I’ve been holding off on this field report for a while but today really sent me over the fucking edge. Reminds me of a Vermillion thread I read. This fucking bitch literally told everyone I was fucking stalking her.
Background I met her at the bar also alone and I take her to get a shot. She is maintaining heavy eye contact carrying the conversation. She says I have to use the bathroom do you know where it is. I say its probably better on the first floor because we’re on the roof. Mind you Ive been dancing with this girl for 15min mostly her. I verbal say are you down to go to another bar the bathroom line is probably shorter which is absolutely true. She verbally agrees. I put my hand out and she grabs it. I pee and then wait for her outside the bathroom and girls come out and tell me shes going with them. Whatever rejection as Im walking out more random girls come out and tell me that I need to stop following this girl and that they notified security. I’ve never been more mad in my life. I literally walked out to go to another bar what the actual fuck im so mad. This girls was so receptive the entire way through I froze in the moment but now I feel filled with anger.
Worst part every girl I talked to afterwards was super nice to me after every group I opened the girls were engaging heavily with me. This is coming off a weekend where the girls were approaching me.
i saw a guy at a different bar and he goes I thought you left with that hot chick verbatim, what the fuck. She was telling me she didn’t handle shots well but she seemed sober plus I took most of it for her. I’m more pissed off at the random girls coming up to me. To notify security is insane. She verbally agreed to everything I said. How do I deal with this anger? I know a rejection and this girl was the most receptive person I’ve ever seen. Mind you I visiting for work so I had to go out alone and drank water for like 2/3 of the time. I’ll finish the rest of the report later actually very good but man am I fuming.
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SuckDancer 5mo ago
Yeah had that time ago.
By then I have already stopped going to bars except rare occasions.
Ordering a drink, I have chatted up several chicks., in series of short convos.
At some point I caught an eye of one of them staring me in the eye with a smirk. I have noted but forgot about it for another 60sec. When security approached me.
By Durek
whytehorse2021 4mo ago
I'll just add another "Yup, classic psycho bitch". I have 2 psycho sisters and psycho mom so I'm well versed in this behaviour. You want to understand why crazy people do crazy shit but you can't because they're crazy.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Some bar hoe wants attention. She got it and probably drank too much. She sounds bipolar and it sounds like you dodged a bullet.
You lost nothing. You gained the knowledge that this girl is a mess and a bad fit for you. You can't prevent mental illness from rearing it's ugly head with unstable women.
You're quite a lucky guy to dodge that bullet!
Durek_The_Bald 5mo ago
Yup, classic psycho bitch. As anyone who paid attention during the MeToo ordeal will know, psycho bitches will go through great lengths to manufacture a position of victimhood. But they're not the authority on anything, so don't make them into an authority by ruminating about it, and being angry.
Keep in mind, they do these things because they aren't important in anyone's lives. So that moment, when she tells security, and the other women in the bathroom, that she's being "followed", is for her to feel important and looked after - even if it's for just a split second, even if it's all fake and manufactured.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 5mo ago
Pyscho bitch, love that song by the talking heads.
some girls are crazy, some are taking their anger out on you, because the F boy she let pound her last night ghosted her.
Don't take it personal, crazy is crazy. Be glad you didn't get further down the rabbit hole
MrSupreme 5mo ago
Not only a psycho bitch, an ungrateful psycho bitch. Not even decent enough to be nice after getting free shots and some dancing. Think of the bullet you dodged