I recently moved to a pacific island in which the population is 40 thousand. The obesity rate is 80-90%. I have a girl from the US who is a HB8. I told her 8 months ago I was moving and can not be with her anymore. I thought she would have forgotten me by now.
However it seems as if she has only grown more connected to me. Which is fucking retarded. She was texting me randomly for a bit saying "I love you" and how she will wait for me and how her dream is for it to still be us. I know what your thinking "Shell forget about you eventually.". And I agree but I mean it has been 8 months and she still messages me. I do NOT ever initiate. In fact I take a week to respond now because why the fuck would I talk to her? I live across the world. Dont get me wrong. Im down bad here and she is actually pretty hot, she cooks great, she is super clean, she takes care of herself really well, and she fucks me on demand and never gave me headaches. However Im 27 and do not want to be married or serious anytime soon. But Im pretty sure shes fucking nuts lmao.
Anwyays she messages me last week asking if I am taking a vacation anytime soon. I said no, I work I am to busy to take a vacation I have so much responsibilities. Then she messages me saying how she wants to take a trip with me which is crazy considering Im literally across the world. Then she says she would fly out and come see me.
Now the horny part of me thinks fuck it why not, shes hot as shit and you have always gotten along plus whens the next time you will find a hot girl like this who is actually really good to you. However the non desperation in me thinks this is a bad idea. That she is going to come here and baby trap me, or expect some sort of serious commitment and due to being stuck on an island that is far from her territory she could end up flipping out or even never leaving.
MrSupreme 5mo ago
You've already made up your mind with what you want out of her.You don't want kids,marriage living together,those are your boundaries. Her getting closer to you after you leave is not remotely retarded, it is called DREAD game.Shell work hard for your love if she thinks you can just leave anytime.
Her wanting to visit your in your island means she wants more than just what you have/had, or she's nuts. Either way, I don't think it is such a bad idea for her to visit you since you said in your last post there's no women around. But it sounds like an opportunity to establish some boundaries, run some more dread game and let her know for sure that you're not moving things forward with her.
TribalChad23 5mo ago
Would you tell her straight up she can come but dont expect anything serious? Or is it not good to be so upfront in this case.
seekinghelp4 5mo ago
yeah. free pussy is fine, but i would make the boundaries clear regarding serious commitment. i'd probably ask her to stay in her own hotel, etc. if she comes anyway, good outcome. if she doesn't come, you've saved yourself and her a lot of trouble.
MrSupreme 5mo ago
You're the one talking to her, does she look like she's trying for something serious.If she's willing to travel all the way to a Pacific island for you it means she loves ya big boy, take advantage,you have her all for yourself. I don't think you can lose frame easily right now since you already aren't looking for serious stuff. Accept her visiting you but if in your time together she starts talking about kids and marriage or living together or basically anything you're not looking for then set your boundaries and let her know you're focused on your career and your family.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Slap yourself for being an idiot and making stupid assumptions.
I think it's pretty cool to get pussy delivered to you. No one is forcing you to commit or knock her up you retard.
You were just bitching a few posts ago about no hot chicks on your island. Guess what Goldilocks, your problems have a solution.
Take off the fucking diaper, put on some adult clothes and make a decision for yourself.
What exactly do you want? I can tell you what I want. I want you to make a decision and not cry like a little bitch about it. STFU and make your own decisions. We don't give a shit if you do or don't see this chick. This is a decision that you want to turn into a problem. Knock it off.
No-Stress-Cat 5mo ago
Haha Uber Eats
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
lol
TribalChad23 5mo ago
jeez louiese
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
It's you that's wrong dude, where the fuck would she even move on your island without quitting her job and all that shit
Either let her visit and wear a condom and flush or absolutely dispose of them in a way she can't get the jizz from it or decline her visiting entirely
You have two choices here ONLY, Why is this a difficult decision
TribalChad23 5mo ago
Im sorry man. I get that some of the questions may seem stupid to alot of the guys on here. But alot of us do not have any actual male role models to talk to now a days. Im just trying to learn brother.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
You don't need to apologize, just giving you some blunt perspective is all. You did say there is near-zero viable puss on your island. Personally i would not let her come out. It sounds like a hassle from the way you are describing her
Surely there have to be some women on your island that are fuckable and accessible
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
You're overthinking this big time.
She wants to come out and fuck.
You hate the options available locally.
Why not let her visit?
I mean, you've been honest with her that you aren't looking for marriage or any serious commitment, right?
Condoms. Flush when done, or otherwise render the sperm irretrievable.
Has she not brought it up before? Did you not kibosh it then and there?
If she's never brought it up before, then don't mention it until she does. Just respond with something along the lines of "I really enjoy our time together, but I have no intention of ever getting married/committing/defining things/etc".
Or you two could have a great time for a while and she moves on with her life after the visit.
Or maybe have a "same time next year" type of arrangement.
What are you so scared of?
Wintergreen 5mo ago
I would always advise against flushing. This can mess up your plumbing. This guy has home field advantage; he can do anything with the condom. One can always put a condom in their pocket if desired, but if not then you could hide it strategically. If you put it in a cup or something she’ll probably never find it.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Usually it won't be yours, but the utility's down the line.
Even when it is yours, it beats an unwanted pregnancy.
Wintergreen 5mo ago
I don’t have much advice, other than to say that when it comes to baby traps, you can avoid this and be 100% certain if you use a condom and then test the condom afterward by filling it with water. There will of course be a drop or two coming from the bottom afterward due to water dripping externally, but you can tell that the condom isn’t leaking if you squeeze and see no stream of water.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 5mo ago
( That she is going to come here and baby trap me, or expect some sort of serious commitment and due to being stuck on an island that is far from her territory she could end up flipping out or even never leaving)
This!
Wintergreen 5mo ago
But then what? She can’t just stay at his place. So she can “never leave” but he can also tell her she’s on the streets.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 5mo ago
having her fly out to a remote island, for an extended stay, has big risks.
This is a very very small community. He's in the family business. Like it or not, he's got to keep his shit clean.
I know he's getting desperate/lack of abundance for pussy, but that's when mistakes are made.
TribalChad23 4mo ago
Thanks man you seem to understand where I am coming from I just dmed you.
First-light 5mo ago
It would seem a pity to miss out on some good sex. You don't have to spell it out in red letters either. You would love to see her for a vacation. If she starts trying to tie you up into a long distance relationship or wants you to knock her up, you can say "you are great but nothing has changed since I left. I don't see a future in a relationship at this distance, (as I said when I left), so I still don't want to enter one"
On the plus side, one expects that south pacific islands wouldn't be forcing you to pay child maintenance to someone out of the country, so it could be worse if you just can't pull out (unlike if you found one of the few thin local girls and knocked her up -then you might have to leave town). There is not much to lose in a long distance booty call.