Met this milf at the farmer’s market that was selling plants and she was giving me the eyes. We chat it up a while; I tell her I’m finishing up school etc etc. convo was good, body language was giving solid IOI (she would touch me a lot n shit).
Mentioned at some point that I wish I majored in just accounting instead of finance bc it comes naturally easier to me etc and she wants to intro me to her accountant so I can learn more from him etc etc.
I buy a $5 basil plant from her and ask for her number if I have any questions about growing it or whatever and she gives me a card w her email talkin bout I respond here best or some shit.
I shoot an email asking ab the pots n the hookup w accountant guy; she replies with 2 emails in the most formal fuckin vocab “would you be amendable to me sending your LinkedIn; all the best” etc etc. and then messages me on linked in “it was a pleasure meeting you” blah blah blah.
Her number was also in the signature.
Bit confused here any inputs appreciated; not used to chicks talking all formal n shit outside of recruiting/networking emails
coolsocks00 1 2mo ago
What the fuck dude LOL
Kloi 2mo ago
Sounds like she was being a good saleswoman and you bought into it hook line and sinker.
Having come from a sales backgrounds women will definitely flirt, even creating sexual tension to close a sale.
You got had.
financehardo420 2mo ago
Bruh but over $5?
Kloi 2mo ago
Have you ever worked sales? She didn't know if you'd be $5 sale or a $100 sale until it was closed.
It sounds like it was her own both, so she's not just an employee. That's how she makes her bread and butter.
Heard it all the time. Guys walking away from a booth saying shit like, yahh she was really into me, with a bag full of shit they were flirted into buying.
financehardo420 2mo ago
I guess idk I just feel like I smashed enough sluts to know the difference but could be wrong
MidgetSpinner 2mo ago
Simple bro. Escalate it to where you want it to go, if that fails, move on to the next one.
Musicgoon78 1 2mo ago
Your done. This one wasn't set up to go anywhere romantic. I'll say it again: what you lead with is what women are going to take.
You led the conversation on a professional or business level. Just like you can't friendship your way into pussy, you can't "business" your way into her underwear.
You didn't set a sexy or flirtatious tone, you didn't slightly escalate and you made this seem like a business transaction (it was).
If you want a date you can't play these platonic games. You're going to have to stand out by being more bold.
Her giving you a business email should've been your hint that she wasn't interested.
Lone_Ranger 2 2mo ago
Solid response.
financehardo420 2mo ago
The eyes Chico they never lie.
I’ll try being a bit more direct at the farmer market again this weekend idgaf about meeting her accountant. If it works sweet if not oh well
Musicgoon78 1 2mo ago
She may have given you some looks, but your response was a buffer. An excuse to get a number isn't being bold. It's a covert contract, that she will understand you're interested simply by asking her about plants and accountants. Explain how either of those two are sexy?
Be more bold my friend.
whytehorse2021 2mo ago
Yeah I agree you should've just taken your best shot when you had the chance. She'll probably give you another shot if you see her again at the market. I've had some chicks give me multiple opportunities when I was too scared to ask them out.
Kloi 2mo ago
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financehardo420 2mo ago
well I mean it’s every Saturday so I’m sure I can try again
whytehorse2021 2mo ago
Oh I realized something after posting. If you're still juicing and not taking aromatase inhibitors the oestrogen has probably started affecting your personality and making you act like a woman so that might be why this happened.