I was travelling for the past few months in Europe and met some amazing women, the most recent being this milf. I remember spitting the most smooth game that night to this milf, and she said a few times "you're smooth", "you're beautiful" (in Europe I think this is interchangeable with handsome) and "you're so confident". I was being very touchy and the sexual tension was very high. Finally the age question came up and she told me "by the way I'm 48 years old", to which I replied "that can't be, you don't look a day over 25".
we bantered back and forth and she finally asked how old I am, I deflected and told her "i'm too old for you, i don't think this is very appropriate actually". she laughed and kept flirting. i was telling her "i can teach you some salsa moves and give you some good exercise tonight", and she was on board and was telling me she's only here for a few days and she has an airbnb thats free tonight.
the bar ended up closing and we went outside and talked for a bit more, she asked me again how old I am and guessed that I'm 25, and i avoided answering in a straightforward way because I assumed it was a shittest. after a few minutes of asking me again she told me she has to leave because she thinks she's too old for me, i didn't chase her but I think she would've been receptive to that.
where did I go wrong? I think my game was on point this night but I'm still not sure if the age question was a genuine question or was it a shittest.
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mattyanon Admin 4mo ago
somehow you need to make this ok in her head. A lot of women don't like to fuck guys much younger than her, especially if you're the same age as her kids.
MyBoyJob 4mo ago
She is too old, her vagina is probably permadry and eggs rotten, and all this effort could be spent chasing young tight pussy that can breed
financehardo420 4mo ago
nailed up until you beat around the bush ab your age. you gotta own that frame man next time do exactly what @redhawkes said
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lambOfGod 4mo ago
I think u did fine, but a bit less talking and more action. Sometimes shit happens, they're wahmen. Be direct, she is 48, she has seen more naked people than you probably ever will in your whole life. Other than that, keep approaching and slaying like a god damn F-35 Raptor. You're the man in the arena, not these fags.
Also, don't mind the fucking gen X and boomer fags in the comments, these fuckers needed 40+ years to realize a primal truth about women and they won't even have the courage to approach a hot chick in broad daylight, sober. Learn to not take advice of internet old losers.
There is a reason they're on forums like this and not on a fucking resort in Switzerland at 17 degrees Celsius while the plebs get melted at 45+.
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redhawkes 2 4mo ago
"I'll make exception if you buy me a drink" and grin like a shitlord.
If you don't give a fuck about the age difference and you own it, she won't either.
Musicgoon78 1 4mo ago
You showed her that you're still an insecure boy when she was hoping for a man.
How many birthday parties have you gone to where the birthday person is 25 and it's a shameful fact.
"Hey Kevin, happy birthday, but maybe you shouldn't really let anyone know you're 25. Just keep your lips sealed ok"?
Most uncalibrated guys don't get it. A woman asking a question isn't a shit test.
You hid this from her like it was a great shame. She smelled the insecurity all over you and bailed on your cowardice. Next time just escalate.
When I was 25 I had a side piece that was 46. She also had a son that was the exact same age as me. We continued to bang for several months because her hypergamy overrode the correlation between her son's age and mine.
ExConvictNowMillionaire 4mo ago
Yeah agreed and:
"by the way I'm 48 years old", to which I replied "that can't be, you don't look a day over 25" is also not owning it/giving too much validation.
I'd personally joke about how I would not be sure if she's still flexible enough & how I'd take it easy because of her age instead of straight up validating her looks & age. Slippery slope though since it can come across as rude if not done properly playful
universitythrowaway 4mo ago
exactly what i needed to hear, wasn't sure if it was a shit test or a question but i guess in this case it was just a question. wasn't really bothered with the age gap but i guess i needed to read the situation and answer the question and own it instead of avoiding the question.
whytehorse2021 4mo ago
I was 22 bangin a 44yr old. Fun times.
NeoSpartan 4mo ago
I mean obviously just lie and say you are older if you want it to work but 48 is kinda sketch man.
Anyway, yeah, you probably could have done it if you kept going.
What happened here sounds like she was conflicted about how young you were. By waffling and avoiding it only increased this doubt and.. yeah. Next time just say you are.. I dunno, 38 or something but look young. "People always guess so wrong lol"
I'd go younger girls tho dude. 48 is pretty old, plus a 48 year old traveling and going to bars... dirty probably. You dodged an STD I think.
universitythrowaway 4mo ago
would it be better to lie about my age or just own being my age in this situation?
MrSupreme 4mo ago
I think,and this just came to me,that maybe it works as a shit test to see if you own the age gap, and also as some mental masturbation, like as in her finding out how old you actually are and thinking about getting fucked by young dick arouses her a bunch. I wouldn't attribute young girl behaviour on a MILFs unless she's extremely hot