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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2w ago
My last time to China was 2019. That feels like a long time ago.
The problem with being a Caucasian foreigner in China is that people think you don't speak Chinese at all.
... all I can say is that if you're a decent-looking foreigner with a good career who has a decent command of Chinese, the pussy will fall out of the sky.
I won't say any more because I wish to protect certain secrets.
Ishabaka 2w ago
For me the most significant thing is, I never once heard any of those women mention something they were doing or working on to make themselves a more inviting marriage prospect for a man. I guess Chinese women are more similar to American women than I imagined.
throwaway415 2w ago
smartphones have spread the disease globally
its in almost every country now
the end is nigh
derdeutscher 2w ago
As if Europe is different. So often I see clubs or bars without guys. At least normal guys. Few third world groppers and rapists are always inside, and thats kind of what most women deserved. Normal white guys stay at home.
No-Stress-Cat 2w ago
What makes this even more hilarious is that China just recently passed a new marriage law. In the event of a divorce, anything the man owned before the marriage, as well as any inheritance, remains his property, and everything the woman owned before marriage remains her property. Anything they bought together gets split between them.
Needless to say, women are pissed about it.
SwarmShawarma 2w ago
How about alimony for either a wife or a child?
No-Stress-Cat 2w ago
Alimony doesn't exist. When two people divorce, they are responsible for their own expenses.
I'm not 100% sure about child support. There's so many different factors that go into determining who pays what, but child support is determined for each child separately. I'm not sure what the ratio is, depending on income and who has custody, but for sure both parents are responsible for the child's expenses.
One has to keep in mind that in Chinese culture child rearing isn't just between parents, but entire families. The ex-wife can not just NOT get a job. She has to pay her fair share. If she can't pay her fair share, that burden falls upon her family. So, if she doesn't want to bring shame to her family, she needs to get off her ass and get to work.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Oh that has made me happy! I hope more men start having reasonable standards and asking fair contribution across the world.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 3w ago
@ 2:40:
What were they doing through their twenties, hmmmmmmmm?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago Stickied
This is a gold find. I suggest it be stickied. Rarely is a video so honest and based.
Consider this at 501 seconds: A 35 yo woman opens on a matchmaker date: "Hello. Just so you know, I have a bad temper. I'm very straightforward and not very good at housework. I expect the man to take care of that." When the man left immediately, she complained: "How can there be such petty men in this world?"
Right after that, another based observation: A man asked a woman her income on a date and she was surprised and rather than him merely being classist, he made a sage observation: The woman had a low monthly salary and her family was poor, but she spent a year's salary on designer bags and clothes and he said this indicated she was irresponsible.
It's amusing how some of the women have heavy filters or makeup that's practically geisha. So much RP wisdom distilled in a single video.
It makes me wonder though: With a video like this, shouldn't women wake up or at least younger women? What about parents who would see something such as this? Who am I kidding! In the states, we see the same phenomenon but nobody thinks it applies to them or their princess. It's sort of like packs of cigarettes labeled: "This causes cancer and ruins your looks!" and people still smoke them.
Love the observation about the cold transactionalism involved: The (aging) women have "bride prices" and demands of income which removes any romanticism on the part of the man. At least with meal whores, some men are tricked into thinking that the date is "romantic" because she acts warm and perhaps avoids asking what kind of car he drives or his position and gleans the info in other ways. So when a wealthy, tall man is reminded up-front she's materialistic, why should he cut her any slack about her age and looks?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
You know what? I agree.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
Where is this stickied?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
https://www.forums.red/i/whereareallthegoodmen
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2w ago
what is hilarious is that these women will not even consider the truth. that younger women are simply a better bet (still a gamble).
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3w ago
Lol the tier of man that these hags are demanding don't have to demean themselves by going to a Manager's Special roasted meat festival.
cundardunfinished 2w ago
It's funny the requirements they have around height and income when determining 'marriageable men.' I think health plays a big part in these imbalances, in the U.S. like 2/3 of women are cows so men are thirsty af for any woman with a decent body. In China there are many more normal weight women so the balance between genders is more even, or in this case skewed towards men who meet certain baseline requirements. I know China has other considerations but the balance is also more even in other Asian countries.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
While nutritional health matters a great deal, there's not much many men can do about height.
I was relieved when I found out I'm having a daughter because this is a lot easier in many ways. If I had a son, I'd invest about $100K if needed in height treatments such as surgery, if necessary, or hormones. I'd certainly focus on various stretching exercises and natural foods to enhance height as well.
I marvel at a colleague who is helicopter parenting his son in academics when a bit of height and game matters a great deal more in personal happiness.
I read something interesting, don't know if it's true, but tall man/short wife pairings allegedly produce tall daughters and short sons statistically which would be the worst thing possible.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2w ago
Dude, no. Being mutilated and at high risk for permanent injury isn't worth a few extra inches. If you want a few laughs, check out the links and search results from this post of mine on the trp.red side of the site.
Teaching him to be comfortable in his own skin and confident would be far more helpful.
I don't think any of those actually help. Really, just good nutrition, and nothing that stunts growth like malnutrition or various drugs.
For all that height helps, it's not the end-all, be-all that a lot of dudes think. I've known short guys who slay poon, and I've known tall guys who can't get laid.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2w ago
I wanted to read that thread but, sadly as you say, he appears to have deleted his comments. From what I could tell, at the time, he appears (to me) to have wanted to locker-room brag here and you called him out and he got insecure/defensive about it.
I chuckle at one of my early girlfriends saying that I shouldn't believe "locker room" talk when I have found that men despise such bravado most of the time while women are the ones who engage in it and they project it onto us.
Note that, as I said, this is utterly academic for me at this point PLUS I don't want to get into an argument with you over a topic I haven't explored while you perhaps have.
That being said, and I tread carefully, quoting statistical outliers wouldn't convince me. Sure, some rich guys are miserable and poor guys are happy, for example, but I'd do what I could to set up a son to be financially established. I chuckle over how women in dating ads back in the 1990's used to use the term "financially established" in a different context to what I did. That term means, to me, you aren't living paycheck-to-paycheck and have eff-you money so you aren't abused by a boss. THEY meant it in that you were in the investment class and could splurge money on them on dates without a second thought.
One comparison, although not absolute of course, would be women getting breast or nose jobs. Her kids are going to have that nose. Women also can pile on makeup (some hilarious videos on that). Heightists, of which many 25+ single modern women are now, are not easily fooled.
Courtney Ryan made a video on the topic and tried to praise short kings and frowned upon surgery, in particular, but this only has a meaning when a society doesn't engage in harsh discrimination. For example: I wondered if I should have done a "soul man" in my early 20's and adopted a non-white persona: Changed my name, altered my appearance, and started a minority owned business for the government benefits. non-whites commonly engaged in appearance altering a century ago.
So, again this is academic, if I had a son I'd have researched the heck for things to improve height. A casual read shows that hormone treatments are effective although expensive (which I have ways around) and weighed the risks. That's what parents do. My wife complains my daughter comes home with scratches and skinned knees when we go to the playground, but she's socially confident and happy. My wife tends to bubble wrap her.
It's an option I would have explored considering what I know about our modern western society. I refuse to be shamed for considering such options when a society doesn't support those who reject them. It's also why I went to prostitutes when I realized that our society celebrates and even mandates men paying for sex in one form or another.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
Oh, it wasn't just me. There were several others, and I hope you were able to find some of those replies.
Ugh. Going to women for advice about women is a waste of time, 99% of the time.
I'm definitely not shaming you, as that is against of the rules of this forum/sub that I'm here to enforce. However, I am very much trying to talk some sense into you.
Mutilating someone's legs for a few extra inches is just dumb.
1) the height tranny will never be able to run, jump, etc as well as he would have if he remained unmutilated.
2) his legs will be disproportionally long compared to the rest of the body, and so rather that becoming more attractive, he'll just look weird.
There's more, but it's early and I'm pre-coffee. Might edit it in later if I remember.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
As I said, no dog in the fight for me on this so we're cool. Question though: What do you think of "boob-trannies" or fake boobs? For, against, neutral? Nosejobs?
There was controversy over Jennifer Grey's nose job and Meg Ryan's plastic surgery.
Then there's makeup: There are these hilarious videos of women who transform into another person via about an hour of work hence why the best first dates are on the beach or playing tennis. :-). (For the record, I think Sydney Sweeney was hot in those bleached beach pics).
In a society, say, where women with big noses were treated with disdain not only by men, but also by society overall, I could sympathize if the rhinoplasty place was always booked up.
If I could go back in time, to when I was 18, I'd consider the leg lengthening surgery for those extra 3 inches. I would also consider all the things you and others said about the risks and side-effects.