I genuinely want to change myself. I understand red pill theory, I understand I don't need to have a girlfriend, I read the sidebar, and I workout consistently. The problem comes from the fact that it's just not working. I do not have abundance, I cannot spin plates, even if I don't have approach anxiety. This game aspect of TRP is killing me and I just don't get it. I read little countless books on game, WITH action. I tried different styles, tried to fix my mistakes, but EVERY SINGLE TIME I do not get the girl I want. Either she just doesn't like me enough or I lose to hypergamy. I am lost at this point and don't really know what to do. I don't know how to ACTUALLY go from changing my personality from the social guy who doesn't get any girls to the guy who slays. I've been called good-looking by many girls, even hot by a few, still no action, and still don't know what I'm doing wrong. How do I actually change my personality and learn game. Don't just tell me to keep hitting gym and approach lots of girls because although I don't have much approach anxiety and can easily approach girls if I want to, taking L after L with little success takes a toll on people. I don't want to have to date down to girls I'm not completely attracted too.
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mattyanon Admin 5mo ago
now learn paragraphs.
ok..... rather than page of ranting........ where does it go wrong? give us a fairly specific example......
how tall
bodyfat percentage.
your physique
how do you dress
what's your general demeanour
what give last interaction that led to last rejection.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
Paragraphs please
Gilles 5mo ago
Are you persistent enough? Many rejection are not rejections per se, she's just trying to protect her efg
iLoveTapWater 5mo ago
I would say I am, so some female prospects have gotten to the point were they flat out told me that they aren't looking for anything right now while verbally shutting down any flirtatious advance.
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First-light 5mo ago
Is this just a too high standards thing? "I don't want to date down" is usually something we tackle from the female side on the "where are all the good men" forum. If your standards are too high then game and frame holding might get you into her pants but then soon enough she will work out with time that you are not who you are pretending to be.
If you are looking for casual sex, I think you will need to get to be what high SMV casual girls value -probably get rich or famous if you are already in good shape and socially competent.
Otherwise I would forget all about pursuing women, just socialise with women and wait till you fall for someone. If you fall for her, she will feel good enough for you and if she falls for you too she will be satisfied with you.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
A) You aren't just supposed to mass-spam-approach until one finally fucks you; you're supposed to learn from each rejection and calibrate a bit.
B) https://archive.ph/7G5t9
coolsocks00 1 5mo ago
Start getting consistent and post field reports. Right now this is just a low effort sob story and we cant help you.
whytehorse2021 5mo ago
Are you passing shit tests?