It's absolutely insane. I'm on 3 different apps right now and have been for a week, and I don't think they've ever been this bad.
When I was using them a few years ago, I had no problems getting good matches. Compare that to today, and I've got no matches. I did recently make a post saying I get zero bitches lately, and this is part of the proof lol.
One app called Badoo is unbelievably diabolical. I was with my brother last night swiping on it, and we were both in fits of laughter at the sheer amount of swamp monsters I had to swipe left on. I'm literally a fucking king compared to the majority of these women, yet I can't get a single match with a decent woman. It's hilariously dire now.
I am not a bad looking guy, in fact, it's quite the opposite. My profile isn't autistic with bad pictures. It's barely different to how it was when I WAS getting a lot of good matches previously. Either something has changed on these apps, or women in general have changed, or if you believe in fate/karma/destiny - Life just hates me now lmao.
This is the longest dry spell I've ever experienced, and as a dude who should not be having issues, it is quite crushing. But whatever.
joyboy 5mo ago
Tinder definitely has some manipulative algorithm behind the scenes, I went a week without getting any likes, then I wake up today and have 5 likes overnight and an offer to buy premium for 50% off. Shits a scam lmao
NeoSpartan 5mo ago
I remember it taking a little while to get going. They always start you out looking at fake profiles of camgirls or w/e for the simp masses, but after a week or two you get mostly real girls.
They use these hidden algorithms that rate you based on how many girls with high enough ratings swiped on you.
I think they are fine. Best thing to do is meet girls at a hobby group or something but apps are better than bars or clubs or w/e and are really low effort. Just swipe on the toilet for a few minutes everyday and probably you will get a date or two a week if you are decent at texting. I like introvert type girls with low body counts so I set my profile up to attract that. Another plus with the apps. You can kind of auto-curate if you know what you are doing.
mattyanon Admin 5mo ago
Most users are men. Most women on there are looking for free entertainment or top 0.1% men.
The experience for 99.9% of men is that it's useless and full of swamp monsters as you say.
But not top 0.1%.
Online dating has gotten worse as women have learned to exploit the apps for free attention/money/resources and top 0.1% men. They are no longer seen as hookup apps.
Meet girls in real life.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
*shrug*
Then don't use them. Stick to MeatSpace.
No-Stress-Cat 5mo ago
LMAO
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
What's MeatSpace? Haha. And I will 100% be deleting them right now. I just wanted to note how bad it is. Does anyone here use them? And if so, to what degree of success?
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
The real world. In-person.
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
Ahhhhh. Yes, sir.
Lone_Ranger 2 5mo ago
He could also do one of my courses.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Why would he pay you, when my 100% foolproof method is available for free?!
Lone_Ranger 2 5mo ago
Shhh man. With you giving away your method for free, its really impacting sales of my InstaChad courses. You're ruining my entire business model!
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Power to the people!
Onions forever!
Shrek is love!
Shrek is life!
lambOfGod 5mo ago
OLD is dead in EU too. Apart from the big tourist cities, you are way better off meeting chicks IRL.
It has been going to shit in the last few years, but now it is really dead. The only solution left is to go outside, which is a good thing, because it forces you to improve in multiple areas in life at the same time and will develop your social skills that can either get you 6 figures or threesomes, or both of them. Social skills (game) are the best skills to have, no technical skill will make you more money or get you more women in life.
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
Oh no doubt about this. It's been a while, but I'm gonna have to anyway, haha. I was hoping to get a few nibbles on the OLD fishing rod for some easy pussy, but I guess that doesn't work anymore lol. Bro, you should see the state of the women on these apps now. Maybe it's just my city, but it is the absolute bottom of the barrel of women on them. It's so bad, it made the occassional 5/10 look like an 8.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Fuck yeah!
When I was younger, okcupid was in its infancy and Craigslist still had its personals section. I used to get a shit ton of matches.
Now on the apps it loops the uggos over and over. Even if I swipe left a dozen times on them. And when I say the options are bad they are BAD"! Like I feel like losing my lunch when I look at their pics bad. I'm certain some of them are really ugly dudes pretending to be women.
It's awful!
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
2019 was the golden age of OLD. I had good matches come through nearly every day. Compare that to now, and it's hilariously bad. I'm baffled honestly.
Yeah, the zoomed in photos of Jabbas are fooling no one either. I felt like a sentient donut in a shop window. A couple of them looked like Klingons too. I'm not trying to date inter-galactically right now.
Edit: Bro, the fucking trannies have gotten more brazen too. The amount of dudes I saw in makeup made me sick.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
No way. I'd seen too many dudes complaining even before that.
OLD fucking ruled back around 2002-2004. The stigma was going away, the novelty factor was big, women couldn't just mine it for free attention quite like they can now, and most women on there weren't there to waste anyone's time. It was glorious.
I used mainly Yahoo Personals, but I dabbled in many other platforms like Hot Or Not, Face The Jury, and just Yahoo's and AOL's instant messengers.
I went monogamous in late 2004 (don't recommend), but my Army buddies who were still single said that I got out of OLD just when it got even better. MySpace was great to a few of my buds for getting new bitches, and Plenty of Fish was great back then too according to everyone I knew who used it.
I fell for that shit back in the day. I told about it in this thread here as well as this one here.
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
What dating sites were around in 2002? I was like 14 years old then lol.
Nevermind, read the rest of your comment. Hot or Not was a dating site? I thought it was just the precursor to Tinder, but without the dating aspect. Holy shit though, that's a blast from the past.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Both it and Face The Jury had a "meet me" feature you could sign up for, and if memory serves, you'd set the mileage radius you wanted. It would allow you to rate anyone from anywhere, but only show you the "would you like to meet this person?" option if you were both within each other's mileage tolerance. It was pretty neat. I got better results with Yahoo Personals, but those two were still good.
Justanaverageguy 5mo ago
Women on the dating apps are the most undateable unstable society has to offer. That’s what you’re matching with, women with mental issues and ones no one wants anymore. Then take into account things like “are we dating the same guy” that expose men on dating apps and you get the shitshow you get. Get off the apps, talk to women in person. It really is easy.
Lone_Ranger 2 5mo ago
Solid response.
When you are talking to a woman IRL, its quite easy to spot the following;
All of these things are very tricky to spot on OLD.
In fact, given that average looking women only need to sit at the bar for 5 minutes before they are swarmed by armies of simps, the very fact that they are on OLD is a dead give away that they are the dregs.
OLD is the dumpster.
whytehorse2021 5mo ago
Just go look at their stock values and it tells you everything you need to know. -90%
Lone_Ranger 2 5mo ago
They managed to keep the show going with bot driven 'sign ups' over the last 5 years, but people are wising up - there is zero business model here.
It's only when the tide goes out that we see who was swimming without bathing costume.
whytehorse2021 5mo ago
There was a defcon presentation yesterday by the Electronic Frontier Foundation about enshittification of everything by monopolies and how ever since Reagan nothing has been done but now that everything is shitty something is being done. Google just got nailed as a monopoly. Match group should get nailed as well.
Kloi 5mo ago
Curious to those complaining your age range and city size?
Haven't been on old since 2022 but my boys on it seem to do okay. Though we're late to mid 30s in a college town so a population of 70k plus and additional 10k of college kids from August to May.
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
I'm mid 30s, and city population size is almost a million.
Boosted_Arrow 5mo ago
you european?
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
British, yeah.
MrSupreme 5mo ago
Badoo is a terrible one, I think it's the most used where I live so there's tons of people there,more than tinder.But the quality is what's terrible, ogre after ogre, plenty of women over 35,up to like 60. Horrible app
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
I don't even bother with them now. It isn't even about bad pictures, you need s-tier travel photos and other shittery. The hoeflation is insane, they are unworthy of even a lay most of the time now and yet still think they deserve a king.
I don't even want to casually fuck with women who use apps if i meet them in person and find out they have apps. It's that bad it's at a point where it's honestly a dealbreaker for me. I can't even stomach fucking app girls any more
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
Bro, I honestly believe a large part of it is to do with my age as well. I feel mid 30s is past it unless you're a celebrity or very well off financially. Doesn't matter if I look good or not - on the apps, the kind of things you're talking about matter. It's the IG cancer - they wanna find guys who have yachts and shit like that so they can increase their own profile and status by association. I mean, it's a smart and valid tactic I guess. Women don't have to do shit if they look good.
MyBoyJob 5mo ago
S tier travel photos aren’t hard to get. Get a flight to Europe. Hostel. Be a cool guy there, get a group to take some shots. Too easy, only costs a few grand. Even less if you actually live in Europe and just fly RyanAir
MyBoyJob 5mo ago
Yeah it’s gotten really bad. I was able to increase my success by making my profile as sexual as possible without being explicit/getting banned. My recent Tinder bio read “Swipe right if your into guys with broad shoulders and backs with big veiny hands (and not on steroids)” I added some gym mirror selfies (shirt on because not lean but enough to show the musculature). Added some pics I got while hosteling a bit across Europe. (Famous locals, Italian winery etc) This sig pumped it up. It’s sad because it’s just become ridicul dehumanizing.
MidgetSpinner 5mo ago
How did you achieve this? I can't even upload a shirtless photo if I really want to without the sites automoderating my nipples.
joyboy 5mo ago
I use a compression shirt picture