Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago Stickied
Thanks to @Cautiousop for the find.
I had to make some alterations to the pic to get it in compliance with rule 6 and this announcement here.
OP apparently didn't want to repost, so I'm doing it.
/meta
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
No, thanks, I will be scared
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Two words: Breast milk. You will never taste a more delicious drink, especially if you get the colostrum(cream) meant for the newborn. Don't ask me how I know, just know that there are pregnant hookers and women forbidden from breastfeeding due to diseases.
Pic889 1mo ago
So, am I going to have fun (because pregnant girls are supposedly "fun") or become a provider mule for two children that aren't mine and a woman who wants to "settle down"? I am confused, these two are mutually exclusive.
Well, not so confused, we all know which of the two it's going to be.
Unless of course you are Chad and have a pregnant fetish, in which case she will allow you to have fun for a while (then you can dash).
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
If she just means you can cum in them like a dumpster sure. That seems to be the only perk while you have to deal with the disgust of feeling like your jizz makes its way up to her womb baby's head from another man
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
And the practical bits like you could stimulate a birth if she's far enough along.
The fuck if I want to be in that situation, even if I allowed all the other red flags to pass. Yikes.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
I didn't know that could happen honestly but yeah i suppose if you triggered the vaginal stretch receptors by the cervix it could happen. That's what induces the initial muscular reaction for labor if i recall my bio med class
Wintergreen 1mo ago
Not true, I want to suck a pregnant woman’s titties. I matched with a pregnant woman once but she never met up. It was sad, because I want to suck a pregnant woman’s titties.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1mo ago
Milk fetish
Wintergreen 1mo ago
It came from this girl’s mom who was pregnant when I was like 5 and also my teacher in middle school.
Oh and another teacher who was pregnant in 2nd grade.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Don't be scared?
I have to get over my disgust, contempt, revulsion, nausea and horror before I even get to the point of merely being scared.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Yes, but after that point, don't be scared.
Wintergreen 1mo ago
No thanks I would rather fuck a watermelon.
JudgeSmales 1mo ago
From the size of her ass, my guess is she was already fat before she got pregnant.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
I'm flagging this because I want to share a personal perspective. I can remember when I was young and in high school having this specific thought: "women just want some one who loves them and is loyal". I had this thought because I frequently heard from women that their boyfriends were not loyal.
It turns out that none of that is true. With everything that I have seen and heard over the past more than 30 years since, I can tell you that none of this is true. Sure they might want these thinks to some minor degree, but they'd disregard these considerations for the hot, wealthy, violent or fun dude all their friends are also interested in. They want to never be held accountable for their decisions or actions.
I find this phrasing to be tiresome.
I'm also tired of the shaming language. Ignore women when they say things like this and "real men" or "a real man". Women are not the deciders of this.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
This is basically their way of saying they want power/privilege without consequences/responsibility, or having to work to get it. Just show up, spread their legs if they feel like it, and have the world handed to them.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1mo ago
Did not take too long to repeat her mistake and not learn her lesson the first time. But just because she says she is "finally ready to settle down" does not mean this mistake will not happen again.
I don't think there will be anything "fun" about having a relationship with a pregnant woman who is not carrying your child. Unless you find it fun to either lie to people claiming it is yours or have to explain how you are dating a woman who was knocked up by some other guy.
Another thing, if any man was unfortunate enough to be in a relationship with a woman who has children at this young of an age, there will be very little fun times and a whole lot of caretaking of two very dependent children. This is not to say that there is not joy and happiness found with this, but that applies far better when they are your children, not someone else's. You would just be skipping over the parts where you have time to actually know a woman before you have your hands full with watching over children. And that time before children is by no means trivial or unecessary. You need to know full well how your relationship will be before having children so that when you are dealing with the higher stress and more busy times that come with children you will be far better prepared for that. With this situation? You get none of that time, and certainly no real benefit when it comes to your genetics or your mental well being.
This is besides the obvious point that this woman is by no means a good prospect for any man. Because she is not.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Another American paragon of purity and virtue! Someone rescue this beautiful damsel!
It's just revulsion. Women like you are what is wrong with this country. You're disgusting and should be deported along with the rest of the immigrants.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Hey now, as someone who was late in renewing a work visa and had been in a position of risking deportation from Japan many years ago, I can't tolerate being compared to this chick.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
TBH I’d much rather a lot of the immigrants here illegally than people like this.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1mo ago
Of all the blatantly untrue things that I have seen all week, that one makes me heave harder than morning sickness.
They might've given you a few decent orgasms at least.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
No thanks. I already have at least 4.5 million baby mommas to pay for thanks to daddy government. In 2023 (the latest data I could find), 4 out of 5 women (80%) are single mothers. Can only imagine how many more have been added on since then. This only goes to support the facts behind the 80/20 rule.
Wintergreen 1mo ago
That number seems high tbh. I haven’t seen that 80% of women are single mothers.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
Oh, my bad 7.3 million baby mommas, and, it's 70% not 80% (40% are from unwed mothers and 30% from divorced mothers). Still supports the ~80/20 rule. The 4/5 is single parent families all together (including single dads).
Wintergreen 1mo ago
I don’t judge divorced mothers quite as harshly, although of course I wouldn’t want to date one. But the ones who get pregnant without ever even getting married to the guy are just haphazard skanks.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
You should judge divorced mothers MORE harshly. Imagine breaking up a family and taking kids away from a man.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Single mothers from divorce are still single mothers. They chose the wrong (bad) man or drove the right (good) man away.
REMINDER: Never marry a single mother. In general, you should maintain a safe distance from them. Children will almost always choose their biological parent over step-whatever and/or random person; any thought counter to this is simply a trope of fiction in the "entertainment" industry.
Nor should you even if you felt an inkling of desire. Doom is sure to follow.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
"They chose the wrong (bad) man or drove the right (good) man away."
WRONG
They very often choose the RIGHT man, and then get bored of him (for being too nice, and giving her the ick) and then divorce him.
Women divorce for all sorts of reasons;
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1mo ago
You disagreed with him, then immediately turned around and agreed with him! Your number two matches his "married the wrong man" and all of your other numbers are encompassed by his "drove the right man away".
I've been preaching similar for years, and I'm glad to see more men echoing it.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1mo ago
I was reading an interesting story about James Gardner so I read his wiki page. He was born in 1928 and went to Korea and came back and just before he broke into acting at age 28, in 1956 he met a divorced single mother with a 7 year old daughter at a party, took her on 14 consecutive dates, and married her 2 days after that and was married for 58 years until his death. He had a daughter with her about 2 years in.
She must have been one heck of a woman.
Here's what could have happened: She married a decent guy and her husband may have been in the war and came back with severe PTSD and it trashed the marriage. I read about many war heroes, including Audie Murphy, whose marriages broke up because they were simply different men who went into combat.
Another factor is that "traditional dating" as we know it today, and as James' story reveals, is a LOUSY way to evaluate potential partners: Dating outside of the home where a man wines and dines a woman is similar to the hit show The Bachelor that sets unrealistic expectations during courtship that have little to do with actual marriage.
Prior to this, in my grandmothers' times, courtship happened at the woman's home under supervision but also slow and realistic with boring chores and normalcy.
Even so, it's a challenge under the best of circumstances for a young woman to pick a reliable (usually) young man who himself doesn't know what he's going to turn out like. I'm a far different person than I was in my own early 20's (in a good way).
Sorry for rambling, but I want to make a point that many single mothers sadly WERE otherwise good women who were naive (like many of us) but many of us don't want to deal with it. Even so, these women used to be the norm back when James Garner met his future wife.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
It’s true. I think a huge edge we have as a man is the fact that it’s much harder for us to screw it all up at a young age. Because from 18-24, we might as well not exist, while our age cohort of women absolutely swim in attention. So the women use their naive judgment to pick a man, things go disastrously, now they’re a single or divorced mom.
Now that I’m approaching 40, i can go and see women in my age range and how they’ve grown up over time. It’s jarring to see those women who were 8’s and higher 20 years ago, now looking like 4’s. Also, you’ll see quite a few single and divorced moms. These women who used to not even have me on their radar, now would be in that exact situation with me if I were single.
On a random side note, I do think female aging is similar to giving an 18 year old a fortune. You don’t value what comes easy, and a lot of women blow their looks with fast living and low quality nourishment, in the hope that some skin care routine and makeup will somehow reverse that.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4w ago
I tell my wife repeatedly the best anti-wrinkle skin cream is sunscreen and not tanning. There’s no point to it, but I think women associate this behavior with high-status women who sit around the pool all day?
I read an interesting theory about why Hollywood celebrities are such insane flakes is that it’s natural for people’s maturity to stop when they feel they “made it” because then you don’t feel a need to listen to your elders so much as now YOU’RE the one doing the lecturing. You’re focused on enjoying life rather than improving.
Sometimes men get caught up in ruts from their childhood of course, or worse can sink into despair, but realizing that the only one who can help you is you can be a tremendous motivator for self-improvement and, this is another big one for men, self-improvement itself is a mental habit that one can instill in youth.
This is different than education which top-down driven where teachers and bosses tell you what to do to make a quota/grade. Personal driven mental improvement is a “skill” that is best taught in youth.
Before social media, a century ago, the majority of teenage girls had hours of chores to do at home, often a minimum wage job to contribute to the family or their own savings nestegg, not for “independence” but as a part of Puritan work ethic. It wasn’t just dating apps, social media, or even “TV” that ruined women but watch MadMen and how there was a science of advertisers to addict young women to consumerism.
The big problem, back then and now, is that young women in their late teens are poor natural judges of character but yet this is also their most highly productive mating years. A good set of mentors back then were make-or-break for strong marriages but we have today 4 to 5 generations of idiot dating traditions that have set a precedent that even most grandparents now have only terrible advice to give.
user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3w ago
Funding should be directed into researching why wives will disregard direct statements from their husbands.
HUSBAND: I likes apples.
WIFE: No you don't. I'm going to give you an orange.
HUSBAND: No, I prefer apples.
WIFE: Here's the orange you wanted.
HUSBAND: :(