From the reddit and perhaps the most powerful excerpt from it on an incredibly humble end-of-relationship post about frame and choices with women:

My instinct to help her build a healthy relationship was actually a form of covert negotiation. I was trying to enter her life as a guide or teacher, assuming that she would see the value of my insight and reward me for it. But women respond to genuine, self-contained strength, not covert contracts where you “help” them and expect that they’ll become the ideal partner for you with your guidance. I let go of the idea that it was my job to save her from making mistakes or choosing men who didn’t set boundaries. That’s her lesson to learn. The Red Pill awareness is about internalizing the reality that I cannot “fix” or “save” anyone from their own choices. Women are fully capable of understanding the consequences of their actions, even if they are emotionally immature, but they will only do so when faced with those consequences—not because a man steps in to warn or shield them from themselves.

When it comes to boundaries, setting them doesn’t mean trying to change others; it means knowing what I am willing to accept and holding to that standard regardless of their response. By remaining grounded in my values, I position myself as the kind of man who has his own frame. It’s essential to accept that not everyone will fit into that frame, and that’s okay.

Give the full post a read: quarantine bypass