I was at the gym yesterday, I decided to use one of the cable machines. The cable machine i decided to use was the only one available. Bitch was using one of the cable machines next to me. I was not looking at her or anything.
Bitch glares at me and says "excuse me, could you please just walk around and come back in 10 minutes once I've completed my exercise". I politely say no. Bitch starts raising her voice at me and causing a scene saying "I WAS HERE FIRST!! YOU ARE MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE !!!! YOU DIDNT ASK ME FOR PERMISSION TO USE THE MACHINE !!!! I AM UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND YOU !! I DONT KNOW WHO YOU ARE!!!!". Everyone at the gym is looking at us at this point. I say to her "no im going to stay right here, if you don't like it go use another machine".
Bitch then carries on with her exercise, when she sees that I wont budge, she moves to another machine.
What the fuck is wrong with all the entitled fucking princesses everywhere I go. Its like I constantly run into them. I dont hit on them, or do anything. Its always the fucking average or below average girls too. Fucking fatties and plain Janes. Ffs man.
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Youngyoda89 3y ago
You did good. You didn’t fold under pressure.
spinderbella 3y ago
Yikes. When I was in my 20s guys would slap my ass and whistle. I miss those days. SCREW ME TOO!!
kclanton80 3y ago
I had to curse a woman out who practically jump out in the street to make me stop so she could cross with her mom and baby by a park one day. I sit stop but then she flailed her arms at my like I do something wrong even though I had stopped, and did not have to stop.
I'm usually very calm and laid back but I too have been have experiencing this abundance of entitled, spoiled, ignorant, rude bitches And had to let her have it.
They do it because they are completely protected by society and don't face any kind of repercussions for their actions. It's just that simple. Women's poor behavior and attitudes are encouraged by society and given a free pass at every turn.
Kudos to you for standing up to that lunatic at the gym.
Jasperthekitteh 3y ago
I blame social media and all the beta orbiters.
TheeRickySpanish 3y ago
It sounds more like she has mental problems than her being entitled. Women aren’t usually confrontational. I’ve literally sniped machines from women at the gym by throwing my towel on it before they can get to it. They almost always just walk away and go do a different exercise and at the very most will just make a face.
Fun fact, something like one in four women have borderline personality disorder. Her explosive temper makes it sound like you just encountered one.
Good on you for reacting the way you did by the way. That was perfect. There’s no point arguing with a woman, you just tell her like it is.
Rev_Irreverent 3y ago
This may be a good sign. Sadistic bitches have the urge to humiliate men. Some of them may be going out of their way to humiliate men because there's not a steady supply of simps throwing themselves at their feet anymore.
Plenty_good_stuff 3y ago
yup, modern narcissism. it reeks. blame the simps and social media validation. you handled it well.
[deleted] 3y ago
Because society fuels their narcissism and none are put in check.
berttbeans996 3y ago
Feel like you need to look in the mirror bro and objectively assess yourself leaving your ego at the door. Be transparent.
BLOCKEDBYJAMESS 3y ago
Because there is an abundance of men simping and it goes to their head
transitive1021 3y ago
No is a complete sentence. Say nothing else.
spliferoooo 3y ago
I wouldn’t have even responded past ‘no’. Just keep coming your set and get on with it. Let her make a fool of herself.
Pezotecom 3y ago
Problem is that if you don't manage the situation properly you are going to get the staff there. And now you have to explain everything to more people and lose time because the basic bitch was a basic bitch.
[deleted] 3y ago
Annnddd you then end up on youtube as the misogynist creep at the gym.
fuckboychadlmao 3y ago
A misogynist creep just for using a machine next to someone at the local gym?
redknight942 3y ago
Late stage feminism in a nutshell
l1ght- 3y ago
Sounds like it could be a covid-programming issue.
Had a run in with a dude the other day for a stupid reason also.
You stood your ground, that’s all that matters.
poplin01 3y ago
If these people are that worried about covid they should certainly not be at the gym
l1ght- 3y ago
Preach
jeffwingersballs 3y ago
like this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MVBJT2zeSqs
PurpleLemon4de 3y ago
Jesus Christ that is what the internet and news does to people..
l1ght- 3y ago
Aw bless. Just doing what they feel is right. Lol.
DemocratsFoundedKKK 3y ago
Just lie and say you're vaccinated.
beginner_ 3y ago
Or even better actually be vaccinated...
DemocratsFoundedKKK 3y ago
Umm, OK, sure...you do you.
VasiliyZaitzev 3y ago
A lot of people never got punched in the face when they were kids and it shows.
poortrait100 3y ago
OP or.the woman?
VasiliyZaitzev 3y ago
The woman. OP handled correctly. My comment was about how some people are entitled bitches because they never got properly socialized.
poortrait100 3y ago
Dip dip di so socialize Civilise a bitch Punch her in the eye. Got it!
VasiliyZaitzev 3y ago
I'd use disciplinary spankings on women; my original comment was general in nature.
OttoVonBismark71 3y ago
Makes game very very easy for the rest of us.
reddit_hypnosis 3y ago
I like how you handled this. I think if this happened to me the only thing I would have added is "Do I smell?" so that she has a chance to say No, but you....................... and then she realizes she has no fucking point. I work in sales and when people make a very odd request, instead of ask why, I ask them if some personal flaw of mine might be the reason why. Of course they say no, and then are almost guilted into explaining themselves.
clickherebaby 3y ago
Thats just weird to me. 99% of the time theyll say yes you smell. You've just given them an out. You should know you don't smell before you leave the house. Do you really expect some random who doesnt like you yo be honest?
Id tell her dumbass to stfu.
JackTheRipper_17 3y ago
Pro gamer move
SnooSprouts1580 3y ago
She could be a smartass and say that you do smell
BlindMaestro 3y ago
If she said “yes, you smell awful,” she might have gotten you.
fourhundredthecat 3y ago
that is quite clever
beginner_ 3y ago
Unless you do smell which in the Gym isn't all that unlikely. or she just says yes.
YoungAussiePrince 3y ago
This man is living in 3021
OneTrueQ 3y ago
Is it my bulge?
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osmosiashit 3y ago
Teach us more
alaxoskl4 3y ago
He is a dedicated sales man
alternateaccount49 3y ago
I also worked sales but recently quit to transfer somewhere else, and the biggest thing I learned was to cater your behavior to different audiences. It really is a massive rabbit hole, but it is worth learning
reddit_hypnosis 3y ago
This is absolutely it and the summary of what I have learned as well. As a salesperson, you are trying to not lose the person during the time youre narrowing down onto what kind of salesperson they need. If your style is TOO abrasive, you'll lose them as you figure out how they need to be talked to. If your style is too meek, you'll lose any of the demanding customers. Somewhere in between until you figure it out, and then youre off to the races.
c_champ2312 3y ago
Sounds to me like cat and mouse game with women these days
clickherebaby 3y ago
Sales 101: be born likeable more than average.
Step 2: refer above.
reddit_hypnosis 3y ago
Sales 101: Be born acceptable looking, and from there maximize the likability of your looks and personality.
Even this doesnt mean look as good as possible. I'm 6'4" and in good enough shape, and dress pretty well at work. I do great with virtually all customers, but I have terrible luck with guys around my age that come in with their gfs they are trying to impress. (I used to sell Audi and Porsche for a living) Instead those dudes steer to either our very old salespeople, or our shorter fatter salesperson. For those guys, being less threatening works.
If someone is going to dislike you, its because you are either threatening, or annoying. If you look too good, you can be threatening to average people that have their partner with them.
MrBlack096 3y ago
What sales books do you recommend?
tierraciente 3y ago
Sales is a numbers game bro. Learn the system, practice, adjust and repeat.
jst_whtevir 3y ago
Don't know, man. I probably would have laughed my ass of at her initial request and just continued doing my own thing. No need to engage any further or try to get a certain answer out of her.
But then again, I suspect that there's something that OP isn't telling us; the whole situation seems fishy.
cliptarp86498_ 3y ago
I wasn't staring at the bitch, I was actually turned around facing other direction when bitch asked my to move.
Bitch assumed I'd be staring at her but I wasn't cuz:
kellykebab 3y ago
There's always more to the story. A girl loudly complains that a guy simply exercises remotely near to her at an open machine? Why would this ever happen?
I've had women be bizarrely rude to me with little provocation before, but there was always something that got misinterpreted. Not just my simply being in their vicinity. Come on...
There's a lot of struggling fiction writers on Reddit.
red__Man 3y ago
OP isn't in shape (yet?)
Rev_Irreverent 3y ago
Yeah because men are always wrong...
jst_whtevir 3y ago
Not my point.
Gawernator 3y ago
I agree, maybe he was staring her down or something and didn’t tell us. It is not common for this situation to happen in my gym experience
Rock_Granite 3y ago
He specifically said he was not looking at her or hitting on her
Gawernator 3y ago
People aren’t always honest. But sure maybe this was just an extremely rude woman. He should just ignore and move on. Sounds like he did fine
longjeep2005 3y ago
Once in high school I went to an after school study session with my math teacher, and a couple of girls show up as well. I’d never seen or spoken to them before, but as we sit down, one of them looks at me and says, “Don’t touch me!” I hadn’t looked at or spoken to her before. Some girls just think this is an appropriate way to speak to men; they’ve been conditioned by feminism to think of men as scum. Incidents like these are inevitable, but will decrease in frequency as SMV improves
Gawernator 3y ago
Good point. I consider myself pretty attractive so maybe I wouldn’t ever have that female reaction lol
longjeep2005 3y ago
Yeah that was when I was a lanky, JROTC dork, lol. OP is on the right track by being at the gym and not supplicating to rude behavior
OptimalMale1 3y ago
I blame the real housewives shows, it’s getting out of hand now
throwawahhas 3y ago
If you're black this is the best time to bring up the race card, it always makes them flustered. "Is it because I'm black?" and they won't know what to say and will have to back peddle so that they don't look racist whilst everyone is watching. In these situations race card almost always trumps gender card if they try to bring that up.
Herdsengineers 3y ago
There are many people that will feign being victimized in an interaction to cover up their aggression. There are a lot of people that fall for the "always believe her" shit too that reinforces it. I learned an acronym once - "DARVO" Defend Argue Reverse Victim Order. It's basically a strategy that women like this use when they are wrong, they know it, but don't care. It's the out of control entitlement we see from so many women these days. They pull entitled shit and then DARVO when confronted. In this case, she wanted nobody around her and loudly tried to make it seem like she was being victimized by you (the ever easy and nebulous "you make me uncomfortable" line).
OP handled it right. I have found that most of the time, most people see through the DARVO *if* you let them. That means don't defend yourself, don't argue, just don't engage as much as possible. Let them be loud asses and people will respect you more for keeping composure and not aggravating the situation. Once you've been through it a few times, you lose the fear of "will others think I'm really the creep she's crying about?" because there will start to be feedback later that confirms the audience saw what was what.
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Unfortunately dude, this just means the ones you have run into think you are beta aka below them, low value and not one the chads / valued men they act all nice and slutty & sexual for = No reason to facilitate your existence in their lives. Not a real problem, just avoid them and get on with your day.
Oh and this line, might as well wear a sign to women saying kick me, i'm a pussy man. Sorry to say dude.
WeTheNinjas 3y ago
He handled the situation well, where are you pulling this conclusion from? One woman was a bitch to him, who knows what’s going on in her head and who cares, doesn’t mean he’s a pushover
beginner_ 3y ago
Brad Pitt rule. Would she treat Brad Pitt like that? probably not. But then crazies would so yeah I agree. Impossible to know if he is just weak beta looking or she just a crazy bitch.
subaruguy14 3y ago
Because simps are abundant and have treated her far too well, thus creating cuntzilla
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They’re entitled because from an early age, they are pampered and are never held accountable; their bad behavior is never punished. No one has taught them that flipping out like that is wrong.
Combine that with simps continuously kissing their ass in person and on social media, these guys like Steve Harvey telling them what they want to hear and their girlfriends echoing positive comments and this is the result. They are delusional as a result of these things.
Gawernator 3y ago
What gym was this at? I’ve never had a chick act that way before in the gym
LandscapeClear1630 3y ago
same, but I have no doubts there're women like that
Gawernator 3y ago
I agree there’s always weird and rude people. I feel like OP left out important details leading up to this. It’s very strange for someone to just randomly say that to a person using another machine
T3hking 3y ago
Exactly, especially reading his post history, there may be more to the story that he's excluding.
BavarianAlpha97 3y ago
Parents told her she is a princess. She still beliefs it
Joe_Doblow 3y ago
Only her parents?
AmirIsBack 3y ago
More like the thirsty incel simps in highschool made her believe she's a princes.
Y0D98 3y ago
I hate simps with a passion. Just have a bit about u. Slimy little boys, get a grip
Indis96 3y ago
I think Its a combination of the two lmao
Joe_Doblow 3y ago
Even ugly girls who are not simped over act entitled. I think it’s because they know nothing is going to happen if they act up. No one is going to hit them or very rarely will they get a good talking to or whatever. They are free to be spoiled brats
AmirIsBack 3y ago
Even ugly girls get simped on in the last generation. (i'm a zoomer)
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AmirIsBack 3y ago
Legit wasn't me. I have been a bit needy around 14year old, but never simped
RedEyeBlackEye1 3y ago
ALL OF THESE, OP:
1) Gynocracy.
2) social
programmingmedia.3) female Solipsistic, narcissistic ego.
4) retardedness.
5) these gawd damn thirsty betacuckTM motherfuckers.
scholarofpain 3y ago
Had this kind of shit happen to me at gyms before. Must be a big name gym, never have had this happen at smaller private gyms.
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Azurnoob 3y ago
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Alittihad01 3y ago
your case is not complicated at all!
it's mostly men's mistake to be disrespected by bitches!
lemme explain:
you going somewhere and staying around without doing anything ( according to you ) signals low confidence! why? i don't know! see what "strong" men do in the gym if they wanna use sth , they go and use as soon as it gets free without asking nobody! they don't give a fuck!
when we are in the gym ( i've experienced this 100 times ) we see a bitch is using a machine and is in mid sets ( like on first or second set ) we go use it without asking the bitch when she's done or anything and in most of the cases bitches leave and give up without saying a word
why? because we make fun of the bitch , she won't be comfortable working out in that gym at all forever!
we do the same things to men!
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and there are some men who are not as rude as us , they simply just tell them hey , i'm using this with you! that's the most polite way and i don't recommend it,
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going somewhere and waiting without taking the action you want or telling them you're gonna use it is low value !
and you could easily reframe it without getting into struggle,
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+ go away , youre making me uncomfortable
- you either , you can go away and i use the machine.
Joe6p 3y ago
His machine was open, she just didn't want him near because she assumed he'd oogle her.
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PhaedrusHunt 3y ago
Wait it wasn't even the same machine?
Listen dude, unless you're Patrice level witty, think about it for a minute.
This woman is a mess of a person. Just garbage. She's a fatty? Look, she's uncomfortable with her body.
Okay I'm going to say something you probably haven't heard even here. When a woman senses a man is out of her league, it automatically angers her, especially with the state of the current Zeitgeist.
Women and men have gotten softer and less attractive due to modern life, endless supply of calories and sugar but shit nutrition, pop culture has people's heads filled with absolute crap-- UNLESS you have actively worked against being swept up with the times.
It's clich but people say around here don't talk about the red pill blah blah blah, but it's not bad advice. Why? Think about all the craze with zombies the past decade or so. Weird. Why? What's the deal? What's a zombie? It's a human that's been taken over by a virus or something that causes it to become dead but still conscious in a weird way, but part of a mob, and contagious. But it's not truly a virus, there's some black magic element to it. Originally it's a voodoo thing, ok? So what's with all the zombie shit? The walking dead, all the movies, the whyte walkers in game of thrones, all this zombie zombie zombie constantly in your face?
Now you know the type of people that like this shit. It's like the woman you decided to engage with. You got bitten by a zombie bro.
Most people AREN'T red pilled-- either intrinsically or extrinsically.
This forum is for people who weren't intrinsically red pilled, to ask questions of those who are, mixtures of both, etc.
So I'll say this. I would give you a B- for how you handled it. You COULD have said nothing and kept working out. You could have used a bit of humor and deflected. You could have engaged her directly, said hey, I get it, you're uncomfortable. Bro, if she's overweight, give her some credit for being in the gym. She probably feels like shit about herself. Whatever. You wound up on the wrong end of a damn scene, and it bugged you so much you're up in here asking the deal. Zombie shit bro.
I know if you're recently red pilled you're still figuring this shit out. It's the jungle brother. You don't have to be über Chäd all the time. I know you were trying to just lift bro but pick your battles.
My dad used to say, when you wrestle with a pig in the mud, everyone gets muddy and the pig enjoys it.
He also used to criticize my aunt and uncle who were liberal activists always working to stop development in the inner city to save historic (crappy shacks in reality) homes from being demolished for development etc., saying about them if you have a muddy pig you want to clean, in a muddy pen, you take it out of the pen, you don't go in there with it.
Pick your battles wisely. Read the Art of War and the Book of Five Rings.
What's the sound of one hand clapping? Do you like the smell of garbage on you? Then don't let garbage touch you, and sure as hell don't wrestle with it.
You can stand up for yourself, cool. She was a grenade that was gonna go off on someone. Recognize that shit and avoid it next time. Disarm it, throw it away, throw something on top of it, or run away. Don't sit there and hold it.
Actually, now that I think about it, that's exactly what you did. You sat there and held a grenade.
I'm changing your B- to an F.
Better luck next time Chad.
SalesAficionado 3y ago
Fuck I wish I was as witty as Patrice.
PhaedrusHunt 3y ago
Don't we all? Lol. He was the goat smack talker, but if you hang out with enough comics you get to where your shit talking game is pretty good.
A winning personality beats everything.
If you can really own the room, fuck it. Argue with her, flirt with her, maks her blush, make her cry, do whatever the fuck you want, but control the situation.
TheGreatestSpice 3y ago
I think I lost some IQ points reading all this shit
Prize-Thought-4205 3y ago
Give her some credit it’s a fat chick in the gym lol he might be one of the women in disguise we get here
PhaedrusHunt 3y ago
Nah dude I'm just saying sometimes walk from a situation. Arguing with women is fruitless
pilot333 3y ago
Social media and the idea that her opinion actually matters has gotten to her head.
Mouse1701 3y ago
Honestly the chick could have been on her period.
TorpCat 3y ago
Bonus points if you look jewish and spin it into some hate crime
SamWorldyoutube 3y ago
Ignore it and better yourself in every way,use it as motivation,thats what i do when something bad happens to me,i use my anger to have better workouts
billybobjoecarl 3y ago
Glad you stood your ground. Sadly in the day and age of instant gratification and profound simping, this is how people act. Don’t ever let some bitch bully you especially if you were on an entirely different machine. Does she think she can claim every machine in her vicinity? The nerve
LandscapeClear1630 3y ago
when you say "cables machine", you mean this one?
cliptarp86498_ 3y ago
Yeah exactly same, just a little closer
beginner_ 3y ago
Honestly I think it's fair enough to first ask. with machines like that it^s possible they need both handles, as you know. Sometimes I to an exercise that need both, then a set of another on that just needs one the next set that needs boths. Annoying if people just start using the other handle without asking.
Not saying this was the case but maybe it was? Still her reaction is stupid regardless.
i-am-the-prize 3y ago
simp much? OP clearly stated next to her, no chance she was doing flys with both stacks based on her description, and based on him saying he was looking away, wouldn't be surprised if he was doing tricep pushdowns with his back to her.
she can fuck off.
Zombiespire 3y ago
I think you just met an insane person. I don't think this encounter is worth taking to heart.
cfbovernfl 3y ago
The only one that sounds rude here is you.
Speaking like a twelve year old isn't going to help you get with girls.
Edit: from your post history: "20m here. First year of uni, moved into student halls. Haven't made any friends, don't get along with my flatmates, and failed some of my modules on my course so I'll probably have to resit the entire 1st year of uni"
As predicted. The problem isn't her -- it's you.
Gothmog741 3y ago
Yeah sometimes you have to look at the common denominator. If one chick freaks out for no reason it’s her. If they all do... sounds like op is violating rules 1&2 and giving off a creepy vibe. Op - you are giving off a creepy vibe. Check your clothes, haircut and body language. Also keep lifting. Raise your SMV and figure out what is creeping them out.
power_cleaner 3y ago
Went out last night. Tons of massively entitled bitches.
Far_Measurement_5809 3y ago
A couple of things:
1) what did she look like? If she’s the Instagram model type then yea, expect this behavior. They live in a bubble.
2) what do you look like? If you’re short and scrawny and a little creepy then you could get this type of reaction from some.
3) I personally like to give people space and I’m respectful of their space even in the gym. The gym can be uncomfortable for some extraordinarily beautiful girls.
4) the world is mad, not everything can be explained. She could be going through something.
5) entitled girls like that quickly come down to earth when they are around someone they find of higher value than themselves. That means rich, tall and good looking. But mostly rich and tall.