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Posted 1y ago in Self-Improvement Q - Permalink - Locked - 1.5K Views

Even though logic, experimentation and experience tells me that the nature of the world is fundamentally different from what I was taught and propogandized. I still have terms discarding my past ways and turning a new leaf

Specifically I am stuck failing to reinvent myself again.

It doesn't help that I am in a hostile environment that constantly picks at me dragging me down, everytime I try to change.

Can you guys share your experiences in having to reinvent and change yourself.

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

I’m pondering whether the high price is worth it.

You NEED it. And you should get it while that male men's issues therapist is still taking clients

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

You're being absolutely retarded

You badly need therapy

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

Everyone on here begs to differ. You need some substantial therapy

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

If you say so

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

I'm a psych major. You definitely need some help.

If you want to be in denial about it to yourself than that's fine but you can't be in denial to us

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

Dude. I can't convince you. The people that least think they need it almost always need it the most.

You've reacted in a manner on here that has been so obviously unhinged at times that it's clear you have massive coping problems, rumination, severe depression, anxiety, probably some PTSD, shit fuck tons of maladaptive thoughts etc

Also. As a psych major, it's not worth much of my time to try to convince people they need therapy. So why would i "try harder?"

People who are obstinate about going make it too miserable to give care if they even go or not. Because by the time you've convinced them to get you feel like you need therapy yourself because it takes heaven and earth to break through an anti-therapy denialist.

It's not worth. If you don't want help so be it but it's your life not mine. Your misery is your responsibility. Doesn't affect me unless i have to moderate it on here, which I have had to do numerous times

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

I'm not going to convince you, you have problems that transcend RP that we can't fix. Do what you want

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

I don’t understand why you think I’m so fucked up.

You really lack introspection

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

I'm not ignoring any of that. Lots of guys.gey brought here from their onietis. You have levels of unhinged immaturity that transcends other users by miles

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

No.

You already know. And if you don't, then you are that blind to how crazy you act.

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

You're about the only one doing it. And your stories of your actual life and recent actions like leaving voice notes calling an ex a whore etc

Anyway, I'm not expending any more energy on this trying to explain it. It's not worth the time

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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago

Responding fast and typing quickly ≠ lot of time

Anyway have a good one

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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago

This clip sums it up pretty well imo.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5gVN3zXT0HY

mattyanon Admin 1y ago

Wasn't too hard for me.

"Monogamy is fucked up, it only benefits women. I want sex therefore I will not be monogamous or do girlfriend-boyfriend behaviours again".

Then it's just a question of doing it and making it work.

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TRPDuryodhana 1y ago

Especially if you want a family

That comes with strings attached.

India has the lowest divorce rate (1%) but the marriages are fucked up, mostly. Like most things, it's rainbows and sunshine for a while but things get stale and sour eventually in the best of marriages.

So Mattyanon is right.

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