I recently met a guy in the work place, he's younger and likes to hand out and knows younger girls/people
This experience made me realise how much my life would improve with just one good friend who likes to go out
I felt alive on weekends, we approached, i talked with his female friends
I do my best to go out and approach alone, i did many times and i have to say it still feels weird compared to having one friend at your side
No this guy is back in his country for most of the year, trying to stay in touch with him for when he comes back
Now i want to find just one guy like that, it would improve my life so much
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
@Taproot88
This was an excellent comment
Wanted to add by saying genuinely good friendships are rarely unconditional. They are built on a lot of mutual understanding and having each other's backs early on. Good friends usually have similar values and goals to yourself. Meeting people in similar recreational locations alone etc will not really gaurantee good friends on its own.
That being said it it is still important to have a friend circle period. Although no friends are still better than bad friends.
But at the minimum, just having non-toxic friends to chill with can still be good social engagement and can help you climb the social ladder with people that better match your vibe later on if you need to branch out for better quality friends later
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Sounds good. But never hesitate to cut off bad friends or friends that don't really like you. I've carried dead weights like that around for a year before and all they did was ruin my self esteem more.
Bad friends are worse than no friends. Never be ashamed to walk away from bad friends
Also, I'm proud of you, you seem to have had a major attitude/perspective change this last week. Keep it up man. We are rooting for you
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
No problem man
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Be the friend you want to get
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Beware the man with one gun(or friend)...
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Everyone's a troll deep down in the cockles of their heart.