If you see the girl as potential LTR ? For a plate I wouldn't and I never tell girls about my past and just remain vague But if your dating a good women who has LTR potential should you be more open about your past? If you've been cheated on should you tell her or not?
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Lone_Ranger 2 2y ago
I would say no, for a few different reasons.
she will probably ask, and you should probably just say, 'lets think about the future rather than the past'. Be friendly and playful, but evasive. Don't admit or deny anything. Make a jokes about it, but don't give her any info.
3 Also, women have a strange relationship with their own sluttiness - they are simultaneously disgusted but it but also proud of it. They think it makes them more interesting and experienced, and they are just dying to tell everyone (esp you) about how amazing all their prior boyfriends were. Most of it is exaggerated and lies, and half of them weren't even 'boyfriends' but just some chad that was stringing her along while pumping other chicks as well. I have literally never met a woman in a LTR that doesn't want to gab on all the time about past lovers. If I could have my time over, I'd be much more strict about this.
I would recommend one friendly warning, and then if (when?) she reoffends and tries to tell you all about how amazing and chadly her other 'boyfriends' were to just shut it down really firmly - just say 'Nobody is interested in your petty flings and childish hook ups - least of all me'. If she re-offends, i would hard next.
RedPirate751 2y ago
Iron rules of Tomassi: never reveal your sexual past to a woman.
shaketheroom 2y ago
Depends on if it works in your favor:
Very extensive history with hot girls? She should know, something about a hot ex keeps a girl on her toes and reaffirms your SMV
Cant hold a long relationship? I think it says something about you if youre like 30 years old and havent had 1 solid LTR. It says inexperience or other red flags to women that may break the LTR
Never had a girlfriend? She will think you deceived her into thinking youre attractive. If she actually stays around it wont be a good LTR unless youre really young.
**That being said.. I personally would feel weird going far enough to marry a girl without her knowing of any past relationships. I think its fair to know a vague idea about both partners history if you are considering marriage. But a new LTR? I wouldnt bring it up at all until she does, you cant really avoid it if shes persistent and serious about wanting to know. Dodging it is a bad look. Shes not asking body count, shes asking general dating past.
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Diabs 2y ago
Be vague as let her hamster do the work it doesn't work well talking about exes plus you don't want her to start talking about hers all the time.
shaketheroom 2y ago
I think its really important to know her last relationship though, at least when it ended. To know if youre a rebound or not. And possibly a clone of him (physical appearance wise) because she may not like you for you, but to remind her of him.
Also you should generally know if she is/was alpha widowed.
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