How do I get women out of my head first?
Over the last few years I've jumped from one girl to another, with no longer breaks from women than 1-2 months.
Actually, I don't want that at all. I realize that I'm not coping so well with being without a woman. But the issue is just very present for me in these situations, so I tend to just go on dates again or something similar to change the situation.
How can I get the topic of women out of my head for the time being? I want to focus on myself again for a few months without any distractions. Without sex.
Problematic_Browser 1 2mo ago
Find your mission.
For me, it's being the best dad I can be, pushing up heavy ass weight, and getting my pennies in order.
Women aren't even a thing that enters into my mind because I have things that are more important than them.
Lone_Ranger 2 2mo ago
I feel you bro - I did that for a long time as well. Serial monogamy.
I guess you need to learn to be with yourself for a while. try mediation and excercise. Then try growing your social network, with other men.
Thing about women is this - the less you chase, the more they just seem to pop up in your life. Don't chase women - focus on your goals.
whytehorse2021 2mo ago
You have to like yourself to enjoy being alone. Become someone you like.
Musicgoon78 1 2mo ago
Welcome to being a guy. It doesn't happen. You can't escape your embedded firmware.
A month is a long time to hold out with no sex. What is the problem with you looking for women?
benzino 2mo ago
Nah I don't feel that way at all. There are phases indeed though. When I was a young guy with no pussy, it's all I can think about. When I started implementing RP and have a rotation it just got boring. I got tired of dating and spinning plates and just wanted more time for myself and my bros. Too bad they all got married and pussy whipped
joyboy 2mo ago
That's crazy cause I've been holding out for 22 years
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 2mo ago
I was 22 when I lost mine. Got seduced by a single mom at a house party after I spent the evening making fun of her.
lurkerhasarisen 1 2mo ago
I was 25 and it was on my wedding night. I certainly could have lost my V-card much earlier, though (I rejected outright propositions and didn’t pursue obviously-willing women because of religious reasons).
Musicgoon78 1 2mo ago
I was a late bloomer my guy. I didn't get laid until 23. I lost my virginity in a threesome with two women. It kinda skewed me towards being a total man hoe. It will happen if you do the work.
joyboy 2mo ago
Thats insane dude how tf did you lose your virginity in a threesome?? Did they know you were a virgin??
Musicgoon78 1 2mo ago
I was playing pool at a bar. These two girls were next to me playing pool and drinking. They were talking about getting a taxi and I said that I would give them a ride if they bought me lunch. In the car they were talking about playing around with each other. I assumed they were being a tease with me. I stayed quiet and then one of them said "would you like to fuck around with us tonight". I thought it was bullshit so I replied "yeah I'll pony up for the hotel room". They said ok. I was practically shitting my pants at that point. I was shaking when I got into the room. I'm sure I looked like a moron. They didn't say anything about it. They just started making out on the bed then invited me to join. The rest was a bunch of depraved shit. I'm pretty sure it was obvious I had no clue what I was doing. This set my baseline for sexuality. I seek out group sex and prefer it over 1 on 1 action.
Whatsnext 2mo ago
You have to find a passion that you care about more than a girl. Also you have to stop looking at porn (imo.)
pofkaf 2mo ago
What you're referring to is "monk mode."
https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
Micr0feet 2mo ago
I was in a similar situation years ago and I was angry with them. Then I read an article written by one of the veterans of the Red Pill community on Reddit and it changed my life and perspective on women and relationships in general. It was called How to not become emotionally invested in women.
I don't know if I'm breaking any rules and if so I apologize to the admin. I'm posting a link to the article here.
https://www.woujo.com/blog/2017/4/11/how-to-not-become-emotionally-invested-in-women
Maturin_nj 2mo ago
This article is on the money from the first couple of paragraphs. Its also a primer on why the BP doesn't work. The system indoctrinates guys to do the exact opposite.