Went my whole life without ever having sex or a gf of any kind. Was always told I was good looking and funny but I just never tried pursuing women. I’m the quiet type and just kind of thought they’d come to me I guess.
Started looking up ways to finally make something happen and I stumbled upon this subreddit. Of all the different methods I’ve read up on, trp just seemed to be the most real and in tune with what’s going on in real life. Most of the things I read here I will actually go out and see it in everyday life. After about 2 years of lurking here and watching RP minded coaches on YouTube I finally started attracting lots of women, however last night it actually went down!
We met at like 10pm and by 12am I was already in a hotel banging her. Not to mention she bought us the room. When we got in bed she started throwing these weak shit tests like “I don’t just sleep with strangers” or “I need to drink a little more before I’m comfortable”. I just kept deflecting everything she threw at me and proceeded to touch where I wanted. After I sucked her nipples and rubbed her ass for a few minutes she was ready to go. I was hella surprised because I lasted for hours and was actually pounding the crap out of her. Her moans and the helpless look on her face motivated me to just really pound her as hard as I could. She didn’t have the slightest clue I was a virgin either. I just acted like I’ve done this a thousand times. Also I was really just trying all the crap I’ve seen in porn but she was in pure bliss. For some reason though, I couldn’t cum. I was hella turned on and hard as hell the entire time but it wouldn’t happen. I didn’t realize how tiring sex is either. If it wasn’t so physically demanding I would of just kept on going. Finally at like 4am I check the time and tell her I have to go to work in a couple hours. We wrap it up and I take her to her house where she finally gives me her name and number.
Anyway I have to give a huge thanks to this subreddit. I was starting to think something was wrong with me but I just didn’t have any real knowledge on how women think and work. Good luck to everyone who’s still on that mission to lose their virginity and for those that are deep in the game don’t change up! The knowledge given here is absolutely life changing!
TyphoonSubLover 3y ago
reminds me, my first time i had sex, i didn't cum the first time
zxblood123 3y ago
grats bro - what are your tips and resources to helping you get out of the crutch?
SalesAficionado 3y ago
Good for you man!
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awokepsl 3y ago
I thought foreskin makes you more sensitive...
New_Guard 3y ago
Congrats man!
When I lost my virginity, I also couldn't cum. Eventually had to stop because the girl was worn out. Condom sex SUCKS. It's the main reason I'm not really interested in random hookups. I have to hit it just right and as hard and fast as possible, and even then it's a bit of a challenge, and it's not that great of an orgasm. You can improve it a bit with better, thinner condoms, but there's legitimate variability in dick sensitivity, and some of us just need more stimulation than others.
I'll take 5 sequential relationships with quality women on birth control / IUD plus my solid pullout game over 100 random thots banged with a condom on.
Successful-Shape272 3y ago
Probably cuz you too desensitized from porn lol.
TyphoonSubLover 3y ago
that was my experience as well
jeunpeun99 3y ago
If you beat the meat with porn etc. it could be difficult to come in soft pussy.
lifeintraining 3y ago
A fake name is the only protection you need, buddy.
New_Guard 3y ago
We all live by the ethical code that feels right to us.
L2diy 3y ago
Besides STDs but yeah basically
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Protocol_Apollo 3y ago
Try larger sized condoms. Most condoms are too tight.
MichaelFromToronto 3y ago
This is a good suggestion. I thought I had trouble with ED, but it was just the condom being too small
OPs_Real_Mom 3y ago
Same issue was so worried I broke my dick then found out I needed King Size
dutchgguy 3y ago
same, you usually find out later that you need magnums :/
GunzBlazein180 3y ago
Magnums suck, bitches describe it as fucking a guy with a trash bag around his dick.
plastic-watering-can 3y ago
I've never ejaculated from a hookup. Ever. It happens. Something weird about hookups mate.
Brolocks 3y ago
More like something wierd with u , maybe tiny eilly or gun shy?
sehns 3y ago
Don't feel bad about not cumming, it's kind of a low key boss move tbh.
It's not very common and will leave her feeling insecure as fuck and the hamster wheel will be spinning about the hotter women you must be used to fucking. Good job
Zvx3 3y ago
Trust me I didn’t care haha. I was just proud I was able to bang her brains out for that long
GabePlot 3y ago
Eh, it usually results in the girl not ever letting you fuck her again because it is a major indicator that the guy is nervous. Not that he fucks hotter girls
sehns 3y ago
Says more about you than it does about me, friend. I've had the polar opposite experience. After you've fucked hundreds of women you think it's to do with nerves? or because she's a shit lay?
TeddyMGTOW 3y ago
Sounds like a Penthouse Letter. Anyone old enough to remember those?
Shipbldr2000 3y ago
The Penthouse Forum is reborn...
TeddyMGTOW 3y ago
lol
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Zvx3 3y ago
I never got online dating to work, most of my dates come from cold approaches. They were both pretty hot though. Her pussy was shaved bald and there’s was absolutely no smell which was awesome. I always hear jokes about smelly vaginas so I’m glad I didn’t have to go through that my first time.
MatingAdvice 3y ago
Interesting order of events
That just doesn't happen by watching videos only. What did you actively do?
Zvx3 3y ago
I just started going out like crazy. Drink a little booze and cold approaching any chick I wanted with 0 fear of what would happen. Also I ride motorcycles which makes it that much easier and boosts your social life like no other.
ken_mav13 3y ago
I would be too dependent on booze tho. But good on you for going out and not giving excuses.
MattyAnon Admin 3y ago
Worst asktrp question ever! :)
Congrats man - this is how life should be
NDN2004 3y ago
Nice shit man, but there’s a thank the red pill sub for this
ShitInMyAssPlz 3y ago
Is there really? You got a link
NDN2004 3y ago
It’s linked in the menu bro
ShitInMyAssPlz 3y ago
Found it lol
King_of_kings4 3y ago
Happy for you man
Prize-Thought-4205 3y ago
This happens a lot more than people think, a seemingly good looking and socially adept fun guy still being a virgin in his early to mid 20s. The only difference is other guys chase after girls more & make an attempt to get them or just get lucky & met more chicks that wanted to do things with them. But either way giving a shit about virginity or n counts because society or other peoples beta degenerate bullshit. It doesn’t have to matter at all it’s all based on perspective.
BePrivateGirl 3y ago
Lol
Brogba420 3y ago
He’s basically Johnny Sins, just need to get his numbers up
T00kTheRedPill 3y ago
“Virginity” is associated with having and losing your hymen. Men don’t have hymen. You had sex for the first time.
Congrats man. Sounds like you did great!
Don’t worry about not busting a nut. It was your first time and you were most likely nervous, which is normal. You’ve got to be more relaxed in order to climax.
Keep doing what you’re doing, have fun with her but make sure you don’t oneitus her. Enjoy your turn and when with her or any other woman, take your time, get out of your head, focus on all of the sensations and don’t worry about cumming. Take your time and treat it as a slow, fun walk, not a sprint. Focus on being in the moment and you’ll be bustin nuts on her face in no time.
Take care man and make sure you protect yourself and your seed.
TheGreatestSpice 3y ago
Good to see a success story here for once! Bravo brother!
Same here beta parent programing taught me good women will magically just come to you but thats bs you have to make them come to you with success, confidence, and looks.
drkinferno72 3y ago
Neat
Funkydirigidoo 3y ago
Not nutting is definitely nervousness. You dick knows. It's a little wary. The orgasm is a huge moment of weakness.
You can nut when you feel safe with someone familiar or when fapping -- or when you've been with enough strangers that you no longer have that fear.
Soms619 3y ago
Congratulations bro. Love the fact that you did it like a pro for a first timer. You probably didn't cum quickly because you was in your head thinking about the whole experience.
Unbannable_1721 3y ago
Very nice.^^I ^^cant ^^believe ^^she ^^preferred ^^Van ^^Patton’s ^^card ^^to ^^mine.
changy15 3y ago
This had me rolling.
ppanther92 3y ago
About the not-cumming thing: happened to me too at my first time and never since.
Guapscotch 3y ago
dope, interesting that you couldn't bust though. If it continues happening you might want to visit a professional about it
sickam0r 3y ago
Like a hooker?
Guapscotch 3y ago
Lol why not
sickam0r 3y ago
I wasnt sure if you meant like a medical professional or a "getting off" professional
Zvx3 3y ago
Definitely not a hooker, like I said she bought the room. Also bought me a drink at this bar and it was all on her birthday lol
sickam0r 3y ago
Nah i wasnt saying the girl in your post was a hooker. This guy i was responding to said "you might want to see a professional" if you cant get off or something.
I was half joking half serious when i asked him if he meant a hooker. I wasnt sure if he meant a medical professional or a sex professional.
winefox 3y ago
How did you deflect those shit tests?
gatormanz_ 3y ago
teach us, sir
Kuneyah 3y ago
With his hands
cluelessguitarist 3y ago
By using the "no shit test" shield, remember to equip it before laying wood for the first time, most of the time its always needed.
Zvx3 3y ago
So it was her birthday and her cousin is in the next room with my buddy.
“I don’t just sleep with random strangers” Me: what? It’s your birthday though, your not gonna let your cousin have more fun than you huh?
“I need to drink more before im comfortable” Me: Ignores comment while pulling her in and rubbing her ass.
VSelf47 3y ago
Thats a nice response.
Ignoring shit tests is some of the best tool, I’ve found.
awokepsl 3y ago
What a brilliant Machiavellian response. Good job, what kind of redpill info improved your sex life?
DerpJungler 3y ago
This is the beginning of your journey.
Go on and become the slay king.
arixxx_ 3y ago
1: “who said we were sleeping together ?”
“Aww, you want to read my Wikipedia page ?”
2: “ Wow. You’re goin Bill Cosby on me ?”
“ I feel you. I do that with everything. Before I hit the gym, before I drive, and before I hit the shower.” (Match with a grin)
Zero-Milk 3y ago
facepalm
Jesus fucking christ.
SergiuIlescu 3y ago
These incel fantasies going strong
30DaystoSolstice 3y ago
_Send_ 3y ago
Does the f word still get you banned on here cuz I wanna call this guy it
Spikempv 3y ago
How did you meet her
Zvx3 3y ago
Me and a buddy were hanging outside a bar and we cold approached them as they walked by. It was 2 of them and they were from out of town so we offered them a ride on our motorcycles to show them the city. From then it was pretty much a cake walk.
onedamnman 3y ago
The bike probably helped you. I like to think chicks like bikes
heathrowaway678 3y ago
gt566 3y ago
Condom or nah?
Zvx3 3y ago
Yes, I started carrying one once I realized the possibility of sex was an actual thing now. Also it broke at one point and I had to run to the store and get another. When I came back she was just laying in the bed slowly grinding the mattress so I knew she was still ready
xxx69harambe69xxx 3y ago
hi five vry niice
Rkingpin 3y ago
My wife died.
Hei feive !!
Lateralanouncer 3y ago
Good work my bro. When your starting out Just watch out for one it is. It can take a while and a lot of numbers to get to the same sexual morality as modern woman.
knicks2021 3y ago
TangoHack 3y ago
Congrats man! Glad to find another brother who had success thanks to what we teach each other over here. I have improved my sex life a lot, too, after following the advice of asktrp forum. Great community, glad to be part of it.
BlondeHornyElf 3y ago
good for you man :-)
VasiliyZaitzev 3y ago
Bravo, D’Artagnan!
319Skew 3y ago
Bravo.
scl17freak 3y ago
Interesting to hear of other dudes who couldn't bust their first time... I'm one of them. Never a problem since. Psychological perhaps? Strange world
ebaymasochist 3y ago
Happened about ten times. I think it's my brain attempt at protecting me from getting some stranger pregnant. Banged a 42 year old with condoms and came three times in a couple hours, but this was after taking to her for a week. I guess that is safe enough
scl17freak 3y ago
Now that I think of it I also couldn't the first time I banged this girl I was having second thoughts about. So I think it's probably just reluctancy
SlipperyBandicoot 3y ago
You couldn't because you were nervous. It's a normal thing for a lot of guys. That or you were drunk. Alcohol does that to me
Zvx3 3y ago
Hmm definitely was drunk so maybe
SlipperyBandicoot 3y ago
Yep probably the alcohol then. Some people can't get it up at all when they're drunk. But many can but it's just harder to finish.
Every-Performance985 3y ago
Alcohol is my viagra, i bust too early otherwise
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AegonTheC0nqueror 3y ago
Good story but wrong sub. You’re gonna get banned for this.
curvedbymykind 3y ago
Tldr?
catsdontsmile 3y ago
He had sex and didn't cum
SalesAficionado 3y ago
When you're a Chad, you don't let God's holy mayo escape your body
unfluxa 3y ago
My boi ready for round 2, 3 & 4
lifeintraining 3y ago
Especially not into Satan’s sinful roast beef sandwich.