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redpillschool Everybody tag him 1w ago
This is how you create an Alpha widow. She's had so many partners with so many different supreme qualities that eventually no single man can please her because no single guy has all the cumulative traits of all her exes.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1w ago
No one will do except for the Frankenchad's Monster she has built in her mind.
redpillschool Everybody tag him 1w ago
Frankenchad- did you just coin this because it's fucking awesome.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I agree its a wonderful concept. Probably should be called Dr Frankenslut's monster. The best bits of all her dead relationships stitched together and brought to life.
I guess it would all go wrong when the monster would then ask his creator to make him a wife. After all how could she ever please him, when he has so many strengths that he is worth so much more than her.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
I think this is something similar to men clicking on porn too many times, getting desensitised and failing to be satisfied because after a while you are always looking for something just a bit better to shoot your load to. In fact they say quite a few men who do this get into extreme porn, just as quite a few sluts want big tattooed guys to strangle them because they just want "more" of something than last time.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 6d ago
I think its very different than porn.
Don't get me wrong - I think porn is damaging for men.
But porn is of course only an avatar for something, we all know its not real. No man is ever 'longing' for porn. We use it beause we are bored and horny. We don't fall in love with porn.
the issue with women that are alpha widowed is that they have fallen in love with chad, and they then get dumped - so they never fall out of love with chad. then you come along, and you are just a solution to her project of having children and being funded for the rest of their lives.
It's a totally different mechanism - men don't fall in love with porn. women fall in love with chad, and then they are not able to love another guy.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Yep, that has to do with the way porn addles your brain. See John Doyle's excellent video on it.
Women are like duct tape. The first time they have sex, they are designed to stick to that man for life. If that relationship ends, she can never get her stickiness back. At best it's going to be like 50% the next time. After that it goes downhill even faster. Eventually she loses the ability to stick to anyone. She left a bit of her soul with each man, and becomes empty and bitter.
It's quite sad, tbh.
redpillschool Everybody tag him 1w ago
Except real life titties will never compare to porn... A boring porn does nothing for me but if I'm in person with a hottie with just an inch of cleavage showing I get fired up.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
doesn;t even have to be a hottie. a real life woman is the thing.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Porn is only of any interest at all because you are all set up to love real life. But I think women have got so desensitised that they are playing real life relationships in the same way a guy scrolls and clicks on porn hub. Once you have had a few clicks and faced with enormous choice, you want something a bit better than the last time, something that is more exciting on some way or other. Women have unintentionally made relationship satisfaction very hard for themselves by desensitisation.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
I'll try this analogy: Did you ever read the statistic that more people have died in their bathtubs than from shark attacks? That more die from obesity than starvation?
While porn addiction is a danger, the larger common danger is a failure to control attraction to women and losing their livelihoods.
"Everything in moderation, including moderation" -- Oscar Wilde
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Yeah, porn is not nearly as damaging as real women when it comes to a man's mental health and wealth.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
When I first left the states, it was mind-blowing how I actually found women ENJOYABLE to be around. They actually had interesting things to say and were kind. Prior to that, I had a number of old women, usually married or widowed, who were good friends. Young women, particularly single women, were largely unpleasant for a reason like the fruits at the farmer's market 3 hours after opening: the worst of the bunch.
When my parents came of age 70 years ago, the AVERAGE age of marriage was 21 meaning 1/2 were married BEFORE then. Sometimes they were not the greatest of matches but those lousy marriages were probably superior to many today. Men married women before they had a chance to spoil and there wasn't all the stuff around to spoil them: social media, TV (was 3 channels of relatively wholesome entertainment), and even books.
Young women back then dated "with intent" to marry and not to "have fun", go on lots of dates, or even just start to think about marriage when they're in their early 30's.
Bad fruit is still "real" fruit, but that's misleading. I'm raising my daughter to be a "real" good woman. It astonishes me how many people out there do not do this with their daughters.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
Well done, it needs a lot more of us. The thing about fruit is that one bad apple spoils the barrel if the fruit is left together for a while. I don't know how old your daughter is now but at some point that your daughter is going to be in a teenage friend group as one of the few unspoiled apples in a barrel of spoiled ones.
That's when it gets tough. You can't easily separate her out for her formative years or you deny her the chance to understand how the world actually is and to develop social skills but you also do not want the bad fruit to spoil her. Do you let her go on sleep overs or keep her home for fear of corruption watching sexual stuff with the wrong friends who are vaping out of the bedroom window? Completely separate her and you make her very vulnerable if you can't marry her to a good man before she leaves home. Let her mix a bit and you run a risk.
Yesterday my lady and I had a huge row over my ideas about this. She feels girls should never go on sleep overs or meet their friends socially at all or they will be corrupted. She is angry that I have raised an older daughter of mine who lives with us but who is not her daughter this way. I maintain I did the right thing as the results show. The girl is fine and has not spoiled because the friend group was good and the girl knows her worth and the value of her health. She is a national level athlete, values her health and is not interested in casual or low quality men. Unfortunately the daughter I have with my lady is not keeping good company (in with the pretty bratty girls), skips training in all her sports and is naughty at school in spite of all my lady's ranting, punishing and endless catechism. To me it is no wonder. The girl is rebelling. She really was the best behaved little girl in school but she wants to shake off the shackles now. She is in danger now of spoiling and we need to take the best steps we can, though our options are quite limited now -I think grant some limited freedoms but only with good families. Ranting and bitching won't fix it. Our daughter is going covert and not telling her mum what she is up to. My lady is losing control through having exerted too much control -mental as well as physical- and never letting the girl think for herself. I long warned her this might happen...
Its a combination of trying to wax your fruit a bit to protected it from the bad fruit, (trying to teach her the dangers of the current culture in a non preachy way, so that she may come to make this understanding her own) and just making her avoid clearly bad fruit. But its not easy as a kind father to balance the need of the girl to grow and have friends (because women do need a friend group to be normal and rounded) and to be protected.
It is not easy. It needs a lot more of us.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Someone here told me the difference between authoritative vs authoritarian parenting: My daughter knows I have a duty to see she's raised right and I welcome her questions rather than "because I said so". I'm happy to explain to her why a particular policy is in place and that my goal is for her to be happy and successful, not a loser. I institute proportional punishments (usually privilege restrictions) for bad behavior and she's aware of why it's bad. She's 8 years old.
I trained her early on to be a social leader, not follower. We practiced approaching children at the playground to ask them to play and handling rejection gracefully. I'm hoping that if she has a large social circle (or set of circles), she won't be a member of the feminine hivemind.
Recently, one of the boys teased her by saying "your daddy is fat" so my daughter without skipping a beat said "your daddy is bald". The boy's mother and I had a good laugh about it. So I did some adjustments to my diet so my workouts would be more effective. I lost 8 lbs last month. The boy, after all, was right and my daughter sees I can take teasing with humor and then improve. I presented for her "what does your parent do" day at school and she said the kids thought I was "cool". I said I'm a government bureaucrat making sure their parents' personal information is safe.
We host fun parties and good kids are invited. I think hosting parties carries an advantage: The kids will be respectful of my daughter so my daughter feels more secure.
My way of handling anything bad about my daughter is not "because I said so" or "X is bad, ok?" but rather for her to consider whether fads and naughtiness is something "winners" or "losers" do. Heck, even now, despite Hollywood being a mess, how many actors in movies have face tattoos and piercings?
This also worked on my wife, somewhat: She's Ukrainian and people said she'd Americanize. The only problem with that is that the American women were snobby towards her so she sticks with the foreign community so I'm perfectly ok with that.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1w ago
This graphic misses the point: it's not Mike, Josh, Paul or Peter she's missing...its the actual experience of being pumped and dumped. She misses the carousel. She misses the drama of being not knowing where her 'boyfriend' (some guy that for whom she is only a plate) is, who else he is smashing, him not answering the phone, being cheated on etc. Oh the tingles!!!
Now she is in a loving relationship with a guy that treats her with respect. Oh the ick!!!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1w ago
Something "blue pill" or even just healthy, ordinary men don't "get" is that women have a natural comfort level of drama. (Most) men view success as a drama free personal life and so when they, we, see a problem we try to fix it or live with it the best we can. That's not to say that men don't back down from a "challenge". We enjoy FPS games and ambition at work but in our personal life, we aspire towards tranquility.
I've been married for 21 years and I've become somewhat accustomed to the drama almost like how some get used to the battery-dying chirp of a smoke detector or traffic sounds from living close to a main street. I read that some men are blindsided by a divorce or getting cheated on when the wife/girlfriend is NOT complaining/nagging indicating that she's "given up on" or gaslighting him. Sometimes my wife was EXTRA nice to me and it turned out she was up to no good (blew money on a stupid gift for a friend, for example).
I've had some tell me that they think my marriage isn't good, and they may be right, but I have seen how other friends' marriages turned out with it all being "lovey-dubbey" and then the most awful things happening. I've become philosophical about life: I try to see that even if I have hardships, other people may have them worse than me and not even know it or see things worse than they really are.
throwaway415 1w ago
This is why I wouldn't ever take a girl with past partners seriously. I'd fuck her, but I'm definitely not about to try to wife her up.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1w ago
Is the punchline missing?