So there's 2 types: 1) a girl flakes, doesn't reschedule and it leaves on that, basically 0 to none chances for her to ever appear. 2) does reachedule, but doesn't/does appear. So IG the max times to ask a girl out is like 2 times, 3 in 2nd example. How do y'all handle flaking? Asking 2-3 times, only 1 and in what spacing. After the 1st time call her tomorrow or should I wait some time before I ask her again? Had moments like this; either 1st or 2nd example. The problem is in 2nd; sometimes even if I see there's a spike in attraction they'll still flake on me sometimes or try to grab my attention by texting or try to put me in the friend zone.
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Justanaverageguy 1y ago
I hate the ones that flake but they keep contacting you afterwards like everything is ok. They aren’t interested and can’t say so but they still need to text you everyday.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I just send these ones gratuitous amounts of "lol" to whatever they send me. Which is usually only twice by the time they stop texting me.
Usually i just say "alright" in response to the flake and ghost them though. All they get is an "alright" Usually immediately. I'm talking like sub 10 seconds. And then I don't answer the follow up for a day or so if at all
If I do answer the follow up to my alright at all, it's unusually weak shit like "I guess" "yeah" etc.
Really stupid low effort crap, if i even bother. Usually just because I find it funny how indifferent it reads before i just stop replying
SSBPikkon 1y ago
It's acutally absurd how much attention they still need and are getting still compared to the average man out there. I wonder how.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Next
If it's an absolutely legit reason: dog, family etc died. She got injured, car crash, whatever, fine. But if she takes up an optional work shift etc or makes other plans she wasn't serious
Next
MrSupreme 1y ago
Most times it will just be you holding your dick while she's doing something more important, keep holding your dick and take it to a girl who cares
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Yeah, like holding another man's dick
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Fucker beat me to it!
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Not appearing on an agreed time to meet up is instant next. Don't let disrespect slide, for your own self respect dude.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
This.
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
Jeeezuuuussss.
Your post is a fucking hard to read ADD mess!
Here's what you do: Spin multiple plates. If one date flakes, call up another one. I don't make time for low interest women.
Edit: OP is wondering what the pussy password is?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
It's ChadDick6969.
Case sensitive and only 1 attempt to type it correctly
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
You didn't plug my 100% surefire method. :(
have some vcards!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
My bad, I've since downvoted myself for such ignorance. Please spare a downvote if you have any left
benzino 1y ago
the thing about flakers is they always breadcrumb you and will try to comeback and set up another date. It's a typical trait of BPD.
I know people say to hard next them, but what I do is tell them to comeover for Netflix and chill, then ghost afterwards
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Ah. The YOLO offer. Classic.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Fucking format, dude. That shit's too difficult to decipher, and I'm not going to put it the effort to do so. I'll just focus on the primary question.
If she reschedules, fine. The reschedule has to be her idea; if she just cancels, forget her.
Anything other than a reschedule = next.
If she cancels without a simultaneous offer to reschedule, soft next. She might reach back out later. It's rare, but it happens.
If she just stands you up? Hard next. I advise ignoring any further attempts to contact you, if not blocking her outright.
If this happens to you a lot, then you aren't as attractive as you think and need to work on that.