"Oral or do not touch"?

Damn dude, sounds like you dodged a bullet tbh. Never give oral, it's submissive crap and a health risk.

She didn't want the second date with you. She kept being vague, and eventually sort of gave in, but she didn't want the date at all. She lied about the text messages when you called, to cover for her flaking/rudeness..... and then she had to pretend to be interested because she lied about the text messages. She put you off for a while, but eventually ran out of excuses and agreed to meet because you basically cornered her into it. She was passively trying to express disinterest, and wasn't assertive enough to say no thanks.

Everything that happened on the date was because of lack of interest. Didn't shave. Oral only. Support for her decision is just falling into her frame at this point. This isn't a girl playing hard to get, this isn't a girl playing "make him wait", this is a girl who just isn't interested and you should have known that from her previous disinterest over text.

I Tell her to message me when she can (message left unread)

Needy, not organic way to contact a woman after a date

Thursday: I send a message saying I enjoyed our date and want to see her again this weekend (messages left unread)

More needy behavior

She reads messages and replies that she is “happy” that I want to see her again but she can’t see me this weekend

Cause she has other dick plans already

Thoughts?

She sounds like an entitled brat and you sound like you have oneitis

Next.

You have serious scarcity mentality. This is one hoe in the Pussific Ocean™ go date other women and work on escalating better. Learn to pass shit tests

Even if you had passed these shit tests with her she sounds like a bitch. I've never had a girl demand oral or she goes home. Have some self respect and next her (well she blocked you anyway so...)

You shouldn't care this much about a lame entitled hoe. She sounds retarded anyhow

Dude, Vermy has already given you a decent response. So mine is going to be much shorter:

You have zero frame.

The girl is behaving the way that she wants you to behave. She is laying down demands and being assertive - this is masculine behaviour. The reason why modern women are acting masculine is partly because modern men are so feminine. So the women have to make up the difference. This is called 'transference' - the females are adopting the masculine traits that they want to see in men, can't find, so in an act of desperation, they start to exhibit these traits themselves. I'm not blaming men, I'm just explaining the dynamic.

The result is that nobody is happy. The woman are all butch, and the men act all soppy. the result is that the young are becoming sexless. this is the first generation that is getting laid less than their parents. Birth rates are falling off a cliff.

She was basically being the man - she basically said to you "get on you knees and suck it bitch!!"

wtf dude.

And then you drove her home?? Why? Just her to go. Tell her to call an uber.

You were being needy and beta from the start. Going on dates is beta to begin with. And then all that text messaging, jesus wept.

I am guessing this is some girl you found on OLD? and then went out on 2 dates with? where you paid for shit?

When are you going to learn?

The more you chase, the further she runs.

Learn detachment, even if you have to pretend.

Have other things going for you besides women.

She wanted to fuck, but your passiveness dried up her pussy. You concentrated too much on her mouth diarrhea, instead of what she was doing. Change her mood, not her mind.

Pussy tingles are born in defensive crouch. You acted like a bitch and she treated you like one. Not a sign of dominance and leading. The hotter the bitch, the more of an asshole game you need. They are pedestalized on the regular by the simps, hence the entitled/bratty behavior.

Subby hoes shit test the most. Some of them act bratty to make you angry so you become dominant and put her in her place.

IG model = whore/prostitute

Wow, You got played hard. She didn't really want you in the first place. That much was obvious. You persisted to simp. She figured "I might as well get oral out of this chump". She lead the interaction, set the frame and dominated you. And you folded quickly.

It's no wonder she ghosted. Your frame is weak and she controlled the entire situation. Women make rules for betas.

Move on to other women, I'm glad you didn't eat her pussy because she seems like the kind that looks at men who eat pussy as submissive,weak,inferior guys. She doesn't sound too eager even without her clothes on, what freaky things women are. Probably very open to some other guy.

You can't know someone very well from two dates. What you can say with confidence is; She was interested but not that interested. Something happened on the second date to make her decide she was no longer interested She behaved in a rather selfish way

Most likely scenario is she was a player. She had another guy or guys going. That is why she did not reply when she should have and was not easily available, that is why she was interested but needed to be sure that you were either enough of a pussy beggar to be put on the string or needed to know that you were worth complicating her life for.

I find much more to criticise in her behaviour than yours. However the one thing I would say is that some women do not like to be aroused unless you mean to satisfy them. If she genuinely was not ready to have sex with you (which only a slut would be on a second date) she may have been seriously pissed off that you went and aroused her and then did not satisfy her, when she specifically told you that was the only offer.

She is still bratty and selfish if she wants oral sex and won't give it but its still worth playing straight. If that is what she says, and you go on touching her, then in the end you should put out, then trust to her being generous in return if not now another time (even if that is unlikely). Just as you can quite legitimately say to a girl, "If you start playing with my dick, I need to bang you, do you understand, you can't get me all excited and then leave me hanging"

What is probably clearest of all to me from this though is that the right answer was reached here -you are not a match. For whatever reason she is not that interested. Sure you could have gone Uber Chad and just maybe game her into banging if you did it different but then you would just have a lukewarm bratty woman who would mess you about and was probably banging other guys. Maybe you could say "once is enough, I am not bothered again" and just end it with here then and there but if you didn't you would just have a bad relationship there.

The best barometer of whether or not to proceed is whether she is really interested or not. Game (salesmanship) may get you a few more bad lays or a few earlier good lays but good lays come from good matches. For a good match you need market fundamentals, not salesmanship. Be value, offer value, select value. After that natural courtship will ensue.

Holy shit I cant imagine a girl I just met telling me to give her oral and shes not going to give me oral. I would be like get the fuck out of my house. Maybe im not lenient enough though