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First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
He had a lucky escape. Lets hope he learned.
His idea of a dream job is unmanly but totally fair play in the world today. Why not stay at home taking care of your family while someone else works? Its not a bad life and its minimal stress because unlike a single parent you don't have to go to work, then come home and care for your kids and have no one to complain at that you have made a huge sacrifice for them. He saw the truth -it was no sacrifice at all but a privilege. And why should he not have that privilege under gender equality. Thing is women never wanted equality, they just wanted be made equal at men's expense in all things they are naturally weak at and still retain all their female privileges, still be treasured, entertained and courted. They don't want equality. It would be a huge stress burden for them and a huge turn off sexually. They just want everything. That's female nature -to want to have as much as you can without having any feeling of responsibility to fair play.
This is why modern women are not really relationship material. Why enter an unfair union in which you do all the heavy lifting and pay to entertain a weaker partner only to get no thanks and no perks? Trad con is dead. You might get away with it but is it worth the risk. I seem to have more or less managed to survive playing trad con all my life but I wouldn't do it that way if I had my time again and I still refuse to marry.
Sharing parenting duties of small children is pretty dumb idea -women are better at it and you are better at working, so why mess with how you are both built. That's how I saw it. However, when you look past self respect as a man, its the best thing a man can do these days to protect himself. It makes it just possible he could keep the house in the divorce. He really might if he was the stay at home mangina. Its unmanly but its shrewd. I have lived my life doing man's work -hard dangerous work in all weathers. There is zero praise and thanks for it these days. She would rather be with an accountant who comes home clean, fresh smelling, full of energy and with 5 times the money. He might even help out with the babies. So forget a man's life, just live it in your mind and your hobbies and remember Trad con is a con these days.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2d ago
It's funny how quickly women will complain when saddled with the breadwinner role but spare not one iota of thought to the concept that maybe such a role by itself isn't innately enjoyable or worth it to men either without some benefits and legal assurances being tossed in that those men are no longer offered.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 7h ago
Wait, you mean the POWER TRIPPING of emptying your wallet isn't enough to make a relationship worthwhile??
But but but surely the fulfillment of being a reliable provider makes it all work to your benefit in the end, right?
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2d ago
You have put the great problem of our age in a nutshell very well there.
For generations men have been taught to gladly accept and discharge the role of donkey in return for the benefits. Its become ingrained in male identity in our culture. I know I built my whole life around being the kind of man who could do that easily. There are no benefits now, just legal obligations. Its time to tell future generations that it is OK to just skip on it.
As a related aside; yesterday I rose well before dawn and went to the woods. I shot two deer. I butchered them in the wood. I then felled two large trees and logged them to open up a new timber extraction track. I then went home and did all the fine butchery (because my good lady feels queasy cutting up animals while they still look animal like). I had been going 12 hours straight by the end and still had to take one of my daughters to train. My good lady then gets on the phone and starts telling her friend to come round tomorrow and collect the haunch of venison she has been asking for. If she had gone to work, earned the money to buy cake ingredients, made cakes and then I had got straight on the phone to my friend and told him to come and get the cake he had been asking for, I think something might have been said. But the traditional labour of men is just ignored as standard. I have had her friends asking for free firewood too. "Can you bring me a hundred litres of heating oil in return?"
I did say "I look forward to XXXX bringing us a free Christmas dinner that her husband has got" (but she won't will she, her husband is a university lecturer. He makes far more money never getting up before dawn).
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I sure did, and I totally understand anyone younger doing it too. I'd rather be poor than work a dumb office job I hate, full of immigrants and diversity hires and women and PR training.
I just picked up fishing and shooting in my 40s, because no one ever took me growing up. Harvesting deer is my future goal, but there is so much red tape in this stupid state.
You just tell that lady that the haunch is already reserved for a nice, poor man you met on the internet who dreams of shooting meat for his family.
I did harvest a single squirrel and five wild rabbits this year! We ate all of them. And the freezer is filled with bass I caught this year.
Anything I kill, my wife has to process. That's her job, and she's gotten really good at it. I don't believe the "squeamish" thing, women are quite adaptable to all sorts of domestic work when it's required of them.
And will continue to be, until it's absent. Continuing to provide free services to people who take it for granted and give nothing back is just enabling. At the very least she could butcher your deer for you in exchange for the meat.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1d ago
I think its important that women can butcher. Its not really worked out with my daughters whose mothers are living -the mothers have not been encouraging and have actually sadly tended to discourage but the daughter whose mother is dead is a good butcher and likes to blast the squirrels in the woods and shoot rats off the hen food. Its good to teach your daughters to butcher. Teaching girls to shoot might not be strictly necessary but it sets them up to be much more understanding of their husbands, puts them on the right side of the gun control debate and means that they will be glad when their sons are taught to shoot. In this day and age it is something I think fathers should try to do.
My dad did teach me to shoot but he never knew how to hunt and I had to learn that for myself. From the outside without someone to introduce you to land owners and help you make good decisions at first, hunting can be hard to access at first. Its good to get that skill. What I have noticed is that hunting laws vary so much by country and state and one just has to jump through the hoops patiently and take the best that the state offers and ignore the stuff that's too much hard work. The bass sounds great. That I don't get where I am from. Anyway I hope you get to harvest some deer soon.
Have you tried southern fried squirrel? Its surprisingly good. I gather the mountain men started the dish on squirrel and then tried it on chicken as they got more static. Shame you can't shoot some of my squirrels for me. I have lots of the blighters ruining trees. I was chatting to the estate manager for my wealthy neighbour last week and he told me he sent a man out with a shotgun into the woods last month and he shot 34 in a morning. The infestation is that bad. Usually with the shotgun you shoot a few and the others wise up to the noise But 34! Young smoothed barked trees will have no chance.