a regular dude, that keeps himself to himself, so you dont know much except it is not a looser, an addict ect
you want to keep the lineage
you are financially stable
Would you pay a dude to secure his commitment (dowry)? And reward him for possible losses?
Would you transfer some wealth to this dude and/or put the restrictions on the wealth inheritance, to increase the odds of your daughter to stay commited.
No. As far as I can see, transfering wealth to the dude is what will cause the woman (your daughter) to want to divorce.
The more money on the table, the more women want to get divorced. The richer people are, the more they divorce. My first divorce as prompted by the GFC of 2008 - suddenly the banks all looked shaky. At the time, in the UK we only had £85k of deposit guarantee per person, per bank. (not per bank account). So I split as much as of my cash as I could across all the bank brands in the UK in lumps of ££85k each, and with the rest, but there were simply not enough bank brands (the deposit guarantee does not work if a bank owns another bank - there are actually fewer banks than you might think).
So I had to transfer a large sum to my wife, and I instructed her to split that out in sums of £85k amongst as many different bank brands as possible. As soon as she got the cash, she decided it was time to divorce. You might think I am stupid, but I had no reason to not trust her. We had 2 kids together. I trusted her with my life.
The cash was simply too much for her. Seeing a huge transfer hit her bank account was enough to start the ball rolling.
TLDR - you cannot convince women to not divorce rape you by having more money - the inverse is true.
I was not overtly depictive in describing the situation. So many variables, but the end point supposed to be she cant get loads of money out of the guy, because he have redistributed it or hidden (forget the letter of law which is too much for this exercise to consider) and you, the father say: now he owns the resourcess, and he promised to take care of you for as long as you do not play foul with him.
You have the chocie to ask him to marry your daughter or not. Potentially meaning you're transferring the resources to the man that legally, is not a part of your familly.
In your case you played open cards with your ex, she got feminist pussy rabies and left.
In doubt: In my exercise man knows how to play the poker and keeps his card always to the chest.
Why this exercise?
I would like to know what do you think about putting in place your daughter, knowing the meat market and that she can change rapidly. And if she would, children raised in a broken familly will turn into a trash.
I've been trying to find a funny female comedian for years now. I've run across Ali Wong in my search and just didn't find her funny. So far only Tammy Tomlinson has a few good jokes. I think this has to do mostly with solipsism. When you ignore 50% of your audience, it makes for a very poor reception.
At the very start, when she announces that she is divorced, the crowd starts cheering. For a modern woman, marriage is a phase state. Its only a step on the journey to the higher plane, which is being divorced.
Simply put, modern women yearn for the status achieved by subjugating men. A modern wedding is simply the ritual humiliation of the husband to be. It is the ceremony of casteration. But its nothing to what is in store for the poor man.
The inevitable divorce is the crowing glory of the modern woman. Getting married is cool (proves to the world that she is so special that she was chosen by a man) but being in a marriage is embarssing for a women - how can she be truly a SIW if she is married?
The final stage is coming for Wong. Right now she can still get laid. There are plenty of desperate simps out there, or men with an asian fetish that will fuck her. But the wall waits for no woman.
The final stage is cats and wine. Or cats and whine.
I would qualify that by saying 'lots of good reasons to avoid marriage in the current socio / legal environment
The deal (of marriage) has change beyond all measure. Marriage now is simply a terrible deal for men. If we scroll back the clock to say, 1930, marriage was a good deal for both genders. Divorce was rare. Problems in the marriage were fixed by mutual agreement. Women were cared for, men were happier in a marriage. Mental health issues were rare.
The benefit of marriage in the modern world accrue only to one party - the women. And the results of having a lopsided deal are plain to see - we are seeing fewer marriages, people get married later, and the marriage lasts a shorter time. Birth rates are declining, we have a lonliness epidemic and a battalions of lonely, crazy karens wandering around suicidally depressed and alone.
I'm old, but my view on this , if I was a young guy.
I think in the the US at least.
Why would you marry, if you don't want kids? I mean, just No.
that's the first thing.
If you do want kids, ok, not getting married is not going to help you, you'll still have to pay.
Vet a girl for 2+ years. Observe her in different situations.
Is she loyal?
Is her past suspect?
Do her stories "change"?
Does she have debt?
Does she manage money well?
Is she stable/sane or her monthly period is a freakin drama rollercoaster?
Does she want to satisfy you or does she do the bare minimum and not really care what you want?
Does she have a career that she can pay her own way? Why? Because if you divorce, your alimony won't be bad, she can pay her own bills.
Does she add any value to your life, other than providing kids?
If you find a girl like this and marry her. Don't become a beta.
Be the leader, don't be afraid to fight with her on things you believe/want. F the happy wife happy life shit.
Lift heavy, stay in shape, keep your finances good, live below your means.
Keep your hobbies/activities or as much as you can while working with kids. Point being, have some fun. If it includes the family , fine. But do stuff for yourself also.
Assume , that even doing this, when the kids are in school age and can take care of themselves, she will find ways not to be happy.
Be prepared for a split at all times. If she's not taking care of you, then you should split.
Nothing worse than a roommate you can't fuck, but spends your money.
Prenups don't work. Forget about it. A prenup is just a piece of paper - most divorce hearings involving a prenup don't achiece anything except making the court hearings longer (my divorce lawyer charges £420 per hour). After they tear it up, everyone gets to hear how evil you are because you made her sign a prenup.
Prenups don't work. And once you have kids, you can wipe your ass with the prenup.
I read your reply with interest until I got to this bit;
"Does she have a career that she can pay her own way? Why? Because if you divorce, your alimony won't be bad, she can pay her own bills."
And then I burst into laughter so intense that it hurt. When the tears of mirth had subsided, some genuine tears of sadness rolled down my cheeks, to think that fellow men in the trenches might believe such a thing. That if she has a good career, you won't be financially raped???
What colour is the sky in your world dude? Is it nice?
Ask me how I know.
My ex wife earns about £400k annual, (thats British pounds, not USD), so more than me, and I'm still going to lose it all. The courts don't work the way you think they work. The only way to find this out is as you are getting raped.
I'm the USA, I did in fact get a divorce years ago , we had sons together.
I planned it for a few years, wasn't going to divorce until my boys were at age where t hey could decide who to live with, when, etc, courts stay out of it.
during those years, pushed for her to get a better paying job, kids are in school, no reason not to work and make money.
So, I created the spreadsheet for the divorce split, 50/50 , no alimony, no palimony. She made about 20% less than my income, but wasn't going to fight it because she could make more if she wanted to, her job is still pretty easy with good pay.
Do I still feel like she raped me? Yup, but that was the bad decision to marry her in the first place. In terms of finances, 50/50.
Too young and no red pill, no Internet to learn from.
Hope these young guys learn from it.
Yes, divorce very much depends upon where you live and if your wife decides to fight with a lawyer. Then the lawyers win and you both loose.
I planned for it the best I could.
Rule number 1 for americans that want to get married: don't get married in America.
Rule 0 - the divorce laws are retroactive. Dont trust divorce laws unless proven for a min of 50years in countries making up the 90% of world GDP, that they can be trusted.
That is the sidebar 101, with my personal conditions to change my mind.
I have to admit, I'm not up on the laws of all these countries but I"m pretty sure in Europe and such, divorce laws are probably as bad or worse than in USA. So, you have to go to Asia basically or middle east to get advantageous divorce laws.
I've been to much of asia, middle east. don't want to live their for sure. Don't want to move to "get married".
Ya, I'll say again, if you aren't interested in kids, Don't marry.
If you do want kids, ya, try to choose wisely, assume the worst and plan for it.
EugeneRider 3w ago
The most retarded and most disrespectful ALWAYS comes from an Asian woman!
Fuck these hoes!
SwarmShawarma 1mo ago
On a diffrent note.
Knowing current situation on the meat market.
Assume:
Would you pay a dude to secure his commitment (dowry)? And reward him for possible losses?Would you transfer some wealth to this dude and/or put the restrictions on the wealth inheritance, to increase the odds of your daughter to stay commited.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
No. As far as I can see, transfering wealth to the dude is what will cause the woman (your daughter) to want to divorce.
The more money on the table, the more women want to get divorced. The richer people are, the more they divorce. My first divorce as prompted by the GFC of 2008 - suddenly the banks all looked shaky. At the time, in the UK we only had £85k of deposit guarantee per person, per bank. (not per bank account). So I split as much as of my cash as I could across all the bank brands in the UK in lumps of ££85k each, and with the rest, but there were simply not enough bank brands (the deposit guarantee does not work if a bank owns another bank - there are actually fewer banks than you might think).
So I had to transfer a large sum to my wife, and I instructed her to split that out in sums of £85k amongst as many different bank brands as possible. As soon as she got the cash, she decided it was time to divorce. You might think I am stupid, but I had no reason to not trust her. We had 2 kids together. I trusted her with my life.
The cash was simply too much for her. Seeing a huge transfer hit her bank account was enough to start the ball rolling.
TLDR - you cannot convince women to not divorce rape you by having more money - the inverse is true.
SwarmShawarma 1mo ago
That is a rough story... Trully disgusting.
I was not overtly depictive in describing the situation. So many variables, but the end point supposed to be she cant get loads of money out of the guy, because he have redistributed it or hidden (forget the letter of law which is too much for this exercise to consider) and you, the father say: now he owns the resourcess, and he promised to take care of you for as long as you do not play foul with him.
You have the chocie to ask him to marry your daughter or not. Potentially meaning you're transferring the resources to the man that legally, is not a part of your familly.
In your case you played open cards with your ex, she got feminist pussy rabies and left.
In doubt: In my exercise man knows how to play the poker and keeps his card always to the chest.
Why this exercise?
I would like to know what do you think about putting in place your daughter, knowing the meat market and that she can change rapidly. And if she would, children raised in a broken familly will turn into a trash.
Would you trust a strange man to such extent.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
Dude, i would not trust my own daughter. The feminist rabies is uncontainable.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
I've been trying to find a funny female comedian for years now. I've run across Ali Wong in my search and just didn't find her funny. So far only Tammy Tomlinson has a few good jokes. I think this has to do mostly with solipsism. When you ignore 50% of your audience, it makes for a very poor reception.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
Topics for female comedians:
that is it. There are no other topics.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Divorce rape
Misandry
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
At the very start, when she announces that she is divorced, the crowd starts cheering. For a modern woman, marriage is a phase state. Its only a step on the journey to the higher plane, which is being divorced.
Simply put, modern women yearn for the status achieved by subjugating men. A modern wedding is simply the ritual humiliation of the husband to be. It is the ceremony of casteration. But its nothing to what is in store for the poor man.
The inevitable divorce is the crowing glory of the modern woman. Getting married is cool (proves to the world that she is so special that she was chosen by a man) but being in a marriage is embarssing for a women - how can she be truly a SIW if she is married?
The final stage is coming for Wong. Right now she can still get laid. There are plenty of desperate simps out there, or men with an asian fetish that will fuck her. But the wall waits for no woman.
The final stage is cats and wine. Or cats and whine.
First-light 1mo ago
Lots of good reasons to avoid marriage. Gentlemen, just say no.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
I would qualify that by saying 'lots of good reasons to avoid marriage in the current socio / legal environment
The deal (of marriage) has change beyond all measure. Marriage now is simply a terrible deal for men. If we scroll back the clock to say, 1930, marriage was a good deal for both genders. Divorce was rare. Problems in the marriage were fixed by mutual agreement. Women were cared for, men were happier in a marriage. Mental health issues were rare.
The benefit of marriage in the modern world accrue only to one party - the women. And the results of having a lopsided deal are plain to see - we are seeing fewer marriages, people get married later, and the marriage lasts a shorter time. Birth rates are declining, we have a lonliness epidemic and a battalions of lonely, crazy karens wandering around suicidally depressed and alone.
Both genders suffer when marriage is destroyed.
First-light 1mo ago
I agree. The concept of marriage is good. Western liberalism just ruined it for everyone for a few generations.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1mo ago
I'm old, but my view on this , if I was a young guy.
I think in the the US at least.
Why would you marry, if you don't want kids? I mean, just No.
that's the first thing.
If you do want kids, ok, not getting married is not going to help you, you'll still have to pay.
Vet a girl for 2+ years. Observe her in different situations.
Is she loyal?
Is her past suspect?
Do her stories "change"?
Does she have debt?
Does she manage money well?
Is she stable/sane or her monthly period is a freakin drama rollercoaster?
Does she want to satisfy you or does she do the bare minimum and not really care what you want?
Does she have a career that she can pay her own way? Why? Because if you divorce, your alimony won't be bad, she can pay her own bills.
Does she add any value to your life, other than providing kids?
If you find a girl like this and marry her. Don't become a beta.
Be the leader, don't be afraid to fight with her on things you believe/want. F the happy wife happy life shit.
Lift heavy, stay in shape, keep your finances good, live below your means.
Keep your hobbies/activities or as much as you can while working with kids. Point being, have some fun. If it includes the family , fine. But do stuff for yourself also.
Assume , that even doing this, when the kids are in school age and can take care of themselves, she will find ways not to be happy.
Be prepared for a split at all times. If she's not taking care of you, then you should split.
Nothing worse than a roommate you can't fuck, but spends your money.
SpiritualEnema 1mo ago
Make sure you both have lawyers present and sign a binding prenup.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1mo ago
I"m with Loneranger on this, prenups like almost anything in "law" can be overturned.
And he's correct, once kids come in to the picture, the prenup is toilet paper.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
Prenups don't work. Forget about it. A prenup is just a piece of paper - most divorce hearings involving a prenup don't achiece anything except making the court hearings longer (my divorce lawyer charges £420 per hour). After they tear it up, everyone gets to hear how evil you are because you made her sign a prenup.
Prenups don't work. And once you have kids, you can wipe your ass with the prenup.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
I read your reply with interest until I got to this bit;
"Does she have a career that she can pay her own way? Why? Because if you divorce, your alimony won't be bad, she can pay her own bills."
And then I burst into laughter so intense that it hurt. When the tears of mirth had subsided, some genuine tears of sadness rolled down my cheeks, to think that fellow men in the trenches might believe such a thing. That if she has a good career, you won't be financially raped???
What colour is the sky in your world dude? Is it nice?
Ask me how I know.
My ex wife earns about £400k annual, (thats British pounds, not USD), so more than me, and I'm still going to lose it all. The courts don't work the way you think they work. The only way to find this out is as you are getting raped.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1mo ago
I'm the USA, I did in fact get a divorce years ago , we had sons together.
I planned it for a few years, wasn't going to divorce until my boys were at age where t hey could decide who to live with, when, etc, courts stay out of it.
during those years, pushed for her to get a better paying job, kids are in school, no reason not to work and make money.
So, I created the spreadsheet for the divorce split, 50/50 , no alimony, no palimony. She made about 20% less than my income, but wasn't going to fight it because she could make more if she wanted to, her job is still pretty easy with good pay.
Do I still feel like she raped me? Yup, but that was the bad decision to marry her in the first place. In terms of finances, 50/50.
Too young and no red pill, no Internet to learn from.
Hope these young guys learn from it.
Yes, divorce very much depends upon where you live and if your wife decides to fight with a lawyer. Then the lawyers win and you both loose.
I planned for it the best I could.
AbusiveFather1 1mo ago
Rule number 1 for americans that want to get married: don't get married in America.
(Go to a country whose laws don't incentivize women to destroy families and take children away).
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
Dont get married in USA, UK, EU, Canada or Australia.
These countries have fucked up the family beyond repair. We have cut off our own dicks, and are are now just trans faggots playing in our own poop.
SwarmShawarma 1mo ago
Rule
0- the divorce laws are retroactive. Dont trust divorce laws unless proven for a min of 50years in countries making up the 90% of world GDP, that they can be trusted.That is the sidebar 101, with my personal conditions to change my mind.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1mo ago
I hear this from the passport bro group.
I have to admit, I'm not up on the laws of all these countries but I"m pretty sure in Europe and such, divorce laws are probably as bad or worse than in USA. So, you have to go to Asia basically or middle east to get advantageous divorce laws.
I've been to much of asia, middle east. don't want to live their for sure. Don't want to move to "get married".
Ya, I'll say again, if you aren't interested in kids, Don't marry.
If you do want kids, ya, try to choose wisely, assume the worst and plan for it.
AbusiveFather1 1mo ago
Eastern Europe is okay. Middle East and Asia is the best for marriage laws. Latin America can be okay too.
There are very safe places in Middle East and in Asia, if you do your research. Turkey is a nice option.
However, all countries are going down America’s path of retarded laws and the destruction of family unit, some at a slower pace than others.
PS. Yes, Western Europe is trash for marriage laws