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Napolean-complex

Posted 9y ago in Rant / Vent - Permalink - Locked - 2.2K Views

Summary:

AWALT

CONTENT:

I recently signed up for seeking arrangements. I am not opposed to prostitution and I figured this was a good way to get to know some dirty slut (pics and such) before I decided to pay for her services. When I first created my profile it was asking for how much money I made and current net worth. What I didn't realize is that I would have to pay for a subscription. No problem, when I learned of the 70$ that I would be required to pay per month, I decided not to go through with it.

Well that was 5 days ago. In that time I have received 15 messages (that I am unable to read) and have been favorited by women at least 25 times.

These women range in age from 18-29. Most list work as a waitress, hairdresser and other menial jobs.

CONCLUSION:

I have the exact same profile on another dating website. It does not list my income/net worth or the fact that I am willing to pay for sex. All Women are hookers, some just don't know it yet.

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pluvoaz 9y ago

I set up a fake test account just for research & have to say for the most part I'm disappointed.

Elizabeth, 23 & Lena, 25, are both from London & both expect >$10k/month but have little or nothing to offer.

This one is 39 from Indiana wants $10k/month and has a laundry list of demands.

Let's not forget Lexi, 45 from California who is a fat single mom of 3 but thinks she's worth $10k/month.

Of course I'm cherry picking, but there are some reasonable girls out there. Jamie is a cute student from Cali is 21 and her fee is negotiable. A solid deal as long as your down with the whole tgirl thing.

[deleted] 9y ago

Don't be an idiot. Those "messages you can't read" will all disappear ehen you start paying. Typical shady marketing strategy. Remember, men on Ashley Madison thought it was full of women.

Napolean-complex 9y ago

That's something that I was thinking as well.

mindbreeder 9y ago

Nope i have a subscription for a similar site. If you are in a big city its pretty legit. My thinking was that I am most likely in far better shape and much closer to these girls ages than the avg guy on the site despite not being an actual "sugardaddy" (trips, cars, etc)

I put in my profile that im not a traditional sugardaddy but drinks, dinners, the odd night in will all be covered and i have a nice place in a nice part of the city. It works but some are straight up "pros" and some just want a guy with his shit together and a looser wallet.

Only met 3 girls and 2 turned into sex with out any money changing hand minus paying for drinks (one even offered to split the bill)

savedarticles 9y ago

sounds like you are just offering what normal guys are offering on regular websites. I guess there's less risk for them getting stuck with a guy that won't pay the full tab for dinner, but women shame men so hard on this that most times it goes their way. You could probably put the same profile on a normal site and get better action.

mindbreeder 9y ago

yup i agree, i have tinder and a couple other apps too and they work well but on the site i was referring to it kinda pre qualifies women to be looser and not interested in a LTR

OBOllie3003 9y ago

Seeking arrangements is for men and women who are open and honest about their desires. There are "sugar daddies" and "sugar mommas", and if you think $70/month is unreasonable a sugar baby is not what you're looking for. You got a lot more attention on SA because everyone there wants to skip the BS and get to business.

I've found that meeting women in real life is a lot better. The online dating "window shopping" takes some of the fun and mystery out. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing people bury themselves, but you can't seriously be upset that the girls on SA are forward.

Napolean-complex 9y ago

I'm not upset about their forwardness. I was just thinking that if the other websites had those financial information requirements listed the results would be the same.

MentORPHEUS Senior Endorsed 9y ago

Some of my college-plate recruitment efforts have put me into contact with professional sugar babies. In this space, there is lots of ghetto trash unjustifiably inflated to Diva/Queen/Star status. After some relatively cerebral back and forth, one straight up demanded $100 just to meet her for coffee at Starbucks, calling it a "first meet reward."

There exists a market for this, but I'm not a buyer.

savedarticles 9y ago

'first meet reward' hahaha. You have to be seriously bluepill to meet with a prostitute, pay her, and not get sex.

MentORPHEUS Senior Endorsed 9y ago

She was so confident and demanding about it, that it was clear she was accustomed to getting this! As a man who could totally support a mistress or two, yet doesn't need to pay a dime to get sex, I wasn't having any of it. She flounced angrily, saying, "I know what I'm worth, you can get a soulmate then!" as if soulmate was a pejorative.

NeoreactionSafe 9y ago

Skip the online social gaming.

Approach in real life... it's like a full 3-d video game with high resolution graphics.

(and better because it includes tactile responses)

TruthOverLiez 9y ago

Seeking Arrangement is a good site if you want a mistress and you have money. It's not good for casual hookups at all if you're of average income or poor.

savedarticles 9y ago

how much are we talking for an average girl? let's say a 6-7

TruthOverLiez 9y ago

Minimal: 1000 per month Practical: 3000 per month Moderate: 5000 per month Substantial: 10000 per month High: more than $10000 per month

Generally most of them are practical requesting 3000 a month. The really attractive ones 9/10 or 10/10 is substantial or high.

Like I mentioned before this is if you want a mistress and you're rich

Samantha_Cruz 9y ago

you also should consider that any female that actually does sign up for 'seeking arrangements' is there because they are looking for exactly that sort of financial arrangement; Women that aren't would not be signing up on that site at all since that's pretty much the entire point of the site. so i'm not sure you can make many conclusions about "all women" based on responses from that particular site.

[deleted] 9y ago

have you gotten laid through any of it? because this sounds a lot like ego stroking.

Napolean-complex 9y ago

Tinder worked for me a couple times, it was a lot of work tho. Sign up to seeking arrangements yourself, im sure you'll get the same results. Assuming its not a marketing scam as mentioned above.

[deleted] 9y ago

Hard mode, maybe if she gets complacent

James_Coook 9y ago

OP where are you based? I am curious.

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Napolean-complex 9y ago

Its the English spelling of the name

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[deleted] 9y ago

We have to add a little blue collar into your lexicon one of these days

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Napolean-complex 9y ago

I'm in Alberta, which is currently getting hit with some hard times. I'm guessing that these hard times are hitting everyone equally and they are resorting to the oldest profession on earth, in mass.