As the title states my fwb and plate semi frequently mention that I leave them on read, usually with sad or crying emoji because women.
Usually only leave girls on read for 3 reasons
1) low effort text: hey, hi, emoji, random picture, etc
2) non conversation starter: any talk of another guy, emotional shit, etc.
3) I see a text, get busy and forget to reply.
Now I limit how often I text these girls because I know from first hand experience how fast over texting kills attraction and dries up pussy. At the moment I just ignore these texts and switch the subject entirely.
Is there a better way to handle this or is what I’m doing the best option?
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whytehorse2021 3y ago
Tell them you prefer to talk in person. In bed. With your dick in them. If they want your attention they need to provide something of value.
Damaster 3y ago
Why are you reading without responding, and what are you trying to convey with this?
It almost seems like that means "I'm kinda busy, but I will read your message and decide if you are more important than what I am currently doing." This makes it "your current task" vs "her." Might it not be better to often leave messages unread until you absolutely have time to respond? This would make it "your current task" vs "everything else in the world." This is assuming you want her to believe you are important, and not necessarily that she isn't important.
If she says some dumb shit, just tell her you don't have time for that, or you flat out don't care. Insta-reading a message is just as bad as responding instantly.
amazonri 3y ago
Dont punish good behavior.
benzino 3y ago
you can swipe down to read the message without it being marked as "seen". I do that to avoid these questions
alternatively, tell them that and make up with good sex. always works
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You're doing fine.