Long story short: In my 20s, I spent a few years fucking anyone I could: fatties, unstable girls, unattractive girls, attractive girls. Naturally, I tried to keep the attractive ones for relationships and dumped the fatties.

Now, years later, my long-term relationship is going terribly. She treats me like horse shit, no respect whatsoever. At the moment, I can't leave due to shared finances, but I'm working on a secret emergency fund so that I can leave in the future.

Meanwhile, I'm talking to some people again, and I've even been approached by old flings. What a surprise, only fatties. They want to fuck but I haven't done much so far. At work, there are a few attractive women I talk to a lot (mistake number 1), but nothing sexual happens.

It feels like I need to boost my confidence again by fucking women, but it doesn't feel confidence-boosting if I only fuck fatties. What would you do? Fuck them to get back in the game and then upgrade to more attractive ones?