I fumbled with two girls over the weekend both of whom very clearly liked me, the second one is stinging a lot more. Basically a girl I’ve known for years. Was flirting then all of a sudden left to go fuck another guy somewhere in the venue we were at. My best guess is she thought I wasn’t interested because I waited to long to make a move. Tbh I just thought I had more time. I didn’t think she’d go fuck another guy.
Not 100% sure but they both disappeared for 45 mins. Came back hair a mess, guy buttoning up his shirt with a self satisfied grin and her friend asking her how it was.
Anyways I did a quick search and found and answer saying I should be emotionally detached and amused mastery especially with abundance but In reality I have none, and I kinda feel like a cuck. I don’t know maybe its cause I actually thought this girl had some potential now im back to square one.
I woke up this morning to photos of us she sent herself. Is this a hard next? How do I stop feeling like shit. Im still coming off drugs so I assume this is amplifying my state.
Edit: When I say known for years I mean we’ve known each other but we haven’t seen each other in years.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Jesus man...
First, lay off the drugs.i shouldn't have to explain why. You should be gaming sober. Second, finish reading the sidebar so you don't make a fool out of yourself. Third, if you've known these girls for years, you're already in the friend zone. Unless your swimming in pussy, you aren't going to get these two not enough preselection on your part.
Hit that sidebar homie!
Lone_Ranger 2 5mo ago
This is the response ...no need to add anything. Heed his words OP.
Red_dead 5mo ago
I’ve known her for years but we only see each other on special occasions. Logistics never pan out. Her best friend confirmed she was interested in me.
DragonNuts 5mo ago
That's not a confirmation of the interest in the way you want it to be.
Yes, she would probably sleep with you. She's obviously easy and slutty. If she was truly into you, and wasnt a slut, she would be acting in accordance to that.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Her best friend huh? And how many times have you made out of fucked this girl?
You go out and she hops on some chads dick. Does that sound like she wants you.
You aren't a cuck. You're not in a relationship with her. And you can't hard next her because of the same reason. You're her emotion tampon and girlfriend. Your delusion is astounding!
Red_dead 5mo ago
I do appreciate the advice though thank you. Im reading sidebar now.
Red_dead 5mo ago
Theres no delusion I know for a fact I could have kissed/fucked this girl before and probably that night. I’m not that retarted. She asked about me to my friends, approached me to dance and suggested we go outside alone together, grabbed my phone to put her number in. The only reason I didn’t kiss her was because I got pulled away to help out on a family matter for event, and when I came back she was suddenly cold complete 180 and left with a chad. Theres zero doubt in mind that she didn’t want me at a least some point in the night.
redhawkes 2 5mo ago
She probably thought you're a fag or not interested and took it as rejection when you left. Then, to make you jealous, she choked on Chad's dick and here you are writing emotional diarrhea.
Next time, strike while the iron is hot.
Always
Be
Closing
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Why are you not doing anything about it? I'm happy to be wrong. You need to take action.
Red_dead 5mo ago
What should I do? Im looking here at my phone of the pictures she forced me to take and send to her and I kinda don’t want her anymore? Is this normal It feels like sour grapes. Im not sure why.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Sounds like you have a bit of the good old Madonna-Whore Complex.
You thought she was all sweet and innocent, and so you didn't escalate fast enough for her.
She wanted cock (and if some of what you said is true, it could have been yours), and when you failed to escalate, she went to get cock elsewhere.
Now you're repulsed at the idea of your innocent little virginal maiden actually being a cock-hungry slut.
You still have a lot of blue pilled conditioning to overcome.
Red_dead 5mo ago
Yea, this is it. So what now? Do I try and still fuck her? Move on? I want to get over this my ego is getting in the way.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Go out and find more options. You absolutely must spin plates.