This was posted on Facebook on 9/4/24.. Most of the women thought it was a compliment. The majority of men thought it was an insult. Shows you how the female mind thinks.

I keep coming back to read this paragraph. I get such a laugh from it.

She: I don't want to have wild unlimited orgasms with you, but you can marry me.

She: I can't understand why he is upset? We had sex last month. WTF?

"Wow, you're totally not the kind of guy I'd normally have lots of orgasms with... ...why are you looking at me like that? IT'S A COMPLIMENT!!"

The key point is that women lack empathy and don’t understand why men seek out relationships. Women seek out relationships because even being in a bad relationship is more emotionally satisfying and socially prestigious than being single. Men seek out relationships for sex and children.

So for her, if her man told her that she was someone to marry, not someone to FWB, she would feel special. Because for her, our commitment is valuable. But we want sex. Telling us that other men get more access than us is an insult

By "Understand it differently" she means "understand it for what it is".

A lot of women think it's flattering to be told you're a provider and not good for sex.

"I realized how he understood it and tried to clarify it but he is still the same this morning."

This is the equivalent of the tape skipping at the Milli Vanilli concert that led to their downfall (Girl you know it's---girl you know it's---girl you know it's).

In my super nice-guy days growing up, I had female friends I was attracted to and obviously they weren't attracted to me and they would hit me with the "If we're still single in our 30s, we should totally get married!" line. Didn't realize I was not only put in the friendzone but labeled as "husband material." I'm so glad these young men have the resources today to recognize modern women-ese and are able to save themselves.

Quote from land of the loser. His needs are, as always, immaterial. A Good Man is there to provide. It's what he should want to do, unquestioningly, no matter how little there is in the deal for him. It's what he should scramble to do, and if he doesn't want to, then he's not a Good Man. He's not supposed to be acting in rational self-interest, he's supposed to be acting in her interest, like the unthinking, self-sacrificing, non-human workhorse he should be.

What was her plan? There is NO way she thought that through

Why are women such inefficient parasites? I feel like I could do a much better job deceiving a beta bux target (being a registered beta myself). I'll leave the superior analysis to the mods, but I must say:

Upon hearing her divulge her relational preferences, he knew exactly what that meant for him. He calculated his value in her feminine dual mating strategy and concluded that he wasn't appraised in accordance with his self-conception--in an instant! But really she did all the work for him I guess, "he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb with but marry." is comically blatant.

The fact that this guy felt uncomfortable is great, and proof that what the mods and people like them are doing is useful. This happened because at some point he came across the ideas discussed here, or concepts adjacent to such. Women are naked now, and their exposure will only become more complete as time moves forth. We are getting as close as possible to a zero-cuck world. Mods and prolific posters: physically pat yourself on the back right now, thank you.

This is just priceless: woman accidently tells the truth, guy realises that he is a beta bux target, hits eject. And she is 'panicking right now'.

Here's the thing chaps - women always tell on themselves. They can't keep their mouths shut. All you have to do is listen. You don't need any fancy jedi mind games, no sleuthing is required. They can't keep help it. Dealing with women is very much like dealing with 6 year old kids.

Not only has she revealed that she views him as a beta bux material, she has also revealed that she is massive slut. How else would she know what she likes for hook up times and fwb times?

Honestly, the only correct answer a guy can have to a his gf telling him that she doesn't really see him as hook up / ONS material is to look her dead in the eye and say

"That's ok - to be honest I don't really see you as GF material"

I messed it up

No, you told the truth and saved your former boyfriend from almost certain misery. I'd call that a huge win.

not hookup but marry

I repeat myself often, but this is why marrying a non-virgin (especially in the State sense) is absolutely foolish. The only way the dual mating strategy can be defeated is when a husband is BOTH AF and BB at the same time. And the only way that can happen is an inability to compare. And the only way THAT can happen is never having been with another man.

The self-reported statistical rate of happiness for pre-marriage virgins in marriage is actually really high. There's a reason why it drops off a cliff with even one pre-marital partner.

I believe the only way it can work is if there is no possibility or desire for a wife to put her husband in one of two boxes. Dual mating strategy can only occur when a woman has too much freedom and > 1 lifetime partners.

Translated:

My boyfriend didn't take it as a compliment when I revealed that I didn't have raw sexual attraction to him but was willing to use him for his resources.

"you don't turn me on like other men i would and have fucked out of sheer horny"

They can't help themselves

thank goodness he found out and ran. He needs to go for a younger woman. Why would a 28 year old guy be with a 28 year old woman? Of course she is using him. He needs a 20-21 year old.

"We were drinking and one thing led to another ..."

I'm glad this guy didn't rationalize her statement by saying, "That was just the booze talking."

"last night I tried to compliment my girlfriend by telling her she's not someone I would whisk away for a romantic weekend to Paris, or buy a Tiffany necklace for. But she is the one I would ask to fix me supper and keep the house clean for the next 30-40 years. Why is she so upset?!"

This guy dodged a massive bullet, and that bullet is dead bedroom!

There are men that women will hook up with and there are men that women will marry - not the same thing.

The men that women would marry but not hook up with are the men that end up in a dead bedroom.

Don't fall for it guys!