I know that all of you in TRP are going to go "Next her" "stop being onitus" etc but im not trying to get into a relationship, more try to get her into the sack. I was looking for advice on how to get over the inevitable shit tests and bagged involved.
Please dont link stuff like the "going through the trash" post, or other things of the sort to convince me otherwise. Part of being alpha is making your own decisions, and I still very much physically want this woman to suck my dick. I would appreciate some advice from experience TRP here.
http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1jiyj9/need_seduction_advice_for_complicated_situation/
Thanks TRP, youve been a great addition to my life, but I dont know everything :D
Pushnikov 11y ago
Here's a shocker. "I want to fuck you, I know you do, I saw your pussy wet. Let's do this."
GaiusScaevolus 11y ago
Follow these steps until she tells you no.
[deleted] 11y ago
^This OP send this man a pic of the naked broad if you succeed
Meglomaniac 11y ago
Chances are we will run into each other again at the bar tonight.
Ill be hanging out with various groups and with the security who I am friends with. She will come in with some friends. Im sure I can isolate by having a drink with me.
The question is what to do between isolation and escalating to kissing/etc. There has to be some transition, I cant really just pull her aside and start kissing her.
GaiusScaevolus 11y ago
Yes you can. and it's Alpha as Fuck.
If you need an intermediary, go dance.
Meglomaniac 11y ago
Okay, so here is the plan. its a couple hours to the time I go to the bar so I dont think im going to get any more advice.
When I see her, im going to ask her to have a drink with me.
When we are waiting for drinks, I will escalate kino and make smalltalk.
I will then isolate her on the patio, find an unoccupied seat/table. I will take her drink from her hand and put it down with mine.(question applies here) I will then kiss her for 1-2 seconds then sit down and pull her ontop of me and continue with a conversation. pretty simple kino escalation and shit I cant plan for.
The question that I have is because of the baggage and past history(relationship reattempts) should I say something here? I feel like I should be saying something like "I should have done this a long time ago" or something similar.
[deleted] 11y ago
I'd say nothing.
GaiusScaevolus 11y ago
Say nothing.
fuk_offe 11y ago
Say nothing. If she also doesn't say nothing it means she's not attracted to you, so don't lose your time with her, use it in other productive ways instead (eg.: business or improving yourself).
Meglomaniac 11y ago
There isnt really dancing at this place. its a pub, mostly just drinking and chilling. I dont really think that just kissing her with nothing said before will work, her slut defenses will go through the roof. I know what you are saying with the alpha stuff, but with the previous history I dunno if it will work effectively. IMHO there needs to be something said even if its just like "you know im very blunt, I dont want a relationship, what I want is you" and then start kissing her. I dunno, thats why im posting here.
[deleted] 11y ago
You want her to suck your dick but you fear that her slut defenses go through the roof? Well you got to risk it.
Chances are that she's not going further than kissing. BTW pulling her aside for a drink is not really isolating. If you want to have success you have to be alone with her.
Meglomaniac 11y ago
Well absolutely, I am willing to risk it. Its not about that, merely playing devils advocate in the attempts to solicit more advice.
There is no way she will come alone anywhere with me right now just by me asking. I have to start from the bottom and work my way back up to the point where I can get alone with her. I cant just text her and say "come by my place" it wont work.
IPlayUkulele 11y ago
Then do that! She probably thinks you still want a LTR - you need to break this frame. Treat her like you would any of the plates you're trying to spin and show some outcome independence. Hit on other chicks and show that you're both high value and just there there have fun.