Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
Posted 2y ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - Locked - 6K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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SwedishBacon 2y ago
Only 2 kids at 28? Jeeze what a catch, she's going to get snapped up right...RIGHT!??!
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
right, she makes it sound like, "only" 2 kids, so that's unusually low or something?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 2y ago
This profile is like telling a millionaire he better like some sausage when he can afford and WILL EAT filet mignon
reignoferror00 2y ago
I was thinking spam, spam, spam, eggs and spam.
♫ Now everybody sing ♫ Beautiful spam, wonderful spam ...
DextroShade 2y ago
Sausage is very good if you get the right ones, what she is offering is more like pink slime cube steak.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
That's scrapple.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
What a disgusting fucking pig.
Look, I get mad at single moms. I get fucking furious at black single moms because it's always the same damn story.
They meet some fucking pookie, pop out some kids, then get mad when men like me don't come to their rescue. The part that sets me aflame is that they will then blame all black men because the top 15% of us don't want shit to do with them.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I’ve seen many black men in my life who are working middle class jobs or higher, having all of their crap together. And they’re childless. Meanwhile, pookie and Ray Ray each got a turn with this chick. Then dipped because like hell they’ll raise their own kids.
Now she needs a dude that looks like Pookie, but makes good money. When that fails, I anticipate that she’ll be hitting up a black church soon and trying to score a guy there. Don’t worry, Christian sir, if you had kids with this wonderful lady, they’ll be taken care of as soon as the superior genetics of the prior guy(s) are taken care of. It’ll be hard to have more kids, though, she’ll be strangely tired at the end of every day and not want to do it.
MelkorHimself Mod 2y ago
No surprise. Kevin Samuels often recited that 56% of middle-class black men are unmarried and childless. There are plenty of eligible men, but they're being passed over because they're average.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yup. I know a guy who coaches up kids who go on to play D1 NCAA basketball. Like a primo local basketball coach. Fairly certain he has no kids. He did have a hot girlfriend last I checked, so there’s that.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
The church is a fucking disaster. It became an economic machine, and it quickly realized that teaching tolerance and acceptance of this guttersnipe behavior is far more profitable than condemning women who contribute to the problem.
The church is rife with single mothers who think that God will magically bring them a bailout. Every Sunday they get gussied up and put themselves on display hoping that Mr. Godly man (but he better be good looking and "fInAnCiAllY sEcUre") walks in to save them from their lifetime of bad choices with his lifetime of good ones.
I'll tell you, first hand, I believe in zero gods. None. When I'm in a new city for more than a week, I find a black church to visit on my first Sunday. I mention that I'm new in town and might be moving to the area soon if I find a good reason to. I'm fucking by Tuesday. Thursday if she's a good Christian woman.
That godly shit doesn't matter to these women. For them, church is just a place that they think is an easy hunting ground for beta bucks and the church encourages it with their ministries for single moms, their pastors constantly pushing the men in their congregations to pair up with them (instead of the non moms, oddly enough). You think that "any new members stand up" moment is for the pastor to get to see you? Fuck no. It's so that the single moms can pick you out right away and love bomb you (or outright invite you to "Bible study" later that day). The greatest joy I get is playing ignorant and watching these single moms and post-wall divorcees get snippy with each other over the new fine-ass single brother, trying to lock him in before he gets word of their reputations from the other parishioners.
It's funny, I actually recall an article blaming men for this behavior!
http://survivingdating.com/black-churches-how-black-churches-keep-african-american-women-single-and-alone/2
Shocker. Blaming men for women's actions and outcomes.
Fuck the black church, metaphorically. Fuck the women of the black church, literally.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Good Lord. The woman who writes those articles in Surviving Dating sounds absolutely insufferable. Looks like she is vegan too. Who had that space on the obnoxious, zero self awareness, trashy cunt bingo board?
wswZtyqNGQ 2y ago
=^]
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
While I don't agree on the faith part, I share your hatred of the establishment, how it enables (and even encourages) this type of behavior.
I read that black churches suffer from the worst disparity of female:male of any denomination or type of church in the US. It's like 4:1 or worse in a lot of churches, or so I've read.
So yeah, hard to dispute your conclusion - the church in general is full of opportunity, desperate single women who can't find a good man in church (they all left or got married). It makes me sad to see people making it worse, but I can't fault you personally. It's the system that enables this.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I have no pity for the church. My non-belief aside, there is one important thing to remember:
They did this to themselves.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh I agree. Well, after you grab all the hoes off this ship, maybe she'll sail again.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
No, I'm not keeping them.
They belong to the pews!
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
You should do a post on Church game. I see you go in and say you're new, let the hoes come to you, let them isolate you from the congregation to a study group, then what? Ask for additional "study" at her place later on... accidentally flip to a passage about women should obey men... send her kids out to play... order her into the bedroom... lay on some dominance... squirt and leave?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I can't speak for non-black churches so take this for what it is. Brace yourself, it's a lot.
To understand how church game works, you have to understand the problems that black women face in the church that make it so effective:
Masculine men avoid the church due to it's focus on women and appeasing them.
Christianity is higher in black women than it is in black men, and the church pressures women to seek men inside the church.
There are already more black women on the dating market than black men.
Hypergamy and unrealistic standards still exist in the church.
These five things create an environment were an available, above-average attractiveness, masculine heterosexual man can secure sex easily and with very little risk. Said man has the advantages of:
Pure ratio advantage (usually 3:2 in men's favor)
New person in the dating pool, creating the opportunity to get someone that isn't community dick.
Women are still horny, and that has been repressed creating tension among the entire female congregation (except those already fucking).
If they realize you're from out of town it creates the opportunity for women to go wild and release that tension without fear of you damaging their reputation.
So the question is "how do you capitalize?" Well, you need to do the following:
Look good, smell AMAZING. Just because you're in church doesn't mean that women are attracted to your soul. In fact, here, smell is the most important thing you need to perfect. Church contains a lot of hugging. You are not prepared for the number of church hugs you will get. (1.5 - don't give pussy ass soft hugs. She's hugging a man. Let her feel those muscles!) The better you smell, the better you will be remembered and discussed when you aren't around. Moreover, you will find that the women will find reasons to be close to you.
Speak the code. Church is, literally, about sending the right signals that you are a part of the "in" group. If you do not speak the code, it will be quickly sussed out that you're disingenuous or malicious. For example, "I'm kind of a slut" translates to "I've stumbled during my walk with the Lord, but he's seen fit to guide me back on the path when I fall." The general thing is to admit sin, and give the Lord credit for your good behavior. Edit: here is an example of speaking in code. This man (https://youtu.be/zqLuHB8vX_A) is CLEARLY GAY and still is, yet because he speaks the code he is a part of the "in" group. Now he has access to all the downlow church dick he can eat.
Never make the first move. Never bring up anything close to sex. Ever. It has to be her idea. Don't worry, the ones down to clown will gravitate towards you. If you make the first move, you put her in a spot where she might accept, but the social pressure will likely push her to reject. Wait for her to make an invitation to a venue outside the church and accept. Get details of time and location and then return to discussing the religious thing you were discussing before as if that's what you're really interested in.
Be affable! Talk to the men as well! You get more pussy when you are compared to other men and seen as the most dominant choice. That won't happen unless you spend some time talking to the men. Moreover, you can learn a lot about a congregation from how the men act.
Don't be a pussy. Make eye contact. Shake hands firmly. Stand tall. Smile. Walk like you're the man that god made to lead. These outward displays are uncommon from men in the church and will set you apart from them. The biggest problem with church men is that the system has pushed out the masculine men and milked the masculinity out of the ones that remained. This will be a breath of fresh air to the women.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I want to say this was one of the most interesting comment threads in the past year. "They're here to feel good". Hilarious. As if women ever don't want to feel good. :-)
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
People ALLEGEDLY go to church for some kind of moral guidance. Not women. Women don't care about anything above their own pleasure, even in church.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
I have issues with many of the tenets of Judeo-Christianity but I surprisingly enjoy going to church and dragging my wife and child there. I enjoy reading the The Bible, the songs, an hour of time just being in a room with people acting peacefully and kindly to each other. In Catholic and Orthodox church we light candles on the left to honor and remember the deceased and on the right, we light one for ourselves (the living) to reflect on our own lives. For the major holidays we make a picnic basket and get it blessed and have an outdoor meal at the church. My daughter sees people being quiet and well behaved and that helps to set an example of a time outside of school when she needs to behave. Catholic/Orthodox doesn't involve much social interaction beyond the Catholic "peace-be-with-you" moment which is a good time for my wife and I to reconnect emotionally after a week of work and parenting.
Anyways, I often drive by African American churches on the way to my own and marvel at how well dressed the parishioners are and only imagined what it was like. Thanks so much for the insights!
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yes the fragrance tips are very underrated. I get stopped by multiple women asking about my cologne. Olfactory senses are linked most strongly to human memory. If you’re ever trying to get back with a woman, for whatever reason, make sure you wear the same cologne. It will trigger a bunch of positive memories she has of you
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh, that explains why Kevin Samuels was so obsessed with cologne. There's not enough black people where I live to do black Church game. Plenty of Latinas and whites(Mormons, Christians). Damn those Mormons got some hotties but they all tend to stay married and have like 7 kids.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
My man, cologne is the secret weapon.
Women are VERY olfactory. They will remember how you smell more than anything else about you.
I put one of my guys onto cologne game - I gave him a bottle of something that didn't match my personal scent but works for him.
I don't even buy designer stuff! I get my stuff here:
https://altfragrances.com
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
agree with olfactory senses and memory is high with women.
Don't agree that it's going to be more than anything else she remembers about you, for sure. Just one of the nice things.
Initial-Glove Wahmyns 1y ago
Nah. I still remember a slow dance from 10th grade and how that boy smelled.
And if I catch a whiff of it now, the memory goes right back to him.
TriumphoftheSwill 2y ago
Reminder that black women are just as likely to have sexually transmitted diseases than not
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Because they're all fucking the same 4 guys.
Edit: I want to elaborate. The 4 things that usually make women coom are: tingles, money, status, and power
Guy 1: The pookie
He's a fucking loser and everyone knows it, but damn if he doesn't have swagger. Something about his life of danger is a panty dropper.
Guy 2: The golden boy
This is the guy that disappeared for a bit and came back a winner. He also came back with a vengeance and the finances to make it happen. This guy is arguably the most dangerous because he gives the illusion that maybe these hoes can get commitment from the rare alpha bucks (even though he never says it)
Guy 3: the "it" guy
He might be the best ball player on the block. He might drive the nicest car. Whatever it is, being with him gives status. You're his girl and, by extension you're better than every other girl that isn't. Sure, you know that you're not the only one, but you're SURE that you're the favorite... After all, that's what he tells you.
Guy 4: Pastor Dickdown
The church is a powerful community, and nobody weilds more power than the pastor and the deacons...and their wives.
Sure, you aren't a wife but you're fucking the pastor and that's the next best thing. You know that daddy secretly loves you more than the first lady, and you subtly hit at all the girls that you have more influence than they do, that you have the power to affect their standing in the community with a word whispered over a hotel pillow or during "Bible study".
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Found a gold nugget, gentlemen!
redblow22 2y ago
3 posts of straight up truth! Thanks for this, Fam!
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
This is gold. Thanks for your insights here.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
Sorry, toots... I went for a woman who isn't hard to deal with every day.
chunky 2y ago
I don't want a woman I have to "deal with". I want a woman that helps me recover from having to deal with everything else.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Why don’t ANY of these broads seem to understand this simple truth?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
They understand.
You know they understand, because they have a derogatory term for those kinds of women in an attempt to shame them back into rebellion - "pickme".
These rebellious women just don't want to cooperate with a man. Never forget that an uncooperative woman is one by choice, not by lack of examples.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
Ugly fat black entitled single mother retarded bitch.
Also its funny how all the disgusting horrid pigs have the same "sometimes" on the exercise thing
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Like our eyes don't fucking work?
DextroShade 2y ago
She is literally everything men don't want: fat, baby momma, bad attitude, into that astrology bullshit. Also, she just hit the danger zone. The thing any guy should say to her is "go back to your baby daddy".
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yup, 28, right on schedule. Epiphany phase. "nO HooKuPs". She was probably really hot 10 years ago. Now she's about 40lbs overweight. Limiting her pool of men to the top 15% that all the other women want. Kid in tow. Gee, where are all the good men at?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
In my experience, we (the "good" black men) are: