it wasn't maturity that changed you it was reality that caught up with you

Related reading: The Maturity Myth by @moorekom.

with age comes wisdom

She knew all along that the bad boy was not husband material, but she had a baby with him anyway, she also knew that good guys are suitable husband material, but she only sees them as cleanup and an ATM once their CMV (Chad Market Value) drops, classic AF/BB.

Way back when TRP was active, there was a thread on the pitfalls and to stay far away from single mothers. One guy posted how wonderful his life is with a single mother. She is traditional, cooks and cleans, regular sex, she is beautiful, so what if she was a single mother?

I caught a lot of hate from him when I asked: would she have married you, dated you or even have given you the time of day if she wasnt a single mother and had options? You were NOT her first choice. You were the guy that saver her from a hard, lonely life. If she wasnt a single mother, you wouldnt have made it on her list.

Those old sayings are true, that's why they are old sayings. "Blood is thicker than water." Now I don't care what propaganda they try to fed us, the simple matter is that the kid is NOT YOUR BLOOD. Bio-mechanics is God. DNA is ingrained in out very primordial instinct. The OP is for all the guys out there who think of wifing up a single mother. You were warned.

I remember one of the saddest stories of this poor guy that wifed up a single mother of a new born and 2 year old girls. He really loved those girls like they were his own flesh and blood. Besides feeding, clothing, and putting a roof over their heads; he went into excruciating detail of how he was trying to be worlds greatest Dad.

He was there for every major milestone a child has. Their first tooth, first day of school, taught them how to ride a bike, helped them with their homework. He was there when they were tired, or scared. He was in the audience cheering them on at plays and sports. He drove them to their practices and paid money for all their extracurricular activities. He was their Santa that stayed up late to put candy in their socks. got them gifts and a tree to put them under. He was the one that made sure they had a happy birthday with cake, ice cream and presents. He was with them all night when they were sick. He was the one that took them to the doctors visits. He took his family on awesome vacations that made memories that last for a lifetime.

Meanwhile, Real Chad Dad managed to blow into town a few times a year to visit. Usually on the major holidays or sometimes on their birthdays. He was mostly M.I.A.

Now the girls are 14 and 16. They both put a Facebook montage for Father's Day composed of them and Real Chad Dad using pics of his once a year visits. Along with that are comments of him being the Worlds Greatest Dad and how there is a special connection between a father and a daughter and how much they loved him

NOT ONE FUCKING MENTION of the man that took care of them all their lives. I could feel his tears through my computer screen. He was completely heartbroken and destroyed. He wasted all his love and resources on the product of Chad's seed and they still loved their Real Chad Dad more.

I see that some word has been censored and replaced with 'dudes'. We all know what the word was, right?

It's clear that we are listening in on a convo between the lowest tier of society here. The ghetto dwellers.

This is why baby mommas are trash and unfit for anything but being a cum dumpster.

Hmm

Recognizing the obvious, and changing your taste in man isn't wisdom. It's change of circumstances.

Your inability to skip your current circumstances doesn't make you attractive.

Wisdom is a multifacted thing, and it does not entitle you to our interest. If the only thing you got going for you is your "wisdom", after being creamp d then you are not interesting. You are supposed to realize your failures. That's not special.

Your attempt to resell your realization of failure as "wisdom" if anything, is insulting. Your baggages are unnecessary. As such. regrettably, I will go with a younger fresher woman, even if she's unwise in your terms.

My sentiment to you now is the same as your sentiment to the kind, nice, genuine men has so far been before getting the child.

These modern women remind me of a child who refuses to listen to their parent when they tell them that the stove is hot, and that they shouldn’t put their hand on it. Then when they burn their hand and have to go to the hospital, they feel smarter than the other kids because they know how bad it hurts to put their hand on the stove.

Or, you could’ve listened to people before and never had to learn the hard way.

Rather than hoping a decent man accepts you with child in tow, you could’ve simply come to him in the beginning, childless. Your odds of success would’ve been far better.

1. It's not a phase.

2. Guy in the last post nailed it.

Sometimes I get tired of all the single mom content on here because I don’t even consider them an option whatsoever, it’s basically like dating a grandmother, a man or a tranny. Totally not on my radar.

However, I forget just how many men actually do this. And for them, this content can save their life

"With age comes wisdom."

Wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others and not letting deadbeats impregnate you in the first place.