I wasn't going to do this because I do think it's a little ridiculous asking for advice but here I am. I'll get to the point.
My friend has been with a girl for over a year. She has a friend and he asked me if I wanted to meet her. Usually I would say no cuz Im a bitch but I said yes.
This weekend were going to do a double date i guess. I havent met her and I dont know anything about her other than one small thing. I dont want to share too many details bc im paranoid.
Anyways, my plan was just to wing it, be friendly and try my best to socialize. You guys have any advice?
P.S. If im aksing for advice on here you can probably assume what type of guy i am. You guys either have funny or out of the box type of advice, so that's another reason why posting. Oh and I do know what she looks like and she knows what I look like.
Edit: The girl is Asian. Southern Asian I think. I do think she’s cute but not really my type. I originally didn’t want to go bc I have school the next day and she was going to call off work to fit my schedule but I said that wasn’t necessary and that’s when I said yes. She’s taller than me not by much. It doesn’t bother me. We haven’t figured out the details yet but we’ll probably meet up at her friends house, and then she’s (my date) going to drive us all to a beach. The only thing I know about her is her career choice.
Edit 2: The date did not go well. There was a bit of miscommunication early on and I almost had to cancel. I introduced my self to the girl and she kinda gave me a mean/disgust face. Either way, when we got there we actually went on a trail. I tried to be friendly and was socializing but she only gave me one worded answers and only initiated twice. She also spoken in low voice. She also kept facing away from me and walking away so by that point I caught up on the hints. She was also really shy, she didn’t speak to my friend at all. Oh and she only talked to her friend in their language so I really couldn’t chime in. All good tho, no hard feelings. Tomorrow my classes start so I’m going to socialize and cold approach. I actually like meeting new people and I’ve been wanting to make new friends. Also thanks for the advice, I was nervous before I posted but after I read your comments it all just went away.
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Just go out and have fun..who gives a shit about her? You'll figure out quickly if you're interested or not.
Why don't you want to share details? Does she have a penis...?
tooltotin 5mo ago
you see, that right there is why im glad i posted. And nah i doubt it, but i guess you can never be too sure these days huh lmao
Musicgoon78 2 5mo ago
Look for the Adams apple, 5 o'clock shadow and man hands. Be safe bro!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
Bro unless you say where she lives, specifically what she looks like, or any extremely obvious fucking details revealing who she is she will never know you posted.
Lack of generic details only make your post worse
Do you know how many basic women regardless of what race they are almost all have the same copy and paste description? They think they are all unique but they are not
tooltotin 5mo ago
I guess you’re right. But I also don’t think too many details were necessary about the girl bc I was just looking for basic advice.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
Edit: disregard THIS comment, i misread a singular word on your post and it changed my whole comment. Nevermind
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Did you think he was asking about bullies stealing his crush?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 5mo ago
Yes
Also i initially read he *didn't* know what his date looked like and then quickly realized my mistake after raking him over the TRP coals
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 5mo ago
Are you already catching one-itis for a chick you haven't even met yet?
That's good. Do try to isolate and escalate, unless you just decide you aren't interested for some reason.
tooltotin 5mo ago
I was just worried more about messing something up. The friend that invited me is a really close and good friend. I’ve known him for almost a decade now.
MrSupreme 5mo ago
You already agreed to go out, own your decision.Have fun, if you're interested in her then game away.If you're not interested at first then that would be alright,you can't be forced to romance her if you don't like her, so just show her a good time.
tooltotin 5mo ago
I like that. She is cute but not really my type. I don’t have any game tho, I don’t have any experience with anything. But I know I can be friendly and have fun.
MrSupreme 5mo ago
That's a nice start,be friendly, have some fun.Read the sidebar to learn game,there a bunch of good sources like the book of Pook
whytehorse2021 5mo ago
I would just friend-zone her and then use her for pre-selection and status. When you friend-zone a chick you treat her like any other guy. Next thing you know she'll be introducing you to more hot chicks you can fuck.