No need to go over my entire story again i have talked about it and posted my before and after pics many times. In short i lookmaxed and turned into chad/handsome. After 4 tinder lays i have decided that i want to get hotter girls that are not on tinder. Started working on my social circle. After failing at bars i tried tekno clubs and making friends was very easy. Now i have new guys to go out with every weekend.
This is the funny part, i have been living in this 200k people city since 2010. Never had a social circle, never dated. All i did is stalk young girls to see what they are doing on weekend. Not even jerking off because i have low libido after years of depression. Just to see what they do on weekends and if their boyfriends are handsome.
The irony is that now at 35 i turned into that handsome guy, just last weekend a 20yo girl aporoached and she used google translate to tell me you're very beautiful. But this girl was a tourist. The other girls are a bit scared/creeped out when they see me.
Don't know how i got caught but they now i used to stalk them. This is not a huge city, so the voice spreads fast.
Now i could care less about woman's opinion, i have experienced what i was trying to prove in my blackpill era when i was an incel doing tinder experiments with male models. One Lithuanian girls i met on tinder came home to fuck me even if i raged at her and called her subhuman. I'm not proud for the raging but it's just proof that woman don't count, they are just grown kids. If they like you you can call her mother a cunt and she will still suck your dick. Also when i look and their tiktok videos i cringe. I can't imagine caring about girls opinion after seeing them posting those videos
Still Don't know what to do, because girls stare at me. Some them seem interested, some of them a bit scared.
Happens when you go from incel to chad and I'm kinda proud. It's like a heroes journey. For someone who tried to kill himself so many times is incredible.
One day i will move and experience the world but I'm not ready for that yet. I'm still saving money and i need time to dial in the TRT that i just started with my endo. I would like to experience what's like to bang hotties in their party years but i don't know how to go about it.
I'm worrried i fuck one of them, they tell her this guy used to stalk us, she feels used and hits me with a false rape accusation.
In my redpill journey I've read so many articles about the psychology about false rape accusations. One thing i can do is literally film everything and have sex only in my apartment. In this fucking feminist society they believe woman automatically so i don't even know if it would be enough
After talking with some friends i realised normal bluepill people think woman never lie, it's crazy
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Yeah these women have social media groups where they hive-mind. There's one on facebook called "Are we dating the same man?". https://www.facebook.com/groups/478950714162012/
There's no way to know if you're on one of these lists unless you want to spend 4hrs a day doing investigative journalism, there's no way to get off these lists, and the companies hosting these are apathetic to the abuse. Aaron Clarey and Rollo Tomassi made it onto some kind of Dept of Homeland Security misogynistic incel terrorist network. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/incel-threat-secret-service-report/
This is simply fake female victimization mentality. You shouldn't have to put up with it. Go where you're treated best. I never had these problems in SE Asia. These Western women be all walking around like they get raped and beaten every day and all men are predators. Bye Felicia!
MyBoyJob 1mo ago
False rape accusations are a liberal feminist boogie man. As long as your not an ACTUAL RAPIST, might as well be worried about being struck by lightning
Leon_Elektronik 1mo ago
They exist, according to the official Police Statistics roughly 5-8% of accused rapes turn out to not have happened at all.
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MyBoyJob 1mo ago
Edge cases bro.
MyBoyJob 1mo ago
Also, I see an easy solution here. I was just in Italy, and if you’re a hot Italian guy, there should be loads of hotties coming from all over the world to Rome, Florence, or Venice.
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First-light 1mo ago
I fear you have good reason to be afraid.
If you have genuinely put that behaviour behind you -move towns. Just as a man can be pre certified as quality by a social group of women once he has dated one of them, he is also pre-certified as a creep once he has crept one out. You will always be on dangerous ground in your home town. You will always have to not only act whiter than white there but also be seen to act whiter than white.
Don't film anything at all without consent.
There are pornstars who film girls with full consent, the girls say they loved it on camera and then they still say they were sexually assaulted later -pushed into doing what they did not want to do, pushed into saying they liked it.
Its all fine till she stops liking it, once the hive have you on a list, it can be very hard to get off that list. You could date one of them successfully, maybe 2 and then get struck off the list but you would have to be an altar boy while doing it.
Musicgoon78 1 1mo ago
The more you worry about a rape accusation, the more likely you will get one. It's a matter of frame. Guys that worry about this shit become insecure and creepy. Their approach become unnatural and their actions become forced. I'm not saying this to scare you, I'm saying this to tell you to stop stepping on your own dick.
I can tell by you're writing that you still have some blackpill left in you. One of those things is trying to predict and control things outside of yourself and the other is overthinkitis.
Here is where I addressed this topic a while ago. https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/322964/advice_girl_says_she_feels_uncomfortable_around_me_after_we/7848535
I hope that helps
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Musicgoon78 1 1mo ago
Bro, first off the reason you're paranoid is you got caught actually doing some creepy shit. That's on you my friend. You fucked up now live with it.
You are at a crossroads right now. You can choose to live a life of fear and inaction. Your results will be more fear and inaction. Or you can just move on forward. You might get some nos and a bit of rejection, but I'm thinking your results will be much better than you're expecting.
Now if someone recognizes you you could just say "I learn from doing stupid things" or "hmmm I must have a doppelganger". You could even ask "do you have a picture? I want to see if he's as handsome as me".... Don't shy away. It's only a big deal if you want it to be. And right now, you do.
Also the dating profile looks good. Maybe add a picture or two of you doing something action oriented. Also a pic with a kid or puppy does wonders.
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First-light 1mo ago
Oh if it was just looking at profiles on line that is not quite the same as I assumed. I assumed you had been hiding in bushes and following girls home and such -real stalking. No I wouldn't leave town for what you have done, just never do it again and try to be certified as OK by the group.
If you can hold a light conversation and smile, it is probably all it takes. Just talk to them. You don't have to ask any of them out, flirt with them or buy them drinks or stuff like that. Just talk briefly in normal non creepy ways and then get out of the conversation till you next see them. Strike up conversations when you are out. Ask them what brings them out tonight? don't ask for personal details or anything that might look creepy, share a bit with them and then leave and move on.
If you have never actually done anything in real life that is creepy, all they know is some on line suspicion. Don't worry about this, just show them you are normal and that will out do it over time.
But if you are not too socially able and very thirsty, be careful. Don't try clumsy chat up lines, talk too long, eye them up while talking or act or talk strangely. Get to know them as passing social acquaintances. This is not the way to get fast into any girls underwear but it certifies you as OK. It gets you feeling socially confident in your town. It stops you worrying -and insecurity is a huge handicap courting women. You may also strike up some real slow burn interest that you can cash in on in slow time. If you don't, its no loss at all, all you have done is lose your inhibition socially.
Think about it like this -think of all the wasted years. If only 6 moths or a year ago you had got yourself as a nodding acquaintance who can talk to the local girls in passing and they all know you are a sound guy, how much better you would feel now. There are usually no quick fixes but make this the last of the wasted years and you are done.
So in short talk to them with zero sexual agenda. Make a point of telling yourself that regularly -there is no sexual agenda. Soon you will be an OK guy on the scene and you never know you might find someone likes you or when someone new arrives on the scene then you will be a certified OK guy who can ask her out.
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First-light 1mo ago
Its not easy to hate something you desire, it ends up with you hating yourself or hating life.
They say "you can love them or you can understand them" I think hate them or understand them is probably also an option. Just work on seeing women as what they are -female people. Understand that is all they are. Thirsty guys will also take all manner of crap from women and still come home to bang them. People will do dumb stuff for sex with attractive people. Society today added to biological drive lets women get away with a lot of easy sex.
It is an imbalance but if we were female we would probably all be struggling with it -the getting all you want and then getting it taken away in 20 years thing, the cash in early while you are having most fun if you want to win thing that they all can't seem to do because they are having too much fun to stop would be our problem too if we were female. I am still glad I am male and have reason and accountability, not am like a drug addict unsupervised in a chemist shop.
Society is all messed up but don't let it mess your head up. In the end a man is responsible for what goes on in his head. No one will save a grown man, certainly not in this society where a man with problems is a toxic man. You have to save yourself. Master your mind, forgive women for being over indulged children, they really can't help it. It will take generations for things to come back to sanity or the destruction of our society. In the mean time we have to make the best of it where we are -like trees planted on the edge of a growing desert. We can only do our best to thrive.
If you want women, learn to be nice to them and you will get to enjoy them.
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redhawkes 2 1mo ago
This is paranoia, get out of your head, you're not that important. You fucked couple of sluts and think you're Chad, lmaooo. As goon said, the more you think about it, the more you'll get stuck in your head and overthink, meanwhile, acting retarded and autistic.
False accusations happen when you're not congruent and when a hoes caught cheating. If you act like the shit and flip 180 after smashing, no bueno. If you own your shit, nothing gonna happen. Where these fags fuck up is apologizing, it immediately makes you guilty.
Lone_Ranger 2 1mo ago
So much insanity in just one post.
joyboy 1mo ago
Your not getting false rape accusations if your a chad
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
This is Bullshit. Yes you can
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MrSupreme 1mo ago
I have no idea what the rape accusation culture is about, it is nonexistent in my society.If a girl wants to stop seeing you she'll just do it,if she feels like harming you in any way she will shit talk about you to everyone but even in that anger they have some limits, like no rape accusations. Wonder why it hasn't spread out here, there is a bit of feminism but not that much, mostly in academia and some corporative areas.
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MrSupreme 1mo ago
Latinamerica, there are a few countries that have shown traces of rape culture here, a bit in Mexico and Brasil among celebrities mostly.But not much amongst regular people
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MrSupreme 1mo ago
Yeah, they have a one night stand then two weeks later they tell everyone they got raped and drugged or some shit.