Don't try and change the world.

Learn how to get the best out of things as they are.

You'll be much, much happier

You fuck the shit out of her until she worships you. Mention how much you want to settle down and have kids, and how her career is preventing that. If she goes on about her career, pull away slightly (as is natural, your future with her is in doubt). Depending on how bad she wants it, she may fall into your frame. Or not

You aren't going to change a woman that doesn't desire to be changed. You can only change yourself and hopefully she will follow your lead.

Now if you're looking for certain qualities in a woman, you have to vet them well and keep a high standard. That means don't settle. If you don't know exactly what you want, spin plates and get firsthand experience with female nature. You will quickly lean what is and what isn't tolerable for you.

First of all stop trying to change people,.unless they're on serious harmful behavior like drug addiction and you really love em.Second,stop trying to change women particularly, try changing your expectations instead. If it is a long term relationship then you should periodically do a quick review of why you're going out with said person and let her know you don't like X and Y. Changing your expectations is better and easier than ending up frustrated because someone ain't the way you want em to be

You can't change another person. You can only provide incentives for the behaviors you want. Who they fundamentally are will never change without great desire and effort from them.

I can think of someone that needs to change their ways....

A girl will only become moldable to you when she's enthralled and deep in desire to have you.

This is where it gets sticky. You have to set boundaries, standards, and acceptable behaviors rather covertly. You could be overt but you run the risk of moving too fast into instability.

If you tell her your expectations, and she agrees to that, and then you dive into LTR just because she agreed then she will likely NOT live up to your expectations.

If you say "God that girl over there is dressed like a slut, how does her man not hate that?" She'll get a general sense of what you don't like. If you see a couple arguing and the girl calls the man a bitch and you tell her "See that disrespect would've had me walking away for good" then she'll be careful with her words in anger.

The hard part is making sure you uphold your expectations, above all else. You can't tell her that you don't like xyz at all and then fold when she does xyz and give her no punishment.

If she can go months on her best behavior, it may become her new nature. That's when you can consider if she's going to be your real deal.

I tried to do this with my last girl. I thought I could lead her past her red flags basically. It does not work. They will break you once they live with you because they drain your energy over time (read "betatization by 1000 concessions" its what happened to me.) Now I know when I vet a girl a red flag means it's over and a green flag means nothing.

Terrible way to look at it. Much easier to find a new girl who does fit your preferences.

You don't

Women will act in the way that serves them best, within the limits of what the general male population allows.

You can only control yourself and who you let in your life. You can't change them and you definitely can't change the blue-pilled society these women have created.