Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 3mo ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 6K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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TheRedPike TRP Mod 3mo ago
You were always the backup plan, cupcake.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Older, eager to hop in the sack, still reasonably attractive (if she’s attracting dudes from the gym, then there’s probably an element of truth that she still looks good). She’s permanently in the “fun” zone, but she doesn’t realize it yet. Guys will happily date her if they want to smash, but they’re always looking for the exit. Likely the same way she used to treat men before. Because attractive women don’t end up unmarried unless they deliberately took steps to end up that way.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Really? You don't know why? This is to leave open the possibility for more sex.
People lie. In fact, lying is part of human social interaction.
It is a lie of communism and feminism that everyone will magically start loving everyone with open honesty, which will never happen.
There have been several TV shows, movies, and documentaries about how everyone lies, and she is still confused.
Many years ago, Eddie Murphy did his special called Raw. I think it was the late 80's; I looked but couldn't find a YouTube clip. Anyway, he explained that, if you play games, men will play the games with you. Good luck.
wswZtyqNGQ 3mo ago
The difference between female perverts (who can only get wet to guys out of their league) and male perverts (who can only get hard to porn) is that the male perverts are aware of their perversion and its cause and consequences. The female perverts will always blame everyone and everything but themselves.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Porn does not cause ED. This is a lie. Please do not repeat lies.
PoopBeast 3mo ago
You're choosing those men.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
@wswZtyqNGQ What I found interesting and a sign of self-induced delusion is "it's hard feeling like you never get picked" She emphasizes she is "getting picked" but not by the ones SHE chooses. This often happens with women's passive lack of responsibility: "Men never ask me out! I can't find anyone!" but yet NEITHER are true. "All men want is sex" when it's really "All the men that I choose want is sex".
But yeah, this isn't viewed as a perversion similar to men only getting turned on by porn stars because the women are viewed as victims: "He misled me". What's amusing about this is she's suffering the fate of a different perversion: Men who pay for dinner dates unconditionally for months as the women say "I like to take things slow" even as she'd bang Chad on the first date, and after a half year or so he perhaps escalates and she says "Let's Just Be Friends". Women mislead men to get freebies all the time.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
You write
when it's really "All the men that I choose want is sex".
But the truth is...
"All the men that I choose want is sex with me.
Those very same men want family, kids a secure and loving family and home. But not with her
You know why? Because men are smart. They know the difference between a bit of fun with a sloot and a person you can try to build a life with.
She isn't so smart.
orbilius 3mo ago
That’s a good indication that those men are out of her league. Women really need to learn that their league is the men who will commit.
Have you ever had a guy friend who hits on girls in bars that he has no chance of bagging? But he buys them drinks and because he’s buying, these girls will talk to him.
He’s making the same mistake that almost every woman makes. He imagines he has a chance, and just keeps spending money.
Most of the women posted here imagine they have a chance with a chad, and they just keep spending (by giving up their body).
PoopBeast 3mo ago
"Passive lack of responsibility" I like that. "Oh poor me. Look at my plight... I can't attract the right men..." To which you point out that they're not really doing anything to attract ANY men.
The only thing these women seem to do is to lay back and have a pussy. If they want "good men" (our definition of "good" in the context of a human being would basically be "noble", I have a feeling their definition might be a bit different) they could be doing things to specifically target the attraction of specifically good men. Ask them what they're doing to attract the specifically good men they say they want. Watch the gears spin in their heads. If their eyes glaze over and smoke starts coming out their ears, snap your fingers or splash some water on their face before they overheat and malfunction. They can't compute that they would need to specifically target what they claim to want and actively avoid other things that will end up being a youth-wasting distraction, because to them, they're just dust in the wind; a dandelion spore being carried by an invisible force they have no control over.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
If you haven't heard this song, or seen the video, "Dust in the Wind". One of my favorite songs to play when I'm kicking off a weekend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tH2w6Oxx0kQ
SwarmShawarma 3mo ago
Possibly not being a woman
Aha, attractive, e.u., careful with words not to break a plate, thanks for the field report
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 3mo ago
So the average male experience?
Where the fuck do they keep getting this talking point? Post a picture and prove it. Blur your face if you have to.
Clevererer 3mo ago
It's a liberal social media tick. Since they aren't allowed to fat shame (byootiful at ANY SIZE!!1!), age shame, or trans-shame, that means redditors can't simply say "I'm beautiful." Because "everyone is beautiful."
What they mean is, "I don't have all those characteristics we all know but can't admit make women ugly (being fat, old, or men)."
The phrase "conventionally attractive" is an attempt to critique Teh Patriarchy for 'conventional beauty standards--and that's bad, mmmkay?--while also not quite saying--"whatever the problem is, it's not because I'm old, fat, or a man."
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Women math explained:
If you read the Gilgamesh saga I recently posted, one of them used this exact language and also posted a photo of her skin which clearly looks dried out and sun blotched. So how does this woman see herself as "conventionally attractive?" Perhaps she means compared to "average" women as she sees it. In other words... she sees herself as a 6 (she thinks she looks better than most women her age, perhaps she's even right on this like at the DMV), so to speak (stay with me here) so she's "above average attractive" therefore 'attractive' therefore "conventionally attractive".
Women will overrate themselves so if she's technically a 6, she'll put herself at an 8 because, hear me out, according the OK Cupid study, women rate men who are 8's at 6's. This is so she can justify "being treated like a lady" since Real Romances should have the man "pursuing" her, "leading", "planning the date", and "making an effort". (We need to create a WAATGM Bingo card. At least 25 terms).
So now, it's realistic for her. The man she wants is a 6 so she NEEDS to be an 8 and since she's "conventionally attractive" that makes sense. It's also why women may overrate their friend's attractiveness sort of like a circle jerk. If they call out a friend as a 6, even a 5 or 4, their skin blotches will get called right back like on a Real Housewives show.
Makeup. There's a saying: "There's no ugly brides" because every bride puts in as much effort to look pretty on that special day. They cover up what they can, show some cleavage, do their hair, and expertly apply makeup and smile (unless posing for wedding photos in Eastern Europe). Since they have the "potential" to be pretty for a day, after maximum effort, they consider themselves "conventionally attractive".
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Didn't comment on the longer post at the time, but it was supremely useful with the annotations/highlights.
We both know what is happening here, the aging-out process and the fading flower of their beauty (if they had it to begin with).
You are absolutely right, women play strategy when rating each other - everyone is a "8" or something silly like that, when reality is much different.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Why dont you women learn to value the male friendship?
If you want him to play a long game, you will be dumped.
That's called covert rejection.
Pilgrim 3mo ago
The simple explanation that should be basic knowledge to her but no one will ever tell her is that her and her partners’ market value don’t match.
But instead we get paragraphs of self-pitying navel gazing and secondhand flattery to salve her bruised ego while not improving her situation one bit.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
It's a Scooby Doo mystery boys! I guess we'll never know why picky women end up single forever... such a shame.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Ahh...is this what FDS would call a pickmeisha? Sounds like she was just waiting for the perfect man to come along while using others as placeholders in her life. Then the same started happening to her. And she doesn't like the fuck zone.
Women value commitment but they always underestimate the cost of male commitment. The man must gamble with his life's assets for a mere chance at a successful relationship. Women have yet to realize that nearly all of them are not worth the risk. Oh well, not my problem.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Even the title doesn't make any sense
"Never getting picked except as a friend"
As always, you have to translate what she is saying from womanese to English. She by 'friend' she means she gets railed. That's not what I call a friend!
And by 'never getting picked' she means always getting picked.
This young lady (ok, not so young) is getting picked for the smash and dash. She's so confused about reality she can't even give her tirade a decent header.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
When a man writes "why do I never get picked?" He gets told "because you are a loser and not worth picking"
One imagines that the same must be logically true in reverse even if it comes without the deep scorn and suspicion of society.
"The sum of your virtues is not enough to get over the bar for getting picked by those you would invite to pick." That's all it is ladies. Its probably a mixture of two things
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Comparison is the thief of joy.
"'Tis farre more conquest with one to live true // Than every houre to triumph Lord of new."
-Thomas Campion, "Thou joy'st, fond boy, to be by many loved", 1617