So, I did it. I popped the anxiety pill the doctor gave me and asked a chick for her number. Now, again, I know everyone’s going to say “yea, they’re paid to work there, you approached a captive audience etc”. But, I just decided fuck it and did it anyway.
I’m a corny dude. I basically just placed an order for food and was like (this was in spanish) “yo, you forgot something?” and she was like “what’d I forget?” and I was like “your number, you up for something later?”. Now, I of course got rejected because that was absolutely abominable but, at the same time, it was so fucking satisfying.
Like, in a sense, I always had to deal with “damn, I never made a move”. Now, I made the move, I know, and it’s in the past. I’m so fucking hyped. Some of ya’ll do this shit like 20x a day, this is super fun. I can’t really experience that fun fully because I took an anxiety pill and that shit has my body loose as fuck right now.
But this basically made me more excited for the next one. If it’s really just a numbers game, I could do this shit all day. I’m hyped to talk to the next chick. I think I’m heading in the right direction.
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
Well done, young brother. Looking forward to your next field report.
whytehorse2021 6mo ago
You could just give random women compliments and make their day to overcome approach anxiety and get used to chatting with them. No need for pills.
Maturin_nj 6mo ago
That wasn't as abominable as you think. Hey you forgot something. Not bad actually. Good!! Night game is the best venue to break your anxiety. Go to clubs bars and approach. Go often. You'll learn what works and what doesn't. Its the next part where amatuers have trouble. Building rapore. Developing a conversation that isn't too nice guy shit.
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