Intro/summary Perhaps you are in the older demographic of TRP and are out of the loop with teen lingo. I’m here to educate you about my experience with the term “fuck boy”. The trendy male shaming tactic, the male 'equivalent' of slut, and why Black Knighting may be your only option.
Every now and then I find myself getting amongst the dating drama of two 18y/o girls at work. Besides being entertaining, it is in one of these situations that I first came across the term “fuck boy”. Girl1 called out Girl2 for banging the fuck boy.
I enquired into the behaviors of the fuck boy. Typical Alpha fux as it turns out. This guy is keen to fuck but never commits. Both girls proceeded to shame his behavior but at the same time it is them who give him the power to behave in such a way, ah naivety.
When I asked them why a guy in his position would commit when he's already taking from the pot of gold, they attempted to use mutual commitment as a valid means of leverage. Cute.
This one time I was called a fuck boy as an insult. I “shit stirred” for a while but you can’t always engage with these people on a logical level. [GLO’s Black Knighting^TM]( https://archive.is/e1shk) becomes essential where irrational beliefs cannot be penetrated.
Lessons Learned It’s becoming cool to shame men for being men. Call people out on their bullshit. Where logical discussion cannot be achieved, Black Knighting is the only method worth implementing.
americanmook 9y ago
Damn, thats not what fuck boy means at all wtf.
1NV0K3R 9y ago
That last comment, hahahahahaa
BetterBadIdeas 9y ago
It's just adorable that they think guys can be shamed for the same sexual behaviors as women are shamed for. Just adorable.
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So no one is going to comment on OP's obvious lack of social awareness? TRP is supposed to teach you how women and the larger blue pill society thinks. All you're doing with those comments on FB is publicly outing yourself as someone who doesn't understand basic social grace. Holding these beliefs is fine, but parading them around with zero tact is only embarrassing yourself.
Donald_Fuck 9y ago
Sounds like I rustled your feathers more than that broad's.
SeekingTheWay 9y ago
i laughed hard on the last line with the lifting more
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I need a bk knight report/tutorial etc
[deleted] 9y ago
I would doubt that fuckboy is an insult anymore. Being called an asshole is a big compliment from any women and fuckboy is quickly rising up the ranks.
Fuckboys when I hear women talk about them almost always refer to hot men who have high SMV. Oh damn, I get to have sex with hot women with no commitment, jesus sure sounds terrible.
divorcedbp 9y ago
Textbook solipsism/projection. This is an attempt to lower the perceived social status (and more importantly, elevate the accuser's) by using a shaming insult that they would find personally devastating.
Substitute 'fuckboy' for 'slut' and you will understand.
ReasonFreak 9y ago
I've come to believe that every "Fuck Boy" was once a girls beloved Alpha. It was only once she realized that she couldn't lock him down and that she was nothing more than another one of his notches that she reclassified him as a "Fuck Boy." He's onto the next and she's left standing there with his jizz leaking out of her, it happens all the time.
That's the How, the Why is girls attempting to reclaim some power from the men that hit it and quit it by inventing a juvenile epithet for them. They'll typically hit up social media to spew their faux dismissal of a man they were probably crazy about just a few weeks before. It doesn't take a genius to spot the falseness of it all, she's the one who got used and everyone knows it. Ultimately, very few "Fuck Boys" are crying over the fact that they are, in fact, boys who fuck a lot of girls.
NightwingTRP 9y ago
It's just an extension of female rationalisation. She's fucking him because she's interested in him, realises she can't date him so she then pretends she was never interested in dating him in the first place. It's a bit like those chicks who "don't like muscles" - it's usually because they're a 5/10 or below and couldn't get a guy with muscles if they tried.
Though if memory serves, doesn't the term fuckboy come from fucktoy? The latter objectifies a woman, and the former is used within the gay community when tops are talking about bottoms. Women always redefine shit for their own purposes. Check the redefining of sexism 10-15 years ago and the redefining of misogyny like 2 or 3 years ago. Trying to have a rational discussion with someone who not only moves the goal posts, but also changes the surface of the playing field at will is a complete waste of time.
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Prince-Gnarls 9y ago
This isn't what 'fuck-boy' means - it's an insult from the hip-hop culture that basically refers to a fucking asshole/wimp/wannabe.
Any proof needed for non-
whiteurban aware folks should listen to the first line of [this] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRo48zg2iyU).MeltzerDriver 9y ago
Pretty fucking sure the term ''fuckboy'' has been around for decades in the black community, and means weak male/pussy/a bottom bitch in jail.
LOL at how women/white women to be exact ruin the definition of everything.
FritzLn 9y ago
EXACTLY!
can't believe how these kids have co-opted fuckboy. been saying it for 15 years and had no idea it had an entirely new meaning until i saw some young white girl use it. i was horrified
[deleted] 9y ago
it's funny because i've seen this pop up a few times on here, some retards try to figure out what it means when some ho who listens to a rick ross song calls him a "fuck boy".
and now beta faggots are saying it's "male slut shaming"... basically just as retarded as the feminists. full circle
JohnGalt316 9y ago
this is the only meaning for fuckboy imo
it is meant to be derogatory and refers to a prison bitch
boiev4 9y ago
Ik. Luckily that term will never die because we say fuck nigga instead. Any other race can get into trouble lol
mykonos_rm 9y ago
I thought it was "prag".
I can't keep up with this shit anymore...
GlennBeckAmerica 9y ago
Bingo. But shit..my area is mostly white and ive only ever heaRd it used in a derogatory way. For fuck sake..putting boy at the end of A word to describe a man shouldnt be good.
VernonMaxwell 9y ago
I can't tell if the comments about being called fuckboi and them liking it are true, of if its all in jest. But yea, fuckboi is definitely deragotory. It has absolutey nothing to do with male shaming. Its just another word for faggot, or bitch, pussy, etc. And its typically something a guy will call another guy.
I don't know how people are jumping to the conclusion that its positive, lmao. This sub sometimes.
[deleted] 9y ago
Fuckboy is a gay prostitute where I live. I've heard it used in the context that this post describes only on TRP.
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satanicpriest13 9y ago
Well Fratman sounds like a superhero who learnt the art of chugging and adopted the party environment to aid his plans of slaying sorority sloots.
GlennBeckAmerica 9y ago
i suppose frat boy is the exception lol. i dislike white boy too. White bull/Dude/guy/man. Im not a boy anymore Haha. Im glenn beck and have gray hair.
DudeItsVolcom 9y ago
fuck boy might have been around like Adele before 2013, but it's only recently gotten it's biggest peak in the media as well as a more encompassing definition, so stop being a fuck boi.
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Swoledinger 9y ago
How is a fuck boy made? You fucked him!
Anything negative said about the 'fuck boy' is just a reflection of yourself. If a guy only had sex with guttersluts who does that speak more of? The guy or the guttersults?
egoisenemy 9y ago
Girls are called basic, I call weak obnoxious men faggots. This isn't an issue
bobapop 9y ago
No kidding. I've heard BPers go on and on about "fuck boys" and complain about guys who "Netflix and chill", then complain about how they aren't getting any in the same breath. Might it be that those fuck boys and netflix n chillers are on to something?
To your point though, what exactly is the purpose of Black Knighting? To me it just seems like a waste of energy to engage with people who are a lost cause (not trying to insult you here, I'm just not really clear on why one would Black Knight).
Donald_Fuck 9y ago
I find it entertaining but GLO speaks of its benefit of antifragility in the face of women. Most men are so willing to avoid offending women that they're too scared to voice their true feelings or opinion. Black Knighting is good for flexing that muscle.
draketton 9y ago
That makes no sense to me. Aren't guys scared of being dragged along for a rough ride when a woman in their family or social circle comes up with some really stupid idea? Isn't that fear enough motivation to speak up and risk a bit of backlash?
Redpill_Hannibal 9y ago
wait a sec, isn't being a fuck boy against being a price mentality? or am i missing something?
kazcovic 9y ago
I love shit stirring and arguing with women and feminists. It's fun and entertaining as hell. When you are a male and you argue with feminists it's only a matter of time before the ad hominem attack of "fuckboy" comes along.
I personally don't care for insults, I know who I am and it doesn't phase me. It's like when someone calls me gay for an insult, I know that I am not gay so why the fuck should I care that they call me gay.
Frothyogreloins 9y ago
Incorrect, fuck boys aren't traditional alpha fucks, they're more feminine guys that exhibit alpha qualities but don't tend to work more on the girl falling for them than being a true pump and dump. They are purposefully assholes, not betas claiming alphas are assholes. I for one just get called an asshole though ????
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I can't believe you associate with bitches like that. Is her man absent from the home? Have fun "powerlifting" to get back the Chad that forgot you exist.
I can't tell you how many motorcycle riding broken hearted sluts there are in this country because of me.
Philhelm 9y ago
I guess I'm getting old. Whatever happened to "man whore?"
GrandmasterHurricane 9y ago
Fuckboy means bitch nigga.
White people, get it right. It's not a compliment.
Professor_Pussypenis 9y ago
I'm white as fuck and I've always interpreted it to mean this.
TrusssMiDaddi 9y ago
I've been called a fuck boy many times. I embrace and laugh at it. I take it as a compliment and it actually does make me laugh because they think they're shaming me.
My favourite time when this happened was when I was at a party. I met a group of 4 girls. I managed to get back to their house where there was more girls to meet and a couple guys. I was introduced as a fuck boy and everyone said hello to me. I was treated well and made everyone laugh. I could tell a couple girls wanted to fuck me, but I already had my eyes on the girl who brought me home with her friends plus I already had made out with her. She was the hottest one, but there was one ugly fatty who really hated me. I hadn't payed attention to her besides the "hello" to everyone because she was repulsive. It was friday night and she had stayed in to play game cube while eating chips. She sort of made me leave while the girl I was going for was in the bathroom, apparently it's her place so I have to leave. One girl walks me out and leaves with me and we end up walking for like 30 minutes. This girl was constantly calling me a fuck boy earlier in the night, she then tells me 2 of her friends wanted to fuck me that night and I act like it's nothing special. She then ends up giving me her number writing" Brittany not a bootycall" as her contact name, I end up fucking her that night in my apartment.
Evileddie13 9y ago
I get it...being a 'Fuck-boy' is an excuse for a woman. It's established by her peers, plus mild dread game, but mainly, 'a fuck boy is only for fucking. He doesn't count " Hamster, hamster....
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J_Dizzle1000 9y ago
I used to hate Fuck Boys. All through college we'd always make fun of them thinking they had a distinct look. Even though I was getting laid plenty in my frat, I'd never consider becoming one.
6 months after swallowing trp, I had began to get called a fuck boy by more and more women. After a while I embraced the term and laugh about it teasing the women I fuck because they call me a fuck boy. Its weird becoming the thing you used to despise, but I don't really give a fuck anymore. Funny how things evolve.
Electric_Romeo 9y ago
You can't shame a man by calling him a fuck boy. It doesn't work like that. It's like trying to shame somebody who started his own business and became rich a "rich boy".
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New lingo, same thing.
When I was younger I was called a manwhore.. I think I like manwhore better
throwingrp 9y ago
Eh. Arguing with the masses, especially on social media, is a waste of energy.
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they didn't call you a "male slut" in the facebook post you linked.
They told you to fuck off because you were posting on a 2 week old status and calling you a retard. It's in no way a compliment like "wow you're such a male slut". It was just like "wow retard, beat it".
also first having a facebook, and then 2nd arguing with random hos on there... damn dude you're doing everything wrong.
GrandmasterHurricane 9y ago
Fuck boy in prison is the guy who's asshole gets passed around for cigarettes and tuna. He's somebody's bitch/property and gets rented out.
I don't understand how you people like that term. I don't even use it to describe people, I think it's disgusting.
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like i said it's gotten popular with hiphop in the last ~2 years, mostly from rick ross i think
TheSouthernCross 9y ago
Fuckboy doesn't actually Mean anything.
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Where have you ever heard the term "Fuckboy" used as an insult?
Girls that sleep with Fuckboys say it as a pretty transparent attempt to "get one over them" by caring less.
"Oh no Guys just use me for sex, I'll show them! I'll use them for sex!"
Oh no. Please don't use me for sex. I'd be devastated. Meaningless cheap sex. What hell is this. Please don't call me a Fuckboy.
And the best part is that it is the best type of pre-selection, it's another Girl saying that your worthy of fucking. If a Girl wants some casual sex she needs to go to a bar full of 100 Dudes, she has to find the maybe 4-5 who she would Fuck.
Being called a Fuckboy is like a spotlight shining down on you saying "This Guy Right here"
GlennBeckAmerica 9y ago
i called someone a fuck boy when i burnt them for 1700$ nd they called me the next day for more tree.
BrunoOh 9y ago
Arguing with a woman is like wrestling with a pig - you get covered in mud and they love it.
What I'd have done was:
"So why not dump him and date [Beta Billy] over there?"
Her: He's a loser
"Maybe you're not as attractive as you think you are..."
As for the second example,
"That depends, do your hobbies include shopping and watching netflix?"
[deleted] 9y ago
Anyone with flashy comebacks for the hamster isn't doing anybody any favours. When a woman mentions a fuckboy, you automatically know what is happening there. It's not a man 90-95% of the guys around the world can be. Basic RP theory. You are aware. That should be enough.
As for male shaming, talk about real shaming.
The kind fathers have to face for not paying alimony or child support from a ONS.
Compare that to what dumped women will be calling this guy behind his back and you will see this post is a fucking joke.
[deleted] 9y ago
"Fuckboi" shaming is all over campuses at the moment. These girls post all over social media telling people to stop being fuckbois and "where are the guys who aren't fuckbois?"
So little self-awareness that the only reason "fuckbois" exist is because they choose sex partners poorly or fuck above their own status and so cannot get commitment.
[deleted] 9y ago
Back in my day, Fuckboys were known as Players.
It's a compliment.
Trisha_Hills 9y ago
true, fuckboy sounds better than cashboy or talkboy
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Why bother caring about this?
Magnusoz 9y ago
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GlennBeckAmerica 9y ago
If a bitch calls me fuck boy..she using it the wrong way.
[deleted] 9y ago
Black Knighting seems like a horrible idea to me, as practically every institution sides with women more than men, and it will only have you end up in jail. Just my opinion.