Original Article from Washington Post
Highlights From The Article:
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"Women, when asked in a study to judge photos of men's bodies, rated the strongest men as the most attractive. Height and leanness were appealing attributes, too, but strength played an outsize role in the ratings of a man's torso, per a report published Tuesday in the Proceedings of the Royal Society B."
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"There was no nuance to these results, he said. Zero of the 160 women surveyed showed a statistical preference for weaker men."
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"The researchers also discovered a linear relationship between a man's rated strength and his attractiveness. “What really explains the lion’s share in attractiveness is how strong a man looks,” Lukaszewski said."
- "The study authors described a strong body as a signal, one our ancient ancestors would have understood: This is a healthy individual with a hearty immune system, the ripped body suggests, someone who can devote calories to building muscle rather than fighting off germs. Strength was also an “indicator of one’s ability to provide material and social benefits,” Lukaszewski said. In this interpretation, a strong man has value as a potential protector of women and children and is desired by other men as an ally."
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I know, as if we needed another post promoting the reasons to lift. The results are astoundingly clear. Women prefer stronger men, duh. Something we all know.
What's funny is the article brings in another person not involved with the study to critique it. Obviously, there are other factors involved in attractiveness but its hard to ignore how obvious strength is in the equation.
It is still surprising the number of BP guys who refute this, talk about game, etc as a substitute for hitting the gym. Really if you at all care about attracting women, you can't ignore this.
Conclusion: CONTINUE LIFTING.
EDIT: from u/corsega - Here is the fulltext: http://sci-hub.tw/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819
corsega 7y ago
Here is the fulltext: http://sci-hub.tw/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819
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bob13bob 7y ago
there is flaws in any study. imo, standing side by side women like tall men more than buff. it's harder to tell that from invidual photos. It's the sam reason we get sex symbol men in movies who are shorties.
no social proof/status, no communication skills, no shit tests. this is straight physical attraction which is only one part of it.
Cunari 7y ago
Then women should find muscles like back and legs more attractive and not biceps as that has more to do with overall body strength.
Lefort9000 7y ago
Lifting will pretty much always improve your attractiveness to girls (unless you get "too big", which is only gonna happen through heavy steroid use), but this study didn't take into account facial attractiveness. A more realistic study would've included the guys' faces to be rated.
Nerian99 7y ago
This doesn't refute charm and personality as a major factor. It only shows that being strong is attractive. All things the same being lean and strong is better, but a woman is going to be judging you on a lot more than that in real life. It also is ambiguous about whether or not there's a point of diminishing returns. I know for a fact women aren't swapping photos of fat powerlifters on their girly forums. In sum, yes lift weights, but it's not everything. 3-5 hours a week is more than enough. That leaves a lot of time. Most of your time should be spent on other things, money, social status, game, if you want to maximize your attractiveness. A lot of guys erroneously get obsessed with lifting as the panacea. They will take this study as meaning the more they deadlift the more girls they'll get. So he'll spend his life in the gym surrounded by large sweaty men grunting. Meanwhile the skinny musician guy is actually talking to girls and making their panties wet with his voice. The way I see it, get your noob gains, go to the gym 2-3 times a week, and move on with your life. Better to have 10 factors at 80% than 1 at 150%. My arms are 'dyel' mode to bodybuilder cultists, but are described as 'nice' by girls. You don't need much for a girl to be eye balling your arm as you fuck her. We are men. We put on muscle easily. Don't compare yourself to other men who lift, compare yourself to the average, and to women. If your arm is no bigger than a random girl's arm then you look like a girl, which is not attractive to a woman who is attracted to men. But it's pretty easy to fix that. As a man, muscle is your birth right, it's only a modern lifestyle that robs you of it. This is what women's brains evolved to expect to see: https://imgur.com/6mpo6yB - This guy doesn't lift weights, he just lives his life.
DerekDiablo 7y ago
I'm good-looking, ripped, and jacked. Plenty of Guys down here in South Florida scraping the bottom of the barrel while dudes who are fat with no looks smash more, not always because of Money... But in general, yes. Women can't Intellectualize a bunch of hard Muscle in their face...
00Spartacus 7y ago
Post a picture of your face with a time stamp.
99% of guys on here who claim to be good looking are at best, 5/10 material. Either that or your a manlet.
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00Spartacus 7y ago
Quite possibly the most desperate attempt at deflection i've ever seen.
So much for "good looking, ripped and jacked".
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JamzeNeu 7y ago
This is on the top of r science right now. The comment section is really salty. SJWs calling evolutionary psychology a pseudo science.lol Also, a lot of censorship of truth going on.
fromdario 7y ago
It’s the same people who say gender has nothing to do with biology... OK, by all means, go ahead and enjoy your girlfriend’s penis.
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[deleted] 7y ago
And I hate when people misuse the term "gender" when what they really mean is "sex," which is the only term that really means something biologically.
pussyaficianado 7y ago
The term gender started out as a polite way not to say the word sex, and then it was conscripted via social construct to mean something else.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
Remember when organic was a chemistry term?
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The problem I have with the pseudo science label is that just because something doesn't chalk up as 100% accurate all the time doesn't mean it's necessarily untrue.
Like women obviously prefer your typical chadly hunk to some string bean beta STEM nerd.. But once in a while you have a chick that prefers scrawny beta guys like a guy might prefer a BBW to a regular healthy sized woman or small tits over big tits.
But the vast majority of men still prefer a woman who's normal size with a nice rack.
Scientists can't agree on jack shit about anything. They're all always fighting and science results in more failures than "proving things".
Pseudoscience is just a hot word liberals and generally annoying people use to tune out anything that might hurt their feelings or cause them to question what they know.
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
Not likely. One of my plates is a huge nerd and a 6 at best. She gets wet when she feels my lats.
Praise broseidon for my easy back gains.
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Let me rephrase that.. Once in a while you have a chick that tells herself she prefers a scrawny beta guy.
king_of_red_alphas 7y ago
I wouldn’t say liberals have the market cornered on science denial although they have come up with some of the more ridiculous ones lately.
pussyaficianado 7y ago
Idk, I think vaccination leading to autism is the most ridiculous one and that seems to cross the political divide from the most natural conscious hippies to the weirdest religious nutbags.
king_of_red_alphas 7y ago
Lol. True.dat.
The conspiracy theory shit also knows no political boundary.
arthurabyssal 7y ago
https://youtu.be/bo7WXnHMEyg
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[deleted] 7y ago
The most illuminating part of the study was the correlation between perceived and actual strength.
The study was not subtle. These were all college girls. The important thing about lifting is not just you're "more attractive" but that you're also more appealing to women who are down to fuck.
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FromTheFarSouth 7y ago
Interestingly, this study made in 2013 found that the attractiveness of height and penis size was linear as well.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
They're not talking about super roid warriorrs, they're talking about the natural Zyzz wannabes who are small and shredded vs powerlifter/linebacker types
pussyaficianado 7y ago
There probably is, but the people recruited were 30 kids from the college gym, and 120 or 160 kids from a psychology class. No one probably met roof super sized body level. The authors (of the article maybe or maybe not the study authors) speculated as much that there would be an upper limit.
michael_wilkins 7y ago
I would theorise it is when you no longer look healthy.
Attractiveness is designed around genes, so once you start to look unnnatural your attractiveness would plummet.
[deleted] 7y ago
There is definitely a limit, which is what the bloopies use to hamster away not working out at all.
Spitballing here......what's a similarity between supersized silicon tits and supersized roid bodies? Neither are natural, nor particularly healthy looking.
antariusz 7y ago
The problem is, you can’t just “accidentally” get too big.
I’m currently at 5’8” 200 lbs, and I’m in the middle of my 4th prohormone cycle over the past few years (long breaks in-between. If I was completely natural I’d be closer to 180. I’m still not anywhere near “freakazoid” levels. The amount of work and dedication AND appropriate chemical enhancement is challenging and takes a toll.
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PantsonFire1234 7y ago
Think of it like this. Women like tall guys so the shorter you are the less massive you can be before it looks weird. Especially if you have a short torso. Generally there's even such a thing as 'to tall' for women so there certainly is something as to massive. But this will vary from bitch to bitch. The most low IQ bimbo whores will obviously desire some level of roided up bro's and/or basketball height dudes. But those should not be the women for you to aim LTR with. If you want to bang them don't worry, they will full normal proportioned guys to.
sadomasochrist 7y ago
Myth of the good girl, Rollo, read it.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
I already did, what's your point?
sadomasochrist 7y ago
Your post is what that essay was trying to address.
You could rephrase it if you find those women less attractive, but they still operate the same.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
My comment is about how women have varying tastes of masculine bodies. So long as they are masculine. As it was a reply to some guys wondering if there was such a thing as to big.
Guys have this to btw. We like big tits, wide hips, thick legs and full butts. But nothing to big or to small. So if I'm not misunderstanding you, I can't see the connections with TRM's original post.
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DextroShade 7y ago
In other news, water is wet.
[deleted] 7y ago
just lol if you still ain't bloatmaxxing
Starfuckingman 7y ago
This might be hamstering from my part, or perhaps not but the context of this post feels like its saying ''hey women like that, let's do it''. While I have no issue with that whatsoever nor any problem with the post but when it comes to lifting, especially lifting, I always want it to stem from a mad need for getting strong and disciplined and invincible. Its becoming one of my most self-healing things I've ever done in my entire life, it putted me on the equal grounds of real men and gave me a chance to be virtuous and kind out of strength. Its becoming a like a holy thing for me that I'd never for a second degrade it by the idea of doing it to get some pussy. But hey, don't let my overdramatizing get to you. Wanna dem muscle to get that ass, sure bro. Have a good day.
fromdario 7y ago
Appreciate the input. You're not wrong. My orientation on the post was sexual strategy/selection. I agree that becoming disciplined and putting your health, strength and fitness first because it's good for you is a worthier motivation than just to get laid.
maplemaximus 7y ago
It would have been a better study if they showed strong men with under average faces, and pretty boys with weak or lean bodies. Then we'd know the real facts.
TheBloodEagleX 7y ago
The person who was involved in the study talked about faces a bit and said that surprising women overall prefer a more "babyface" rather than "strong" face. So they prefer a strong body with a Justin Bieber type of face or something.
Found the bit:
wracky272 7y ago
Does that mean pretty boys won't benefit from having strong bodies? To quote the great Mark Bell: "Strength is never a weakness."
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pussyaficianado 7y ago
I believe that was a different study being referenced, for this one they blurred out the faces and only showed the upper body.
wracky272 7y ago
I don't understand why this is relevant. Strong body is always a plus despite what one's face looks like. There is no reason to be weak-- just laziness and denial.
cas_999 7y ago
Strength can become a weakness, look at some bodybuilders
pussyaficianado 7y ago
"Bro when you tack on mass, you sacrifice flexibility."
"Touch your toes."
"What am I, a gymnast?"
k-ma 7y ago
Yes. Look at male k-pop stars, they thrive off their skinny “cute” looks
yomo86 7y ago
These guys are still aesthetically pleasing. Plus herd mentality. A woman will challenge her own biology just to conform with the herd thus ensuring the support of the herd increasing her chance of survival back in the day.
FractalNerve 7y ago
I don't know kpop, but this sounds like a false assumption. You don't find such "famous people" in your random bar next door. Fame can create the illusion of a strong frame to an audience of "believers" who don't know better. Also fame enhances collective herd behavior.
freeman_c14 7y ago
You're right, i do follow the kpop scene and one of the problems with these "flower boys" is unless they are really really famous they struggle getting appearances on variety shows and etc because they are most of the time shy, subservient,etc and this makes them not shine on TV which in Korea is still the best place to build your fame/image.
And it's funny because on their movies and soap operas when they want to sell this feminine look the protagonist compensates that by being overly masculine.
TaylorWolf 7y ago
That's a lot of young girl fans though... girls who would be into Justin Beiber over here (when he first blew up at least)
They grow out of that once they lose their innocence and realize what a scary place the world can be. Then they want a real man by their side.
banjew 7y ago
You know Justin Beiber is ripped as fuck nowadays.
TaylorWolf 7y ago
Of course that's why I said when he first blew up
yumyumgivemesome 7y ago
I've noticed this pattern when seeing a guy's progress pics on r_fitness and r_progresspics... The dude's face becomes multiple times more attractive. Why? Because a chiseled face is part of the classical definition of a handsome male face. Therefore, just by being in great shape, a man's face is far more likely to be classically handsome.
richpianoooo 7y ago
dude thats me i was 92kgs and im around 83 84kgs now and holy shit the difference between then and now in how woman look at me is night and day fml i should of done this sooner hahahah
fromdario 7y ago
This.
From my own experience doing a wide range of diet/exercise programs to change body composition & fitness goals...
The most positive in terms of female response was when I did a big cut and dropped to like 8% BF. "Face gains" were noticeable, no longer the swollen jacked up powerlifter face.
Very obvious increase in attention/looks from females. Even though, I was much smaller looking in clothes. It has been so positive that I have been following a Lean Gains protocol ever since. I'd rather slowly bulk while keeping the BF low than bulk/cut and have to dead with a fatter head during the bulk phase.
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nattyX 7y ago
Because different people have different goals? Are you lifting to become more "attractive" or are you lifting to get stronger or hit a 405 DL?
coco5440 7y ago
This! The problem with bulking and cutting is that its a lot easier to bulk than it is to cut.
nattyX 7y ago
No, you have this reversed.
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fromdario 7y ago
Yea, I have a bunch of friends who have been lifting for years.
They are all bulky but none of them look like they hit the gym, even though they are pretty strong.
At the beach, you can't tell they are putting in 4-5 days at the gym, because they have such a high BF% that any muscle definition is obscured.
I'm happy they are being active but to me it seems like a waste if you can't even see your results. Maybe that's just me tho.
All-DayErrDay 7y ago
So more stuff for you to whine about.
maplemaximus 7y ago
No, to see if strength is what makes a man most attractive.
Torabor64 7y ago
Why would they do that? Then you wouldn't know anything. You can only change one variable to draw a conclusion. Isn't this common sense?...
clme 7y ago
Imagine a 2 by 2 matrix with four categories:
It's a no brainer that women would most prefer (C) and least prefer (B). But the interesting unanswered question is whom would they choose to fuck if the choice were between males from categories (A) versus (D) only.
InstigatingDrunk 7y ago
this is a perfect illustration OP was making. A vs D is where things get interesting lol
Torabor64 7y ago
You definitively aren't experienced in science, I see.
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I think face & weak body would win lol
ThePwnter 7y ago
I've seen plenty really hot girls who are with jacked dudes that have the faces of a inbred retard. From my life experiences, I'd definitely say they would go with bad face good body. Their biology determines what is attractive to them, and outside of perfect symmetry and physical likeness, faces will play a smaller role to other more important determinants.
FractalNerve 7y ago
Same, I agree. Have seen ugly scarred and even childishly stupid, but huge steroid pumped guys blast 9s. Even though they were turned of from the bad grammar and language use, they still followed lead. I kid you not, that guy believed he could be a model. Well, whatever pushes his ego.. A and C are the only types who can get 9s without effort in general. Quit the hate.
StudntRdyTeachrApear 7y ago
Keep telling yourself that facelet
ThePwnter 7y ago
Sounds like you have excuses not to lift, cause someone is better looking than you. Too sad.
StudntRdyTeachrApear 7y ago
I lift all the time. Wtf are you even talking about?
PaulAJK 7y ago
Every single guy who upvoted this comment doesn't lift.
StudntRdyTeachrApear 7y ago
I made this comment and I lift more than you.
PaulAJK 7y ago
OK, MOST guys who upvoted your comment don't lift.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
Or they thought it was funny
lighten up
JuicySosa300 7y ago
Who decides how attractive a face is? That isnt as measurable
ozaku7 7y ago
That is some nice research but the written conclusion is totally bullshit. Visually speaking, a man is supposed to be muscly, a woman is supposed to be curvy. Curvier ass, bigger tits, more defined feminine face, everything is a female feature with a degree of intensity on a scale from 1 to 10. Small tits? 3. Huge tits? 10 on the feminine intensity scale.
A man is supposed to have muscles, facial hair growth, deep voice. Gender Attribute Intensity is where it's at. Are you attracted to a average fishstick type of woman with no curves, or one with a toned body from daily fitness and big tits? Obviously, women are not attracted to the male version of fishsticks, but men with big muscles that make them manly.
1+1=2, never have I ever heard a woman say "Oh my god, that guy looks so milky white and slim from being months locked up voluntarily in his basement playing WoW, my panties are so wet right now for him" and neither have any of you. We want tits, ass, fit body and pussy with a cute face, women want muscles, a big dick, a strong deep voice and a firm personality. End of story. Fucking politically correct published research.
SpottyDam 7y ago
I look milky white even when I've been out in the sun for an hour. Twats will never make me feel bad about my natural, god given skin color.
ozaku7 7y ago
A full hour, that's an achievement right there!
pfffft_comeon 7y ago
That's it. Also why balding (shave it) and a hairy back don't matter. Just lift.
ozaku7 7y ago
If you bald, own it. Shave your entire fucking head if you have to.
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Yea what an idiotic conclusion to draw. Women aren't ripped - are their immune systems not working? Don't men want women with strong immune systems too? They just don't want the obvious answer, that being ripped made men better at war, hunting, and climbing their internal dominance hierarchy, to be true. Why don't they want it to be true? Because they are all likely physically weak males. Science is so corrupted by leftists.
ozaku7 7y ago
It has nothing to do with an immune system. It's just the most political correct conclusion to make. Males are muscles, women are curves. Big ass and big tits correlates to a man with big muscles and facial hair. Amplified gender differences are attractive, point. You can't say that because assless, titless, and muscleless facial hairless men will take offense and society will be in an uproar about the reality they are facing on a daily basis and are in permanent denial.
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I was agreeing with you, not arguing.
MattyAnon Admin 7y ago
Strong is attractive.
But so is leanness. Women cannot gauge male strength very effectively if the muscles are covered in fat.
Don't take away from this that you can just lift and be strong and not have to lose any weight.
Bodyfat is beta.
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I used to see these studies where they would say that sometimes women prefer men with effeminate faces and I'd just laugh.
fromdario 7y ago
I remember these, apparently it has to do with hormonal cycles.
Specifically, women on the pill vs not on the pill.
Women off the pill preferred more masculine faces, because they were fertile and ready to mate, so they wanted the strongest genes.
Women on the pill wanted more feminine faces because the pill tricks the women's body into thinking she is pregnant (or something like that) so she wanted someone more nurturing to take care of kid with.
The pill really really fucks with a chick's hormones. I have to say I prefer women who don't take it.
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Well that's fucked up. From a personal point of view - I love the pill. From a broader point of view, the pill really messed up our society. It destroyed the traditional relation between the sexes and now it is making women prefer metros? Goddamn.
fromdario 7y ago
Yea it really did. I prefer women not on it simply because of my experience dating women who took it, much bigger mood swings, more emotional. Noticeably so. Only after a fair amount of dating experience did I start to put that together and realize the connection.
shadymcyoloswaggins 7y ago
The problem with this is that it is simplistic and within a vacuum. Yes, of course, we know that if the only difference is musculoskeletal structure then musculoskeletal structure is the deciding factor. Water is wet.
But; if you were to show a ripped guy lying on a bit of cardboard next to a bunch of used needles wearing shabby clothes and a junkie girlfriend Vs a skinny/fat guy next to a Lambo with a briefcase in hand with a couple gorgeous babes. Then what. We all know the answer would be.
Why? Well ask yourself this; which man would you do business with? Which man would you break bread with? Which man would you defer to? Which man would you want as a father?
Is it that women define male success based on male perception rather than their own. Is the only reason Hollywood degenerates and beta beibers so popular because of there vouching of dominance by other men (determined by other men's willingness to dedicate their own resources).
How does this impact men when men go around calling each other bitches, beta, geeks etc. What do we think of a female geek? Is that really projected as an insult? Why do men shit where they eat so much?
We know that divide and conquer has been used for millennia. Red pill Vs blue pill, Communism Vs capitalism, mods Vs rockers, hippies Vs the man, Nazi's Vs allies, Rome Vs the barbarians. This psychological tendency aides our survival at times. How could it be used against us?
Jesus Christ never worshipped anyone, Buddha never followed anyone, Chad doesn't copy Chad. TRP IS NOT 'the red pill', it is a Bible, it is part of the matrix, it is the apple, it is heaven and hell. It is not THE way. It is A way. What is YOUR way?
Hands up who knows someone blue pill. Hands up who respects them?
Now I know that starts on point and soon goes becomes galactic meta but I am fed up seeing what once was a great tool and resource for men yet again become a deified cult which only weakens men. Also if you masterbate you are a loser/s
*Pressed save to early
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
It would be both. The ripped guy for the babies and the rich guy to pay for it. Sidebar son.
shadymcyoloswaggins 7y ago
If you read my whole post then you would realise you've proved my point; I never answered the question! Why did you answer it on my behalf? Why did you answer it in the negative? Does it make you feel good to imagine people to be inferior? When you call other girls ugly does it make you feel pretty? Do you think an alpha feels the need to do this? Can you objectively say that YOU have fully internalised the sidebar?
Did you even watch the link?
Also; you are incorrect with the sidebar suggestion as it clearly states in the rules that the sidebar should be read at least once before commenting. You should direct people to the rules if you believe they have not read and internalised the sidebar and are commenting.
Finally; I know what you implying when you say 'son' so I will leave it on this note "when the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser".
CHIPPENDALESIXNINE 7y ago
Keep in mind the Pic posted is likely similar to what the women were shown or thought of when referring to strength. Too many guys wanna be in bulking season all year long and never get lean. Also, if you're natural and want to keep abs, this is likely your genetic limit for size.
fromdario 7y ago
Yea if you are natural (i.e. not juicing, etc) there really is a limit and it takes a lot of work to hit it. This is a photo from the 50s Mr. Universe finalists, before steroid use. Pretty much the upper limit for natural.
TuscanNash 7y ago
This should shock nobody at all.
Hillarysdilddo_2016 7y ago
Hahaha. Literally, not even once.
Of course they bring in someone to critique the results. It's the Washington compost... SJW CIA shill Jeff Bezos' personal blog.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Jeff Bezos has been lifting and pinning HGH my guy. He looks like an Israeli gun runner now: http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/07/15/01/424C490A00000578-0-Swole_con_Valley_-a-15_1500079233545.jpg
LazyA1 7y ago
Amazing how much more attractive $50 Billion makes a man.
https://pics.onsizzle.com/1998-2017-i-sell-books-versus-i-sell-whatever-the-25408490.png
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Shit son, talk about it. If I had a few billions I'd get wings surgically implanted in my back to fly, I'd then buy a large yacht and move to the moon.
Hillarysdilddo_2016 7y ago
Haha. That's because he probably is now with that $600mm CIA contract money. Good for him turning the world into cucks.
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alphasquatch50 7y ago
So Eddie Hall must be drowning in pussy.
Gaullic 7y ago
I'm pretty sure we've known this since forever.
Overkillengine 7y ago
"B-but a shredded physique is just a male power fantasy!!"
The inevitable refrain by some weakling in skinny jeans wishing to justify how they are "different" from "all those other guys".
fromdario 7y ago
Reminds me of a guy I know...
Him, his girlfriend and I were leaving a party at the same time and happened to be parked in the same lot a couple blocks away. Not the nicest area for sure.
His GF is walking closer to me. He notices and complains (yes he whined about it) that she isn't walking with him. Her response was ice cold and went something like: "This is a dangerous area and he's more of a man". I shit you not.
EDIT: I forgot what his verbal response was, but I do remember he just started doing some goofy "ninja moves" as a joke. She did laugh - at him.
00Spartacus 7y ago
Amazing that people actually believe you.
SpottyDam 7y ago
That's stupid though. Somebody sticks a gun in your face it doesn't matter how much you bench or how long you've been training MMA. One squeeze of the trigger and you're a dead piece of meat on the sidewalk.
And I don't know about anybody else here. But I sure as hell am not going to risk my own life to protect some twat.
daringdeviljackass 7y ago
Good for you man. Continue lifting and tap that
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LORD-THUNDERCUNT 7y ago
I would've killed myself if that were me
ThickDickWarrior89 7y ago
Are you related to lord thunderbolt?
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ThePwnter 7y ago
Come on, you can't leave us hanging like that. What happened after she said that?
fromdario 7y ago
Oh God, it was bad, I forgot what he said, but I do remember he just started doing some goofy "ninja moves" as a joke. She did laugh - at him.
ThePwnter 7y ago
So did you two ever hook up after?
fromdario 7y ago
No. I was not attracted to her and as a result didn't try anything. Thinking back, curious to see what she would have done had I made a move.
ThickDickWarrior89 7y ago
Lmfao nice I’d be embarrassed for him
fromdario 7y ago
I was. I don't she think she realized how much of an insult it was.
TunedtoPerfection 7y ago
Yes she did, he invited a shit test by being a bitch. She served up a classic, not in anyway original, plain shit test. He did ninja moves, she lost more respect for him and probably denied him sex when they got back home.
fromdario 7y ago
The ninja moves were very cringe.
brotein_synthesis 7y ago
I would drop that bitch there and then.
fromdario 7y ago
Yea I mean, I was trying to think of how to recover from this if I were him. What on earth could you say as a response back to that.
mummersfarce_is_done 7y ago
In chess, you can find yourself in situations that no matter how masterful you can be in your tactics right now you will still lose because you made a set of misplays 10 moves ago.
brotein_synthesis 7y ago
Literally nothing, it's the meanest insult possible - mocking his masculinity. Situations like these make or break people.
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fromdario 7y ago
Haha, nice! I went to Universal a couple years ago. GF wanted to do the Walking Dead thing where they jump out at you. To be honest all those things popping out put me on edge, I nearly clocked one of the guys in costume when he startled me.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
When I was a kid (maybe 8), my grandpa put on a buffalo skin costume with a cape and lept out at us on Halloween...I got him right in the jaw on reflex. I felt so bad afterwards.
Chaddeus_Rex 7y ago
Hahaha. That reminds of a time when I went to Madame tousseads and I clocked a zombie on the nose that jumped out to close too me.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
sounds like u belong in the Foreverchest subreddit
Chaddeus_Rex 7y ago
Foreverchest? Has the potential to be hilarious or stupid from the name.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
With a name like yours, you'd be a great fit there.
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Those voluntarily remaining weak drive the bitches into my arms. I humbly thank you, whoever you are.
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LordThunderbolt 7y ago
The article clearly speaks against shredded physiques and more in favor of powerlifter physiques
vwibrasivat 7y ago
The claim is that the stronger men are more attractive, not the men who are "shredded".
You should immediately know this is not scientific. Stronger men are olympic weightlifters. They are chubby, stalky, and look like a barrel chested lumberjack competing in the Strong Man Competition held in South Africa.
Indeed, the model who appears in the article itself has engaged in body building practices of ketosis. He reduced his subcautaneous bodyfat, giving him the "ripped" look. What you called "shredded".
An olympic weightlifter could grab the little "shredded" prettyboy by the hair and toss him across the room. Because weightlifters are significantly STRONGER. No way that roided weighylifters at the Strong Man contest with names "Olaf Rassmussen", are more attractive than apollonion guys like Zyzz.
thisishowiwrite 7y ago
Dude do you even read? They did strength tests. Those men rated highly also tested highly for strength.
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To be fair, it is about male power, it's just not a fantasy I doubt you'd disagree.
I picture a continuum from peacock to elk......peacock's strut for the good lady's attention, and elk beat the shit out of each other to settle the matter.....in both cases, the female is riding herd on male power dynamics.
Overkillengine 7y ago
Oh aye, it is just that the connotation being used in that phrase is a way to imply that it is an entirely self centered impulse on the part of the male in which the female bears no fault or responsibility for encouraging.
I mean, how dare those men notice what my precious snowflake likes and put in the effort to provide it? Misogyny! Patriarchy! /hipster
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Yep, I thought we were on the same page....I know my life improved once I just started focusing on self improvement. Damn, that sounded like a tautology, but I'll tell you what, it's an upward spiral. I get my ass handed to me more often than not on the mat, but everywhere else I'm a tough son of a bitch.
I recently went climbing and a friend of my climbing buddy came along...she was a hard core feminist, working on her PhD in Geography, very interested in the whole LBTG thing....I'll tell you what, though, she watched me struggle up that pitch past fear, right at the edge of my abilities...and I swear to FSM, she was wetter than May.
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Chachenhouser 7y ago
Is it bad that I wear skinny jeans to keep my legs insulated in 40 degree weather?
MarvelousWhale 7y ago
If you could squat at least 2 plates then you'd have enough muscle to not need "insulation"
Sounds like an excuse to wear your sisters pants bro
Chachenhouser 7y ago
They are my jeans. And they seen skin tight either, at all. I do skip leg exercises in favor of upper body workouts. I guess that's where the problem stems from.
HillarysCell-mate 7y ago
Squat 3 plate for reps, and I still wear pretty skinny jeans. If you’re young you can pull it off
Chachenhouser 7y ago
I am oddly young. I'm only in early high school
Elatea 7y ago
study:"men find tits attractive"
blue_27 7y ago
I ... volunteer for the continuation of this study.
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yomo86 7y ago
Makes sense. All male sexual fetishes are condensed and perversely exaggerated version of vanilla sex and attraction.
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
They have a preference for size. But all men like tits.
-Former ass man
Marsupian 7y ago
Nah man all dudes are attracted to nice round firm tits. If it signal health and firtility your dick wants to smash dat ass. That finer detail and personal taste talk is bullshit. Don't act like men are special and aren't driven by biological instinct.
nebder 7y ago
My man, you’re saying the same thing as the person brought in to critique the article. You’re connecting dots that aren’t there attempting to attribute them to men and denigrate women at the same time.
Attraction is a biological function and you backfill (hamster) any other qualities the person has as part of what makes them attractive. The cute guy is funny, the funny guy isn’t always cute.
Yes there are variations within specifics of attraction. The baselines are the same. T&A for dudes, strength for gals. These are the biological indicators that represent reproductive fitness. Anything else is icing on the cake.
PUA spikes emotional routines that bypass these biological filters because we are conscious animals. There’s no such thing as PUA in the animal kingdom. It’s straight biology there.
TheyCallMeVinny 7y ago
Lul, it’s my god given right to denigrate women.
samenrofringslikeLBJ 7y ago
I agree with your critique, if you are with a woman with great tits and a weak ass, then you are gonna say "I prefer tits" to hamster out the difference. No argument there. But, I am arguing that the 0 deviation found indicates AWALT while men from an evolutionary standpoint are much more varied in taste. It would be disastruous for the species if men all had the same objective beauty standard because our job is to fuck anything that lets us. That doesn't mean that a landwhale haggard catlady can be attractive to some people, beauty is UNIVERSAL, but not OBJECTIVE for men. For women, since they are the selection pressure on the species, beauty is both universal and objective or we would let some unwanted males reproduce.
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RP085 7y ago
There was a book, I don't remember if it was Kezia Noble's, or Marni [Something]'s book called "Get Inside Her", but it was written by a woman so I think it was one of those two.
The author says an activity was done (can't remember if the author organized it or someone else) in which a group of women (can't remember how many; a workshop full of them?) were asked to write down a list of all the desirable attributes/qualities they would want in an ideal man.
Then they were asked to narrow that list down to 15 attributes. Then 10. Then 5, and so on, and finally narrow it down to 1.
The attribute chosen by them all was: Strength.
Garathon 7y ago
Tbf strength can have multiple meanings. Mental strength, strength of frame etc.
RP085 7y ago
Yes, I do agree with that and that's how I interpreted it.
It's the strength in general that moves a male up in rank/hierarchy, surpassing other males; the strength that makes the one at the top (the alpha) be there. The strength in your energy, and physically, frame, influence, status, etcetera.
Essexal 7y ago
And some motherfuckers fell for ‘women love the dad bod’.
Good luck with your rolls motherfuckers. By the time I’m 40, ripped, with enough disposable time and income to do what I wish, it won’t even be a competition anymore.
Tachyon9 7y ago
The thing about the dad bod is that guys can be strong as fuck with extra meat on them. I've never seen a woman point out just a fat guy and call them attractive. But I know plenty of woman that are all about guys built like gorillas. They have a bit of a gut and aren't lean, but they could still pick up a refrigerator.
fromdario 7y ago
Yup...
It's funny, lots of my married friends pushing for settling down.
I'm happy you enjoy your family but don't push that shit on me.
At a BBQ one day I just spoke my mind on this, "I'm in my 30s and regularly take women away from guys in their early 20s. When this stops being the norm maybe I'll start looking to settle down."
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
And you were never invited out again.
sadomasochrist 7y ago
Rule 38 "still looking for that special girl to spend forever with."
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
Not by the men in their 20s, or women in their 30s, anyway.
nebder 7y ago
Wanna know a secret? 5-10 185 nearing 40. Not having a gut alone puts you in the top 25%. Having visible pecs and shoulders/traps bumps you into the top 15%. Now your only competition is those very few other guys in the gym at your age range.
I’m likely 18% bf. I still carry a bit of lovehandle and just a bit of bellybutton fat naked. I’m thin enough to see my abs lines, but not cut enough to see my abs definition. I look thin and strong in shirts. Obviously pick the shirts that are tight across the shoulders and chest.
It’s a fucking cakewalk man. Cougars eat me up. Young girls 18-21 (that are into older guys, maybe 25-40%) get all smiley and awkward around me. It’s fucking awesome. Hail to the king baby. I love life now.
The only people that complain about getting older are the ones that let themselves go to utter shit. Fuck your dadbod.
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nebder 7y ago
You’re not entirely wrong. I always had a babyface, now i don’t look almost 40. My face looks experienced, not old even with some graying patches in the beard. Got lucky there, I smoke and drink like a fish. Those two behaviors will fuck up most people.
I am disciplined now. Lost a ton of weight and look much better. Paid for that with stretch marks and persistent fat deposits in the handles and belly. Damn good but not killer is where I am especially given the competition these days.
My flaws are considerably less than everyone else. It works out for me well. Effort I put in getting here is worth every minute of it.
Shaved my head this year. You have the choice of rogaine or shaving if your hair thins. I was also lucky enough to have a good head for being bald. No quasimodo lumps or stupid shit like that. My look is a full short almost stubble beard and shaved head. Fits my vibe.
Genetics worked some in my favor. You young pups have the chance to set yourself up to age well by being fit now. You don’t get the past back, so set yourself up for success.
pussyaficianado 7y ago
Hair plugs are an option too, for thinning hair/balding.
pussyaficianado 7y ago
A god skin care routine will help your face age well even if you don't have perfect genetics.
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Augustuscrassus 7y ago
Honestly though how are you supposed to socialize then? I have a glass of whiskey at the end of the day same way someone drinks wine.
But you'll be that loser at the party not drinking.
Hjalmbere 7y ago
Hardly news, but we all have lives outside the gym where status, game, and grooming also play a part. But exercise is where it starts.
Kgb725 7y ago
Doesn't it start with good social skills first ?
Hjalmbere 7y ago
Lifting lowers body fat, increases testosterone, and (if done right) improves posture. Ask yourself if it’s easier to interact with people if you’re a low testosterone obese dweeb, or if you look and feel fit.
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coco5440 7y ago
NO!!!! You can screw things up with poor social skills but a woman knows if she wants you before you even open your mouth.
Kgb725 7y ago
But if you have terrible social skills you're going to mess things up most of the time or just completely miss the hints
coco5440 7y ago
Yes, but you'll never get a chance to use your social skills if you don't meet a woman's required looks level. If you just make the looks cut your social skills better be damn good. If she thinks you're totally hot your social skills can be minimal.
pussyaficianado 7y ago
Coffee at your place? No thanks it's too late for me to be drinking coffee.
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abenomix 7y ago
My pre and post RP photos/transformation led me to the same conclusion, all without wasting research funds. Attractiveness went up by orders of magnitude. PRE-POST RP
StudntRdyTeachrApear 7y ago
Gj man. My gains are similar to yours, albeit a bit less atm. It has been amazing having girls who adore my chest and arms for the first time in my life.
crezber 7y ago
Wonderful. I will this comment to motivate myself for that kind of change
cantFindValidNam 7y ago
Post your numbers for squat deadlift and bench please?
fromdario 7y ago
Serious "face gains" you look younger and healthier. Good for you!
Arnoux 7y ago
Jesus this guy went from weak beta provider to Jason Statham face wise.
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BobbyPeru 7y ago
This post reminds me of this one time a guy suggested lifting on here
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SuperCrazy07 7y ago
Oh my, you forgot to include some of the hamstering in the article. One of my favorites:
That's right. A woman doesn't know what's attractive until she hits the wall LOL.
fromdario 7y ago
haha yea. I chuckled at all that, kept it out to keep the focus on the main point but it is pretty funny and incredibly stupid.
SpottyDam 7y ago
This doesn't apply to manlets though. Manlets are never intimidating even when they are jacked and are a laughing stock to women.
chaosrunssociety 7y ago
I want to believe this, because this is the view I hold, but where is a real peer reviewed psychological paper that backs this claim up? Is the correlation statistically significant? If so, what's the p-value?
Quit making sweeping claims without empirical evidence - It makes us all look bad and perpetuates allegations of misogyny.
RavelsBolero 7y ago
Just like the chinese and indians knew for thousands of years meditating is good for you (and now science is finding evidence it's true) we have also known all along women want strong men.
It's really that simple. As shown, the science is playing catch up.
chazthundergut 7y ago
Biology cannot be denied. Thank you for sharing this further scientific proof of what we've already come to understand intuitively.
Aurien7 7y ago
This has been common knowledge for every person that ever lived
AlexDr0ps 7y ago
Something something, water is wet
Your_Coke_Dealer 7y ago
In related news, bears have been found to shit in the woods, and the Pope has confirmed he is in fact Catholic.
no_its_a_subaru 7y ago
In science news, women like men who are muscular, water is in fact wet, and the earth is round. Back to the studio for today’s weather forecast!
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ThePwnter 7y ago
In related news the Sun is hot. Johnson, back to you...
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Except liberal 21st century scientists.
Losingsteamfast 7y ago
I was surprised that they concluded that strength was a stronger determinant than height or leanness.
vwibrasivat 7y ago
The conclusion can't be scientific. the tests subjects were (Lliterally) 130 college girls. Male Cover models do not make their bodies look like olympic weightlifters. They are barrel chested, chubby, stocky with fat legs etc.
Models want a nice Apollonion "ripped" body.. often shaving off all their hair and tanning to round out the "male model" look.
pfffft_comeon 7y ago
I've been saying this forever: height is conflated with dominance, but that marker can be overridden as we see here.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
I've said so before in the comments but it pays to repeat. Height (arms, torso, legs) is a determinant of your physique. When women say they don't like men who are 'to big' they just mean they don't like short men who wear more muscle than they can. A taller man with the same lbs of muscle they adore. So when the study says strength and dominance trumps height alone that's true. But it's more tied together than you think.
yumyumgivemesome 7y ago
I am too. AFAIK the study didn't show the men in person so the women didn't have the chance to feel small or large in each man's presence. The women were probably told a height, which is basically just a number to them. Plus, they knew that they wouldn't actually be dating these guys.
My point is that, while this conclusion is surprising, I think there are a few explanations that caused the height factor to be somewhat discounted from reality.
Forrix17 7y ago
I think wanting to feel like their boyfriend is stronger than them and able to protect them is where the height obsession with women comes from. Barring dedicated weightlifting regimes height is a pretty good indicator of a man's strength.
Losingsteamfast 7y ago
I didn't even consider that. That's a really good point.
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I think in terms of who women like seeing in movies and what not, they like a lean, dreamy Brad Pitt looking guy.
But in real life, they have an innate attraction to the big burly linebacker types with beards and shit.
scissor_me_timbers00 7y ago
Not entirely. I see plenty of hot women with lean Brad Pitt types
mytrillosophy 7y ago
Well yeah lean brad Pitt types are still better than 80% of men
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I’m not even saying the big burly types are considered more attractive than the Brad Pitt types.
Just that the big burly types are more attractive to women in real life than they are on tv. No girl has a Ray Lewis poster up on her wall, but if she met him in real life, she’d be attractive to his stature and presence
scissor_me_timbers00 7y ago
Definitely true, but they also fall over themselves for slender fit guys if they have height and/or facial genetics.
Losingsteamfast 7y ago
Somebody else made a point that looking at pictures doesn't really give you a true feel of a person's height. The same would be true for movies/tv not really portraying a person's size perfectly.
I've met shaq and you can see how big he is in pictures and on tv but holy shit it's an entirely different story when you're actually standing next to that monster. You just feel like a dwarf standing near him.
That's an extreme example but it kind of lines up you with what your saying. A handsome guy is a handsome guy, but it's harder to appreciate size until you're actually standing next to someone.
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facestab 7y ago
We can live in a boat made from his shoe.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Both of you can be his shoes
Joey_Lopez 7y ago
Maybe but it did inspire me to do one extra set
Westernhagen 7y ago
But now, we know it WITH SCIENCE!!!
chaseemall 7y ago
Most of what is discussed in this sub is common knowledge for every man that ever lived. However, a LOT of intergenerational knowledge, passed on both by explicit teaching and by observation and mimicry, has been lost due to the rash of fatherlessness in our society. Not to mention the plethora of 'spergs and shut-ins who find this place in an effort to make their lives better. Things which may seem obvious no longer are.
TheStumblingWolf 7y ago
Sure but it's nice to have it on paper
nofilmynofucky 7y ago
Not if you listen to what women say they want.
Which I'm not suggesting you should ever do but if I had a dollar for every blue numale I've met you thinks that being a nice, virtue signaling, generous and politically modern 'gentleman' will get them laid I'd have enough money to fund a revolution and clean this shit up
Forrix17 7y ago
There's a woman on my facebook who is constantly preaching the above and the #metoo stuff. She also talks a lot about her amazing boyfriend who stayed persistent when she told him she wasn't interested in him and eventually won her over.
LandoChronus 7y ago
Sounds like rape. I bet that's where she gets the "privilege" of using #metoo...
the_mad_mad_cow 7y ago
Did she tell you how many Chads she fucked while homeboy was pining for her?
banjew 7y ago
They guy did fucked her at the end. So he won.
But then he had to play the boyfriend. Pyrrhic victory.
fromdario 7y ago
Had this this valuable lesson hammered home by accident years ago at a dinner party in mixed company.
Long story short, everyone was being polite and "nice" but I had a bit too much to drink and was more "real" than usual.
Some of the guys (and girls) were huffing and puffing at the shit I was saying, but most of the girls were very much digging it. You know that fake being offended "oh my god, you're so bad!" but with a smile on their face and the look in their eye.
kemchik 7y ago
Because they found the clown at the party to make boring shit become a bit more interesting by laughing at the crazy clown?
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Chaddeus_Rex 7y ago
I dunno about every person that ever lived. Feminists and manginas and other liberal retards beg to differ.
OpossumManEater 7y ago
This has reached the top of the science subreddit, go take a look if you want to laugh at all the beta male hamstering. Lazy fucks want any excuse not to lift and improve themselves.
It's also turned into a comment graveyard.
tybyday 7y ago
Almost all of the comments have been deleted. I laughed reading the bottom comment discussing some confusion with correlation and causation. Ironic.
beginner_ 7y ago
While sure true and their rationalizations are cheap, it's also a scientific fact that the normal range of being able to build muscle is huge (can't find the study but it was posted here once). Most men could not get the bodies shown in these pics even with full dedication. They would have to roid up. Of course whining about it while getting fat doen't help like whining about being short or Indian doesn't help.
HobbesTheBrave 7y ago
Where do find that post? What’s the words to search for?
I want to read, vomit out of disgust, laugh at them. We need to know what we ought to abhor.
celtiberian666 7y ago
There is some good criticism there, like this one: "I suspect that they did not include any (or enough) athletes who were training solely for maximal strength (i.e. linemen, sumo wrestlers, strongmen, etc.) to draw this conclusion."
The best study should would include powerlifters, football lineman and strongman.
Then we can see the results of attractiveness plotted against body fat and strenght.
Of course that the average redpiller who lift will be more attractive than the average soyboy. I just wonder where is the limit.
I may be curious, but in the end this doesn't matter. If you're large, lift for years and want to be a strongman or powerlifter, just be it. Pussy is not the end game - and if you focus in yourself there will be plenty.
Rathadin 7y ago
I love how the author of the study made an account and said the following:
"There were men who were strong and big, and they were rated at attractive (more than average at least). They wouldn't have the same correlation because if you truncate the range correlations always go down. But the regression analyses show the effect of each variable: being strong makes you more attractive in a very direct way (this is the most powerful effect). Being tall makes you more attractive. Losing body fat makes you more attractive.
Most analyses used how strong the person appeared based on their photograph; we literally showed the photographs to men and women and asked them how strong they looked. We also brought men to the gym and tested their strength on weight lifting machines: super long pull, bicep curl, chest press, and an ab crunch. We measured the most they could for 10 reps. Their actual strength predicted their attractiveness as well, but not as well as how strong they looked of course. I'm afraid I don't remember the exact numbers here. I think the bicep curl (modular machine, both hands used) was 65lbs, but I wouldn't bet much on my memory here."
Utterberetacht 7y ago
Meh, less competition for us.
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VanRedPill 7y ago
Thank god not everybody is willing to improve... Weeds out some of the competition.
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Hillarysdilddo_2016 7y ago
What do you expect from bloopers? It's like staring into the abyss.
ryantheman2 7y ago
When I saw this on my homepage, I thought it was on TRP at first.
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PM_me_submissives 7y ago
It's also turned into a comment graveyard. That's not uncommon on science subreddit.
They certainly like to do a bit of censoring in general. You can see most deleted comment if you change the r of reddit into a c.
Chachenhouser 7y ago
It's an absolute bloodbath. Every comment is deleted. I'm guessing only the most sanitized speech is remaining.
thebrandedman 7y ago
2+2=5, Winston. Good God, that's a trainwreck.
Celicni 7y ago
Spoke about this with a very BP roommate. I am fucking shocked at the intensity of his hamster. "Oh but that's women in America, women in Serbia are different" and "if that's true how come my girlfriend hasn't left me yet for someone more muscled" (gf in question is 16, and a 3/10 on a good day).
fromdario 7y ago
"women in Serbia are different" That's simply not true. I've spent some time in Belgrade. Both men and women care a LOT about aesthetics. Serbian men are generally very old school and masculine. If you watch their music videos, tv, etc the "idealized" man is often the strong hero. Serbian and most Eastern European women do NOT like weak men. For the curious, look up "silicone valley" in Belgrade, a nightspot area with lots of hot bimbo girls.
Celicni 7y ago
I am aware my man. I'm from Serbia myself. But no point in trying to argue with someone so desperately clinging to the blue pill.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
I remember when I started lifting and I took T boosting supplements (ZMA nothing fancy) and some manlet friends of mine started to attack/shame me for it (ironically one of them actually got me into lifting). It actually deterred me for a year to push further, thankfully I found better answers the following two years. But this is how they think, these guys don't get it but they do get the concept of male threat. And instinctively you become that when you gain the power to beat them up. It's all about power.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
They shamed you for -ZMA-? It's literally a vitamin supplement.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
Well in their eyes it was testosterone boosting, so my improvement was threatening to them. They said it would make you aggressive etc and labelled that as bad. Both were some of the most beta guys I've ever known. Suffice to say they aren't very happy in life right now. And thankfully I didn't hang out with them that much. Only now do I realize why their behavior was off putting for me.
ISaidThatOnPurpose 7y ago
it's not that they don't want to lift,
It's that they see their inability to reach a victory goal, so instead they are trying to change the goal posts.
It's a devious tactic, but...
....I've said it before, i'll say it again....
YOU CAN BELIEVE WHATEVER YOU WANT IN YOUR BRAIN, BUT YOU CANNOT CONVINCE YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE TO CHOOSE SOMETHING ELSE. THE WEINER AND VAJEEN ARE BULLET-PROOF LIE DETECTORS
Redasshole 7y ago
the day my girlfriend started to need lube for me to be able to penetrate her vagina, I knew she wasn't attracted to me anymore and was giving me pity sex
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jashleyren2 7y ago
YOU CAN BELIEVE WHATEVER YOU WANT IN YOUR BRAIN, BUT YOU CANNOT CONVINCE YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE TO CHOOSE SOMETHING ELSE. THE WEINER AND VAJEEN ARE BULLET-PROOF LIE DETECTORS
Please put this on my tombstone.
wanderer779 7y ago
I think it should be changed to weiner and vajeener.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
Good point. Gotta get it right before setting it in stone.
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Westernhagen 7y ago
On twitter the betas are clucking that women don't like it if you get too big and muscly.
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
Some is grounded in reality, women like athletic kickboxer/mma/football/rugy type bodies. Lots of bodybuilders whom are to short yet to massive look ridiculous. The only women who find that appealing are supermassive black holes like Snookie from Jersey Shore.
Your_Coke_Dealer 7y ago
I read that as "cucking". Still kinda works.
thechaosz 7y ago
I just can't anymore. Betas are clucking
Jerk_McCock 7y ago
I always love when dyels talk about getting “too big,” as if that’ll happen by accident if you’re not careful or something.
VanRedPill 7y ago
TIL that I was a dyel for the longest time
PantsonFire1234 7y ago
Depending on your height, torso size, arm length and legs there certainly is though. Lifting is about more than size and athleticism. You need to learn what the balance is for your body. I see so many gym bros with massive arms but tiny cores because the former is the easiest muscle to train. Meanwhile women like a strong torso. They also like bigger men which means a longer skeleton. So the smaller you are the bigger those muscles will look on your arms etc. This can have counter negative effects.
If you are above average height but not freakishly tall you should have no problem getting a balanced physique that speaks to a woman.
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LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Trained for 3 weeks before I woke up one morning and realized my arms grew to 19 inches cold at 10% bodyfat. What have I done???
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Lyonhurt 7y ago
I know a guy (on gear) who milked disability income for 2 years because his calves got so big from roids his legs would sieze if he was standing for extended periods. He took his disability income and just kept lifting
fromdario 7y ago
Never skip leg day
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Lmao what? Pics or it didn't happen
Zanford 7y ago
Shit, that's genius, I should do that. do you know the gear and dosage he was using?
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coco5440 7y ago
Being a useless bum (even a jacked one) is never a good idea. It will eventually catch up with you. Look at the middle age guys around you -- you'll see that the ones who have good careers or own businesses age the best. Being successful is good for your body not just your bank account.
TaylorWolf 7y ago
I work basically one long hard day a week. (The second day is usually just 2-4 hours.)
The rest of my time I spend training MMA with big successful names like Alan Jouban and Eddie Bravo. (and recovering which SUCKS)
If you really want this it's not hard to achieve... you just won't be making money for anything more than basic needs (especially if you eat clean) someone asked me once when I arrived at the gym late after working 12-16 hour days "do you want money or do you want to be a fighter" that question burned into my brain. I figure I can always make money into old age but you have to train while you are young if you want to succeed in competition.
One of my favorite pastimes on days off is taking the morning class at 10P HQ with Eddie Bravo and going to the movies and seeing 2-3 movies in a row then return for the night class. 2-a-days baybe
Lyonhurt 7y ago
Needs to stand for work. Can't stand for periods of time. Enter disability payments. Only 2 years allowed (he's almost done his 2, waiting to see what happens)
Zanford 7y ago
Ah yes, the stereotypical Jersey Shore lifestyle
That's not uncommon in the bodybuilding world actually. And sometimes they can do stuff like personal training but always take it in cash so it doesn't interfere with their disability claims or gov't gibs. Pretty smart and decent life style all around. The ones with the eating and lifting discipline are no doubt hanging more and better than your average cubicle beta who is wealthier on paper.
Also let's be real, that's kinda what most men on welfare are doing - they aren't lifting and aren't in good shape, but, they are using a lot of that free time to hang around on street corners and catcall or otherwise try to pick up chicks. So basically when you work half your day just to cover your income taxes, you are spending that time cramped in an office so some other dude can mack on chicks on your dime and time. And when he nails one and she shits out welfare babies, you get to pay for those too
pussyaficianado 7y ago
This is why we need more republicans in office, end the hand outs.
brotein_synthesis 7y ago
Yeah, no. There's virtually nothing worse than poverty and welfare that could happen to a man. Face it.
Zanford 7y ago
Paraphrasing Dave Chapelle, "if a man could get BJs with no effort, he'd be happy living in a cardboard box." A poor man who can pull hotties and is in good health will be much happier than a rich man who is lonely.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
Silence is golden, though. In the past, I was poor but had women. Now, I'm wealthy-ish, and basically ignore women. I'm much happier now -- I wake up every day with a smile.
Eventually I'll want kids, but for now...God, I love being alone.
Zanford 7y ago
Work on your relationship game, and teach chicks to spend less time blabbing and more time on their own self improvement, chores, etc. when they are around you. And/or set up FWB to you can get sex (you still have a sex drive yes?) without someone around all the time
ChadThundercockII 7y ago
Look up people getting muscle seizures, especially the calves, it's really painful.
celincelin 7y ago
Explain what's "smart and decent" about being a semi-disabled broke idiot with no goals outside of your body you've yourself broken.
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pussyaficianado 7y ago
Like look for them just out on the street?
ChadThundercockII 7y ago
I edited that shit out. I meant look up some vids on Youtube or some shit.
Rooibosisboss 7y ago
my brother worked at a Y for a long time and I used to hear this myself but the amount of people, men and women, who would come in and ask for some help/advice/training/etc, and would say something along the lines of "well i don't want to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger or anything" when he'd start talking about incorporating any type of lifting.
...yea don't worry, you won't
Jerk_McCock 7y ago
That’s the part I find so hilarious about it. You could literally plan your life around trying to look like a body builder and still not accomplish it. Not to mention the time frame it would involve.
ozaku7 7y ago
Most of them with the build of a fishstick. LOL. As if you turn into a fucking mutant ape within a day. Granted, there are men out there who are not muscly like nature intended but just inflated monkeys.
There is a difference between this: https://www.menshealth.com/sites/menshealth.com/files/styles/listicle_slide_custom_user_phone_1x/public/images/slideshow2/1-triceps-intro_0.jpg?itok=aFvgDNHd
And this: https://pimg.mycdn.me/getImage?disableStub=true&type=VIDEO_S_720&url=http%3A%2F%2Fvdp.mycdn.me%2FgetImage%3Fid%3D263279281421%26idx%3D30%26thumbType%3D47%26f%3D1%26i%3D1&signatureToken=ckloqwVCEw2DIA-XowELSg
Zanford 7y ago
Terrible comparison. The first pic has a great tan and professional lighting; great use of shadows (and for all we know some digital postprocessing) to accent the musculature.
Whereas the second is a classic terrible amateur shot, and the guy looks frikking red. If he got a good (spray?) tan (like many bodybuilders) and had a pro photographer shoot him he'd look much better.
It's true he has a very obvious gear body (it's the weird tightness of the skin, whereas the first guy has skin that 'fits him' and doesn't look painfully tight despite his super low body fat %)
ozaku7 7y ago
I couldnt find really good pics, but some men looks like they are just blown up. No toning, no lines, juts big balls under his shirt. Others are much slimmer, but still well built and muscular.
Zanford 7y ago
Of course. I'm not saying your thesis is wrong, just that comparing a pro photographer to a terrible selfie doesn't isolate the effects of the subject's physique.
QQMau5trap 7y ago
Some women prefer skinny guys, especially on the pill. But in general symmetry is the most important one
sd4c 7y ago
Which one of these 160 women, constitutes "some"…?
QQMau5trap 7y ago
The pill does that to women. It has been researched than in general women on the pill like less traditionally manly men.
sd4c 7y ago
So none of these 160 were on the pill? Sure.
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deadassfinna 7y ago
Dw found it. What's with all the deleted comments, why can't they leave the comment and just hide their name, so annoying
pussyaficianado 7y ago
Cheange the URL from Reddit to ceddit, that'll show the deleted comments. The science subreddit kind of has thought police going over the comments.
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wanderer779 7y ago
As far as I can tell they didn't put the guys up head to head. If they did I'm sure they would have found women prefer tall weak guys to short strong guys. And that's especially true if both are wearing clothes, which we usually are. Unfortunately this isn't much of a useful insight since there's no way to get any taller.
The comments from the anthropologist who was criticizing the story were hilarious. First she starts off with some SJWey comment about how it's nice to see men treated as pieces of meat. Then she really gets going, saying she thinks it may be a cultural thing, and that it needs to be studied in other cultures. Which is fine I guess, although I'd argue this is probably a waste of money, but I don't think you're going to find anywhere on earth where strong men aren't preferred. Then she says that these results might not apply to everyone because college girls don't “have much of an experience with what attractiveness means". I am guessing the next move is to point out that these women will eventually marry skinny computer programmers as they switch to a post-wall BB strategy, err, I mean, their mating preferences mature.
Then someone else comes in and argues that in the old days women would have preferred barrel chested dudes to lean gym rats. I guess they missed the point that attractiveness was directly related to strength in this study. The whole point is women can tell how strong you are by looking at you and they like strength.
This stuff is so typical with these studies. Why are academics so often such fucking dimwits? It drives me insane sometimes.
fromdario 7y ago
I've dealt with a fair amount of academics. It does depend heavily on the discipline, i.e. liberal arts.
"Those who can't do, teach" has some truth to it. The world of academia is generally a "safe space" where they do not have to deal with the realities of the world and they can live in theories.
Often they have an ideological motivation or narrative they are invested in (because they have studied it for years), so it kind of blinds them to any outside thought.
I remember having a convo with a female PHD student, who was arguing that gender roles are a societal construct. When I brought up biology and evolution, she didn't even know the first basic thing about those topics; tunnel vision and never looking outside your yard.
sadomasochrist 7y ago
It may be a safe space but there's less bullshittery outside of rule 38. Rule 38 alone won't get you anywhere in corporate land.
Only the truly amoral without lives make it in the corporate scene long term.
You can succeed in academia on merit and rule 38 without being shady and working 80 hours.
RedDespair 7y ago
My question is:
Just how strong are we talking about? Did they see strongman's fat bodies?
Cause these guys are the strongest motherfuckers
fromdario 7y ago
The men selected were from a college gym, so I imagine not world's strongest man types.
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coco5440 7y ago
Really? Don't believe that for a minute. In all my 53 years old and I've only met one woman who actually likes big bellies (and she had some weird daddy issues as her obese dad died young).
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Art_Vandelay80 7y ago
Lift, get cut, and lift some more. Because that's the uncontested formula to get pussy. It seems that TRP has figured it out! I can see clearly now. Well, guess that's one less thing I have to worry about in this tragic comedy called life.
Here's some advice: a woman is either into you, or not - simple as that, but at the same time also complex (a paradox, eh?!). That's women, and humans in general. Be yourself while simultaneously refining your attributes, skills and virtues. And yes, better yourself with a somewhat healthy diet, exercise and enough sleep. In short moderation (The Greeks preached this).
And I suppose there are a million other things one can do to be more attractive so that the fairer sex can notice us, who knows, but let's not try too hard kiddos. Integrity and confidence still go a long way. I don't need to lift in order to have "frame" or "self confidence". I know a lot of small guys who have more "frame" than Arnold and Sly put together! I guess what I am trying to say is: In the end what matters is self confidence and self love. It's a bit more complicated complex, this game called sex.
Maybe, just maybe we are reading too much into this. Just a thought. Fuck do I know.
jtromo 7y ago
Surprising that everyone is saying this is super obvious when there was a fairly recent post on here that was well received saying that lean was more important than bulky builds.
brotein_synthesis 7y ago
Put it simple, lean does not mean what you think it does.
fromdario 7y ago
The article does talk about "lean" physique a bit as a preference, but its vague.
Curious to see what BF% vs Strength relationship there is.
I would assume there would be a balance somewhere. i.e. would women pick this guy because he is stronger than this guy?
jtromo 7y ago
Yeah I was going off of "Height and leanness were appealing attributes, too, but strength played an outsize role in the ratings of a man's torso", but it's something I've often wondered myself. In my times of cutting and bulking it's seemed like despite having more defined abs while cutting, I got more results when I was at my heaviest.
fromdario 7y ago
Interesting, I found the opposite. My lower BF% got me more attention than when I was bulkier, noticeably so.
Face looks different at different BF% tho, maybe you pull off a heavier face and I don't.
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I get different kinds of attention when I'm lean vs when I'm bulky. Back when I was 180 I looked decent and girls liked my body, but now that I'm 270 they won't fucking stop touching me when they're around. Always randomly hugging me, jumping on my back, holding my arm as we walk instead of my hand. Not saying you can't be big and strong at a lighter weight, but when you're 270 18-20% body fat, it's a whole fucking different ball game. Girls are either way more aggressive or way more submissive. At that point you're considered "exotic" because most muscular guys aren't even half as big as you, and probably only 30-40% as strong as you. Bitches love the bear-mode look.
fromdario 7y ago
270 shit... Good for you.
Biggest I ever got was 230 at around 10-12% bf and that was a fuck ton of work to maintain in terms of both training and eating.
jtromo 7y ago
Fair point. I think it's definitely a body type thing too. Being 5'5" when I was cut and muscular I had more success at pool parties and general summer day game but had less in general situations/the winter with more clothes on (less unique features at a glance). I ended up doing better bulking after the summer and focusing on cardio and general fitness once spring came around.
fromdario 7y ago
Makes perfect sense actually.
Jerk_McCock 7y ago
Well yeah, cause you’re giving your body the nutrition surplus it needs to improve on lifts. That’s what I hate about cutting, you just end up feeling like you’re spinning your wheels on lifts even though your core looks more toned.
What I kind of did to get a happy combination of the two is to just not cut out the food but put more time in at the gym. That way you’re getting body recomposition instead of losing both muscle and fat by just cutting food.
fromdario 7y ago
I feel you.
My search for the happy medium was Lean Gains. I've been on that tip for a while, absolutely love it. Increase in strength/muscle while also staying pretty ripped. It does take dedication and some paying attention but its been the best thing I've found. Hard for me to put more time in the gym than I currently do.
ThePwnter 7y ago
You should research hypertrophy.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
He meant results with women, not lifts.
Jerk_McCock 7y ago
Ah, perhaps he was. I’ve been spending a lot of time in the gym recently. It’s basically the only thing I enjoy anymore so it’s nearly all I think about.
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Bigjohnthug 7y ago
Quick aside, while I agree with the theme of the article there are some problems with this study:
The biggest is that it draws the conclusion "strength is the primary factor for determining male attractiveness" without investigating that at all. Rather, they've shown ripped guys are more attractive than unfit guys. That's obvious. To demonstrate what they've claimed to study however they'd need to measure several independent variables in tandem.
Another study did this using computer generated model humans with varying hip:shoulder ratios, heights and penis length. They found height was the largest determining factor. In this study, torsos were rated independent of the rest of the subject. Therefore, we don't know if the tall lanky guy is more or less attractive than the buff shorty. We also don't know if face or body matters more.
Another concern is their use of the word strength. The sample group was college men recruited from the college gym. Having been to my fair share of uni gyms, you aren't going to find powerlifters there. In other words, the strongest people would have been bodybuilders with fitness comp physiques in all likelihood. So the correlation could be any one or combination of the following (to attractiveness): lower BF%, broader shoulders, shoulder:waist ratio, hip:waist ratio, skin tone, etc etc. What they definitely didnt show is that strong=hot.
Basically, the claims of this study are divorced from the reality of their findings. The main takeaway is if you aren't ripped, getting ripped will make you more attractive. It might not make you more attractive than other attractive guys however and working on something else may be more worthwhile- for example if you have a mono brow, acne and buck teeth, you probably have bigger concerns.
BoogieorBust 7y ago
Do you have a link to the second study you mentioned?
Vaca_Sagrada 7y ago
First off, the study said the opposite: not that height was the most important, but that penis size and height were equally important, with shoulder-to-waist ratio being the most important of all three.
Second, please google before asking.
However, since I am familiar with this study, this is the link for anyone to see: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3637716/
ThickDickWarrior89 7y ago
Bad news for the betas... all I can say is- get your lazy fucking ass in the gym!
tboyacending 7y ago
I knew that in the 8th grade.
coco5440 7y ago
Cool study. Since women were just shown torso photos height may have been down played a bit.
Redpillandrew 7y ago
Maybe I'm missing something but... ...how did they manage to make the women tell the truth?
Kgb725 7y ago
Is there a good reason for them to lie about that ?
SuperCrazy07 7y ago
What incentive is there for them to lie?
This isn't "how many guys have you slept with" where you subtract 10 and divide by 3 before replying. It's "who's more attractive"...zero negative consequences for telling the truth.
Redpillandrew 7y ago
-Virtue signaling ("i just like this picture because he seems so sweet/smart/interesting, i look for a very particular kind of man, i'm not into big muscles!!")
-Selling the lie, another cog in the wheel of bluepill estabilishment: true alphas won't buy this shit, sorting themselves out, and deluded bluepill betas will conform into more enthusiastic providers.
Jfc_Manners 7y ago
1) These are college women. It's no longer a virtue to value beta males in that context.
2) Arrogance. They don't think that beta males can stop the gravy train, or don't understand that the beta males are the source of that gravy train.
Cenki 7y ago
I find physically strong women more attractive too I think.
drkinferno72 7y ago
Cause strongest cavemen bring back meat to tribe and fight off saber tooth tiger
continue for generations as the weakest would simply die
ACmaster 7y ago
Women want masculine men, and men want feminine women.
How surprising!
meaningintragedy 7y ago
As a fat powerlifter I like this study. ????
ayefranco 7y ago
Most women don't want fat boys buddy ????
rporion 7y ago
But the ones that do, really, really do.
Niche markets are underappreciated, you do not want to be someone most women do not dislike, you want to be someone who a few women like beyond reason.
fromdario 7y ago
True, the girls in the niche market fall hard.
I have a friend who is the most polarizing with women.
He looks like Zorro, long black hair, huge goatee, and a thick cartoonishly long mustache. Very strong personality and is completely unwilling to compromise on anything.
Most women dislike him instantly, but the ones that do fall so hard for him its crazy.
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Yep, looks have nothing to do with male sexual strategy.
BillSander 7y ago
Never said that. Seems every 3rd post here is from a looks-obsessed incel. I don't disagree with the point at all, just tired of a dead horse.
Widowmaker_Only 7y ago
Well then maybe u should realize it's best to work on the entire package and not just "game"
Luckylancer96 7y ago
They made the research boys. This is now boht broscinence and actual science!
I would replace "strong" with "strong looking" because looks matter not strenght.
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But definitely still get your cardio in.
cafeitalia 7y ago
What sucks is such article and even posting it makes it as if the life of a man is lived for a woman. No! Do not lift to look good for some woman who already sucked tens of cocks and had hundreds of facials before you. Lift for yourself! Be fit for your own self! Look good for your own self! Feel good doing the good things for yourself! A man does not and should never try to impress some bimbo. When you do all of it for yourself the woman will be trying to impress you. You have one life to live so live it for yourself.
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Fedor_Gavnyukov 7y ago
more redpill confimations found here.watch til the end.
Guipbtt 7y ago
When did lifting become the only way to stay fit?
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Guipbtt 7y ago
Then, the aim is not to get fit...
fromdario 7y ago
Certainly not the only way to stay fit. However, it is probably the best way to increase pure strength.
ageontargaryarn 7y ago
In another news, the Sun continues to rise in the East
DisruptedMatrix 7y ago
Most girls I know, including myself, aren't attracted to body builders or strong men, past a certain point.
coco5440 7y ago
The article stated that the guys in this study included a bunch of college gym rats but not hardcore bodybuilders so the issue of being too freakishly large was not addressed.
CrazyHorseInvincible 7y ago
Is that supposed to make me not ban you?
Doesn't work.
Neither you, nor anyone else, can benefit from your presence here.
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DisruptedMatrix 7y ago
If I am looking for an asshole to fuck I am generally not attracted to men most based on their strength.
If I am looking for a life partner, I'm more concerned with personality then looks. I wouldn't be attracted to an overly muscular dude at first, but if he had a cool personality and we shared interest then attraction would grow.
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Whisper 7y ago
Oh, I think you can handle that yourself.
Simply remember that women have no incentive to tell you, or even themselves, the truth about what they in particular, or women in general, find attractive. And a great deal of incentive not to.
So, simply regard what they tell you as information on what they want you to believe. And watch their behaviour to discern what they actually want.
For example, the only way you could have real information (if you really cared), about who /u/disruptedmatrix finds attractive, would be to watch what men she came on to, and compare them with the other realistic options (disregarding comparisons with men she knew were totally out of her league) that were around her.
Don't try to argue with them. Of course they bullshit you. It's not intended as an insult. They bullshit all men. They bullshit each other. They bullshit themselves.
It's their default mode, because it's the best way to survive and thrive in a world that is entirely social, entirely composed of other people's opinions and expectations.
Study is rubbish, by the way. It asks women what they find attractive, instead of watching them.
We are the ones who have to fix machines, fight wars, rush to the scene of the emergency... to deal with physical reality, where bullshit is detrimental.
They are simply the "salesman" subspecies of the human race. Deal with them starting from that expectation.
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That's the key thing to remember. Women have no idea what they want. They say they want x,y,z and then they fall for guys with a,b,c. They might not even be actually lying. Humans are capable of reasoning and it's perfectly possible that she has reasoned to herself that a nice guy who will pay the bills and rubs her feet is logically preferable to he alpha asshole. It's just that when it comes time to actually choose, deep seated biological preferences outweigh the frontal cortex.
It's also possible that expressing a preference for the nice guy while desiring the bad boy is an evolutionary response. People here like to say that humans are naturally polygamous, but in reality we are probably evolved for a "soft monogamy," where we practice monogamy most of the time but we have the occasional promiscuous sex or cheating. Women are likely evolved to reassure the regular that she is dating that she finds him desirable while at the same time being receptive to discreet advances by higher status males.
I recall reading some time ago that researchers observed that wives much more frequently told their husbands that their baby looked like him than the husband tells the wife that the baby looks like her. Same type of situation. This is likely another evolved behavior, whereby the female is trying to reassure the male that she is faithful and that the baby is his. I've personally noticed that friends and family also love to tell the male that the baby looks like him. This might be because it is most beneficial for a hunter-gatherer group when males accept children as their own rather questioning it. One time I recall telling my female cousin's husband how much their toddler looked like him and I thought "holy shit, I just did it myself!" Likely I was subconsciously trying to help my female relative and her son (also my relative) by helping ensure that her male remains committed to the child.
Rando4412 6y ago
Maybe this is more a psychological question but what you said here is a hard pill to swallow:
"Women are likely evolved to reassure the regular that she is dating that she finds him desirable while at the same time being receptive to discreet advances by higher status males."
How do you make peace with this and live with this fact that your girl will go all ogly-eyed at the 6'5" MMA fighter with a Lambo?
How does this not bug you at every turn?
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Oscar_Cc 7y ago
Amazing. Thanks for sharing, and the final conclusions.
The more I read here the more I think escorts are the best option. If it weren't for the damned STDs I wouldn't even doubt it.
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CrazyHorseInvincible 7y ago
Banned.
DisruptedMatrix 7y ago
I responded to the live and let live bit in pm, since that's a debate about this sub itself.
As for your other claim... okay, let's take two seconds and look at this.
Are you fucking kidding me? So they asked who was strongest, and the strongest were chosen.
LiveAFTSOV 7y ago
The study says the guys who look the strongest are most attractive, and ripped guys "look" stronger than fat power lifters, yeah?
That part I dont get.
All I know is women like muscles, whether they're 60 lb curl hypertrophy or 500 lb dead lift raw power muscles
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I remember a source a few years ago (sorry can't find link atm) that said low socio-economic women liked big muscles, higher status liked tall lanky guys (like William the prince except with hair). Old money usually isn't ripped. Not sure why but interesting results nevertheless. Probably because big muscles might be associated by them with lower socio-ec status guys. That said, not a bad place to be if you're big and can bounce around some poor poontang.
fromdario 7y ago
Interesting. I think part of that comes from the type of work associated with those classes and how it shaped the men. Lower classes typically did more manual labor, so they were stronger. Upper classes, typically did less physically intense stuff.
My own theory is that those upper class women just got used to those types of men, but they would still definitely go with a more fit dude all things being equal.
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The concept of fitness is also different, slim & fit for them means natty and their preferred balance in life. Hulking means too much time in gym, perhaps tied to gyms with weights even when traveling (lots of travel), possibly on gear.
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Westernhagen 7y ago
The good news: the further in age you get from college, the fewer the number of strong men there are, and the easier it is to differentiate yourself from all the fat lazy slobs around you.
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nebder 7y ago
What’s your PRs man?
Anecdotally, women don’t grow up. Ran into a group over the weekend, got to talking to this late 40s cougar in it. She was aged yet still sexy and attractive. Somewhat recently divorced and going through a version of “finding herself”. Read that as letting her sexuality free after suppressing it for marriage. She was showing me pics of some of the guys she was banging, and they were all hot body men.
I helped her name her newest toy peppermint. It was pink and white. Being a guy that gets it opens up women to share their true deeds with you.
mrBatata 7y ago
Pr?
I believe so, that's why they get so pissed about their Low SMV.
I'm simply stating that although being buffed will most likely result in a sea of pussy, we as objective thinkers SHOULD NOT base our conclusions out of bad science even if it does support our view.
nebder 7y ago
PR = personal record. What are your lifts?
What makes it bad science to ask 18-22 yr old woman to rate 18-22 yr old men?
mrBatata 7y ago
50kg but I'm still new to trp and I haven't dedicated myself as much as I want to to better my physique mostly because I'm really not sure where to start.
The implied claim that [all] women prefer them that way. (i know. i know. water is wet)
And the shit pool of participants, not a random distribution at all. Some scrunny psychology fags against the gym chad is a no brainer.
I would much more like to see a study where they compraste traits like beauty and put them against height or physical structure. And preferably a study where they select more than 250 random people from all ages.
nebder 7y ago
Where to start: StrongLifts 5x5 for your program and Mark Rippetoe form videos on YouTube. You can also hire a personal trainer to help you start if you have the cash flow. I assume college gyms would have access to personal trainers if you ask around if that’s your age.
My numbers are about 3x yours (my numbers are relatively low, less than a year in), and I have the mass to show that strength. I’m no Arnold in his heyday. I am obviously fit.
Do you realize that many studies are done on college age students by professors as that’s what they have easy access to? You’re looking to disqualify the results. You’re not looking to see where these results can be practically applied in your life.
The study answers what young women find attractive in young men based on a few different criteria. The conclusions drawn are not out of line with the results.
Anecdotally, I agree with the conclusions drawn. At the end of the day, women prefer strong men over weak men. End stop.
Give yourself 6-9 more months. You’ll see how different the world treats fit men vs everyone else.
mrBatata 7y ago
Thanks for the great input and tips!
Well I did disqualify the results but I should have disqualified the article instead its not really about the conclusion but the way they tested and worded it. Thanks for bringing it up to my attention.
Btw beeing a 24 yo average male what is the best and worst case scenario gains/time? Just so I can manage my expectations and don't beat myself too hard.
nebder 7y ago
There are many different factors that depend on the foundation you’re building on.
Get your nutrition on point. That’s your foundation for everything.
It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Generally, you’ll see results in the mirror in a month. Your close family and friends will see changes in 2 months. The rest of the world will notice changes in 3 months.
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Murbarron 7y ago
College aged girls rating college aged guys, what a surprise, who would have thought. The second I saw this badly done survey, I knew it'd end up on here, someone to boost their fragile ego.
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
Are you retarded? Women of ALL ages want the same type of man. Ripped like the dudes in the pictures.
Go cry about your dadbod somewhere else
Murbarron 7y ago
I rest my case, you're pretty much what's wrong with this sub.
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So bears do in fact shit in the woods?
pussyaficianado 7y ago
Do you have a scientific study backing up your hypothesis?
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I mean I could probably find one
muscleg33k 7y ago
Can confirm this.
My progress so far http://i.magaimg.net/img/23qr.jpg
Augustuscrassus 7y ago
damn dude nice guns. I'm thinking about switching to working arms twice a week cause once just doesn't seem to be enough.
muscleg33k 7y ago
go for it cuz that's what i did. Do different schemes twice a week: strength (low volume) and hypertrophy.
blkarcher77 7y ago
I am Jack's complete lack of surprise
banjew 7y ago
I would think being a roided meat-head is not that attractive. I mean, a natural ripped body surely is attractive. But I would think, a heavy, wide, strong manlet (who I am, unfortunately) is less attractive than a tall, muscular guy.
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fromdario 7y ago
Study vaguely references height and leanness. I would imagine there is some balance between all of those that the majority of women find as their ideal.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
They're not talking about large roided up dudes, they're talking abouy naturals buily like linebackers/ppwerlifters. They look athletic and healthy with the fat on their bodies. When you're low body fat, youre more susceptible to viruses and stuff like that.
RichJuicer 7y ago
"Continue lifting" might not be right conclusion, though. Because loads of swole doesn't signal "strength" to women, it signals "narcissist douche". Women are more into the physiques of Olympic swimmers than those of bodybuilders.
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First of all, bodybuilders are freaks that no human would ever naturally look like, so it makes sense that women aren't attracted to that. We aren't talking about bodybuilders, we are talking about regular jacked guys. I've seen this "swimmer's body" preference before and I've always thought it was bullshit. If you compare a swimmer's body to a bodybuilder then the swimmer's body will probably win out. If you compare a swimmer's body to a 6'2" 215 pound baseball or football player, it's no contest. And this research supports that.
Ninokun 7y ago
Strength? more likely looks. i have abs and big chest and shoulders but im literally weak as fuck, i train in the 150lbs weight class, my looks are mostly due to Diet.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
If you have visible and, you definitely won't have a "strong" look as a natty. To have that strong look you need some fat on you and a certain dense look about your physique.
JedYorks 7y ago
I want to lift today very bad, i had to be convinced to not go to the gym today because I just got hit by a car.lol!
LadyofArrows1976 7y ago
It’s linear but it has a cap, as a female I know that there’s a point where muscle stops being attractive and starts making you look like a pile of bowling balls. Still, the findings are pretty accurate.
Baloo020 7y ago
And as we all know, we always have no shirts on. Even in winter!
aaaasssaaa11 7y ago
In other news, water is wet.
BusterVadge 7y ago
In other news: The sky is blue, and water is wet.
irritus 7y ago
When in doubt, lift it out
TunedtoPerfection 7y ago
That's the best part, that shit never happens in science. But notice this is all based on how strong you LOOK. There is a key nuance in that. There is more to signaling strength then just lifting heavy weights. Train smart and hard to obtain a look that signals strength, it's not just big muscles it's being solid.
MentalOnslaught 7y ago
Sheesh, why is that Reddit so heavily moderated?
dontgiveupcarib 7y ago
So perma bulk >> lean aesthetics?
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LordThunderbolt 7y ago
das it mane >> Ain't nobody mirin your striated abs in the jungle
dontgiveupcarib 7y ago
Now I feel less guilty about eating junior chicken burgers after leg day
BthaGawd2 7y ago
I have a question..we're these guys who were strong but with higher body fat % to? Or just guys who were cut?
fromdario 7y ago
The article does talk about "lean" physique a bit as a preference, but its vague.
Curious to see what BF% vs Strength relationship there is.
I would assume there would be a balance somewhere. i.e. would women pick this guy because he is stronger than this guy?
Ardekan 7y ago
Strongmen just look fat. The other guy looks strong.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
You re just puahing for extremes. They're not talking about roided up strongman. They're talking about Marty powerlifters with the builds of Silent Mike
rporion 7y ago
I have seen some that would.
viral_left_stroke 7y ago
Maybe it would be related to how the women perceives herself...if she feels a little unhealthy but "overall attractive" maybe go for the guy who is kind of the same (obviously they don't understand the level of work to become strongman strong), or just regular fit girls want a regular fit dude? I don't know just a thought. Btw how did you find that photo of me.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Yes, it's clear they reference to the "I'm shredded as fuark... Gymshark Brahh!" guys vs powerlifter/linebacker types.
BthaGawd2 7y ago
So it's the cut ones not linebacker types like me ha
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
No they're saying they prefer the linebacker types
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ThickDickWarrior89 7y ago
Women crazed a big bone til you jam it in em and damage their cervix- bigdickwarrior
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Water is wet, the sky is blue, & I'm shredded.
cazzah123 7y ago
Yeah, but I look strong as fuck too. And I get like 1/50 tinder matches.
Go make a tinder profile with a skinny model as the photo and you’ll get 1/5 matches
fromdario 7y ago
Personally, I'd say having lean muscle is the best, strong with low BF.
Just my personal observation from going through a range of diet/workouts and body composition. Found I got way more attention when I was ripped, which I think is because the face looks better/different at lower body fat.
FaderOne 7y ago
I have the flu, but this post is going to make me go lift tonight and not miss my schedule… Thank you
Edit: well I’m restarted and that’s a bad idea. Thank you bros who called me out for that..I’ll stay in and recover until I get 100% then hit the gym (was also tarting bjj later this week but I’ll wait on that.)
Love this sub. Only place on the internet people actually care and share their honest opinions.
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rporion 7y ago
Good idea, maybe you will even get a myocarditis.
You shall be a case study for my new book "Dead men rarely get fucked"
FaderOne 7y ago
Haha point taken. I’ll listen and rest.
CoronaTRP 7y ago
I would be careful about that. When you do sports while being sick, you can get dangerous diseases if the bacteria infect your heart muscles.
FaderOne 7y ago
Very good point, I’ve changed my mind.
blue_27 7y ago
Because the flu isn't contagious, and/or fuck e'ryone else? Get some dumbbells and a pullup bar, and don't be Typhoid Mary.
BillSander 7y ago
He didn't say where he was going...
FaderOne 7y ago
Oh I 100% was going to. But u/blue_27 and everyone who posted are right. I’ll recover first and not try to fuck/kill everyone else over at the gym.
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Yea bad idea. You could probably power through a common cold and still hit the gym but the flu is a different animal. Give your body the rest it needs to recover and hit the gym hard once you’re healthy. Also, like that other guy mentioned below, kind of a dick move to go and give everyone else at your gym the flu
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Yeah, your body needs to divert energy to the immune system, muscle building is secondary to staying alive.
FaderOne 7y ago
You and u/milksteak24 are right. I’ll take it easy.
liberty1127 7y ago
Take some rest man. You'll stay sicker longer if you push it too much
FaderOne 7y ago
Okay you are right. I’ll chill until I recover
liberty1127 7y ago
I was just sick for 5 days and I work at a job doing manual labor so I took 3 days off the gym but all of my lifts went up when I went back.
Eat well and rest up
FaderOne 7y ago
Rest days do wonders. You on a mon/wed/fri program?
liberty1127 7y ago
Yes. Full body routine. Im 5'10" 190lbs about 11% BF.
I just do this routine to get the most out of my weeks because the labor takes a toll on me if I do a 4 day split
FaderOne 7y ago
Oh I’m 5’10” and I’m doing SL to get a good form then I plan to move to something better next month.
Mind sharing what program you follow?
liberty1127 7y ago
Yes no problem. I made it myself so I'll message it to you
JYandeau 7y ago
In other news; water is wet
Jaang_Empire 7y ago
No, women looking at cut abs are wet.
tibikush2012 7y ago
How do you measure strength in photos?
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
Compare a college linebacker physique to Zyzz. That's how. When the person has a healthy amount of bodyfat on them and their musculature looks dense and tight vs the pumped up bodybuilder look.
fromdario 7y ago
"The researchers quantified the students' physical abilities via weightlifting machines, grip strength tests and other measures.... were asked to judge how attractive or strong they thought the men were, on a scale of 1 to 7. It turns out we are good at guessing a stranger's strength. Perceptions of strength closely aligned with the men's actual strength."
party_dragon 7y ago
"grip strength" - those forearms tho <3
fromdario 7y ago
No excuses, train everywhere
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hamstercide 7y ago
Women prefer it when confronted with pictures, yes. But the guy with the charm and the balls to approach and ask for her digits is still the one to win out.
fromdario 7y ago
You definitely miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Still, all things being equal, homie who is fit has an advantage over stick boy.
hamstercide 7y ago
Even if you take the shot you'll miss if you're a bitter, socially maladjusted sperg.
Would you say this dude has an advantage over a more handsome guy?
BullshittingNonsense 7y ago
This is just like that recent study that found that women find older, wealthier men attractive.
ThePwnter 7y ago
All of the women polled were 30+ ;P
ooo_something_shiny 7y ago
Washington post is as beta as you can get
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"Democracy dies in darkness"
So stop telling lies.
ooo_something_shiny 7y ago
I.E.. According to the CIA world FactBook, “a Federal republic [is] a state in which the powers of the central government are restricted and in which the component parts (states, colonies, or provinces) retain a degree of self-government; ultimate sovereign power rests with the voters who chose their governmental representatives…” The page goes on to define the United States as a “Constitution-based federal republic [with a] strong democratic tradition.” In other words, this is the way in which the United States is both a Democracy and a Republic. Learn more about what it means to be a representative democracy at uscis.gov. sovereign power rests with the voters who chose their governmental representatives…” The page goes on to define the United States as a “Constitution-based federal republic [with a] strong democratic tradition.” In other words, this is the way in which the United States is both a Democracy and a Republic. Learn more about what it means to be a representative democracy at uscis.gov.
Washing post uses a two-partly political view and is bias
They spent years covering up for democratic presidents yet as soon as a republican comes they switch to pseudo-lies and bias reporting.
Long story short. Your asking me to not spread lies without knowing what the facts are and using somebody else's opinion and slogan to make a point at the same time believing them blindly and calling me a liar?
Point and case to my first comment.
ooo_something_shiny 7y ago
FACT: According to the CIA world FactBook, “a Federal republic [is] a state in which the powers of the central government are restricted and in which the component parts (states, colonies, or provinces) retain a degree of self-government; ultimate sovereign power rests with the voters who chose their governmental representatives…” The page goes on to define the United States as a “Constitution-based federal republic [with a] strong democratic tradition.” In other words, this is the way in which the United States is both a Democracy and a Republic. Learn more about what it means to be a representative democracy at uscis.gov.
The u.s. Is a republic with elements of democracy so even their slogan is a lie. ????
You follow it blindly and attempted to use it as an argument without knowing facts...
Bringing me to my original comment and case and point made.
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Lol dude, I was just saying that the Washington post tells lies and it is ironic that that is it's motto. I think your sarcasm switch was turned off.
But since you brought it up, democracy, as it is used in the present day vernacular, means the same thing as a republic to people a century or two ago, so it really makes no sense to freak out when people say that America is a democracy. What the founding fathers railed against when they spoke of democracy could be more correctly described today as "direct democracy" whereby people go directly to the polling station to vote for individual laws and policies. As we can see in California direct democracy usually lead to pretty poor outcomes.
ooo_something_shiny 7y ago
Thank you for clarifying your intent. I was in doubt, I picked the wrong angle.
As far as the topic at hand, It may mean the same thing as a trend or a washed and watered down vernacular, I'll agree to that but we can't just bow down to current floppy cock trends that have been manipulated.
The "federalist papers" (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Federalist_Papers) are the base of our constitution and they use the form of a federalist country but adapt it to a republic. To enforce the concept and add the "for the people by the people" aspect, the democratic aspect was added.
I agree with you that currently it is believed we are a democracy true and true but it's a blended hybrid and not the same. It's a trend. The general public seems to have no concept that this country is based on a federalist system that has been rewritten as a public with democracy weaved in.
Back to the misunderstanding, I appreciate your acknowledgement.
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sleepkeeping 7y ago
Fuck, so much sperg overanalysis in here. Take the gist of it: go to the gym, eat well, and get into shape. You'll be more desirable. In other news, water is wet.
LordThunderbolt 7y ago
It's not just about lifting. The article states very clearly that bitches like dudes who look like they can seriously fuck shit up. This is very important to note because a lot of dudes here go to the gym to have veins on their abs and visible separations in their chest muscles while they weigh 170lbs at 6'1, not being able to bench/squat/deadlift anything above 200lbs. Your striations dont mean jack shit in the jungle. Get yoked, get big, put on some fat. If youre natural you will need a little fat to look yoked and joocy.