:

PUA = Pick Up Art

Kino (kinosthetics) = physical touch

Pull = Taking a woman home with you

Post is intended for newbies, if you already have experience, the formatting of this post may seem like overkill.

Context & Initial Interaction

Couple years ago from time of post

Tinder date. 31-year-old HB8 (without her glasses on she was quite hot).

Matched her. Sent a good opener and she responded with a decent paragraph in an hour or so. Didn't respond to my follow-up for two more weeks (basically ghosted me)

About to unmatch her but IDGAF, I sent a stupid wavey-hand emoji (and nothing else) and he she responds back 20 mins later apologizing. Got Logistics down in 2 more messages for an international bar and then dance hall for second location.

PUA Technique(s) used: [venue-hopping] (changing from one location to another on a date so that the girl gets used to leaving with you and traveling with you from one change of scenery to another, with the goal being her ending up at one of your places at one of the pulls)

Secondary PUA technique used: [compliance testing] (does she do, agree, or follow through with what you ask? if so good sign. Compliance testing also creates investment on her part, even for small requests that add up over time)

Tertiary technique: [DGAF attitude/outcome independence]

The Date: 1st Venue (International Bar)

I show up a little early. The forecast is rain, and parking is usually a bit rough in that area so I tell her "let's just park at at the first place just in case it rains, and I can just drive us to the dance hall for easier parking if you're cool with it after we meet''. She agrees. EZ compliance.

Our first two minutes of conversation were boring as shit to be honest. Again, I don't care, I know I'm fun and interesting and if I just drop my filter it'll be fun. I take the first conceivable opening I have in boring small talk to respond to a negative remark she said about her own glasses. Risky but lighthearted so it works easily.

First hour at the international place has no sexualization, mainly just stuck to [interesting] rapport and intrigue building and the classic:

1. Be attractive.

2. Don't be unattractive.

PUA technique: [flow state (or just "state" for short)] a mentality in which you are just rolling with the flow situation, completely in-tune with yourself and your interaction(s) without mental disruption or apprehension; a state of complete social inebriation and social vibing.

Secondary technique: [free association] while not necessarily apparent in my FR, I was just taking anything that was said in the conversation and just immediately rolling with what came to mind in relation to a topic/word/idea. This aided the unfiltered nature of the convo flow.

The Date: 2nd Venue (Dance Hall)

She easily gets in my car and we drive 2 minutes down the street to the dance hall. We don't really waste much time, just get to it. I start showing her the basics and chat and dance.

At one point she fucks up and I got out of an overhead move weird and it was kind of like a hug. So I re-do it but with the fuck-up deliberately included and we get into some intimate hug-like exit for that move but I make sure to not over-do-it (later she recounted that that made her want to kiss me, so it had flipped a switch in her head).

We get a cheap drink and talk about hobbies (deeply important for later in FR) and just family and small talk. Somehow she mentioned how she plays Nintendo and Super Smash Brothers. She ends up laughing at something so I put my hand on her leg for emphasis (an emotional high point). I alluded to wanting to challenge her in smash and she agreed to it (which let me know she was open to being pulled then or another day).

I kino her arms, back, leg, briefly at different points of convo. We move to a more quiet area to hear each other better. This doesn't last too long because she wasn't responding in any which way that indicated she liked it (but didn't seem to be put off by or it pull back from it, which was good). We go back to dancing.

Technique: [KINO]: touching a woman to foster physical intimacy. I only stuck to socially acceptable areas at first or incidental moves. Leg is less socially acceptable early but that is why I did it very briefly for emphasis. Never over-do kino and look for signs of discomfort. If she's uncomfortable, stop, try again later when she is feeling more attraction/tension.

Secondary technique [boiling the frog]: a PUA metaphor. If you cook a frog in boiling water (they are cold blooded), it will jump out immediately. If you only just slowly turn up the temp over time, gradually, they will not notice they are being cooked alive until they are dead.

In PUA terms: more or less just means that you are only gradually physically escalating and not startling her or coming across as a creep or thirsty. Moving along physical escalation within her comfort level at a socially-calibrated pace and looking for signs that she is either starting to reciprocate it back or get more turned on as time and escalation continues.

Tertiary Technique [escalate on a high note]: basically use high notes (laughter, smiles, swooning, to make a move, because she is already in a susceptible higher reward state from you, for lack of a better phrasing).

Date Sexualization

At some point in showing her some more stuff she got thirsty so we got water. When we are back on the floor she fucked up what she was saying and said that she was "breathing water" instead of "drinking water". I made fun of her (playfully of course) and said she had gills and expressed playful disgust with it and she laughed and got flustered.

I made a reference to The Boys (a superhero spin-off on Amazon Prime) and told her it would be gross if later on in the night I had to "deal with her gills when she took it off later" like the character in that show (who is basically an Aquaman ripoff and has gills). While this was a fictional and obviously fake neg, it was nonetheless a playful neg and roleplay. Essentially I alluded to the fact we'd be getting naked later. I left it at that.

I dipped her for the first time on the dance floor and she started panting and ventilating (don't ask me why I don't know) but I playfully ripped her for it and said "that sounds a lot more suggestive than it is, like a hamster in heat" (or something to that effect it was two years ago). Basically that was all the overt sexualization I did that whole date. It doesn't take much. You just have to show that your mind has sexual inclination. you don't have to run it to the ground to get laid.

Sat down again and gradually escalated more again on hands, back, shoulder touch. No complaints or avoiding it. Let me hand rest for a bit on her back and then took a break from it again.

Technique: [sexualization/rapport break]: Saying anything sexual, implying the possibility of sex, or anticipation of it, is a rapport break. Adding any kind of primal urgency like this puts a man-to-woman frame into play. Sex is a vulnerable and raw act, so changing the subject to this is very polarizing. A woman can either play along, ignore it, or end the set if she doesn't want any. Basically lets her know you have a dick and are willing to use it, and that you two are not platonic and opens her mind to being a sexual being with you.

Secondary technique [(playful) neg]. A neg is more or less of a backhanded compliment, or a compliment that is attached to a disqualifier (reason you wouldn't want her). I recommend playful negs for good vibe sets. More rough negs such as "You're my type in everyway but I am more of a redhead kind of guy" etc. is a typical neg structure but I wouldn't bother using it unless a woman has a bad attitude or a bitch shield up and actively shit-testing you hard already.

The Pull

Moved to final drink location in an outdoor area to cool off. This time emphasized a high note on her inner thigh with my palm (maybe halfway up her leg, nothing crazy intimate) and left it there. She had a garter tattoo with emotional meaning so she ends up showing me and lifting her skirt and leg a bit to show me. She puts her hand on my hand and even when moving it to scratch her nose she put it back on my hand (all signs she'd be down to be more physical later). She's in a mellow mood, completely absorbed in our conversation (another great sign she is not looking to end the night or leave me).

Smash Bros comes up again somehow and I say I'd be down to challenge her to it tonight (don't remember how) and I leave the topic (admittedly prematurely). We keep talking and touching and at some point she randomly says "are we playing Smash Bros or not??"

I say "yes of course, and I'll kick your ass at it." My house wasn't good at the time (it is now) and so we decided on her house. She says her game system might not work and I say "no problem we'll just watch a movie and keep it simple if it doesn't work." She agrees and she starts talking about the messiness of her room. I say "I don't care, I've been to a friend of a friend's house before that I didn't know and he literally had a used condom on the floor from an hour before" (true story, still makes me gag to think about). She says that she has nothing like that in her room but does have condoms (before saying "oh, forget I said that").

Drive her back to her car, exchanged digits, and went to her place. Condoms already in my travel bag in advance so I'm set.

PUA technique [plausible deniability]: Giving a woman an excuse that is so innocent or plausibly having nothing to directly do with sex, so that, if need be, she can tell her friends she had a guy over to do xyz (coffee, movie, talk, etc.) and can conveniently lie and deceive her fellow listeners as to what actually went down when she met up with the guy in private.

Plausible deniability gives her cover, so you two can get under the covers without that being part of the story. Plausible deniability is basically half-truth cover story so that she doesn't have to make up whole-cloth lies to everyone else how you two hung out.

The Lay

I'm going to spare everyone the porno script, probably was the best lay of my life though.

So we got to her place, pet her dog or whatever and then shut the door to her bedroom. Her game system didn't work because she spilled soda on it the month prior so we watched a movie instead. I pick Avengers on purpose because it has a 3-hour run time and I wanted to seal the ability to smash during the movie.

We start cuddling and I start holding her like normal and then start escalating (stroking her arms, etc.). I move my hand under her shirt and cuddle her stomach. She mentions that if I feel metal it's her nipple piercings (lol). I play it off and anyway once I start feeling too in the mood and she was already sighing and cooing I just flipped her over and went for the first kiss.

I'm going to spare the raunch and just say that I got her to climax with my hand after she briefly said "I'm nervous I'm having trouble relaxing." I just asked her what she needed and she just said "kiss me". LMR was that mild, she asked for a condom right after I got her to finish and and had no issues the rest of the night and a 5+ hour marathon.

Your mileage my vary but getting a woman to climax hard with your hand or very close to it has always turned them into wild animals in my experience and almost immediately resulted in sex. I've heard some guys say they get the opposite experience, figure I'd just leave that escation tip (guide linked) here anwyay.

PUA Technique: ["it just happened"] For lack of a better term, women just want things to "just happen." I never outright discussed sex. I alluded to nudity later on in the night earlier but never outright said I was looking to have sex or her got too close to the topic overtly.

Secondary technique: [LMR reduction] This woman had extremely mild LMR. After all, she had just met me 5 hours ago, I didn't expect her to be 100% comfortable romping it out with a stranger. I got her from 98% comfortable before I even tried to smash and only needed to give her mild assurance and she was relaxed enough for me to seal the deal.

~VRX